| Subject | Date Asked |
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| I have an online boyfriend | 11/17/2009 |
Q: Hey, I met this guy online and we hit it off from the start. We actually don't live too far away ...
A: sorry im a bit late answering but ive just come out of hospital.. i can tell you are confused and ...
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| Confused | 11/5/2009 |
Q: I've met my Online boyfriend through myspace, July of last year..He is single from UK..We only send ...
A: .. i had never heard of this kind of depression, so i looked it up on the net and found a website ...
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| Want to be with my boyfriend. | 11/3/2009 |
Q: as I don't know who else to turn to for advice in my situation. I am a 20 year old girl (21 next ...
A: sorry for taking some time to answer this post but thanks for emailing me.... also, thank you for ...
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| Does he like me? | 10/30/2009 |
Q: I am a 16 yr old girl and I like a guy whom I met online on O rkut.He is 7 yrs older 2 me!We both r ...
A: i can see your confusion. you are very young to be with a guy 7 years older then you are but i ...
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| Im not sure how to act. | 10/21/2009 |
Q: Well I have been talking to this girl over the net for about a year now, she seems great. I have had ...
A: dont be so down on yourself, nothing wrong to say your good looking, start to think more positively ...
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| Advice Please | 10/12/2009 |
Q: O.k. not sure how this will work but I'll explain a few things. I met this guy on a game and we ...
A: realistically, the odds are against you but, i know many that have met and married from meeting ...
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| Online dating question. | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I met this amazing guy online, through a dating website. And we have been talking on skype and on ...
A: i hear what your saying and ive seen people who have been chatting online/phone for years then when ...
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| Online dating question. | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I met this amazing guy online, through a dating website. And we have been talking on skype and on ...
A: i would be inclined to stay at a hotel and not his place. firstly, you never really know a person ...
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| long distance internet love | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I have known my boyfriend for 7 years of those 7 we have been dating for the past 3. The thing is ...
A: . dont let anyone make you fee shameful for having an online loving relationship. ive known many to ...
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| Advice please. | 10/4/2009 |
Q: I am having this online relationship for a year now. And i recently found out he is keeping in touch ...
A: what you say is true, if you cant trust him then the relationship wont work. please talk to him ...
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| Advice please. | 10/2/2009 |
Q: I am having this online relationship for a year now. And i recently found out he is keeping in touch ...
A: . i agree with you, doesnt seem like he is over her and really if he gets hurt again, he has only ...
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| I'm tired of this rollercoaster ride! Does he like me as more than a friend or not????? | 9/29/2009 |
Q: I'm so confused! Here goes... I met this man on MySpace Karaoke. We are both singers. He left a ...
A: i would not make contact with him at the moment and just see what happens. sometimes absence makes ...
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| I'm tired of this rollercoaster ride! Does he like me as more than a friend or not????? | 9/29/2009 |
Q: I'm so confused! Here goes... I met this man on MySpace Karaoke. We are both singers. He left a ...
A: .... you are really still getting to know him still as it hasnt been that long since you met ...
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| Running out of fuel | 9/23/2009 |
Q: My gf and I have been together for about two months. I met her in a video game and I thought she was ...
A: sorry i was a bit late replying back to you. you may be young but you sound very mature. you are ...
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| Online Relationship Gone Bad? | 9/20/2009 |
Q: A little overview, about a year ago I met a 47 year old gentlemen in a game I play (I'm 45) and we ...
A: .. i know this is hard for you to understand but ive been where you are and yes it hurts. though my ...
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| online relationship | 9/17/2009 |
Q: my name is Bill,47 years old and have found the most interesting girl online. I've talked to ...
A: ... you sound like you have really met that special person. speaking as a women, i can tell you ...
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| my online boyfriend | 9/1/2009 |
Q: so i met my boyfriend online but the problem is that he barely comes on to talk to me, and if he is, ...
A: , thanks for your email, its hard to have a relationship with someone that cant hold a ...
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| How to keep this online relationship alive | 8/25/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 about to be turning 18 in two months and the girl I met online is 18. We met in a multiplayer ...
A: you really cant know someone well after one month, as much as you say you communicate with her and ...
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| Confused about a guy | 8/25/2009 |
Q: we live 15 mins away, which isn't too bad and it doesn't bother me. I'm 17 and he's just turned 21. ...
A: .... this guy sounds very nice by what you have written to me. what you need to remember is,girls ...
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| 10 years older | 8/23/2009 |
Q: I met this guy online a few months ago and we are pretty much best friends now, but he said people ...
A: i dont think i have to remind you about meeting people off the internet, but just in case here is a ...
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| Difficulties in an Online Relationship | 8/18/2009 |
Q: I have been having problems with my long distance, online boyfriend of two years. We have met once, ...
A: the only way to make someone communicate better is to keep communcating as much as possible. you ...
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| Really confused. | 8/16/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm an 18 year old girl turning 19 this year and I've been in an online relationship with a guy ...
A: i can understand your parents concern because you really dont know someone until you actually meet ...
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| online boyfriend | 8/9/2009 |
Q: I've known him for 2 years and am so in love with him and he's one of the nicest guys I've ever met. ...
A: ... i can understand you being hesitant about giving your heart to someone that you feel you may ...
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| meeting online boyfriend | 8/3/2009 |
Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is almost 21. We met online in a chatroom in the fall of 2007 and ...
