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My husband died and the funeral was held.  A few days later I found out that right after the ceremony another ceremony was held.
Is this allowed in orthodox Jewish law?  At the first ceremony we had shoveled dirt on top of the casket, which was placed in the ground.  Would it be kosher for another ceremony to be held after this?

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Hello,

First let me express my heartfelt condolences for your loss.

I need some clarification.

1) At the first ceremony, was the hole filled with earth?
2) What exactly did the second ceremony consist of?

May Hashem console you amongst the other mourners of Zion and Yerushalayim; may they know of no more sorrow.

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