AboutRhyn Essence Expertise I am freely able to answer any type of question in respect of expectation, emotional need, desire, living with fantasies and the cold harsh reality that frequently fails to match expectations.
Experience I formerly advised on this site until about 2002 when physical ill health forced me to withdraw from just about every interest that I had. Previous to allexperts I'd run through the emotional minefield of online relationships myself. Recognising that while a professional may take a keen interest in human motives and behaviour that there isn't a hard and fast template which can be applied to various individual sets of circumstances, regardless of what they want you to believe.
Past/Present clients Numerous enquirers using the AllExperts route. I've answered questions regarding religious differences, dealing with the difficulties of addictions and spousal abuse. Age knows no barriers in respect of online relationships and even cultural differences are swept aside, though that can lead too additional difficulties.
Question Well I guess the reason of why I talked to him was because I alwas wanted a father figure and because I thought he kind of liked me,I never rally had anyone really like me(I'm way too ugly for guys I guess) so I guess I was vulnerable but can I get in trouble for this?
Answer No all you are experiencing is reflective guilt for what he enticed you into doing. Obviously my assumptions here are somewhat blind but take it from me ... whatever he tries to tell you in order to justify what has happened ...in order to free himself of responsibility will be lies. He was responsible for directing you into his style of game play.
If you decided to talk to an authority figure say from school and they had strong moral principles they would probably worsen your feelings of guilt.
So deciding to talk to anyone outside this sphere should not be taken lightly it really depends on whether this 'father figure' decides to continue pestering you. Make your reply private and tell me who he is?