A: i cant emphasize enough how important it is not to meet him without telling your parents or a friend ...
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| meeting online boyfriend | 8/2/2009 |
Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is almost 21. We met online in a chatroom in the fall of 2007 and ...
A: .. its perfectly natural for you to feel the way you do about making that transition from online to ...
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| Hi. Question about keeping up an online relationship. | 7/31/2009 |
Q: I was curious on how to maintain a healthy online romantic relationship. This is not the first time ...
A: ive always maintained that to have loving relationship, you both need to be honest with each other ...
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| What shall I do? | 7/20/2009 |
Q: I met a girl in the internet 4 months ago. she lives in Swiss and I live in UK. We have been ...
A: i think the phone is an excellent way to communicate, it much more personal then just typing to each ...
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| crossroads in love | 7/20/2009 |
Q: Firstly I would like to say thanks for your kindess to read my question. I'm a 26 year-old asian ...
A: i will try to help you with your questions. after reading your email its obvious that your native ...
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| Is he into me? | 7/15/2009 |
Q: I met a guy online and we really hit it off. We chat for several hours every week day about any and ...
A: you sound like you both have developed a wonderful friendship, with many things in common. being ...
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| 4-year age difference. Potential legal issues? | 7/14/2009 |
Q: So while playing an online multiplayer game, I struck up a friendly conversation with a fellow ...
A: ... i will let you know that i am australian and i dont know the laws in USA as far as consenting ...
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| Im confused | 6/29/2009 |
Q: I had an online relationship that lasted about 1 month.It started when this guy invited me to chat ...
A: .. i think he seems like a guy who doesnt want to make any commitments with one girl right now. he ...
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| Opinion needed :] | 6/24/2009 |
Q: my name is Alex :] Last June/July, I started talking to this guy, Sam. We talked about our own ...
A: its lovely that both got to meet face to face, that is only way i feel you can get to truly know ...
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| Follow up | 6/3/2009 |
Q: I have problem again with my boyfriend. As you know he had a booking going here in philippines and ...
A: are you sure its a pakistan code because i know my mobile number is nothing like my home number. by ...
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| Online Relationship 3 | 6/3/2009 |
Q: *New Follow-up limit* Giving a bit of update... Since the last time I talked to you, she had make ...
A: like you said you are both teens, you have many years ahead of you to find the right person. i do ...
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| Online Relationship 3 | 6/1/2009 |
Q: *New Follow-up limit* Giving a bit of update... Since the last time I talked to you, she had make ...
A: i know how hard it is for you to move on because of your feelings for this girl. yes, you can remain ...
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| Online Relationship 3 | 6/1/2009 |
Q: *New Follow-up limit* Giving a bit of update... Since the last time I talked to you, she had make ...
A: nice to hear from you again, i know that this is very hard for you at the moment. you have a deep ...
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| men | 5/22/2009 |
Q: I met a guy two months back, he is in a relationship with another woman but has problems with her, ...
A: .. personally, i feel you should forget him and move on. he has had a chance to break up with this ...
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| Follow up | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I have problem again with my boyfriend. As you know he had a booking going here in philippines and ...
A: sorry i didnt reply earlier but i got your email as i was heading to bed. there isnt a lot you can ...
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| Follow up | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I have problem again with my boyfriend. As you know he had a booking going here in philippines and ...
A: yes i remember you... i was worried about this kind of thing happening to you. i cant offer you any ...
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| Online relationship | 5/17/2009 |
Q: We been know each other for 4 months and then after that he get in love with me which first I did ...
A: i know your worried and even a little scared but try to remain positive and like i said, if its ...
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| Online relationship | 5/17/2009 |
Q: We been know each other for 4 months and then after that he get in love with me which first I did ...
A: i will answer your question first. do you think he loves me?? your the only one that can tell if he ...
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| Online relationship | 5/17/2009 |
Q: We been know each other for 4 months and then after that he get in love with me which first I did ...
A: .. im not surprised that his friends voice sounds the same as your boyfriends voice. in london, ...
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| ^_^ thank you | 5/15/2009 |
Q: I was looking for a girlfriend online but I have never been with a girl. I know how to treat a girl ...
A: i would start up a conversation just like you would with anyone else, getting to know them asking ...
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| online ... | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I've been tlaking to a girl i met on a skype type messaging program, after the first days of talking ...
A: .. i don't think you should be worried too much. i would suggest you talk to this girl to make sure ...
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| on-line relationship | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I am involved in a relationship with a man I met on facebook. He lives in another country. We have ...
A: ... i dont feel your overreacting, its not easy maintaining a long distance relationship. the fact ...
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| 3 year online love USA --Australia? | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I have been really close friends with a lovely guy in America ,Were both 21 years old and I’m in ...
A: i do understand to some degree what your going through as i was in a relationship with a guy in ...
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| A second online relationship | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I am twenty two years old. When i was nineteen,i was in an online relationship for around eight ...
A: im glad you are wary about online relationships but dont let one bad experience spoil it for the ...
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| can it work? | 4/16/2009 |
Q: I have a boyfriend who lives 2 hrs away from me. I know it may not seem that far but because our ...
A: i do understand the issues you have with your religion and telling your parents, it would be very ...
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| Keeeping a long distance relationship | 4/16/2009 |
Q: Me and my Girlfriend have kept a relationship online now for a year. We are actually quite young to ...
