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About James Windell
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to normal child development, disturbed behavior and how to provide appropriate guidance and discipline.

Experience
I've been a clinical psychologist in a juvenile court, worked in school settings, been a child psychotherapist in a private psychiatric clinic and consulted with schools, courts, hospitals and daycare centers.

Organizations
American Psychological Association
Michigan Psychological Association

Publications
I have been a columnist with the Oakland Press (Oakland County, MI) for 21 years writing a weekly column called Coping With Kids, which is also published weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been a mental health columnist with the Detroit Free Press and a columnist for Working Mother Magazine. In addition, I have published articles in professional journals. I have published 12 books, among them are "8 Weeks to a Well-Behaved Child" (IDG Books), "Discipline: A Sourcebook of 50 Failsafe Techniques for Parents" (IDG Books); "Children Who Say No When You Want Them to Say Yes" (IDG Books), "What You Need to Know About Ritalin" (Bantam Books) and "6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers" (John Wiley & Sons). My latest two books, both published in 2006 are "The Fatherstyle Advantage" (Stewart, Tabori & Chang) and "Defusing High Conflict Divorce" (Impact Publishers). Articles about my work with parents has appeared in the New York Times, the Chicago Sun Times, the Detroit News and the Detroit Free Press. My website at Jameswindell.com includes more information about me, my books and includes many columns I've written.

Education/Credentials
B.A. in Psychology from Wayne State University
M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University

Awards and Honors
Best Educational Program by Juvenile and Family Court Judges Association (National award for the development of a parent training program for parents of delinquent teenagers. Beth Clark Service Award from the Michigan Psychological Association.

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  James Windell 
In Category  Parenting--Toddlers/Infants/Pre-Schoolers

