Expert: Ovadiah ben Avraham - 5/19/2009

Question
Dear Rabbi,

I am currently taking Judaism classes online with a Rabbi. I love Judaism, every aspect of it and I know that I cannot undergo conversion because I am married to a Christian wife (who is extremely supportive of my choice to convert to Judaism).  I myself have renounced Christianity and believe only in the teachings of Judaism.

However, even If I cannot convert I want to abide by the Noahide laws with all my heart.  Would it be improper for me to go to synagogue?

I heard a rabbi once say (long ago)that I would be welcomed but that I shouldn't attend regularly because it is only a place for Jews to worship.  Is this correct?

If I abide by the Noahide laws, may I still keep Shabbat?

Answer
Sam,
It sounds as though you have given your decision a lot of thought. Based on your situation, I would agree that for shalom in the home becoming a noachide is your best option. I welcome you into the faith.

You may attend synagogue as often as you would like. Just make clear to the Rabbi and other officials that you are a righteous Gentile and there to worship G-d. Obviously, you may not accept aliyah or participate in the portions of the service reserved for Jews.

You may likewise keep Sabbath except that Rabbinical law requires that you break atleast one Sabbath commandment to distinguish yourself from the Jewish people who were given the Sabbath exclusively.

Again welcome and all the best. Shalom!