A: you cant keep worrying about making her happy all the time. you can work on keeping her happy but ...
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| Keeeping a long distance relationship | 4/16/2009 |
Q: Me and my Girlfriend have kept a relationship online now for a year. We are actually quite young to ...
A: . thanks for your question.. even for adults its hard to keep a long distance relationship going ...
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| can it work? | 4/16/2009 |
Q: I have a boyfriend who lives 2 hrs away from me. I know it may not seem that far but because our ...
A: . its amazing how many people are not themselves online. they feel because they are hiding behind a ...
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| Online Relationship 2 | 4/16/2009 |
Q: *Follow-up limit* The girl hook up with 2 guys since I admitted my feelings for her, and she did the ...
A: friendship cards are nice to get, they dont have to be romance cards. its just to let her know your ...
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| Online Relationship 2 | 4/15/2009 |
Q: *Follow-up limit* The girl hook up with 2 guys since I admitted my feelings for her, and she did the ...
A: i feel the main tip is to make the best of the time you have together. remember quality over ...
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| Online Relationship 2 | 4/14/2009 |
Q: *Follow-up limit* The girl hook up with 2 guys since I admitted my feelings for her, and she did the ...
A: . i think you both are wise in waiting a bit longer to meet and to tell each other how you are ...
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| Online Relationship | 4/7/2009 |
Q: I live in Brazil, and began to be friends with a girl from here about 2 years ago, recently she and ...
A: i think if you meet someone else, its not fair to that person to keep holding on the feelings you ...
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| Online Relationship | 4/4/2009 |
Q: I live in Brazil, and began to be friends with a girl from here about 2 years ago, recently she and ...
A: .. you cant put your feelings on hold and come back to them at a later date in my honest opinion. ...
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| ouestion | 3/13/2009 |
Q: what make somebody whom u are on blinding dating with her to keep on saying "be patient "yet may be ...
A: there is so much said online about privacy and not giving out too much information online that women ...
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| How 2 know if some1 Online likes u ? | 3/13/2009 |
Q: -) !! My ques is: How can you know if a online friend of yours has feelings for you? I mean If u ...
A: Its good to know that you both are mature adults. it seems he is showing more interest in you but ...
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| How 2 know if some1 Online likes u ? | 3/9/2009 |
Q: -) !! My ques is: How can you know if a online friend of yours has feelings for you? I mean If u ...
A: .. i think one of the main signs online that someone likes you is in their interest to talk to you ...
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| Online Love/Crush | 3/1/2009 |
Q: I am 16 years old. Yes, I know I am young, but 2 years ago I befriended a gaia off an online game. ...
A: its not easy to keep up a long distance relationship. you two certainly have a big difference in ...
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| Question on writing a good online personal ad | 2/23/2009 |
Q: How are you? My name is Julian and I reside in Coral Springs, FL. I was checking out single women ...
A: personally i dont know much about the badoo site, is it a dating site?? when you say profile ad, ...
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| Internet? | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I have a serious question.Okay there is this older guy,He's 50 (I'm 13) that I talk to over the ...
A: i know your worried about his feelings but he has done the wrong thing. he has taken advantage of ...
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| Internet? | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I have a serious question.Okay there is this older guy,He's 50 (I'm 13) that I talk to over the ...
A: is that the id he uses on this site?? like i said before. dont talk to him, delete his id and his ...
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| Internet? | 2/8/2009 |
Q: I have a serious question.Okay there is this older guy,He's 50 (I'm 13) that I talk to over the ...
A: this is very serious and i am concerned with what your saying here. this man is taking advantage of ...
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| OUESTION | 2/4/2009 |
Q: WHAT TESTS CAN I MAKE TO DISCOVER THAT A PERSON STILL LUV ME WHEN AT DISTANCE WITH ONE ANOTHER?
A: .. there are no tests to discover if someone loves you when there is distance between you both. i ...
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| I dont know what to do | 2/2/2009 |
Q: This is my first time for a question so I am sorry if it is kinda confusing. I am 15 years old(16 ...
A: .. thank you for being honest about how you both are, it makes it a lot easier to answer your ...
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| Offline Meeting | 2/1/2009 |
Q: I asked a question to you about I girl I would like to meet, knowing that I live in a big city(more ...
A: i would recommend you meeting her in a public place, maybe a cafe or restaurant. it will be a nice ...
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| Facebook-Online dating | 1/28/2009 |
Q: I'm talking to this girl on facebook, and we been talking for a couple of messages. Then I message ...
A: maybe the reason she hasnt replied back is that she has limited time on a computer and cant always ...
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| Question on long distance relationship | 1/28/2009 |
Q: I just recently signed up to an asian onling dating site because I am very much attracted to asian ...
A: .. your right, some women dont mind giving out their cell numbers, while others need to wait a ...
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| Puzzled | 1/24/2009 |
Q: I joined the Christian Singles dating site. I didn't put up a picture because I felt ...
A: i dont blame you for not putting up a picture, you shouldnt until you feel comfortable. in saying ...
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| He Did Not Like what I looked like in person | 1/23/2009 |
Q: Although we sent photographs and talked daily on the telephone for over years for hours before bed, ...
A: im sorry this has happened to you but its not uncommon. even though we feel we know the person that ...
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| Online Relationship | 1/22/2009 |
Q: I live in Brazil, and began to be friends with a girl from here about 2 years ago, recently she and ...
