Aboutvanessaoz Expertise I love helping people and and some may say that I am a very chatting and friendly person. I can offer advice to people who are in long distance or a different cultural online relationship as I have experienced both. I know how hard it can be and how heartbreaking it can be but I also know how rewarding they can be.
i live in australia so depending where you live my time frame for answering may differ but i will try to answer within 24 hours of receiving your question.
Experience I have experience with online relationships and having friends who are in one or have had them, I know the highs and lows that can come from being in one, especially long distance. I have been online for five years and met many people from different cultures.
Question Hi vanessaoz its me again Janella I hope you remember me. I have problem again with my boyfriend. As you know he had a booking going here in philippines and last day I asked him the ticket number so I can check it through online. Then when he look the paper he only had the reciept of the ticket. I ask him if they give also the e-ticket he said there's no e-ticket he recieve. So I told him to call the ticketing officer about his e-ticket number. Until now his not calling or send msg about the news of his ticket. Now Im getting worried that maybe he really not going here to see me and marry me. I scared now, I dont know what to do if he does not show up in July.
Answer hi janella,
yes i remember you...
i was worried about this kind of thing happening to you. i cant offer you any guarentees that he will come, i wish i could. what he is doing to you happens a lot with online relationships. i was hoping this wasnt the case with you.
if he has truly booked his flight then he must have booking ticket number for the day he is arriving. will he be staying with you or will you be moving back with him once your married??? will he be working in the phillipines or how will he be supporting himself and you.???
when was he due to arrive to be with you??? sorry for all the questions but im just trying to give you the best advice i can. i dont want you to lose hope but just understand the reality that he may not come to marry you, if he isnt being honest with everything.
if he doesnt show up in july, then you will just have to move on with your life and learn from the experience like ive said before. it wont be easy and i know you will be hurt and upset, but life does go one. it will be hard for you to trust someone else but there will be someone else for you, if this guy isnt the one.
