AboutRhyn Essence Expertise I am freely able to answer any type of question in respect of expectation, emotional need, desire, living with fantasies and the cold harsh reality that frequently fails to match expectations.
Experience I formerly advised on this site until about 2002 when physical ill health forced me to withdraw from just about every interest that I had. Previous to allexperts I'd run through the emotional minefield of online relationships myself. Recognising that while a professional may take a keen interest in human motives and behaviour that there isn't a hard and fast template which can be applied to various individual sets of circumstances, regardless of what they want you to believe.
Past/Present clients Numerous enquirers using the AllExperts route. I've answered questions regarding religious differences, dealing with the difficulties of addictions and spousal abuse. Age knows no barriers in respect of online relationships and even cultural differences are swept aside, though that can lead too additional difficulties.
Question My boy friend who I've been with for more than a year has suddenly blocked my e-mail address and wont answer any of my calls. I've even got one of my closest mates to try and contact him but has had no luck. i don't no what to do because we had so many plans for our future but hes just shattered them to pieces. before he blocked me he kept saying how much he loved me and that he wants to marry me but now it all just seems like a lie. what should i do?
Answer Hi Sophie,
The hard facts will not be easy but you know that already. The answers as to why he behaved in this manner are many and varied.
The key to having a successful online relationship is not to take anything seriously at least until you have met the person in question. Some people may disagree with what I have just written...but that is their choice.
What you should do, in my opinion, is to move on and forget about him and we both know that is not easy advice to follow as you want answers.
He may come slithering back from beneath his stone with some limp excuse and the choice of whether you want more pain or not is yours and yours alone to make.