A: your both still very young and im sure you both know a lot about each other during your 2 years ...
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| confused about my online relationship | 1/14/2009 |
Q: Hey, I have been in an online relationship with this girl online for almost 4 months now...and it ...
A: .. always at the start of a new relationship your going to experience the wonderful feelings you ...
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| I do not know what is going on.. | 12/15/2008 |
Q: I have met this guy online about a month ago.I am 30 and a female, he is 37.Unfortunately we are ...
A: you have only known this man for one month, so not a long time to really get to know one another. ...
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| How do I keep myself calm? | 12/10/2008 |
Q: I keep stressing out about my online relationship, and need to calm myself better. Here's what the ...
A: . there is nothing i can write that will reassure you that L is the one for you or that it will ...
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| laws of realtion ships | 12/6/2008 |
Q: me and my gal have been dating for about 4 months and change Im 17 and in about 3 months Im going to ...
A: this is the second that came to me so the first one i got will be duplicate. i will just answer you ...
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| Need your help. | 12/4/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'm in an online relationship with a girl I ment through a video game. It was going very ...
A: .. From what you have written, i agree that you should just accept what has happened and move on. i ...
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| sounds imperfect but it feels perfect | 12/2/2008 |
Q: well um im 18 and i live in england and the guy that i that im in love with is 30 and lives in ...
A: ... i live in australia too and i know what its like trying to maintain a long distance ...
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| does he like me?? | 11/11/2008 |
Q: i met him on an online dating site. We have been chatting a couple of weeks now and i asked he would ...
A: ty for your email... i would say he talks that way with most girls. you both havnt known each other ...
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| Online Relationship | 11/9/2008 |
Q: the last person I asked on this website called my question a "homework question" and wouldn't ...
A: im sorry you got that response from the last person you asked this question too. long distance ...
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| To Find Love Online | 11/7/2008 |
Q: I am William and a boy of 14 yrs old and looking for a girlfriend Online. I have lot of female ...
A: .. its nice that you have lots of female friends. most girls of 12,13,14 are not ready for a ...
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| my online relationship. | 10/28/2008 |
Q: i have been seeing this guy since february this year but the problem is,while i'm in aust,he's all ...
A: i also live in australia and had an online relationship with a guy in the USA for six years before ...
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| Lost Love Found? | 8/21/2008 |
Q: I met this very nice lady named Christina on match.com. Initially, we chatted on yahoo messenger ...
A: being someone who can talk underwater, i dont find 10 hours strange at all, ive actually spoken to ...
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| Help me! im confused | 8/9/2008 |
Q: So okay, this is a pretty big thing but i will try to summaries it down.. This girl i only met a ...
A: its very easy for people to open up online to others then to talk to people face to face about ...
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| online boyfriends from overseas.. | 8/8/2008 |
Q: I met a really sweet and wonderful guy in a chat room about 2 months ago. We have talked for hours ...
A: .. welcome to the club manda,as amazing as it seems, online relationships can work but like offline ...
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| should i end it before we get too deep? | 8/3/2008 |
Q: I am a perfect straight A girl, beautiful, with great friends and a perfect life. I never thought ...
A: .. you are very sensible in your thinking and im sure you do know what you should do but you seem ...
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| Online vs. Real life | 8/1/2008 |
Q: There's two guys. One that I met online. And the other I met at work. Theres the online guy who I ...
A: .. i can see your delimma. you really have to weight up your options and be honest with both guys ...
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| Long distance relationship | 7/28/2008 |
Q: I'm going to explain first. When i was visiting my aunt i got bored one night and looked up a chat ...
A: firstly, i would never judge you by your age. before find out how old you were, i was impressed how ...
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| how can i make him back as a friend | 7/24/2008 |
Q: hey. i met a guy online we started as two and best friends. he was always there for me and i am for ...
A: . you have done the right thing. nobody should be forced to send or do anything that dont want to ...
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| hiii | 7/15/2008 |
Q: its so stressing sometimes that i cant see her just because of money i dont know what to do can you ...
A: .. i know the feeling of frustration in a long distance relationship. eventually you both want to ...
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| he's the one | 6/3/2008 |
Q: i'm happy to find a webite such as this for you to answers questions like this and i appreciate your ...
A: .. it does sound like your very happy and that is wonderful. there is every possibility that he is ...
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| me and my girlfriend are having problems | 5/30/2008 |
Q: hey, i have been talking to this lady for about 10 months, we have been having problems though. She ...
A: .. ten months is a long time and im sure you know her quite well. if your having the feelings that ...
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| in love online | 5/13/2008 |
Q: so there's this guy I've been talking to since September. He told me he was 20 yrs old and bisexual ...
A: i know some people dont reveal who they are straight away online because they are cautious which is ...
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| Space/angry but not? | 4/25/2008 |
Q: 3rd time X_X. My relationship with my online girlfriend has been fine for a while. Of course we've ...
A: i do know how you both feel as ive been through it myself. its very frustrating for both of you. ...
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| Is he busy, uninterested or just want to be friends? | 4/4/2008 |
Q: There is a guy whom i know in real life for many years. He's 8 yrs older than me and now pursuing ...
A: . from reading your post here, i feel that he just wants to remain friends with you right now. he ...
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| What is the hidden message that he is trying to send across? | 3/28/2008 |
Q: I have known LOVE for 10 years. LOVE is 26 yrs old while I'm 18 yrs old. Our dads are best ...
