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| I'm worried about our relationship. | 7/14/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for two months and I met him online. I never believed people ...
A: First of all being clingy is very much a bad thing and the last thing you want to do with this guy. ...
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| laws of love | 12/6/2008 |
Q: i have been dating lindzey for about 4 months and change im about to be 18 in 3 months shes about to ...
A: First look at your state laws. There wouldn't be such a big deal with such a minor age difference. ...
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| Doesn't want to meet in person | 12/1/2008 |
Q: So back in early september, I posted a casual encounter on craigslist, looking for someone to meet ...
A: I have to agree that he probably is hiding something or has insecurity issues. He probably feels ...
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| Online relationship | 11/29/2008 |
Q: Okay, yeah. I met this guy online about two and a half years ago and we've been chatting and having ...
A: Well I think the best answer is to tell him the truth. Let him know that you will consider it but ...
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| online friendship or more? | 11/25/2008 |
Q: Ok, first off my story/question is A LOT more different then any other ones I have seen. I met a ...
A: Well it's possible to meet your soul mate or whatever at anytime in your lifetime. To be honest with ...
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| Lost Love Found? | 8/21/2008 |
Q: I met this very nice lady named Christina on match.com. Initially, we chatted on yahoo messenger ...
A: Well you never told me how long you guys have known each other or anything but I think it's fair to ...
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| Online girl | 8/3/2008 |
Q: I met this girl online after looking up a lost friend. She immediately seemed to tick all the right ...
A: I think you should continue to push the idea of meeting. If she doesn't agree to it then ask her ...
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| This Amazing Girl | 7/28/2008 |
Q: well i have been speaking to this girl for just over a year an we seem to get on really really well ...
A: To be honest with you, it sounds like she is hiding something from you. You guys are only 40 minutes ...
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| Long distance relationship | 7/28/2008 |
Q: I'm going to explain first. When i was visiting my aunt i got bored one night and looked up a chat ...
A: There is not much else I can tell you except that you guys will either need to discuss this issue ...
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| Why won't he meet me | 5/1/2008 |
Q: Well to start off, I have been talking to this guy online and on the phone for 3 months now. We have ...
A: I'm not sure what to make of this. This sounds typical of a guy who is either not the person he says ...
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| internet relationship problems | 4/30/2008 |
Q: im 44 and i met a man on the internet he works for a british food firm and i became a customer we ...
A: First of all I feel like this situation just doesn't seem as honest or as fair as it should be. For ...
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| Should I end it? | 4/11/2008 |
Q: I was hoping you could give me your opinion on my problem. I met a guy online about 4 years ago. ...
A: I think this guy likes you and is certainly attracted to you, but to be honest with you, I genuinely ...
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| Is he busy, uninterested or just want to be friends? | 4/4/2008 |
Q: There is a guy whom i know in real life for many years. He's 8 yrs older than me and now pursuing ...
A: You never really asked me a specific question so I'm not sure what you are asking me. I think you ...
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| thought he was interested. | 4/4/2008 |
Q: I appreciate you taking the time to read this. I met a guy thru online gaming. he is 10 years older ...
A: Well I don't exactly know what happened but I have a few pretty good guesses. The first thing idea ...
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| am i being scamed | 4/3/2008 |
Q: i am talking with this girl in russa we have been talking for about 2 weeks now and exchanged ...
A: First of all no, no and no!!! Do not send that much money to a girl that you have been talking to ...
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| What is the hidden message that he is trying to send across? | 3/28/2008 |
Q: I have known LOVE for 10 years. LOVE is 26 yrs old while I'm 18 yrs old. Our dads are best ...
A: It sounds like he was interested initially but I think the problem right now is that this has been ...
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| Met on the internet | 3/23/2008 |
Q: i was contacted on facebook by this girl, i replied to her and we sent many messages on facebook.. ...
A: Well the best thing to do is to text her asking how she was. There are a few possibilities here. ...
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| i need a friend | 3/19/2008 |
Q: hi melissa my name is jasmin and iam 18 years my problem is that iam depressed and i need a friend ...
A: Well if you need a friend to talk to then I could definitely be that. I'm 19 so not a big age gap ...
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| Looking for Answers | 2/5/2008 |
Q: Last year I went out with my friends and fiance on a harmless outing, where I met a man who has ...
A: Well you are very fortunate because I have been through almost the exact situation. I fell in love ...
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| worth it? | 1/28/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 years old, and live in England. I feel that i have spent roughly two years speaking to ...
A: Well first of all I agree with your plan entirely. You guys seem to be handling this correctly and ...
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| mixed emotions | 1/22/2008 |
Q: So i set a fake profile up on a website when i was bored and i got talking to a guy who i then added ...
A: Well the first thing you need to do is inform this guy that you met someone(your boyfriend) and ...
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| Online Dating Question | 1/22/2008 |
Q: ..I have a relationship question and I hope you can help me. I met an amazing guy online line a ...
A: Well this is moving a bit fast but I know what it's like to just have a very emotional connection ...
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| I screwed up | 1/16/2008 |
Q: Alright. I'll start with the basics. I'm a 15-year-old girl living in Northern Oklahoma. I am ...
A: Well I can understand why your girlfriend wasn't honest about her orientation. First of all many ...
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| online and long distance relationship | 12/14/2007 |
Q: I'm really feeling down. I'm a 27 year old virgin and I am just really feeling the need for ...
A: Well the first thing you need to ask yourself is if you really love these guys. I'm not saying you ...
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| on-line relationship | 11/24/2007 |
Q: I met a man thru YM... he told me that he loves me and felt connections between us after 6 months of ...
A: Well I agree that his intentions aren't correct. He may seem like a nice guy and you guys may have ...
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| Is this relationship even worth all this trouble? | 11/15/2007 |
Q: I already asked you a question about my situation earlier, and several other experts have denied to ...
