AboutBilal Sulehri Expertise I am a Pakistani and know all about my country. I can help you as a Travel guide as well as a political analyst. So please dont hesitate to ask any question
Experience Alot of reading done in regard to national politics
Expert: Bilal Sulehri Date: 8/22/2007 Subject: marrying a Pakistani
Question I am an American reverted Muslim, engaged to be married to a Pakistani man. This will be my second marriage, and my first husband I found was just looking for a Greencard, so to be sure this won't happen again, I am moving to Pakistan to be with my soon-to-be husband, after our wedding in February (inshallah). He keeps reassuring me he would never want a Greencard here, but also keeps telling me how miserable life is there. I know I will not have the same luxuries there, but can you please tell me what to really really expect when I go? I am also taking my 2 children there also, they are American Muslim children, and we plan to enroll them in school. I want to hear from someone neutral about what to expect and what not to expect there living in Pakistan. I know I can't go out to the market alone, and I know I have to wear the veil, and I know we won't have a car....but what else to expect?
Answer Assalam-o-alaikum sister
Your problem is really a serious one
Im sorry to say that, but I believe your husband still wants your green card. Most of tha Pakistanis love the prospect of going to USA. It would have been alot better if you had not told your husband that you are a Green Card holder.
I think you should make it dead sure by some-how cross checking if he wants or relishes an oppurtunity of settling in US.
Your life here in Pakistan will depend on the financial status of your husband. if he is financially sound, you will adjust soon, but if his finances are insecure you will be living a real hard life in Pakistan. Veil is not necesary here, you can even go to market alone, but it all depends on your husband.
Please email further details about your husband
I will be highly elated to help you
Im giving my contact details. You can even call me