A: .. From what you have written, i get the sense he cares about you but as friends more then anything ...
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| met gf online | 3/23/2008 |
Q: i was contacted on facebook by this girl, i replied to her and we sent many messages on facebook.. ...
A: .. this doesnt surprise me at all. ive heard about this kind of situation before and its happened ...
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| What Do I do? | 3/4/2008 |
Q: Ok so I am 18 and I have been talking to this girl online for about a month. We really like each ...
A: . sorry you have had such a bad experience with this person, whoever they are. you have only known ...
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| online relationships | 2/20/2008 |
Q: Okay well, I have been talking to this guy for about almost 3 weeks. Almost instantly we clicked, we ...
A: as you have only been communicating for a very short time, you both still have a lot to learn about ...
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| Relationship Question | 2/18/2008 |
Q: ..I have a relationship question and I hope you can help me. I met an amazing guy online line 2 ...
A: .. i think your wise not giving out your real info upfront. though in saying that, i would of told ...
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| Can online relationship be genuine? | 2/12/2008 |
Q: I met a guy online who is of the same religion but from different culture and from the other side of ...
A: there is no test so to speak. its just through how you feel inside. if you feel he is being honest ...
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| Can online relationship be genuine? | 2/6/2008 |
Q: I met a guy online who is of the same religion but from different culture and from the other side of ...
A: sorry im a little late answering but had a few extra days of working this week and only just got ...
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| worth it? | 1/28/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 years old, and live in England. I feel that i have spent roughly two years speaking to ...
A: i think you are both doing the right thing at the moment. your wise is the fact that you know that ...
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| Online Relationship Question | 1/22/2008 |
Q: ..I have a relationship question and I hope you can help me. I met an amazing guy online line a ...
A: i dont think its too soon to meet. i would definitely get hotel rooms or you stay the apartment and ...
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| i have a guy i met online | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I'm 14 i met this guy online we became friends he gave me his e-mail and we have been e-mailing ...
A: please do not give out any personal information about yourself especially your phone number. i ...
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| Need Advice... | 12/1/2007 |
Q: Hey, so first things first is that I'm a lesbian, I'm 17 years old in my senior year of high school ...
A: i just want to start off by saying how wonderful it is that your and mum can talk about anything and ...
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| This this relationship worth it? | 11/15/2007 |
Q: I already asked several other experts earlier but they denied to answer my question because it was ...
A: sounds like to me that you expect more out of the relationship then he does. most guys dont like to ...
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| Online Relationship (3 years) | 11/6/2007 |
Q: Me and this girl have been talking online and been together for over 3 years. She is 3 years ...
A: you have certainly got off on the wrong foot with her parents which is making life difficult for you ...
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| meeting people online | 10/18/2007 |
Q: i have just split up with my long term boyfriend and i'm feeling quite lonley. i don't like meeting ...
A: ... im not an expert on dating sites online. i have never used them myself. you can chat with ...
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| Long distance relationship | 10/2/2007 |
Q: This is the first time I am sending a message for help from an expert, so I am not too sure how to ...
A: i can understand why she is apprehensive to meet with your parents again. she prob felt humiliated ...
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| Long distance relationship | 10/2/2007 |
Q: This is the first time I am sending a message for help from an expert, so I am not too sure how to ...
A: . this is a very complicated situation because you have your family to deal with as well as your ...
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| how do i tell my parents about my online bf? | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I have had an online bf in the past, and I have introduced him to my parents and explained to them ...
A: lots of people cant understand online or long distance relationships. some will never be convinced ...
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| Girlfriend still talks to ex | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I have a situation that has caused me some problems. I am 36 and have been dating "Lisa" for a year ...
A: this is a hard situation to be in. i dont understand it either, she has no children to him, so why ...
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| I Think my online BF is the one | 8/22/2007 |
Q: I Really love my online BF! The only Problem is that he lives states away from me..I love him and he ...
A: he brenna, thanks for your email. all you can do for now is keep communicating with him, which ...
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| my online relationship | 8/22/2007 |
Q: My name is Danielle, I live in New Hampshire and I'm 16 years old. I will be beginning 11th grade ...
A: .. i can tell you that what your going through is the same as anyone of any age going through the ...
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| gf is on vacation | 7/17/2007 |
Q: hey my gf is on vacation but she brought her laptop with her to keep in contact. she is up at palm ...
A: i think your doing all you can do. she is obviously missing you and chatting online isnt the same as ...
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| I love my online bf | 7/14/2007 |
Q: I love my onlinbe bf..but I think he is in love with another on line gf...Now he is back in my life, ...
A: this is tough. it really is a decision only you can make. if you really love him and trust him to ...
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| I feel lost... | 7/9/2007 |
Q: SORRY FOR THE LONG LETTER I'm a very shy person so i started chatting online because i thought it ...
A: im glad you took the plunge and told him how you felt. i know im giving you advice that i need to ...
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| I feel lost... | 7/6/2007 |
Q: SORRY FOR THE LONG LETTER I'm a very shy person so i started chatting online because i thought it ...
A: firstly, i dont mind long emails as i can understand the situation better and secondly, please dont ...
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| Is it over? | 7/2/2007 |
Q: Hey, I'm a good looking girl at 21 and I've started my message with (good looking) to clear the fact ...
A: from reading your post i get the feeling that he doesnt want to be committed to a relationship right ...