A: Okay first of all it is not normal for you to be crying so often like this. This is not normal at ...
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| Online Relationship (3 years) | 11/6/2007 |
Q: Me and this girl have been talking online and been together for over 3 years. She is 3 years ...
A: First of all I'm not sure why her parents are getting upset but I think you both need to calm down ...
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| long distance | 10/15/2007 |
Q: hi I'm feeling like I'm having along distance relationship with a man from morocco i initially just ...
A: Well unfortunately humans have no created a test that could statistically predict the likelihood of ...
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| Can we go on? | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I found a blog two weeks ago and tried ask her questions about something interestingly described on ...
A: I don't want to assume that she's been considering moving further with you but it is quite obvious ...
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| Online/real life situation | 9/25/2007 |
Q: I've got one hell of an issue. I met this girl while I was living in Orlando through her brother, ...
A: Well I'm not sure what you are asking me but obviously she does have a boyfriend and it wasn't like ...
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| Unsure.. | 9/19/2007 |
Q: Hey. I am 17 and i have been in an online relationship for around a year now. I live in the UK and ...
A: Well the cross dressing sounds pretty strange but if you are okay with it then I guess there's not ...
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| dating by email | 9/18/2007 |
Q: a couple of weeks ago - at work - i was bored so decided to register on an online dating site to ...
A: Well I'm glad to hear that you weren't taking this seriously. Anyway I guess we'll just see what ...
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| dating by email | 9/17/2007 |
Q: a couple of weeks ago - at work - i was bored so decided to register on an online dating site to ...
A: Well it's pretty likely that this whole thing is a scam and you should be very careful. I would not ...
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| How can I tell my mom? | 9/14/2007 |
Q: My name is Kris. I'm 17 and living in California with my mom. I met this guy on a forum about two ...
A: Well if you and this guy have a bit of a romance going on then it's probably best that you do not ...
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| relationship | 9/8/2007 |
Q: Well I have this question, please help me with it. I met this girl at a party, we had spent a very ...
A: Well if you feel more comfortable talking to her on the internet then you should tell her how you ...
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| how do i tell my parents about my online bf? | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I have had an online bf in the past, and I have introduced him to my parents and explained to them ...
A: Well I don't know your parents so I honestly couldn't tell you how they would react but if they got ...
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| My online bf and I want to get married, but we live in 2 different countries. | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I met my online boyfriend a year ago, he lives in California, and I live in Canada. We are both 20 ...
A: Well have you guys seen each other before? If you have met in person for at least two times and for ...
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| What to Do | 8/13/2007 |
Q: I met a girl in Argentina on a trip several years ago and we hit it off quite well. I was only in ...
A: Okay I think that this time you should send her the money. You promised her that and from what you ...
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| More than friends? | 8/11/2007 |
Q: I have a situation with an online friend I might have feelings for. We met in a psychology ...
A: Well you shouldn't ask him if he likes you or not until he knows that you have feelings for him. ...
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| Confidence | 8/8/2007 |
Q: I am currently 17 and am in my 2nd online relationship, 2 months in, first one was just a bad ...
A: Well first of all her lack of confidence cannot be relieved by you. Nobody can make her have ...
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| Hello | 8/6/2007 |
Q: Thnka for ur servis for us. am vester fidehl keronsi
A: Well this is the problem for many men... because it really is difficult to find a nice girl... just ...
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| online, long distance dating. | 7/30/2007 |
Q: I have been emailing this person since February and would like to meet him. But he is in the ...
A: Well it sounds like you don't really have to convince him to meet you, it's just you need to meet ...
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| Question | 7/13/2007 |
Q: Much of the World Wide Web uses hypermedia. The creation and use of the links in a hypermedia ...
A: Well really this depends on the person. Some people believe practically everything they read and at ...
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| Laws regarding different ages in a L:ong-Distance Relationship | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I am in a long distance relationship with someone who lives in Florida (I live in England). She is ...
A: Well I don't know the laws in England but this is not illegal in the United States. It would be if ...
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| Break up with my online girlfriend | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I have an online relationship of more than 4 years with a girl who I absolutely adore. We were very ...
A: Well I'm glad that you emailed her asking about that cause the situation is strange. Yes continue to ...
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| Break up with my online girlfriend | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I have an online relationship of more than 4 years with a girl who I absolutely adore. We were very ...
A: I'm not sure why she even wrote that email... that's very strange and kind of mean considering that ...
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| How often should he get in touch | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I'm in a nine month L.D.R. We both agree that we're in love.We are both very busy 'but i feel he ...
A: Well it's not out of line to want him to contact you for a short period of time everyday, but if he ...
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| I think I have met the man of my dreams...how do I keep him? | 6/19/2007 |
Q: I'm a healthy and fairly successful 21 year old. I am a college student and insurance agent in South ...
A: Well I'm glad to hear that you found someone who you really click with and who you feel you could ...
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| Could It Be Over? | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I have been having an online realtionship with a man from New York for 6 years.I am from western ...
A: Well first of all why have you guys been in an online relationship 6 years? That sounds very odd ...
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| online dating | 5/31/2007 |
Q: Bee, I am in an online relationship right now. But I live in Indiana and he lives in New York! I ...
A: Well you guys have been dating for only a week and at this point everything is up in the air. And no ...
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| Random Stranger | 5/12/2007 |
Q: Here's the deal... I've met this women on Facebook.com on some discussion group. I've sent her a ...
A: um I think you are making too much out of this. The first comment sounded like a nice greeting like ...
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| Love of my life | 5/11/2007 |
Q: Well I've dated this girl for a year on the Internet, we talk everyday on the phone and talk about 6 ...
A: Well just show them when you meet her. Sometimes everything can not be perfect and your parents ...
