Aboutvanessaoz Expertise I love helping people and and some may say that I am a very chatting and friendly person. I can offer advice to people who are in long distance or a different cultural online relationship as I have experienced both. I know how hard it can be and how heartbreaking it can be but I also know how rewarding they can be.
i live in australia so depending where you live my time frame for answering may differ but i will try to answer within 24 hours of receiving your question.
Experience I have experience with online relationships and having friends who are in one or have had them, I know the highs and lows that can come from being in one, especially long distance. I have been online for five years and met many people from different cultures.
Question I've been tlaking to a girl i met on a skype type messaging program, after the first days of talking she told me how much she's been thinking about me, and i thought the same, we were really into eachother and reiterated it many times for the first copule weeks, however within the last couple weeks although we talk everyday some way or another, we don't get too mushy and dont talk about how much we still like eachother bla bla bla. I still like her i thnk but i feel like she's not talking as much. .We have talked on the phone 5 times but haven't within the last couple weeks, shold i be upset that she's not allll about me ne more like 6 hour convo's a day? we have established a date to meet tho.
Answer hi c,
thanks for your email...
i don't think you should be worried too much. i would suggest you talk to this girl to make sure she is happy to keep in contact with you as good communication is the key to a lasting relationship. you might be concerned over nothing, but you wont know if you dont ask.
in a new relationship the first few weeks are often the time we spend more time with one another getting to know each other. i think your probably feeling that down period because you obvisously spent a lot of time together in those initial weeks.
it could be that she just wants to be friends for now and is talking to other people as well. you really need to talk to her about how you feel and find out just what she wants from you. she may be just after friendship and nothing more.
good luck and i wouldnt be too worried...
vanessaoz
