Aboutvanessaoz Expertise I love helping people and and some may say that I am a very chatting and friendly person. I can offer advice to people who are in long distance or a different cultural online relationship as I have experienced both. I know how hard it can be and how heartbreaking it can be but I also know how rewarding they can be.
i live in australia so depending where you live my time frame for answering may differ but i will try to answer within 24 hours of receiving your question.
Experience I have experience with online relationships and having friends who are in one or have had them, I know the highs and lows that can come from being in one, especially long distance. I have been online for five years and met many people from different cultures.
I met a girl in the internet 4 months ago. she lives in Swiss and I live in UK.
We have been chatting since every day. At the begining she refused to give me her telephone number but now I have got it since we known each other more well.
Now the thing is, I am a bit shy and I want to call her but I am not sure what to say on the phone :). I know it is important to talk to her on the phone as well but than on the same time I think, what if I say some silly things :(.
Can you help me pleaseeeeeeee ... :(
regards
Jay
Answer hi jay,
thanks for your email.
i think the phone is an excellent way to communicate, it much more personal then just typing to each other, you can gauge her reactions by her voice, i think its wonderful idea.
now, to get you to overcome your shyness on the phone. imagine that your just typing to her and talk about what interests you and dont forget to ask her about her interests and likes etc. there is so much to talk about. favourite things, books, movies, music, places you want to visit, what you want for the future. im sure once you start, everything will come to you very easy.
the first time will be a nervous time but after that, im sure it will get easier for you. she will probably be nervous as well.