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| Cyber Sex | 5/10/2007 |
Q: my question is a bit embarrassing.... I recently joined this cyber sex website for 18 years and ...
A: No, you cannot get in trouble with the law for having cyber sex. I think you are worrying about this ...
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| gifts n meeting each other | 4/19/2007 |
Q: HEY VANESSA! I HAVE AN ONLINE BOYFRIEND AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR AROUND 9 MONTHS. THIS KINDA ...
A: Well about your part one issue. Well although there are many people who are online creeps, the ...
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| what to do? | 3/22/2007 |
Q: my name is Rachael. Im 15 and been in an internet relationshit for about 8 months now.Hes 17.He ...
A: I don't think him visiting you for 2 months is a good idea at all. You guys are pretty young and the ...
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| What's going on. | 2/21/2007 |
Q: Last semester I gave a guy a had seen in the hallway everyday before class my number. Well pretty ...
A: Well if you guys are good friends then you should just talk to him about this. Ask him why he never ...
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| Dating | 2/20/2007 |
Q: I live in US for two year and I'm still foreigner for American girls. I try to meet some nice girl ...
A: Well you should try to meet people in person. It shouldn't be that much of a problem for you. Try ...
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| Gifts..? | 1/29/2007 |
Q: I am in an online relationship and love the person whom it's with..Anyway, I was just wondering, ...
A: Well I'm still not sure why you can't send him a gift. All you have to do is buy him a gift, and if ...
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| Gifts..? | 1/28/2007 |
Q: I am in an online relationship and love the person whom it's with..Anyway, I was just wondering, ...
A: Well I don't know why you can't send him a gift. No matter where he lives, you can send him ...
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| Things he says | 1/25/2007 |
Q: Ok i talk to a guy on msn, we've spoke for ages and for months since i'd say we sometimes talk for ...
A: Well just cause this is all on the internet doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. Of cpurse the ...
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| I screwed up | 1/11/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 years old, a 12th grader and I had an internet girlfriend of about 3 months, who lived in ...
A: Well I can tell that you definately made many mistakes in this relationship. But remember you are ...
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| I want to keep going on.. | 12/23/2006 |
Q: Well my boyfriend and i recently started dating online, i really like him, and i want to continue ...
A: first and foremost I am very sorry to have gotten back to you so late. the day you sent this I was ...
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| dont understand | 11/25/2006 |
Q: I have seen him a few times. He has asked me about making our relationship more serious but he won't ...
A: This is a big red flag if he wont even tell you his last name or phone number after 6 months. It ...
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| I have an online boyfriend, and I'm not sure how to tell my friends and parents. | 11/22/2006 |
Q: I'm 16 years old, and I have an online boyfriend, also 16. We met in a forum just talking about ...
A: Well in the future make sure you hide those pics from your mother. Okay I think it's wise to not ...
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| How to tell friends and family, and how to meet...? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: Melissa, Dating and relationships in general are very new to me. I've never been in a relationship ...
A: Well I'm glad to hear that you don't think online relationships are terrible. And since I had an ...
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| confused | 11/16/2006 |
Q: Hey! Well in order to ask my question I've gotta give you a whole insight into what the situation ...
A: Well I think you are overreacting. If he was using you for sex then he wouldn't devote so much time ...
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| Don't know when we will meet | 11/14/2006 |
Q: I met this girl through online gaming and we get along with each other very well in a very short ...
A: I'm very sorry to hear about what this girl has to go through. It's a shame how some parents can do ...
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| Don't know when we will meet | 11/13/2006 |
Q: I met this girl through online gaming and we get along with each other very well in a very short ...
A: If she is 23 and her that is still montioring her then expect a long wait for him to loosen up. ...
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| What have i done right? | 10/31/2006 |
Q: Just looking for some realistic and professional advice to my problem. If you can provide me with a ...
A: Well I could be wrong but it did sound like she did care about you but many of those feelings came ...
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| online love and what to do | 10/31/2006 |
Q: Two months ago, my friend told me about this web site where i could meet some guys.. so i went there ...
A: Well you've only known this guy for 2 months so it sounds like you are starting to see the real him. ...
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| am i right or wrong?? | 10/18/2006 |
Q: well, i met a guy on sept 22 from a dating site. the first time that we talked on the phone , we ...
A: Honestly I think that what you did was wrong. Why? Well first of all just cause he logged on to his ...
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| online dating | 9/30/2006 |
Q: I have met someone online through a game we both enjoy. He is wonderful. How do I know when we go ...
A: Well the only way to know is to just ask. That's pretty much the way to know. Since it's strictly ...
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| online relationship, what dose he really want | 9/27/2006 |
Q: i meet this guy from a pay dating service, he lives in chicago and i live in ypsilanti mi. He first ...
A: Well it does sound like he really does care about you and wants to be with you. It's really obvious ...
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| online dating dillema | 9/24/2006 |
Q: Melissa, I have been trying the online dating thing for a couple years now. I have met a few ...
A: Well you met this girl just last week so it wouldn't be wise to tell the other girl about her at ...
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| is my girlfriend still with her ex | 9/19/2006 |
Q: Its been 5 months now in a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP 2hrs exact. And my girlfriend cant get over ...
A: Hey Seb Well I know you love this girl but it's obvious that she doesn't feel the same way and you ...
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| ending an internet relationship | 9/16/2006 |
Q: I am in a three year internet relationship with a wonderful man. he was married when we met on line ...
A: Well he wont hate you for breaking up with him. Anyways this relationship seems pointless. He is ...
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| Long-distance GF = impatient | 9/10/2006 |
Q: My long distance GF of 21 months has become very impatient lately, and has basically issued an ...
A: Hey Chris Well I don't think it's fair for your girlfriend to give you an ultimatum like that. ...
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| all about having an internet relationship | 9/1/2006 |
Q: what is internet relationship? what are the common issuesbehind having an affair in the internet? ...
