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Why would a mother allow her daughter to see her father if he does not pay child support? The mother knows that her daughter wants to spend more than 30 hours a week with her father and has a very good relationship with her father.


I can't tell you for sure why a specific mother would let her daughter see her father even though he's not paying child support, but I would surmise that she realizes the importance of her daughter having a connection with her father. Sure, he should pay his child support, but their daughter shouldn't suffer, especially since she has a good relationship with her father.

It sounds to me that Mom is being responsible and giving her daughter what she wants and needs, although Dad is unwilling or unable to support her financially. Yet, he does sound to be supporting her emotionally, which is good.  

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