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| Feel Used and Cheated | 6/16/2007 |
Q: I feel really depressed right now so if i do write a long question I do apologies for that. I am an ...
A: i know how your heart feels. your mind says stay away but your heart says no keep trying. if you ...
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| Feel Used and Cheated | 6/15/2007 |
Q: I feel really depressed right now so if i do write a long question I do apologies for that. I am an ...
A: like i said in my other email to you, i think she is very confused and doesnt know what she wants. i ...
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| Feel Used and Cheated | 6/15/2007 |
Q: I feel really depressed right now so if i do write a long question I do apologies for that. I am an ...
A: i will try to help where i can with your questions. i felt sad reading your email as i know what ...
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| Very Important | 5/26/2007 |
Q: Its a long story. Heres the short version. This girl from England,18, came here in Feb and I like ...
A: i read your email a few times and i get the feeling she doesnt really feel for you the way you feel ...
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| very important | 5/22/2007 |
Q: Its a long story. Heres the short version. This girl from England,18, came here in Feb and I like ...
A: i know a little about myspace and seems to be a good place to get to know people just like you have ...
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| online chatting | 5/21/2007 |
Q: I feel that I am being used by this girl I met online. She is in the Philippines...I am in the ...
A: i will try to give you some positive advice on this matter. i always beleive in going with your ...
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| gifts and meeting each other | 4/19/2007 |
Q: HEY VANESSA! I HAVE AN ONLINE BOYFRIEND AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR AROUND 9 MONTHS. THIS KINDA ...
A: ty for emailing me. i firstly want to say how mature you are for 15. its great that you are being ...
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| Dating Questions | 4/8/2007 |
Q: I wrote to you before and I want to thank you for the advice on an age bracket for someone who is ...
A: some people find it easy to start a converstation and some find it harder. i always feel a good ice ...
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| Age | 4/2/2007 |
Q: my name is Mike. The question I have is I am going through an online dating site. I am 25 years old. ...
A: i would think the appropriate age group for you would be about 20 to 30. everyone is different, ...
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| I need someone else's opinion | 3/8/2007 |
Q: I was confused by your answer, and that could be because maybe my email was confusing. Or I didn't ...
A: sorry if i confused you with my answer but yes i was thinking it was an ex girlfriend that you ...
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| Stay or go? | 3/1/2007 |
Q: I met a young lady on a matrimonial website & we hit it off very well. She had a prior relationship ...
A: from reading your post, i dont think she knows quite what she wants yet in a relationship. its ...
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| guy online | 2/27/2007 |
Q: well i talk to this guy who i like very much online. I'd love to meet him but he says hes to nervous ...
A: nobody can expect you to wait around forever for this guy. making him jealous a little has also made ...
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| Confused | 2/3/2007 |
Q: Hey, Iv had this girlfriend online for near 5 months, and I recently broke up with her. I was fine ...
A: doesn't sound like your over her but im afraid she is over you and has moved on and so should you ...
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| Question. | 1/28/2007 |
Q: I'm currently in an online relationship with a wonderful guy. I've known him online for about a year ...
A: like i said in my last email, as hard as it will be for you to tell your parents, you know you have ...
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| Gifts..? | 1/28/2007 |
Q: I am in an online relationship and love the person whom it's with..Anyway, I was just wondering, ...
A: you can still be very romantic without having to cyber and i wouldnt expect that is something two ...
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| I screwed up | 1/11/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 years old, a 12th grader and I had an internet girlfriend of about 3 months, who lived in ...
A: .. you really have answered your own question. you should try to communicate with her and just be ...
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| Hes lying | 1/7/2007 |
Q: I started dating this guy online, and i recentley found out he was talking to other girls and ...
A: sorry this has happened to you but there are lot of guys and girls online that are just doing the ...
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| Is online chat really cheating? | 1/3/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. A very young relationship, but a serious ...
A: your not wrong to think this a form of cheating because it is. just because he hasnt touched them ...
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| dating question | 12/29/2006 |
Q: I have joint a few on line dating services in the past. I am having trouble getting someone’s ...
A: ive dont really have expertise as far as dating services go but i will try to help you with what i ...
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| I met him | 12/27/2006 |
Q: After only a couple of months of chatting, phoning, and U.S. mail, I flew out to meet him. He was ...
A: i actually believe you know what to do but you are afraid of taking those steps. you should not let ...
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| online dating | 12/19/2006 |
Q: I met a guy online. We started talking about everything about us. We also told each other about our ...
A: i think at two months into a relationship you are both still learning a lot about each other and the ...
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| Online romance | 11/21/2006 |
Q: Can i keep my bf online while we are miles away from each other
A: yes definitely you can keep your boyfriend even if he across the other side of the world. its not ...
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| What have i done right | 10/31/2006 |
Q: Just looking for some realistic and professional advice to my problem. If you can provide me with a ...
A: sorry ive taken so long to reply but my own partner has been sick and my full attention has been ...
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| Something Missing... | 10/16/2006 |
Q: I met this guy a few weeks ago, and we had the most amazing connection, we spent the whole night ...
A: nothing can replace actually spending time with someone and having done it twice, i can tell you ...
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| I cannot understand | 9/24/2006 |
Q: I have had an internet boyfriend for about 2 years. He told me that he loved me deeply. And I feel ...
A: i wish i had the answers to your questions. i know how your feeling as i went through a very ...