A: An internet relationship is just what that is a relationship that takes place primarily on the ...
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| Profile still up | 8/22/2006 |
Q: My subject says it all. I moved to DC from Chicago about 2 years ago. I knew no one, so my friends ...
A: I completely understand how you don't really like how he says all those corny things like 3 weeks ...
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| Utter confusion LOL K | 8/6/2006 |
Q: Hey there. Over the past few months, I've been chatting fairly regularly to a girl online, she's ...
A: Yes if you guys stzart a relationship or anything then yes it will only get more difficult. Honestly ...
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| communication | 7/26/2006 |
Q: So, I met this guy through an internet dating site and we have been communicating for almost 2 ...
A: Hey Laura Well ask him what he likes to do for fun or during his free time. Do you guys have any ...
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| Online relationship to the next level | 7/17/2006 |
Q: I recently began chatting with a man online and we now email daily and speak on the phone several ...
A: What do you mean by making your relationship permanent? Like marraige or something? If that is what ...
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| Looking.... | 6/13/2006 |
Q: I am so very frustrated.... Every time I meet a guy they act like gentlemen in the beginning of the ...
A: Well continue to be patient. That one special person for you will come for you when your ready. And ...
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| Online Girlfriend, howto tell my parents? | 6/13/2006 |
Q: Well, lets start out, Im 15, and a lesbian. I met my girlfriend of 5 months on a gay teen site, ...
A: Yes you should tell your parents about this immediately. They should be able to relate to you. I ...
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| Girlfriend still talks to her ex after 1 year | 6/5/2006 |
Q: Can you please explain to me why anyone would continue to talk to someone that has physcially harmed ...
A: Hey Jon yes her ex sounds like a real loser. It sounds like she's only talking to him because she ...
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| Girlfriend still talks to her ex after 1 year | 6/2/2006 |
Q: All, I have been dating a girl for over a year and we have talked about marriage. Her ex still ...
A: Your girlfriend is right, you are being insecure and there is nothing to worry about. He rarely ...
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| dunno what to do! | 5/22/2006 |
Q: I have been dating this guy online for 2 years almost and well he s all great and that, but I just ...
A: Well you should start to really trust him because he seems very trustworthy and from what you told ...
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| veeerrry long distance online relationship... | 5/11/2006 |
Q: I live in New York, but I'm hoping to move to Spain in about 4 years (after I finish grad school). ...
A: Hey Cyndi Well tell him anything you feel comfortable about telling him. Of course don't give away ...
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| Online Relationship Difficulties. | 5/8/2006 |
Q: I think we're in love. I have known this girl online for 9+ Months. We started off as friends and ...
A: Hey Chad Well there's not much you can really do besides wait. You can try to talk to her through ...
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| Chat online | 4/23/2006 |
Q: Why do you feel girls don't want to email you or anything? I don't why friend. Every email I send & ...
A: Well nobody said that finding love was oing to be easy. So it may take you awhile to find someone ...
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| Chat online | 4/18/2006 |
Q: I am sorry. Somehow I doubt that you truly love any girl online because you would have mentioned ...
A: Well I'm starting to get very confused about your resoponses. Why do you feel girls don't want to ...
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| Chat online | 4/16/2006 |
Q: Please remember to keep your responses in one email at a time Yes madam. I am sorry next time I will ...
A: Hey Simon Actually that is entirely wrong. Girls fear that these guys they are talking to are ...
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| Chat online | 4/15/2006 |
Q: Happy Easter I am sorry. I should not think negatively. I was angry at first & now no. Sometime I ...
A: Hey Please remember to keep your responses in one email at a time. Anyways nobody can understand the ...
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| How to have an Online Relationship? | 4/13/2006 |
Q: I met a guy from London about 2 months ago through an online dating service. I had an ad and he ...
A: Hey Miguel Well your saying it has only been 2 months? Why is it a big deal if he hasn't met you ...
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| Chat online | 4/12/2006 |
Q: Everyone makes mistakes when doing online dating. I always make mistake that why I come to you for ...
A: Hey Simon If you are only going to be negative about all women then you will only get negative ...
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| what's going on?? | 4/12/2006 |
Q: three months ago, i started talking to this guy. we knew each other already (we had the same ...
A: Hey Liz Well there's a chance it could turn into something. But it doesn't seem very serious at the ...
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| Chat online | 4/11/2006 |
Q: I know you are not that type of person but how would any girl you met online know that for sure? I ...
A: Hey Simon Seriosuly there's no reason to make excuses. Everyone makes mistakes when doing online ...
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| Chat online | 4/10/2006 |
Q: End of this year they say that I will get marry. I know that I am rushing. I am sorry about it. Went ...
A: Hey Simon Well this is why it's not good to rush. First of all it is normal for girls to respond in ...
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| Chat online | 4/9/2006 |
Q: I am sorry to send two seperate questions because went I remember then I send. I have a bad memory. ...
A: Don't worry about that it's a common mistake for some peope to send two different responses. Anyways ...
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| Chat online | 4/8/2006 |
Q: And if she does live fairly close or at least in the same country as you then give her a chance. Yes ...
A: Hey Simon Please do not send two seperate questions unless you have to. I only allow 2 questions a ...
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| Chat online | 4/7/2006 |
Q: But to get that you need to seek out people too. There are probably thousands of people just being ...
A: Again, I think you misinterpreted my answer. I'm not saying for you to go up to people on the ...
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| Chat online | 4/7/2006 |
Q: I saw in the internet that - they say that people from Moscow or Russia trying to cheat people ...
A: How do you feel she is cheating you? Obviously it is a likely possibilty but just cause someone is ...
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| Chat online | 4/6/2006 |
Q: Well have you been waiting for girls to message you or are you looking for them? Both & I really ...
