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About James Windell
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to normal child development, disturbed behavior and how to provide appropriate guidance and discipline.

Experience
I've been a clinical psychologist in a juvenile court, worked in school settings, been a child psychotherapist in a private psychiatric clinic and consulted with schools, courts, hospitals and daycare centers.

Organizations
American Psychological Association
Michigan Psychological Association

Publications
I have been a columnist with the Oakland Press (Oakland County, MI) for 21 years writing a weekly column called Coping With Kids, which is also published weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been a mental health columnist with the Detroit Free Press and a columnist for Working Mother Magazine. In addition, I have published articles in professional journals. I have published 12 books, among them are "8 Weeks to a Well-Behaved Child" (IDG Books), "Discipline: A Sourcebook of 50 Failsafe Techniques for Parents" (IDG Books); "Children Who Say No When You Want Them to Say Yes" (IDG Books), "What You Need to Know About Ritalin" (Bantam Books) and "6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers" (John Wiley & Sons). My latest two books, both published in 2006 are "The Fatherstyle Advantage" (Stewart, Tabori & Chang) and "Defusing High Conflict Divorce" (Impact Publishers). Articles about my work with parents has appeared in the New York Times, the Chicago Sun Times, the Detroit News and the Detroit Free Press. My website at Jameswindell.com includes more information about me, my books and includes many columns I've written.

Education/Credentials
B.A. in Psychology from Wayne State University
M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University

Awards and Honors
Best Educational Program by Juvenile and Family Court Judges Association (National award for the development of a parent training program for parents of delinquent teenagers. Beth Clark Service Award from the Michigan Psychological Association.

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  James Windell 
In Category  Parenting--Toddlers/Infants/Pre-Schoolers

