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About James Windell
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to normal child development, disturbed behavior and how to provide appropriate guidance and discipline.

Experience
I've been a clinical psychologist in a juvenile court, worked in school settings, been a child psychotherapist in a private psychiatric clinic and consulted with schools, courts, hospitals and daycare centers.

Organizations
American Psychological Association
Michigan Psychological Association

Publications
I have been a columnist with the Oakland Press (Oakland County, MI) for 21 years writing a weekly column called Coping With Kids, which is also published weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been a mental health columnist with the Detroit Free Press and a columnist for Working Mother Magazine. In addition, I have published articles in professional journals. I have published 12 books, among them are "8 Weeks to a Well-Behaved Child" (IDG Books), "Discipline: A Sourcebook of 50 Failsafe Techniques for Parents" (IDG Books); "Children Who Say No When You Want Them to Say Yes" (IDG Books), "What You Need to Know About Ritalin" (Bantam Books) and "6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers" (John Wiley & Sons). My latest two books, both published in 2006 are "The Fatherstyle Advantage" (Stewart, Tabori & Chang) and "Defusing High Conflict Divorce" (Impact Publishers). Articles about my work with parents has appeared in the New York Times, the Chicago Sun Times, the Detroit News and the Detroit Free Press. My website at Jameswindell.com includes more information about me, my books and includes many columns I've written.

Education/Credentials
B.A. in Psychology from Wayne State University
M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University

Awards and Honors
Best Educational Program by Juvenile and Family Court Judges Association (National award for the development of a parent training program for parents of delinquent teenagers. Beth Clark Service Award from the Michigan Psychological Association.

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  James Windell 
In Category  Parenting--Toddlers/Infants/Pre-Schoolers