A: Anyways using a chat room is pretty self explanatory. You will be able to figure it out pretty well. ...
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| Need a friend | 4/6/2006 |
Q: Hi how can I make an online friend?
A: Well he best way to make an online friend is to join a chatroom and just talk to people. I know it's ...
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| Chat online | 4/5/2006 |
Q: I am 30 years. I have no friends since childhood so this is my first time chatting in the internet. ...
A: Hey Simon Well you can tell if a girl likes you if she obviously likes talking to you. If she seeks ...
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| long distance romance | 4/4/2006 |
Q: I am a widow of 2 years, and started to write to a widower of 5 months. i live in florida, he lives ...
A: Hey Angie Well you can keep talking to him but don't take it to fast. You labeled this as a long ...
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| This isn't a relationship... | 3/23/2006 |
Q: This isn't a relationship question but my mom is driving me nuts. My mom is being really moody all ...
A: First of all parents are always annoying. You will never find a teenager or any child of anyoen who ...
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| online relationship | 2/21/2006 |
Q: I'm writing to ask you this question although I think I already know the answer but maybe I just ...
A: Yes that is cheating. The reason it's cheating is because your having a relationship at the same ...
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| Obsessed 2 | 2/19/2006 |
Q: I did what you told me to... i stayed out more... but i couldnt concentrate on anything i was doing ...
A: Hey Kate I understand how you feel. I've been there before, i was depressed for months until I got ...
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| Obsessed.. | 2/16/2006 |
Q: I was always against this online dating stuff... untill i met this guy. in the beginning i didnt ...
A: Hey Kate It's actually not confusing at all. People change. The same thing happened with my first ...
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| Internet Friend Comes to Town | 2/14/2006 |
Q: so thanks for the advice, i can't say I probably made the best choices but I guess the question now ...
A: I'm so very sorry to hear that the whole meeting did not go as well as you dreamed. I'm really sorry ...
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| Having a hard time with feedback | 2/9/2006 |
Q: Can you give me some guidance on the following? Well, I've been talking to someone online since ...
A: Well yes you are right, it is good to give some sort of feedback. Just tell her that many people ...
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| Loan Money to Fiancee? | 2/8/2006 |
Q: I'm engaged to be married in 6 months. My Fiancee has $30,000 in credit card debt she incurred ...
A: Hey Scott You are being COMPLETELY reasonable. I could understand your girlfriend getting upset if ...
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| Internet Friend Comes to Town | 2/6/2006 |
Q: So I had written before and you gave me such great insigh on my dilema. The guy who I had been ...
A: Hey Josh Well first of all that's really great your meeting this guy! I hope it will be a fun and ...
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| My crush | 2/2/2006 |
Q: I have a crush on someone I don't know how he looks like. He is good nice and very loving to others. ...
A: Hey Janice I can't tell you if he likes you or not cause I am not him and you did not provide me ...
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| In love with online friend? | 2/1/2006 |
Q: I met this guy online who lives in another state but who may be moving (for work reasons) to my city ...
A: I think the guy is definitely worth your time. It sounds like he does have feelings for another guy ...
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| when are you in love | 1/29/2006 |
Q: when are you in love?,the best things to ask when email is all you have? what ice brakers can i ...
A: Hey Chris I don't understand your question "when are you in love". That's a very general question ...
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| Im hurt but still love and care about him | 1/24/2006 |
Q: vinf a few problems with my x-bf. he just broke up with me saying it was because i was to uptight ...
A: First of all your boyfriend is in the wrong mindset. I know you've heard this before, but he can't ...
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| Upset but still in love | 1/24/2006 |
Q: I had been with my bf for over a year (i met him online through my other friend) and he lied to much ...
A: I'm pretty sure I answered your question yesterday. I'm pretty sure your the same person cause you ...
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| Someone else? | 1/20/2006 |
Q: I met a girl in Yahoo 18 months ago. 7 months later we found out that we were in love. At this ...
A: Hey Ady I can understand how you cannot trust her entirely and it's kind of dumb how she doesn't see ...
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| how to be keep long and lasting online relationship | 1/15/2006 |
Q: how to keep long and lasting online relationship
A: This is a very general question and I can't answer it until you give me moire information. I will ...
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| Update | 12/27/2005 |
Q: Its me..Terry!!! First MERRY CHRISTMAS late wishes to you and hope you had a nice one. Nothing to ...
A: Hey Terry I'm soo happy for you! I'm really glad that you got over this guy and your finnally living ...
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| relation | 12/26/2005 |
Q: assalam o alaikum! i am a mulsim.iwant to know that how can we chat others people so that they ...
A: Hey Mohsin I can't tell you how to impress others through chat cause honestly I don't know and I ...
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| need advice | 12/14/2005 |
Q: Sorry Melissa to bother you again. But I really don't know what to do. He's sweet, he calls me ...
A: Hey Biebie Well you'll have to remind him to not have sex with you and that it is not a crucial ...
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| need advice | 12/14/2005 |
Q: I got stuck with my own feeling. I'm seeing this guy. I was really into him but whenever we get into ...
A: Hey Biebie Well is there a way you can subtly tell him you would like better. for example invite him ...
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| Does He really like me? | 11/29/2005 |
Q: I met a man in one of the dating web in the internet. I have only talked to him for 3 days now and ...
A: Hey Ok you have known this guy for three days now? Is that correct. Well considering it is correct ...
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| net relationships | 11/24/2005 |
Q: i love my net-pals....i'm 23yrs.,single and lives alone away from home.i have tried to make many ...
A: Hey Tony Well that's the way online friendships sometimes go. For me that is not the case. I have ...
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| sweettalk | 11/18/2005 |
Q: but i dont know how. so how do you sweettalk. i can't think anything to comapera her eyes or hair ...
