Muslim Teens/chatting with boys?
i have a question about talking to boys..
ok so i have been talking to boys recently but not in a sexual way just like best friends.. we don't talk face to face we talk over the internet for example twitter or tumblr.
is it really haram to just talk to them?
i mean i know that the Quran says to lower your gaze and never show yourself and keep yourself covered which i do but i just don't understand why some people say its haram to just talk to them let alone over the internet..
i'm confused and its not just me its my friends to so i guess we would all like to know..
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
This is just how problems begin. Therefore the root cause is chatting. After a while you will continue to step 2 thats video chat, then proceed to other obsenity.
Therefore immediately halt such activities and if you want to chat please chat with girls.
Shaitan attached Prophet Adam, therefore you need to understand how clever he is and how targeted his tricks are.
[Quran 4:119] (said Shaitan) "I will mislead them, and I will create in them false desires; I will order them to slit the ears of cattle, and to deface the (fair) nature created by Allah." Whoever, forsaking Allah, takes Satan for a friend, has of a surety suffered a loss that is manifest.
[Quran 7:27] O you Children of Adam! let not Satan seduce you, in the same manner as he got your parents out of the Garden, stripping them of their clothing, to expose their shame: for he and his tribe watch you from a position where you cannot see them: We made the Evil Ones friends (only) to those without Faith.
Quran [33:59] O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies (when abroad) so that they should be known and not molested"
Quran [24:30] Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.
Quran [24:31] And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O you Believers! turn you all together towards Allah, that you may attain Bliss.
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( Note: I am not a mufti, if you are in doubt or want 100% accuracy please verify the above hadith with an authentic personality. However I have not altered any hadith and presented it as and how it was found. May Allah forgive our mistakes from time to time...ameen.)