SubjectDate Asked

agressive/repititive behaviour8/14/2007
  Q: MY son is unusually agressive with three kids at school, this started about two months ago, he is ...
  A: So a doctor made a diagnosis of a serious developmental disorder without examining your child, ...
19 month old son8/13/2007
  Q: I am a little concerned about my son who is 19 months old. He says things like mum dad sister, ball, ...
  A: We guys are slow learners when it comes to language! My son didn't speak until he was four (he's in ...
sleep needed for 2-3 yr olds8/13/2007
  Q: I have a 3-1/2 yr old son and a 2-1/2 old daughter. It seems like with my son, whether he goes to ...
  A: A one-year-old child needs about 14 hours of sleep per day. By age three, this is down to about 12 ...
Toilet Training8/13/2007
  Q: My 4 yr old is wee wee trained during the day, and I am in no hurry to have dry nights. My problem ...
  A: Let me ask a few questions: 1. Does he wear diapers at night? 2. If he does, are his diapers ...
3 month old in foster care8/10/2007
  Q: Our 42 year old, unmarried, bipolar daughter was not allowed to take her newborn home from the ...
  A: Being in foster homes generally does nothing really great for infants, but sometimes courts have no ...
my 2yr old wont sleep right through8/7/2007
  Q: i have a 2 yr old who wakes up several times through the night and wont go to sleep unless someone ...
  A: You haven't given me quite enough information. However, let me make some general comments about how ...
sleeping routine 22mo old8/6/2007
  Q: My name is Julie and my 22 mo old daughter is Chelsea. Chelsea is in the process of learning to ...
  A: Well, yes, it is sort of a mixed signal to let her come in your bed at 3:00 a.m. I don't think ...
toilet trouble8/5/2007
  Q: for the past year she has had problems having a poo, but for the last 4 months or so she is trying ...
  A: This is a fairly common problem. Many young children become fearful at some aspect of toileting and ...
imaginary lion causing fears8/4/2007
  Q: I have a 2 year old son, Ben. He is very well developed orally and talks a lot. A couple of weeks ...
  A: We don't know a great deal about children's imaginary pets and imaginary friends. We do know many ...
7 month old daughter8/4/2007
  Q: My daughter has been a very laid back, passive, happy child until recently. I even took her to the ...
  A: Since your baby had a fairly tranquil first six months, we can assume she is not a fussy baby. And ...
why is my three year old scared of fluff?8/1/2007
  Q: i hope you can help. my daughter is nearly three and for the past six months, she has had a kind of ...
  A: Toddlers and preschoolers frequently go through phases when they, for various inexplicable reasons, ...
19 month old son8/1/2007
  Q: I am a little concerned about my son who is 19 months old. He says things like mum dad sister, ball, ...
  A: There's no reason to believe your son is autistic. However, I'd like to know more about how he ...
My 2 1/2 year old daughter7/31/2007
  Q: My daughter will not play at daycare. She refuses to interact with the other kids. She sits on the ...
  A: I don't know that you can do anything, perhaps aside from placing her in another daycare in which ...
aggressive bx, fear,7/30/2007
  Q: My 31/2 yr old has in the last 3 weeks started to increase his aggression towards his classmates. ...
  A: It is not uncommon for preschool children to go through phases when they develop fears. Usual fears ...
4 year old exhibiting sexual behavior7/30/2007
  Q: I have a 4 year old who has recently started exhibiting some sexual behavior. He's been completely ...
  A: There is a wide variety of sexual behaviors that are normal. What you're describing is normal. This ...
2 year toddler humping7/28/2007
  Q: My 2 yr old daughter has started humping almost everything over the last few months, it is becoming ...
  A: Toddlers and preschoolers often engage in masturbatory behavior. It becomes habit-forming and ...
potty training7/27/2007
  Q: I have a 3 year old boy. He was doing great with peeing and pooping in the potty until recently. It ...
  A: Okay, you have my prayers. But even more important (maybe!) is what I think you should do. First, I ...
Two and a half year old granddaughter7/26/2007
  Q: My daughter, (mom), and my granddaughter have lived with me for two and a half years. I was doing ...
  A: I don't know of any particular books that would be helpful, but I'll bet if you went to the ...
Potty Training an Adoptive Child7/25/2007
  Q: My son turned 5 in March. He joined our family 4 years ago, as a foster child from a neglectful ...
  A: Nice to hear from someone from Michigan. You are special adopting a child who was neglected. There ...
Weight & Swearing7/24/2007
  Q: I have 2 questions....unrelated to each other. The first is in regard to weight. My daughter is 27 ...
  A: It is not uncommon for toddlers to become picky eaters or to be less interested in food. That ...
3 year old behaver problem7/24/2007
  Q: i have a 3 year old daughter and she doesn't listen to me. when i tell her not to do something she ...
  A: If she continues to do this, then put her back in diapers. Tell her something like, "I can't hear ...
Two year old biting daycare teacher7/23/2007
  Q: My son will be turning two this Saturday. He has been biting his daycare teachers. He usually ...
  A: He's doing this because he is a two-year-old toddler and this is how toddlers often try to interact ...
9&1/2 mths does not say mama or dada7/19/2007
  Q: My daughter is 9.5 months old and she crawling, babbling and doing everything a 9.5month infant ...
  A: Do not get impatient with your daughter. You're making a good point about her "real" age. If you ...
3 year old behaver problem7/18/2007
  Q: i have a 3 year old daughter and she doesn't listen to me. when i tell her not to do something she ...
  A: Actually, the behavior you see in your daughter is not so different from the behavior many toddlers ...
My 2 year old son listens to everyone except my mother and me!7/15/2007
  Q: My son will not listen to anything I ask him to do, or tell him to do. He will either ignore me and ...
  A: Please don't tear your hair out! I'm sure that would not be very attractive. Let me reassure you ...
3.4year old seperation anxiety7/12/2007
  Q: My daughter is 3.4 years old and has always had a problem separating. We lived in England until 10 ...
  A: Yes, there is normal separation problem of toddlers and then there are problems of transition that ...
4 yr old son purposely urinating on bed7/11/2007
  Q: My four year old son urinated on his bed on purpose today while in a time out for pushing one of his ...
  A: There is almost no particular behavior that in and of itself is an unfailing test of a serious ...
squealing baby7/10/2007
  Q: My son is 9 1/2 months and has a really high pitched squeal. It started when he was about 6 months ...
  A: You thought it was cute before, so he got lots of reinforcenment for squealing. Now, you may be ...
Waking up at night..bad dreams?7/10/2007
  Q: My 2 1/2 year old little girl goes to bed between 8:30 and 9 pm and wakes up on the dot at 6 am ...
  A: You're very lucky that you have a toddler who has such great sleep habits. Her night-time crying ...
toddler speech and understanding7/9/2007
  Q: When should my toddler be able to answer questions? He tells me NO when he does not want something, ...
  A: There are guidelines about when children should be using words and sentences, but there are no hard ...
Potting training7/6/2007
  Q: My son will be 4 in December. He has been toilet trained for a long time..urination only. He WILL ...
  A: Many children who are three and and three-and-a-half-years of age, still have difficulties with ...
my two year old son7/5/2007
  Q: Yes please. My son is 30 months old now. Just a brief background, at 8 months old he was not ...
  A: You sound like you have a very smart and basically wonderful child. And he sounds like a typical ...
death of a great grandmother7/4/2007
  Q: My 2 1/2year old granddaughter's great grandmother just died. She will be attending the funeral ...
  A: You give a child the kind of explanation she can understand. A two-year-old has limited verbal ...
3 yr old behaivor7/3/2007
  Q: Our only child is three yrs old and lately she has been hitting and telling us, "I don't like you or ...
  A: Accept this as normal and expected toddler behavior. Three year olds hit and they say mean words. ...
Agressive/Sensitive 3 year old7/2/2007
  Q: James, I have a few concerns regarding my amazing son Jack. Today he was expelled from his summer ...
  A: Am I familiar with this kind of behavior from two and three-year-olds? Yes, because almost ...
3 3/4 yr. old son's rejection behaviors7/2/2007
  Q: We have twin sons who will be 4 in October. They attend preschool happily, use the toilet well, ...
  A: Since your son doesn't apparently act this way in preschool, or maybe when he's not around parents, ...
3 year old bedtime battle7/2/2007
  Q: I am a single parent and have a 3.8 year old son. He is a pleasure most of the time but going to ...
  A: This is all quite normal. I think most of us parents have dealt with at least one child who wanted ...
13 month old not wanting to go to sleep7/1/2007
  Q: I have a 13 month old boy out of wedlock. I personally believe his mother is over-coping for his ...
  A: Children typically sleep less as they go into the toddler stage (ages 12 months to 36 months). ...
Two Yr. Old6/27/2007
  Q: My situation is very similiar to Denise's but my 2 year old does not play with or threaten anyone ...
  A: As I 've written to other parents, aggressive behavior in toddlers is not at all unusual. However, ...
5 Year Old Exerting Troubling Behavior6/27/2007
  Q: My wife and I are extremely concerned about our soon to be 5 year old's behavior. My daughter is ...
  A: Although many children show uncooperative behavior during the toddler years, some wait until four, ...


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