A: Hey Jimmy Well personally I feel this girlfriend should not be asking you to do anything for her, ...
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| Is she OK? | 11/2/2005 |
Q: I met a girl via the net and fell in love with her. We have been in a relationship for 7 months. ...
A: Hey Andy Yes it definately sounds like she was trying to get a reaction out of you. And I mostly ...
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| broken up but still together?? | 10/26/2005 |
Q: my first love and i have been broken up for 2yrs officially. earlier this year we started to see ...
A: Hey Ash Well let me ask you this. Is it love when he is violent to you? When he calls you a tramp? ...
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| boot?!!! | 9/12/2005 |
Q: good day! madam i just what to ask if there's way to have a anti-booter software for some people ...
A: Hey Ron Well first of all I don't know what you are asking and second of all I don't deal with ...
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| too much independence in a relationship | 8/31/2005 |
Q: my girl frend has been living by her self for over 10 years and her independence in our relationship ...
A: Hey Baggio Well first of all does she want to change her independence? If this is you just speaking ...
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| popular chat clients | 8/9/2005 |
Q: I need to know some popular chat clients in Italy. Im thinking of moving there and intrested in ...
A: Hey Alexander I wish I could help you but unfortanately I don't specialize in this. But if you want ...
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| birthdays | 7/28/2005 |
Q: would it be a good idea to get him a birthday gift? if so, any suggestions?
A: Hey Amanda Of course it's ok for you to give the one that you love a gift! Well get him something he ...
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| Should I be his wife | 7/14/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ...
A: Hey Tidra I don't mean to be rude but you have asked this same question twice over the past 4 months ...
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| Longdistance trouble | 6/16/2005 |
Q: I met my boyfriend three months ago through an internet chatroom on my cell phone. For the first ...
A: Hey Victoria Well if you guys feel a break up is what you want then that's ok I guess but honestly I ...
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| background checking someone? | 6/10/2005 |
Q: I would love to know of a cheap (or free) and reliable way to do a background check on a really ...
A: Hey DeeAnn Well unfortanetly it's not really possible to get it free unless you know someone who's ...
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| Help! | 6/1/2005 |
Q: Hey Melissa, lolz....really? you really did receive something similar? haha......funny. Maybe it was ...
A: Hey Rebecca Well don't worry about meeting him and stuff and how it'll turn out. Of course it's ok ...
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| Help! | 6/1/2005 |
Q: this is not my first time asking for help here but am very confused now and I just want someone to ...
A: Hey Rebecca Lol it's funny cause I had this same question just about a month ago. The guy was ...
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| Is it ok if my girlfriend loves 2 guys? | 5/19/2005 |
Q: My name is John and I'm 16 years old. My girlfriend is 13 years old. We've known each other for ...
A: Hey John I'm sorry to hear about what's going on but on a realistic level this girl is probaly not ...
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| bad relationship | 5/8/2005 |
Q: I met a man throught the net and after our break-up he took revenge by talking about what ...
A: Hey Pamela Well the truth is is that you really can't prevent it. A guy can act very nice and be ...
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| Is it worth it,Big Dilemma | 5/6/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ...
A: Hey Tidra I think you asked me a similar question a long time ago. Cause it's pretty much the exact ...
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| What do you think? | 5/4/2005 |
Q: I would really appreciate if you could help me/ give me your opinion. I'm a 20 year old girl. I met ...
A: Hey Anna Well it does seem like he cares about you. I can't say if he loves you or anything from ...
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| Distance, love and friendships | 4/24/2005 |
Q: I'm going to Berlin in August for one year to carry out a placement. My friends will carry theirs in ...
A: Hey Maria I have to say that your brother is very right about long distance ...
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| I met this guy | 4/24/2005 |
Q: I know this is going to be crazy, before writing you, I have gone through few previous posts. One ...
A: Hey Biebie Well as you probaly already figured out, you cannot always believe people on the ...
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| phone number | 4/23/2005 |
Q: when you meet some one online for the first time, and you e-mail that person and she e-mail you ...
A: Hey Leon Well you should probaly email the person for a few weeks before asking for their number. ...
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| Received This!!!! | 4/7/2005 |
Q: ------------------------- Hi Melissa Thank you so much for your reply. I deleted the mess today. I ...
A: Hey Terry! Well I'm glad to know you know what's going on with this guy too! Yes I am sure he is ...
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| Received This!!!! | 4/6/2005 |
Q: It is Terry who ended it with an idiot in England once and for all...,,,remember,,proposed in 2 ...
A: Hey Terry I'm not really sure of what to say but I guess this guy is still sending messages to you ...
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| The Rest of The Story and Final? | 3/19/2005 |
Q: Yes he surely tried to create a lot of drama for sure. Now for your ears..only. I met him initially ...
A: Hey Terry Yep he is definately stupid. But it will all be coming back to him and all. I'm sure he's ...
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| The Rest of The Story and Final? | 3/18/2005 |
Q: It is Terry, the woman that met a man online from England the told me in October 2004 he LOVED me ...
A: Hey Terry Wow! This guy does sound like he has major problems. For some reason I still don't believe ...
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| Little contact from online lover | 3/17/2005 |
Q: I have been in an internet relationship for over a year now. I am married and been with my husband ...
A: Hey Jackie Yes you can get over him. And from what you're telling me it sounds like it's going to ...
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| starting an online relationship | 3/16/2005 |
Q: A guy named David and I might be going into an online relationship. We both never tried this before, ...
A: Hey Kelly Well the first thing that any long distance relatioship requires is communtication. Talk, ...
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| My wife's online activity? | 2/26/2005 |
Q: Well, I don't know if you're the right person to be asking or not, but I do have a question, and you ...
A: Hey Mattches9 That happens a lot so it's not a big deal. A lot of times random people, usually from ...
