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About James Windell
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to normal child development, disturbed behavior and how to provide appropriate guidance and discipline.

Experience
I've been a clinical psychologist in a juvenile court, worked in school settings, been a child psychotherapist in a private psychiatric clinic and consulted with schools, courts, hospitals and daycare centers.

Organizations
American Psychological Association
Michigan Psychological Association

Publications
I have been a columnist with the Oakland Press (Oakland County, MI) for 21 years writing a weekly column called Coping With Kids, which is also published weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been a mental health columnist with the Detroit Free Press and a columnist for Working Mother Magazine. In addition, I have published articles in professional journals. I have published 12 books, among them are "8 Weeks to a Well-Behaved Child" (IDG Books), "Discipline: A Sourcebook of 50 Failsafe Techniques for Parents" (IDG Books); "Children Who Say No When You Want Them to Say Yes" (IDG Books), "What You Need to Know About Ritalin" (Bantam Books) and "6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers" (John Wiley & Sons). My latest two books, both published in 2006 are "The Fatherstyle Advantage" (Stewart, Tabori & Chang) and "Defusing High Conflict Divorce" (Impact Publishers). Articles about my work with parents has appeared in the New York Times, the Chicago Sun Times, the Detroit News and the Detroit Free Press. My website at Jameswindell.com includes more information about me, my books and includes many columns I've written.

Education/Credentials
B.A. in Psychology from Wayne State University
M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University

Awards and Honors
Best Educational Program by Juvenile and Family Court Judges Association (National award for the development of a parent training program for parents of delinquent teenagers. Beth Clark Service Award from the Michigan Psychological Association.

   

