Aboutvanessaoz Expertise I love helping people and and some may say that I am a very chatting and friendly person. I can offer advice to people who are in long distance or a different cultural online relationship as I have experienced both. I know how hard it can be and how heartbreaking it can be but I also know how rewarding they can be.
i live in australia so depending where you live my time frame for answering may differ but i will try to answer within 24 hours of receiving your question.
Experience I have experience with online relationships and having friends who are in one or have had them, I know the highs and lows that can come from being in one, especially long distance. I have been online for five years and met many people from different cultures.
Question so i met my boyfriend online but the problem is that he barely comes on to talk to me, and if he is, i don't think he likes me when we start talking because our conversations go no where. i know he's sensitive but he's been my boyfriend for over a year, i pretty much think he's used to me by now.. then again we barely talk. and i miss how much we used to spend time with each other and i loved it but now he seems drifted off.. i don't know wat to do. does he still like me?
Answer hi chloe,,
thanks for your email,
its hard to have a relationship with someone that cant hold a conversation with you or lacks the interest to do so. communication is a main ingrident in any relationship and without it, it just wont work.
you have been together for over a year now and maybe he has lost interest but you need to ask him or email him about how you feel. if he has lost interest then its best you just move on with your life because like i said, you cant have a relationship with someone that you cant communicate with.
i understand that you miss the chats that you use to have but now its up to you to either accept him as he is or ask him straight out why things have changed. once you know the answers then you can make the decisions for the future.
