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QUESTION: Al Salam Alaikum

It was for three days if not more during the 10 days before the day of arafat, im being depressed, remembering old days, regretting, asking for forgiveness, being weak and can't be able to think in schools, and after school i directly go to my room and sleep and wish to sleeep without thinking about anything for at leat 2 hours.
I dont know why this is happening to me. The thing is iv'e been through a lot and its been 2 years that i tried to move on and im fine until now. I dont know if it has a meaning that God is mad at me or anything. Cuz its like the first time i feel this much depressed. because its happening to me before day of 3arafat im a worried.

Could you please tell me if this means anything?

Thank you

ANSWER: Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Brother/Sister,

Are you male or female ?
Whats your age ?
Where are you located ?
Which class are you in ?

Please let me know so i can work a better answer.


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QUESTION: i am female and 15 years old, i currently live in Kuwait and i am in grade 9

ANSWER: are you in love with a boy ?
usually such feelings occur when a person is attracted towards the opposite sex.

Awaiting reply.

regards
ahmer

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QUESTION: i was in love with a boy for 4 years, but its been a year that we broke up, and i did move on and forgot about him
but suddenly this feeling of depression started and i started remembering him and old days, but i dont get it why it was during days of arafat... does it like mean anything?

Answer
it can be that the residues of that relationship is hurting you.
Please recite astaghfaar and inshAllah everything will be alright.

Since you have spare time, i suggest you research about islam and invite others about islam. Post islamic news/event/hadith, quranic verses over the facebook and  to your freinds. Try to learn the quran and help us spread it.

You may also enrol to allexperts and help young people of your age.

Anything please let us know. my email id is ahmer82@hotmail.com (please dont share with anyone)

regards
ahmer

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