Aboutvanessaoz Expertise I love helping people and and some may say that I am a very chatting and friendly person. I can offer advice to people who are in long distance or a different cultural online relationship as I have experienced both. I know how hard it can be and how heartbreaking it can be but I also know how rewarding they can be.
i live in australia so depending where you live my time frame for answering may differ but i will try to answer within 24 hours of receiving your question.
Experience I have experience with online relationships and having friends who are in one or have had them, I know the highs and lows that can come from being in one, especially long distance. I have been online for five years and met many people from different cultures.
Question Hi my names Briana I'm 17 while my boyfriend is 20. I've known him for 2 years and am so in love with him and he's one of the nicest guys I've ever met. We met in a chatroom on a website that has profiles to meet people online. Sometimes I doubt if my boyfriend is telling me the truth, I won't to trust him but sometimes he causes me to second guess things. Like he once told me a different birthday than he said before. Also he said he no longer tlked to girls on the website but I came across a girl that said she liked him and another girl with his picture in her profile. I just don't want to give my heart to him and put all this effort into our elationship if he's lying or cheating on me. What should I do?..I don't want to make him upset by making him think I don't trust him at all.
Answer hi briana,
thanks for your email....
i can understand you being hesitant about giving your heart to someone that you feel you may not be able to trust. your heart is too precious and you have to handle it with care.
what i will tell you is that a loving relationship is bases on honesty and trust, if you dont have these then your relationship wont work.
you have two options, you can talk to him about how you feel and risk him breaking it off with you or you can keep it to yourself and always wonder if he is telling you the truth. if it was me i would talk to him about how you feel. if you think he is still hiding things from you then you need to make the decision if its worth trying for a relationship with him.
if you just let it go, then you are giving him permission to do as he wants and get away with it. its entirely up to you which way you go.
you have to be able to trust each other, dont compromise this for anything.