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| My girlfriend wont meet me | 9/22/2006 |
Q: hey i have been dating my online gf for almost 10months now, and we are deffinately in love and are ...
A: you dont say how old you both are but it seems as though you both are still in your late teens or ...
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| fustrated and need advice. LD online boyfriend | 8/27/2006 |
Q: Well I recently began dating (we both agreed to be bf/gf) a man I meet online about 4 months prior. ...
A: i know the frustration of time difference because i love in australia and my love lives in the USA. ...
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| how do you deal with the frustration???? | 7/8/2006 |
Q: .gawdd we hit it off straight away we have so mcuh in common its uncanny..lol i would go as far to ...
A: as im in the same boat as you, i know exactly how you are feeling. i wouldnt talk to him less, ...
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| Online Relationship | 7/3/2006 |
Q: I recently hooked up with an ex girlfriend of mine online. We basically are in love. But the ...
A: as far as handling the distance between the two of you, its never an easy problem. i know how much ...
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| Long Distance love | 6/30/2006 |
Q: Ok, me and this girl met on an MMORPS, we've been talking for a few months now but just now decided ...
A: after reading your email, i can tell you are a genuine caring person. i can understand her ...
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| an online relationship gone cold? | 6/26/2006 |
Q: i'm not really having an online relationship or even a long distance one! It just feels like it as ...
A: after reading what you wrote a few times, i sense that the emailing and flirting meant more to you ...
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| Reasonable Expectations? | 6/21/2006 |
Q: I have been by myself for about 6 years. I've hearled my heart/mind and ready for a committed ...
A: i can understand your concerns and i feel they are perfectly natural. when situations change in a ...
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| your answers suck | 6/6/2006 |
Q: your answers to online relationships are terrible. most of these people writing you are delusional. ...
A: your entitled to your opinion but dont down people who are asking for help or are offering some ...
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| Girlfriend still talks to her ex | 6/2/2006 |
Q: All, I have been dating a girl for over a year and we have talked about marriage. Her ex still ...
A: i can understand how you feel, but when you say ex, was she married to him?? does she have kids to ...
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| The Hook-up | 5/22/2006 |
Q: So I met this man online. Well I found him because I saw a show he was in a while ago and recently ...
A: ty for emailing me, it concerns me that he is even interested in someone as young as you are. ...
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| Lack of feedback on a money related issue | 2/9/2006 |
Q: Can you give me some guidance on the following? Well, I have been talking to someone online since ...
A: whether you meet her or not depends on how much you want to meet her. i do understand your ...
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| we broke up but i still worry and still love him | 1/24/2006 |
Q: I had been with my bf for over a year (i met him online through my other friend so ive never met him ...
A: sorry i havnt answer earlier but i never got notification of this being in my mail. i know you care ...
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| Questions | 1/1/2006 |
Q: I have a series of questions. So, please be patient with me. Here's the short scenario. I met ...
A: 1) Keep the lines of communication open, ring his parents and try to talk to them, send emails to ...
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| sweettalk | 11/18/2005 |
Q: but i dont know how. so how do you sweettalk. i can't think anything to comapera her eyes or hair ...
A: i shoul be back properly in a few days. all us girls like to be sweetalked. it makes us feel good ...
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| internet/long distance | 11/16/2005 |
Q: i am 18 yrs old and i live in orlando and i met this guy on facebook (site for college students) he ...
A: im not sure testing him out is the right way of finding out if he is being faithful or lying to you. ...
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| How can i clear my name | 11/10/2005 |
Q: wow i cant believed it u replied me that fast, anyway let me correct things i am not giving to ...
A: the one thing i forgot to remind you of is to change your yahoo password with your monaliza id, that ...
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| question | 11/4/2005 |
Q: I have a online-friend, we have been mailing each other from few months,wht shoud i do to take my ...
A: there are a few things you can do to help your relationship grow. you can instant message her on ...
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| Does she desire me? | 10/18/2005 |
Q: Well, let me tell you about this girl. She is wonderful, active, freespirited, and has a dont care ...
A: to me it seems like she may be interested in you, but to determine this you are going to have to try ...
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| Strengthening Lost love | 10/9/2005 |
Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ...
A: yes you are a passionate person, but you cant make somebody feel the same way about you as you do to ...
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| Strengthening Lost love | 10/9/2005 |
Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ...
A: you have said yourself that you have not had a lot of experience with girls. i think what your ...
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| relationship | 8/28/2005 |
Q: you´re right and i know that you are but this is something that i have dreamed so much about thats ...
A: im glad i could help you with my first email. nobody likes to be alone so i do understand. i ...
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| relationship | 8/27/2005 |
Q: i hope you can help me, or at least that your words can, i know someone who turned into the most ...
A: im assuming as you said he was going back to india that he is indian. i have many indian friends i ...
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| how can i get help | 7/14/2005 |
Q: i am living in uk for 2 years , my in laws is cruel with me, hhow can i get my job in e london and ...
A: ty for emailing me again. what is your nationality?? can you tell me why you are seperated and what ...
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| Is it possible that she is after cash only | 6/20/2005 |
Q: I just broke up with a lady from philippines because she was using me, and others guys for cash. ...
A: Tore Jordal ty for emailing me. i hate to say this too you tore, but i think she is with your for ...
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| basic information about chatting? | 6/17/2005 |
Q:
A: ty for emailing me. dont give out personal information too early in your chat. make sure your ...