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throwing up son11/21/2009James Windell
  Q: i have 2 children aged 5 and 2 and have been a working mother for the last 3 months.since i started ...
  A: I think you are probably right; his throwing up is likely a reaction to being separated from you. I ...
4 year old boy answering adults back11/19/2009Holly Cihla
  Q: My 4 year old son has been attending his nursery for almost 1 year. He is generally well behaved ...
  A: Claudia- thank you for the question. There are many reasons why children display aggression and it ...
My 1 year old Ajani11/19/2009James Windell
  Q: My son Ajani finds it funny to slap, punch and pull people's hair including myself. My son is very ...
  A: This is very common behavior for one-year-olds. Why do they do this? Because it is fun! And they ...
2 year old doesn't want Daddy11/18/2009Melissa Payne
  Q: My husband and I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. We recently (3 weeks ago) lost a baby (at 26 ...
  A: First off, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can honestly say I know what you are going through. I lost ...
can a 2yr old be OCD?11/18/2009James Windell
  Q: My daughter will be three in march and for about a month now when she eats she touches her food once ...
  A: A young child could be OCD, but it is much too early to tell. The reason for this is that toddlers ...
3 yr old behavior11/17/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: Our 3 yr old grandson is from a divorced family. He lives out of town half of time with father and ...
  A: your letter shows frustration and anger and I can tell you feel immersed in a winless situation. I ...
11 1/2 month old baby crying at night.11/17/2009Melissa Payne
  Q: I have an 11 1/2 month old baby who ever since stoping breast feeding about 2 weeks ago and ...
  A: Could be the milk. How are her poops? Normal or constipated? Regular color or clay color? If those ...
4 year old boy11/17/2009James Windell
  Q: My wife %26 I are raising our 4 year old grandson, the reason is his mother like many haven't a clue ...
  A: Children are often confused and angry when they are removed from their parents. That's usually true ...
2 1/2: short attention span problem with connecting with child care staff11/13/2009Holly Cihla
  Q: My son is almost 2 1/2 and lives in a bilingual environment; one language at home and another in the ...
  A: Heidi- thank you for the question. There are certain situations that may draw out certain ...
Highly emotional five-year-old girl11/12/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: My five-year-old daughter is very bright, advanced in reading and math, and loves school, but she's ...
  A: I can't be sure what drives a sensitive temperament but I will offer my personal sense about it, ...
Defiante, disobidient out of control 4 and 2 year old11/12/2009James Windell
  Q: I have three boys ages 4, 2, and 1 month. Our problem lies with our 4 and 2 year old... They have ...
  A: It's not very comfortable for anyone -- including your two children -- when they are running the ...
Anger Management11/12/2009James Windell
  Q: I have a daughter who is 4 years old. I'm looking for some advice on showing her how to deal with ...
  A: Let's clear up some misconceptions first. One, there are no safe or healthy ways to release ...
Father in and out of childs life when to say enough is enough???11/12/2009James Windell
  Q: I am a divorced mother that has remarried and my daughter is 5 years old. Her father has been out of ...
  A: This is a difficult situation. It's almost a no-win situation for your daughter if her father ...
Cause for concern?11/10/2009James Windell
  Q: I kind of have a two-part question about my beloved 2-year old daughter. My daughter is our second ...
  A: It's a bit early for you to be concerned about a toddler having her own identity. However, having ...
co-sleeping11/10/2009Melissa Payne
  Q: My husband and I have two girls, a 4 yr. old and a 3 yr. old who throw major tantrums if my husband ...
  A: This is a hard situation to fix. Our girls are 4 and 5 and by morning, they are in bed with us, ...
Feeding11/10/2009Evelyn Petersen
  Q: My son is just over one year old and is a good eater. The thing that is bothering me is that he ...
  A: First I suggest that you go online and find some sites on foods and feeding of babies one year olds ...
3 year old behaviour problems11/10/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: I have a gorgeous son who was 3 in September. He is high spirited, energetic, and an early riser in ...
  A: I apologize for not getting right back to you. I think you are very perceptive in saying he knows ...
not responding when I call him11/9/2009James Windell
  Q: My son just turned 3. He is a bright boy who is very curious. He can communicate well. He is ...
  A: As a three-year-old, he is working on becoming more of an independent person. Which means that ...
out of state visitation of toddler11/8/2009James Windell
  Q: I moved out of state a few months ago and have a 2 yr old son. The father requested monthly over ...
  A: Children need consistent parenting. His father has a problem being consistent with parenting time. ...
separation anxiety11/8/2009James Windell
  Q: 5 old girl and she has been acting wired for since the time she started school 2years back. She is ...
  A: Many children seem to have great difficulty separating from their caregivers and parents. For these ...
Extremely difficult 3 year old11/8/2009James Windell
  Q: I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids ages 3 1/2 son and 9 year old daughter. I am having A LOT of ...
  A: Your little guy has certainly learned how to get all of your attention! But it's curious that none ...
Toddler not sleeping.11/7/2009Holly Cihla
  Q: I have 3 boys at the ages of 9,5 and 2. The first two are from my first marriage,and my 2 year old ...
  A: Denise- thank you for the question. The first thing I thought of is when you mentioned that he ...
2 1/2 yr old without pacifier11/7/2009M Kay Keller
  Q: I have a 2 1/2 yr old who only had his pacifier at nap and bedtime. He threw away the binkis one day ...
  A: My favorite question to parents is "How is this working for you?" Try a nuturing bedtime routine. ...
toddler defiance11/5/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: I have a daughter who will turn 3 in December. For most of the last year, she has been in a phase of ...
  A: Megan, I am happy to be of help to you. First, your physician insists you stop bottles and pacifies ...
anxiety in toddlers11/5/2009M Kay Keller
  Q: i am a mother of three and have come upon an unusual problem with my 15 month old son. When it was ...
  A: I never advise medication and not being a medical doctor would not interfere with what anyone else ...
toddler defiance11/4/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: I have a daughter who will turn 3 in December. For most of the last year, she has been in a phase of ...
  A: Oh glory, you have a intelligent little one! Like her mother, she is a problem solver. It sounds ...
Parenting -Toddler11/4/2009James Windell
  Q: am a single parent of a 2 1/2 yr old son, I lost my hubby before my son was born. My son is very ...
  A: It is difficult being a single parent. However, whether you are a single parent or not, raising a ...
18 month old11/3/2009James Windell
  Q: I have an 18 month old grandson whom I adore, but he's definitely a pincher and scratcher. He ...
  A: It's simple. He pinches and scratches because he's a toddler. Toddlers do all sorts of things (like ...
pinching 18 month old11/3/2009Evelyn Petersen
  Q: My grandson is 18 months old and is pinching and scratching other children in his daycare, and at ...
  A: This is definitely a problem and the daycare people should be addressing it. Perhaps they are not ...
toddler having a hard time with other children in the home11/3/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: I have a 22 month old son who is having some behavioral problems lately. I have run a small in home ...
  A: you really have your hands full and I sense your concern for your son and the upcoming transition ...
bedtime battle11/3/2009M Kay Keller
  Q: My wife and are in disagreement with how to put are 2 year old to sleep. I believe he should go to ...
  A: I raised two boys and a daughter myself. My sons are now 31 and 25 and I can assure you I do not go ...
My son only wants his dad11/2/2009M Kay Keller
  Q: I have a little boy who is 23 months old. I first started working part time when he was six months ...
  A: First of all let's seperate these two issues. There is the issue of your son showing preference for ...
Unhappy Son11/2/2009Evelyn Petersen
  Q: I have an 11 month old son who is a handful! He was born screaming, and known at the hospital as the ...
  A: I feel so sorry for you....this is unusual. I think you need to take him to another doctor for a ...
child behavior changes11/2/2009James Windell
  Q: i recently became engaged and have let my fiance move in with my almost 4 year old twin sons, with ...
  A: There's always a danger if you introduce your children to a new person that that person may not be ...
establish and maintain professional relationships11/2/2009James Windell
  Q: Please, how to establish and maintain professional relationships and effective communication with ...
  A: Here are my suggestions: Task 1: Establish positive relationships with family members Here are some ...
4year old boys aggression11/2/2009James Windell
  Q: Our 3rd child a 4 year old boy is so volatile, his moods change so quickly, one minute he is loving, ...
  A: Your son may have a temperament that disposes him to cross moods. Or it could be that he is a boy ...
bathroom behavior11/2/2009Elizabeth Norris
  Q: we have 3 and 4 year old sons which both recently started preschool. we have just noticed the 3 year ...
  A: this is a head scratcher for sure. The short of it is, get eye to eye with him, tell him you know ...
frequent urination11/1/2009M Kay Keller
  Q: i wanted to know why my child who is successfully pottie trained is now urinating so frequently. She ...
  A: There isn't much information here. She maybe regressing as something in her daily routine has ...
receptive language delay in a 2 yr old11/1/2009James Windell
  Q: My daughter is 24 months old, and she is a twin. She is behind in both her receptive and expressive ...
  A: Your daughter is only 24 months old. That is too young to do a speech evaluation, except to make ...
Planning observations of Michelle10/31/2009James Windell
  Q: Can you please tell me, about planning for Michelle, I plan to help her...] Planning for Michelle ...
  A: If you observe any problem areas or learn about any problem areas from her parents, then perhaps ...

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