Parenting--Toddlers/Infants/Pre-Schoolers/new fear of dogs


My daughter has suddenly become very afraid of our family dogs. She is 19 months old now, but the behavior started right around her 1st birthday. I thought that it would pass, but she does not really seem to be becoming more comfortable with them. She used to sit next to them, pet them, and play without needing someone to be right there with her. Now, however, whenever they are around she cries until someone picks her up. She will pet them, if she is being held, but if they try to lick her, she freaks out. She has never had a bad experience with them, they have never even growled at her. How can I help her get over this fear?

Hi Beverly,

I want to be 100% honest with you. I am not an expert in toddler fears. I focus on discipline, success, raising happy children, and more.

But, I am a father of two girls and we do have pets. I am wondering, how big are your dogs? Do you remember if your daughter has been exposed to any stories, movies, or TV shows where there has been an aggressive dog or even an animal that she might associate with a dog that could be scary?  


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I can answer questions about raising happy, successful toddlers (not babies or infants...sorry). The two are synonymous. I would love to help you help your child find his passion or strength, how to encourage your child and give her opportunities, and discuss the importance of failure, perseverance, and resilience. If you have questions about how to get your child to believe in herself or how to parent versus being her friend, I can help. I can answer questions about how to model the right behaviors for your child, and what those behaviors might be for your specific situation. I also can help you deal with excuses: excuses you may be making for your child as well as excuses he is making for himself.


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