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| Internet Love | 2/2/2005 |
Q: I been looking for love but can find. All i get are porn queens etc on messenger and other chat ...
A: Hey Inni You can't really go looking for love it will just come to you. Just go in chat rooms or ...
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| match | 1/29/2005 |
Q: I recently signed up with match dot com. I intend to spend some time e-mailing back and forth with ...
A: Hey Cowboy First get to know them first. Tell them about yourself and show some interest in the ...
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| What In The World! What Is His Problem! | 1/22/2005 |
Q: It is Terry again...the woman who fell for the Englishman in London that flew to Chicago and met ...
A: Hey Terry Walls I hate to say this but this guy sounds kind of weird. The email you did send was ...
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| Internet Friend | 1/9/2005 |
Q: well i made an internet friend yesterday and she lives in Canada, and i live in the uk. Shes nice ...
A: Hey Sopie If you don't feel comfortable about sending her an e-mail from that address you don't have ...
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| Online Dating Question | 12/29/2004 |
Q: i guess i'm not a "Rules Girl" -- some of the things they tell u to do seems extreme -- is there a ...
A: Hey Preethi Well that is her opinion then, but I think asking for a person's number really depends ...
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| Finding the right website | 12/24/2004 |
Q: Some dating sites online are prohibitively expensive and/or either have an unbelievably small ...
A: Hey Augusto I'm very sorry. I don't go on a lot of dating websites that much so I don't really know ...
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| Meeting for real | 12/24/2004 |
Q: He is a 21 from Netherlands and I¡¦m 20 from Taiwan. We met online almost a year ago, right after ...
A: Hey Sandy They probaly would not take it well at all. I mean they might take it ok if was like you ...
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| England Man...This is the Poem he sent! | 12/19/2004 |
Q: This is the poem he sent I explained in the letter and I will try to attach the email for you to ...
A: Hey Terry Wow that was confusing and kind of strange for a goodbye email but it definately was one. ...
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| Update Regarding man in England | 12/19/2004 |
Q: ------------------------- Hi Melissa Thank you so much for the very helpful email. This has all ...
A: Hey Terry Thank you I'm glad I could help in any way. I'm still not sure of why he would send his ...
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| Update Regarding man in England | 12/18/2004 |
Q: It is Me again. I am Terry...I hope you remember. I am the one who wrote you about a month or so ...
A: Hey Terry Yes I remember you. It's good to hear from you again....but I'm sorry to hear that this is ...
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| online relationships resulting in marriage | 12/11/2004 |
Q: I'm writing an article for my grad journalism class about couples who met online and later ended up ...
A: Hey Maurreen This has probaly become more common because it's a much easier way for people to meet ...
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| Online Dating | 12/5/2004 |
Q: I'm writing an article about online dating and online dating services and I was wondering if you ...
A: Hey Katie People date online cause they feel it saves time than a normal relationship. For example ...
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| Chemistry | 12/4/2004 |
Q: This is a sensitive issue, and it's one that's almost always overlooked even though it's one of the ...
A: Hey again Augusto! Well I think you shouldn't think you're more attractive than you really are but ...
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| site identification | 11/28/2004 |
Q: i mean i send and recieve massages but never meet these people do they exist or not?how do i ...
A: Hey Kwamusi Yes these people do exist even if it doesn't seem like it at times. People have their ...
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| Online relationship | 11/24/2004 |
Q: I'll be a little more specific. I live in Seattle, and she lives about 1 1/2 hours away. I've been ...
A: Hey Larry Ok thank you for replying. Ok I change my answer then. Don't ask her yet. You're right it ...
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| Does this woman sound like a red flag? | 11/9/2004 |
Q: I am a 39 year old male. I have have never been married and I have no children. I have my CPA ...
A: Hey Gary Dunlop Yes if she ignores a second request then a definate red flag. She may be lying about ...
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| internet dating | 11/1/2004 |
Q: i am 30 , male in nigeria. i have made attaempts at internet dating but i have not been successful ...
A: Hey Ini Most websites do charge a fee but I would suggest chat rooms. Those are pretty much like ...
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| Is It Really Over? | 10/28/2004 |
Q: ------------------------- AllExperts Search for Main menu Find out about ...
A: Hey Terry Have you ever thought maybe this girl isn't real? Just curious cause if you're so special ...
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| Is It Really Over? | 10/24/2004 |
Q: I met a man online in Brighton England last December 2003. I live in Kentucky. Within 3 months we ...
A: Hey Terry If the guy really loves you he wont ever go for any other woman. If you're the girl who's ...
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| New "something" starting....! | 10/20/2004 |
Q: I just jointed an on-line singles website. I wasn't expecting much to happen at all, since I had ...
A: Hey Tracey It's up to you if you want to end it but to me it doesn't sound like you should to me. ...
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| Is it the end? | 10/19/2004 |
Q: i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We were friends for 2 years before we became a couple, we ...
A: Hey Rockchick Yes I agree that it does sound like the end. Maybe it might be able to work in a ...
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| my online girlfriend | 10/2/2004 |
Q: i ben dateing a girl online fore 4 years and are online relationship is so great and we talk avery ...
A: Hey Mike Lane It's been 4 years and you guys haven't talked on the phone? I know she wont give you ...
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| How/where 2 meet I-dates | 10/1/2004 |
Q: I'm a male student in England, early twenties. I have arranged to meet this girl I met on the ...
A: Hey Asif Yep defiantely meet at a cafe or a bar. like you said there's plenty of people, and the ...
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| I am hopeless romantic | 9/12/2004 |
Q: I use internet for more than 3 years, I am looking for a love and my last friend, but after these ...
A: Hey Ashkani First of all, never look for love, let love come to you. Love will happen when you least ...
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| connection audio | 8/24/2004 |
Q: ------------------------- Followup To my english isn't so good i'll try i can't have a voice ...
