Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 5/10/2007

Question
Hello, my question is a bit embarrassing....  I recently joined this cyber sex website for 18 years and older.  I obviously don't give out any real information about myself, except the state i live in.  I met a woman the other day and we started to chat (random things not about sex).  Afterwards, i asked her what she did for a living and she told me that she was a police detective for the state i was living in.  Now I don't know if she is lying or not but either way, can i get into trouble with the law for having cyber sex (I only do that with people who ARE NOT minors, generally in their 30's and 40's)?  Do you think she was trying to investigate me or something?  Is it possible that she might have bugged by computer so she can track everything i do?  Please help.  Thank you.

Answer
Hello
No, you cannot get in trouble with the law for having cyber sex. I think you are worrying about this way too much. If she was tracking everything you do then she could get in trouble. That's an invasion of privacy and illegal for her to do. Anyway there's nothing to worry about, and don't tell her your full name or the city you live if you are really worried about this.
Melissa