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About James Windell
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I am a parent trainer, psychotherapist, and author specializing in parenting issues.During the past 40 years I`ve worked with parents with discipline problems and challenging children. I give frequent lectures and workshops related to discipline, social skills, and aggressive children. I consult with various agencies and schools where there are child behavior problems. I am listed in the American Psychological Associations` media panel as an expert on parenting and am frequently quoted in leading magazines and newspapers.

Experience
I have worked in a juvenile court as a clinical psychologist and as a psychotherapist in private practice. In the Oakland County (MI) Juvenile Court, I developed an award-winning parent training program for parents of adolescent delinquents. In addition I have done group therapy with adolescent delinquents using a social skills-building model. I have consulted with courts, schools, churches, preschools, and domestic violence shelters in areas of parenting.

I received my BA with a major in Psychology in 1963 from Wayne State University. I got my MA in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University in 1972.

I am a member of the American Psychological Association and the Michigan Psychological Association. I have written pamplets, newspaper articles, and professional journal articles. I have been the Coping With Kids columnist for the Oakland Press for 21 years, and my columns also appear weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been the author or co-author of 12 books. My books include, 8 WEEKS to A WELL-BEHAVED CHILD, CHILDREN WHO SAY NO WHEN YOU WANT THEM TO SAY YES, and 6 STEPS TO AN EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT TEENAGER. My latest parenting book is THE FATHERSTYLE ADVANTAGE. I have appeared on over 175 radio and TV shows related to my books and parenting. For more information about me, my books and columns, go to my website at Jameswindell.com

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Parenting --Teens - What does this tell you about a man he is 35 years old at the time of her birth?

Expert: James Windell - 11/5/2009

Question
What does this tell you about a man he is 35 years old at the time of her birth? He has a daughter with a girl that was 18 year old at the time of her birth. The only reason why he had sex with these women is because she was raised in a close nit family structure just like in Grease and Italy today. Her grand mother (mother’s mother) was born in Greece and her father was born in Italy. Her mother was also a submissive woman like her grand parents. The little girl lives with her mother and her grand parents and even speaks Italian (native speaker) grand father.

He knew that she would probably allow a good father to spend most of his free time with his daughter and will never ask for child support if she does not need welfare (which will probably never happen), because family court sucks. He was right after all and stays away from the 80 percent of Americans women that want child support when a relationship ends because family court and child support sucks in the USA.

He is a very good father to his daughter because his is good with children, spends allot of quality father daughter time every week and has a very good relationship with her. He even takes her out to eat, or go shopping at the mall to by her clothes.

Her mother and her grand parent told him that they rather have a father who pays no child support and spend most of his free time with her and is a good influence on her, than he father who pay child support and never spend time with her.

Answer
Hello,
It says that he probably enjoys being a father to his daughter. He likes the freedom he has. And as long as he doesn't have financial obligations, he will be kind and generous to his daughter.
His daughter's mother accepts this situation. So, I guess everyone is happy.
James

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