A: Hey Isabelle I still can't understand what you are trying to say but I am going to guess that you ...
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| can i trust the person that... | 8/12/2004 |
Q: can i trust the person that i met during online chatting? how do i know whether that person already ...
A: Hey Amoi For your first question the answer is yes and no. It depends if the person seems ...
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| internet dating | 8/11/2004 |
Q: I've known a girl who lives 2,000 miles away on the other side of the world for 3 years. I've spent ...
A: Hey Eric First of all I know that it's not a good idea to talk every day. No matter what, you guys ...
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| age difference | 8/1/2004 |
Q: hey im in love wz a guy online & by the time we get married hopefully ... i'll be in my early 20s & ...
A: Hey N First of all, show your parents that you are mature enough to handle a marraige. Also it might ...
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| Online Break-Up , sort of | 7/19/2004 |
Q: One day I happened to be just browsing the net for art. I came across a website owned by this really ...
A: Hey Danielle I understand how you feel and I'm so sorry that you have to feel that way. Just be glad ...
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| how | 7/17/2004 |
Q: how will i know if my online boyfriend is really serious to me? He from california and working there ...
A: Hey Roma Monfero First of all actions speak louder than words! Does he do stuff for you or anything? ...
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| Waiting too long | 7/1/2004 |
Q: Subject: Waiting too long Question - Dear Melissa Bee, Iv been wanting some advice on my ...
A: Hey Mandy No I didn't mind getting the email. But you are definately right, if things don't work out ...
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| Im having a fake relationship with a friend on teh internet. | 6/27/2004 |
Q: I have this friend, and we are good frinds. well you see, i made this faxe screen name and betended ...
A: Hey Zac The best thing to do is to tell the truth. I know you still want to be friends but if you ...
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| How to the man who really loves me and my kids? | 6/19/2004 |
Q: I am separated right now, i have 10 yrs abused marriage, and it almost makes me feel i worthy ...
A: Hey Carolina Yin You are making a mistake for looking for a man. The right man will come to you, ...
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| I met I man on the internet... | 5/17/2004 |
Q: I met I man on the internet about nine months ago or let me correct that statement he met me. I was ...
A: Hey AJ This guy does sound a little crazy. There are definately a lot of red flags around this guy. ...
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| Interent relationship | 5/13/2004 |
Q: I do not really know everything that has gone on in his past realtionships. I know that he said that ...
A: Hey Amanda Don't worry I am sure everything is fine. If everything was going ok then he is probally ...
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| I met my guy off a personals... | 4/27/2004 |
Q: I met my guy off a personals website 4mths ago. We hit it off great and are really into each other ...
A: Hey Debbie Logging on to that website doesn't mean that he's not into you.After I met my guy I still ...
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| Is it moving too fast? | 4/23/2004 |
Q: ok, i met my gf over a month and a half ago. Weve been chatting almost everyday ever since and weve ...
A: Hey David Well I can't tell you if it's moving too fast or not because that really would be up to ...
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| Senior Moments, I always forget something | 4/17/2004 |
Q: Yea, true, but now I usually don't email him for like a week after I get an email from him, so even ...
A: sorry about that did not mean to send that if u got another email saying out of my expertise. ...
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| Is she for real? | 4/16/2004 |
Q: I met this girl online who lived about 4 hrs from me. We seem to have alot in common from our ...
A: Hey firstover101 Well this girl could be for real and she might not be. It depepnds on all the nice ...
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| i want to make a relation with a girl | 4/14/2004 |
Q: My name is ali . I am 23 years old and I study IT in NCC university in Tehran Iran. I want to make ...
A: Hey Ali Well since you can't search for girls you can always go look for iran chatrooms. There you ...
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| epals | 4/8/2004 |
Q: I've had an epal and I am interested in having one.Thus I'll will like how to go about it.That's ...
A: Hey Julie Well first of all be yourself! Just be friendly and do whatever you do but remember to be ...
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| Tell her or Not? | 4/5/2004 |
Q: I have been involved in a long distance relationship since Aug 03. Initially we met on the ...
A: Hey John Why don't you ask her if it is possible if she relocates somewhere more closer to you. See ...
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| How do keep John from worrying so much about me | 3/23/2004 |
Q: I thought that I should post this as a seperate question as it deals with something a little ...
A: Hey Maryellen You don't have to tell him about your financial diffuculties right now. Just say ...
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| The Private Guy I used to work with | 3/18/2004 |
Q: Hey, wanted to ask. I finished the book and it was great. In fact I plan on reading some of his ...
A: Hey Maryellen Yea if you liked the book then you should tell him. To ask him about the other books ...
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| The Private Guy I used to work with | 3/16/2004 |
Q: Hey, I asked you a question about 2 weeks ago, I followed your suggestion and I got quite an ...
A: Hey Maryellen Well you could start by saying I went to the library and was looking for intersting ...
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| How to handle an email | 3/6/2004 |
Q: I'll give that a try. I have another question. Since he is so private, and people where he works ...
A: Hey Maryellen Why don't you just say something like we're just email buddies. We like to email each ...
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| How to handle an email | 3/3/2004 |
Q: Ok, I'm not sure if this is proper place to post this question. It's sorta online, but I met him ...
A: Hey Maryellen Why don't you just email him saying hey guess what I heard on NPR or on the news and ...
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| Chatting | 3/1/2004 |
Q: My name is Nate. I've been on a long hiatus from the real dating world for months. I've decided I ...
A: Hey Nate Just IM her. There's nothing weird about that at all. I have people IM me on my instant ...
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| Internet Dating and Precaussion to take | 2/18/2004 |
Q: I've met someone from an online personal ad. He lives in Texas and I in Ohio. I plan on visiting him ...
A: Hey Wendy I think it would be best to take things slow in a relationship until both of you are used ...
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