SubjectDate Asked

consistently wetting underwear at age 411/10/2007
  Q: We potty trained our daughter (and her twin brother) at age three. After about 6-8 months, there ...
  A: I applaud your consistency in trying different approaches and sticking with them a sufficient length ...
3 1/2 year old behavior11/7/2007
  Q: I am a father of two kids, a 3 1/2 year old girl and a six month old boy. I have been married for ...
  A: Your daughter's behavior may be a reaction to having a baby brother. Or it can be just a delayed ...
Sleep11/5/2007
  Q: My 7 month old will not go to bed after his bottle at night. He drinks his bottle I lay him down; ...
  A: You recognize that children need bedtime routines in order to fall asleep and sleep soundly. But I ...
daughter's behaviour11/2/2007
  Q: I have 22mo old daughter. I'm currently full time at school. 5 days a week.8:30-4pm. My daughter is ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about all of the stress you're experiencing that affects both you and your ...
3 year old behavior10/28/2007
  Q: When my daughter was 12 weeks pregnant her boyfriend left her and I gave her all the support I could ...
  A: There are various reasons for children to be upset about visits with a noncustodial parent. Just ...
Question about food and my 4 year old10/27/2007
  Q: I'm trying to figure out an answer because this is making me nuts. My son is not a good eater. I'v ...
  A: You're absolutely right. Many young children between two and five are not "good eaters." Usually, ...
Mother 38 y/o + Daughter 3 y/o = Trama10/27/2007
  Q: Dr. Windell, My wife and I have a 3 y/o daughter. Until the last few months she was literally a ...
  A: When tantrums are happening with only one parent, it generally means that either one parent is ...
8 month old that grabs and hits10/23/2007
  Q: I'm a mother of three and I can't remember if my other girls did this. My 8 month old is very ...
  A: As children develop some motor skills, they do exactly what you're describing. At six and seven ...
anxiety tantrums after new baby10/21/2007
  Q: Good afternoon, Six weeks ago, we brought home a second child. My 2-year-old son has reacted quite ...
  A: He's sleeping more? That's great. What a relief for you!:) As for the tantrums in the car, I think ...
son10/20/2007
  Q: Why does my 2 year old son still wake up in the middle of the night and cry?
  A: Night-time awakenings are fairly common in infancy and the toddler years. However, you need to give ...
Sleep Problem for toddler10/18/2007
  Q: my son is 22 months old, and had been a joy to raise. Always very happy/cheerful and a great ...
  A: Many children gradually stop taking naps in the toddler and preschool years. Some of them (even ...
strong willed toddler10/17/2007
  Q: I have a 22mo old granddaughter i have 4days a wk. I had her the 1st 6mo of her life and then 3 to 5 ...
  A: There are many strong-willed toddlers. And there are young children who show strong wills who will ...
4 year old sleep problem10/17/2007
  Q: I hope it's okay to ask this question to two of you. I have a 4 year old daughter and 2 year old ...
  A: These are not unusual problems. Of course, after a separation of parents, it is probably not the ...
4 year old and low loft bed10/15/2007
  Q: My husband and I are discussing purchasing a low loft bed for our 4 year old son. This bed will be ...
  A: Here are some steps for helping children sleep in their own room and their own bed. It is a proven ...
how to aproach my toddler with the break-up?10/14/2007
  Q: I am a mother of a 3yr girl and 4yr old boy I have been living with my boy friend for the past 2yrs ...
  A: You should tell them one to two weeks before he leaves. The two of you should talk to them at the ...
4 yr old son who has a baby doll10/10/2007
  Q: My son is 4 years old and has a doll that he has named Ellie. He is the baby of the family and ...
  A: I certainly do not share your in-laws' concerns. What kind of problems are going to appear in the ...
Holding mom's hair at night10/10/2007
  Q: I have a son who will be 4 in December. He cannot go to sleep at night time unless he is running ...
  A: First of all, he should be sleeping by himself. Second, tell him it hurts you when he pulls on your ...
4 year old and low loft bed10/10/2007
  Q: My husband and I are discussing purchasing a low loft bed for our 4 year old son. This bed will be ...
  A: I understand the space problem and the need to conserve the space. However, what assurance do you ...
4 year old10/10/2007
  Q: I am raising my 4 year old granddaughter, and she was born with gastroschisis, and has a large scar ...
  A: Children don't like to be different. Other children, recognizing a difference, will bluntly ask ...
ocd specialists, Rochester area10/9/2007
  Q: I have been seeking treatment for our 10 year old with OCD and am looking for a skilled therapist in ...
  A: I would suggest Bela Chopp, Ph.d. (she's at the Oakland University Counseling Center) or you might ...
pre-schooler vs. priviate areas10/8/2007
  Q: I am having some major issues with my 4 year old son. Within the past week he has been touching ...
  A: There are many childhood behaviors which frighten us parents. And we all tend to do what you are ...
Extremely whingy 17 month old boy10/8/2007
  Q: I have a daughter of 4 years and a 17 month old son who from birth has constantly been really ...
  A: Some children are somewhat more whiney, but your son is still very young. And despite his ...
Irrational Movie Fear10/8/2007
  Q: My 4 1/2 year old has attended the same daycare/preschool most of his childhood with no real ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear that your son developed fears from watching movies at school. I happen to believe ...
ocd specialists, Rochester area10/8/2007
  Q: I have been seeking treatment for our 10 year old with OCD and am looking for a skilled therapist in ...
  A: I have two names of psychiatrists with very good reputations: Dr. Jeffrey London (in the Birmingham ...
My 8 year old is peeing in his room10/7/2007
  Q: I just read a question that was asked by another parent that is similar to my situation. My son is 8 ...
  A: Obviously, no matter what the previous counselor said, he is not fine. Something is bothering him. ...
son peeing in house10/6/2007
  Q: Last night I woke up at two thirty in the morning to find my almost six year old son peeing in the ...
  A: I'm sure you are everything you said you are, including irritated and frustrated. But who said ...
Hello10/5/2007
  Q: I have a daughter that is 6 and in 1st grade. We have caught her peeing around the house. First ...
  A: This is particularly unusual for a girl. But whenever any child of five or six or older begins ...
tip toe walking10/1/2007
  Q: my daughter is 20 month old ,she toe walks at least 2x a day that i observed. is this related to her ...
  A: I'm glad to hear you consider your daughter normal, happy and pleasant. Tip toe walking may not be ...
OCD in a 4yr old9/30/2007
  Q: I understand that there's nothing you can do re:OCD in small children & I don't want him on Meds; ...
  A: Are you able to talk to him after he's had a meltdown? Does he see the connection between wanting ...
Unmanageable 3 year old behavior9/30/2007
  Q: I have triplet girls who are 3 years and 4 MOS old. They were all born very healthy and are where ...
  A: Sorry to hear about the stress of raising one of your triplets. What you have told me suggests what ...
5 month old baby not sleeping through the night9/30/2007
  Q: He sleeps by 8:00 PM then wakes up at 12:00 AM, 2:00 AM then wakes up at 5:00 AM then doesn't ...
  A: It's every parent's goal to have a baby who sleeps through the night. But many don't. Often it's ...
2 Year old boy9/28/2007
  Q: I am the proud father of a seemingly brilliant little guy. He is 2.3 years old, and appears to be ...
  A: It sounds like you have a curious, bright, normal toddler. He is advanced in intellectual ways for ...
Fear of loud noises9/25/2007
  Q: My son has been frightened by an F1-11 fighter plain which fly over our city during special ...
  A: You didn't tell me how old your son is, but I would guess he is two or three years old. Many ...
Four year Old-Over Active/Eating,No Sleep, No Apologies9/24/2007
  Q: Our son turned four this month. We have 3 other children ages 10-16. He has been quite a strange ...
  A: Mother knows best! But I'm not ready to say he is abnormal. The average range is so very wide that ...
sensitive strong-willed toddler9/23/2007
  Q: I have an almost 3 yr old boy who is an only child. He is an extremely sweet and sensitive child ...
  A: My guess is that your son has a combination of temperamental traits that predispose him to be ...
fearfull two year old9/22/2007
  Q: I have a question about my two year old nephew, who I'm in close contact with. I'm concerned about ...
  A: This sounds like a boy who is a little more sensitive to sounds and startles (as you point out) ...
4 1/2 year old Misbehaving at School9/21/2007
  Q: My son is a great kid however last year he was in Pre K3 with 5 kids in the class and this year he ...
  A: It sounds like your son is active and maybe a bit impulsive. But many 4-year-olds have the same ...
emotional pre-schooler9/21/2007
  Q: My daughter, who will be 5 in a couple of months is extremely emotional. At first, I thought it was ...
  A: I've seen many young children who wear their hearts on their sleeves. But I've seen many sensitive, ...
school age child bm's in pants9/19/2007
  Q: I have a 7 year old boy who either does not make it to the bathroom in time or can't wipe properly ...
  A: I would suggest to start with a physical exam from a pediatrician. Talk to a pediatrician to make ...
My 4 month old hates me9/17/2007
  Q: I'm a first time mom and am convinced my 4 month old son hates me. My husband and I work part-time ...
  A: Obviously you are a loving, caring mother. And you're doing so many things so well. As a result of ...


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