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| Long distance problem | 6/16/2005 |
Q: I met my boyfriend three months ago through an internet chatroom on my cell phone. For the first ...
A: ty for emailing me. at this stage in your life, your studying is very important and im glad you are ...
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| i adore him,but... | 6/15/2005 |
Q: my story is that i loved a guy from the internet although i was rejecting the idea so much.. we have ...
A: ty for emailing me. you say you both love each other, but you still have feelings that you are not ...
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| Help! | 6/3/2005 |
Q: Yeah, I see your point. But do you think he's confused coz he's scared it won't turn out as it is ...
A: sorry im late replying but my computer was down for a few weeks. i think you are making the right ...
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| Help! | 6/1/2005 |
Q: this is not my first time asking for help here but am very confused now and I just want someone to ...
A: you are in a dilemma, i can see things from both sides of the situation. i agree love has no ...
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| Am I being a true friend? | 5/11/2005 |
Q: For the past 4 years I've had an internet relationship with a Marine. I met him in 2001 while he ...
A: i totally agree with you, you shouldnt be expected to want to hear about his latest adventures with ...
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| What do you think? | 5/4/2005 |
Q: I would really appreciate if you could help me/ give me your opinion. I'm a 20 year old girl. I met ...
A: sounds like you had a wonderful time with this boy, and im glad you both are putting our studies ...
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| phone call | 4/27/2005 |
Q: when you call a female on the phone for the first time and yall talk for 30 mins, my question is how ...
A: when you call her again depends on how well the first call went. i would try ringing her the day ...
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| Distance, love and friendships.. | 4/24/2005 |
Q: I'm going to Berlin in August for one year to carry out a placement. My friends will carry theirs in ...
A: i will be honest and upfront and tell you that keeping long distance relationships are hard. im ...
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| Love That Really Hurt.... | 3/26/2005 |
Q: One of the people here giving advice must have thought I was NUTS....LOL You are right,,he wanted ...
A: maybe he just wants to wait until she has the baby, some men are like that, he must have his ...
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| Love That Really Hurt.... | 3/25/2005 |
Q: "Hello I am Terry. About a year ago I met a man in Brighton England through a personals. I joined ...
A: after reading your post a few times and trying to work out timelines, why did you lose contact for ...
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| Odd Relationship Question | 3/21/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ...
A: firstly im glad you decided not to go and that you have blocked ims, emails and phone numbers. they ...
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| hi, well im falling in love... | 2/8/2005 |
Q: well im falling in love with this girl, i dont know why i feel this way because we live more than ...
A: firstly, love has no boundaries. im in australia and in love with a guy 10,000 miles apart and have ...
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| Perspective | 2/2/2005 |
Q: I have been seeing women since Aug 2004, we have had a very fulfilling and positive relationship up ...
A: im so sorry you are going through this dilemma. i do beleive that you care for this girl greatly but ...
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| Internet Love | 2/2/2005 |
Q: I been looking for love but can find. All i get are porn queens etc on messenger and other chat ...
A: There are many ways of finding someone on the internet and perhaps fall in love eventuallyl you ...
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| How do I go about seeing her? | 1/28/2005 |
Q: I've been talking to this girl since summer, right around when I broke up with my actual girlfriend ...
A: im not going to say 'your only 16' because i have a 17 year old son and i know the feelings you have ...
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| Finding the right website | 12/24/2004 |
Q: Some dating sites online are prohibitively expensive and/or either have an unbelievably small ...
A: im sorry that i cant answer your question and i have never visited online dating services, i only ...
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| online relationships, marriage | 12/11/2004 |
Q: I'm writing an article for my grad journalism class about couples who met online and later ended up ...
A: Ive read many articles myself on couples who have met online then married, but i also know of ...
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| Chemistry | 12/4/2004 |
Q: This is a sensitive issue, and it's one that's almost always overlooked even though it's one of the ...
A: and my answer as soon as i read was very easy. First off, i dont think there is a 'plain' ...
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| internet dating | 11/1/2004 |
Q: i am 30 , male in nigeria. i have made attaempts at internet dating but i have not been successful ...
A: have you tried any chat rooms dedicated to the area in which you live, or somewhere close by. chat ...
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| new online relationship | 10/28/2004 |
Q: I met Vic online about 2 weeks ago...we imediately hit if off, we have the same intrests and we have ...
A: i know exactly what your going through and im not suprised at how quickly you have develeoped ...
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| Dear Vanessaoz,
I met this... | 10/3/2004 |
Q: I met this guy online and I've been talking to him for a year already.I know everything about him,I ...
A: i do understand your situation and trust me i know you can fall in love online so i dont think you ...
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| How to greet once you decide to meet? | 10/1/2004 |
Q: I'm a male student in England, early twenties. I have arranged to meet this girl I met on the ...
A: yes a cafe or somewhere that has a lot of people is the best place to meet someone new. it will also ...
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| cheating | 9/13/2004 |
Q: me and my g/f have be going out for 9 months we talk online and on the phone i really really really ...
A: It really comes down to a matter of trust. trust is an important ingredient to any relationship. ...
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| I am hopeless. | 9/11/2004 |
Q: I use internet for more than 3 years, I am looking for a love and my last friend, but after these ...
A: Some do find love online, but you have to be careful as you have found out. It is very hard keeping ...
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