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Al salam Alaikum dear brother,
I have gone through depression because I was dating a guy for 4 years and then we set apart by him cheating on me and not caring about me, then I changed school and he traveled to Egypt.

In my new school, a guy said that he likes me, he's sweet and kind, he made me fall in love with him too much. Then I was thinking that if I actually say 'yes' to him, I may be able to move on and forget my past, and also I kinda blamed myself for what happened between my ex and I since I was the one too harsh on him and strict,... Didn't allow him to do anything wrong and against Islam. Though now that I'm with that guy in my new school, everything seems to be haunting me. I'm starting to be depressed again, remembering old days, I cried in school in the bathroom, and the teacher saw me there and started consulting me ....I feel like the new guy doesn't love me enough, and he stays with everyone else

I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm guna die and I'm starting to have anger issues

I'm asking from Allah to make me strong and patient...
I want to know what should I read like sowar from the quran that will keep me calm and patient.

I don't know what to do, I don't want to tell my mom or dad

Please help

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Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Brother/Sister,


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9xAj7Aeg-w

Shaitan is playing with your tender/innocent/young heart. He will get you trapped in a love affair, which may never be successfull and then you will burn inside with the feelings of lost/failed/broken affair and will spend part of your life in pain and remembering that person whome you can never achieve.

Please immediately do tauba to Allah and seek his help from shaitan - the outcaset/rejected whose sould duty is to attack the followers of Allah.

If you have spare time then try to spread the Quran teachings to others. This will help you become stronger in Deen.

Quran [41:33] Who is better in speech than one who calls (men) to Allah, works righteousness, and says, "I am of those who bow in Islam?"

Quran [31:8-9] For those who believe and work righteous deeds, there will be Gardens of Bliss, To dwell therein. The promise of Allah is true: and He is Exalted in power, Wise.

Quran [13:23,24] Gardens of perpetual bliss: they shall enter there, as well as the righteous among their fathers, their spouses, and their offspring: and angels shall enter unto them from every gate (with the salutation): "Peace unto you for that you persevered in patience! Now how excellent is the final Home!"

Quran [3:173] - husbuna'llahu wa ni'ma'l-wakeel - Allah is enough for us and an excellent guardian"

Quran [22.78] And strive hard in (the way of) Allah, (such) a striving a is due to Him; He has chosen you and has not laid upon you an hardship in religion; the faith of your father Ibrahim; He named you Muslims before and in this, that the Apostle may be a bearer of witness to you, and you may be bearers of witness to the people; therefore keep up prayer and pay the poor-rate and hold fast by Allah; He is your Guardian; how excellent the Guardian and how excellent the Helper!

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Its my duty to help those in need. You are free to ask as many questions as you like.

If you are not convinced or feel the answer did not address all your questions, pls write back immediately without any hesitation. Please do forgive me if there is an unexpected delay in replying.

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Ahmer

Pls spare some time and see these small video clips.


hijab
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qg3C1WpX3N8

which is the best religion - how to identify the true scripture
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIcl0ZAF6ZU

why is islam the best religion - 15point explanation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atOexGJC88U

love affairs & Islam
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9xAj7Aeg-w

Riba
http://www.dailymotion.com/islamnatural

( Note: I am not a mufti, if you are in doubt or want 100% accuracy please verify the above hadith with an authentic personality. However I have not altered any hadith and presented it as and how it was found. May Allah forgive our mistakes from time to time...ameen.)

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