Parenting --Teens/Trade school

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Hi James,
My 15-year old daughter wants to go to trade school for cosmetology.  I would rather she graduate regular high school.  Would you know some pros and cons for attending trade school?
Thank you,
Randy


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Hello Randy,
I can tell you some pros and cons for trade school based on my experience. I'm not sure if there is any research to back up my observations and opinions.
The case for trade school:
 1. Often there are plenty of jobs available for young people who do well in a trade school. I think this is true in the field of cosmetology.
 2. The training they get in accredited, reputable trade schools is often outstanding.
 3. It is often easier for a teen to succeed in trade school because all the classes match their interest.
 4. Many times school districts operate their own trade schools (sometimes called vocational schools) and they encourage kids to continue to take regular education classes while taking vocational classes.
 5. Teachers in trade schools/vocational schools are people who have worked in the field and thus provide an excellent, hands-on education.
 6. The training is often rigorous and the school often helps students get a job in the field.

 The case against trade schools:
 1. If young people think it's easier to attend a trade school, they are often mistaken. The training can be difficult.
 2. If they don't do well in trade school, they are lacking a solid education to fall back on.
 3. By staying in regular education and getting a diplomma, they will have a greater level of education for their future employability.
 4. A person who leaves high school for a trade school may be lacking in some areas of education which could serve them well in the future -- no matter what trade or vocation they choose.
 5. What reasearch does show show is that, in general, the more education a person achieves the greater their life-time earnings.   

 I hope this helps to clarify some of the issues.
If you have further questions, please let me know.
Best to you and your daughter,
James Windell

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I am a parent trainer, psychotherapist, and author specializing in parenting issues.During the past 40 years I`ve worked with parents with discipline problems and challenging children. I give frequent lectures and workshops related to discipline, social skills, and aggressive children. I consult with various agencies and schools where there are child behavior problems. I am listed in the American Psychological Associations` media panel as an expert on parenting and am frequently quoted in leading magazines and newspapers.

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I have worked in a juvenile court as a clinical psychologist and as a psychotherapist in private practice. In the Oakland County (MI) Juvenile Court, I developed an award-winning parent training program for parents of adolescent delinquents. In addition I have done group therapy with adolescent delinquents using a social skills-building model. I have consulted with courts, schools, churches, preschools, and domestic violence shelters in areas of parenting.

I received my BA with a major in Psychology in 1963 from Wayne State University. I got my MA in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University in 1972.

I am a member of the American Psychological Association and the Michigan Psychological Association. I have written pamplets, newspaper articles, and professional journal articles. I have been the Coping With Kids columnist for the Oakland Press for 21 years, and my columns also appear weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been the author or co-author of 12 books. My books include, 8 WEEKS to A WELL-BEHAVED CHILD, CHILDREN WHO SAY NO WHEN YOU WANT THEM TO SAY YES, and 6 STEPS TO AN EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT TEENAGER. My latest parenting book is THE FATHERSTYLE ADVANTAGE. I have appeared on over 175 radio and TV shows related to my books and parenting. For more information about me, my books and columns, go to my website at Jameswindell.com

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