SubjectDate Asked

Urination on floors5/15/2007
  Q: I have a 7 year old son, last year about this time, we discovered he was urinating on the floor in ...
  A: A seven-year-old who urinates in the house is clearly upset, maybe angry. It is an indicator that ...
My kids are urinating in my house!5/15/2007
  Q: I am a bit at the "end of my rope" with this. I have a 2 year old and 3 and a half year old. Both ...
  A: Yes, this is frustrating. But don't dispair. There could be psychological/emotional reasons for ...
2 year old peeing on bed while awake5/11/2007
  Q: My 2 year old son is peeing on his pillow and his crib now bed when I put hime in for a nap awake. ...
  A: I need more information before I can give you any suggestions. Does he only urinate in his bed ...
Teaching a young kid to learn to speak5/6/2007
  Q: How can I teach my young kid or toddler to learn to speak? What are the things or ways I should do, ...
  A: The best ways to help young children learn to speak are to do the following things: 1. Read stories ...
lock doors during party?5/2/2007
  Q: I am throwing a party at my house and a few people will be putting there kids to bed upstairs in my ...
  A: I assume the reason for locking the doors is to make sure the children are safe during the night, ...
4 year old crying5/1/2007
  Q: My daughter was 4 years old in late November. She has been crying for every day of 3 year old ...
  A: Your daughter is a more sensitive and easily upset child. She doesn't separate easily and is more ...
Toddler Crying at Night5/1/2007
  Q: I am concerned about my boyfriend's little 20-month-old daughter, as she has recently been awaking ...
  A: I know this is worrisome, but most of the time, night-time awakenings are just a blip in a toddler's ...
Toddler unable to chew4/30/2007
  Q: I have a 19 month old boy. We have struggled with feeding from birth with breastfeeding and then ...
  A: I haven't particularly seen this exact type of situation. Again, I would suggest you see a speech ...
Toddler unable to chew4/29/2007
  Q: I have a 19 month old boy. We have struggled with feeding from birth with breastfeeding and then ...
  A: I'm not sure what you are asking. However, based on this short description, you do have a lot of ...
Preschool sexual behavior4/27/2007
  Q: I have a almost 5 year old hyper/kind of out of control son.In the past year he has developed what I ...
  A: I understand you are concerned about your son. His behavior MAY fall within the normal range of ...
3 yr old repetition while talking4/24/2007
  Q: My son Michael just turned three this past March. While he is a very happy, outgoing young boy I ...
  A: Many boys are slightly speech delayed. But, as you've indicated, the greater concern for you is his ...
fear of loud noises4/20/2007
  Q: I have a 2 i/2 year old daughter. She has just learned to use the potty and we have been almost ...
  A: As you indicate, toddlers frequently develop fears. I know it's a problem because this particular ...
appropriate discipline for 2.5 year old triplets4/19/2007
  Q: Windell: Up until recently, we've had little to no problems putting our triplets to bed. At around ...
  A: That's a new one for me. I've never heard of it. But obviously it was effective. Was it too harsh? ...
Refusal to eat.4/16/2007
  Q: I am having the same problem as "Jose" from 4/07. You gave him advice regarding his son who choked ...
  A: It's always best when you have a child who is not eating to make sure it doesn't become a power ...
17 month old boy humping things4/14/2007
  Q: Is this really normal? it seems to be very young if you class this as masturbation! what can we do ...
  A: As a young toddler, he will need some supervision in a play group, but I think the interaction with ...
4 yr old whinning/crying when she doesn't get her way4/13/2007
  Q: I am a single mom. I have a just turned 4 yr old daughter that is all smiles and giggles most of ...
  A: Four-year-olds can be bossy, determined to get their own way and persistent. And, especially if they ...
potty training4/13/2007
  Q: I have a 3 year boy that is sort of potty trained but he will still pee in his pants. The problem is ...
  A: Often young children are so busy playing that they don't pay attention to their need to urinate. And ...
23 month old4/12/2007
  Q: my son (23 months old) gets extremely frustrated when something doesn't work out the way he wants it ...
  A: You seem to realize that temper tantrums are a part of the life of toddlers. Many things make them ...
Toddler love-bites!4/11/2007
  Q: My 16 month old son has a serious biting problem! He doesn't do it out of anger, or when he's having ...
  A: Your instincts are right in this situation with your son. He obviously is not biting because he is ...
17 month old boy humping things4/11/2007
  Q: Is this really normal? it seems to be very young if you class this as masturbation! what can we do ...
  A: Take a look at the things you might have some control over. Such as whether he spends too much time ...
My toddler suddenly refuses to eat solids.4/6/2007
  Q: Around three weeks ago my four year old boy woke up complaining of a sore throat. We gave him ...
  A: It seems like your son had a couple of scares. First he has a throat infection; then he chokes on a ...
dislike for foods4/4/2007
  Q: My baby is 2 years old. He does not like eating food. Everytime we try to feed him, he runs away or ...
  A: I'm going to assume that you have had him checked by a pediatrician and the doctor says he is ...
changing a bad behavior...4/2/2007
  Q: I know a mother who has 2 year old triplets and she posed this question to me. One of her triplets ...
  A: I think your analysis of the situation sounds pretty accurate. The child learned a behavior from her ...
3yr old humping things3/31/2007
  Q: I am wondering if my daughters behavior is normal. She seems to have a fetish with humping things. ...
  A: Masturbation in children of all ages is entirely natural and normal. However, like various other ...
7 week old sleep patterns3/29/2007
  Q: I am having a problem with my 7 week old daughter staying sleeping all day and staying awake all ...
  A: I know this is very frustrating. And I know you are likely to feel you are doing something wrong. ...
Repetitive Behavior3/28/2007
  Q: For the last few weeks, we've noticed our 5 month old son likes to repetitively tap things. He does ...
  A: Children develop various kinds of repetitive behaviors that seem to comfort them for a period of ...
My 3 year old hits. What is normal for her age3/25/2007
  Q: My 3 year old girl hits at school. She only does this 1 or 2 times a month. And when someone is ...
  A: I have two ways of looking at how you can best respond to aggressive behavior. One, you should ...
My 3 year old hits. What is normal for her age3/23/2007
  Q: My 3 year old girl hits at school. She only does this 1 or 2 times a month. And when someone is ...
  A: Almost all toddlers(children from 15 months to about three or three-and-a-half-years of age) act in ...
My son is not talking much3/19/2007
  Q: He talks only few words.When he was 1 year old he used to talk few words. those words he is not ...
  A: Many 19-month-old children don't say a great many words. If he is talking with some words and if he ...
sleeping problem3/17/2007
  Q: I have a problem with my two year old daughter. Recently, she wakes up in the middle of the night ...
  A: It's fairly common for children in the toddler years to awaken during the night. Some of the ...
Infant behavior2/27/2007
  Q: My 10 month old boy has recently started shaking his head in one direction few times, while in a ...
  A: If this happens when he is in a playful mood, and if it just happens a few times and then he is able ...
15 month hitting2/25/2007
  Q: I have a 15 month girl. She is wonderful however she has a temper! When she is mad or just trying ...
  A: Yes, many toddlers, starting at about 12 or 15 months, do have a temper. They often get easily ...
appropriate discipline??2/16/2007
  Q: I have a 3 1/2 y/o granddaughter. She has stayed with the same sitter since she was 8 wks old and ...
  A: You are right, of course. The voice of experience prevails. When children are picked up from a ...
My 3 yr old son is rude to his dad2/16/2007
  Q: My 3 yr old son behaves rude to his dad. For example he screams to him not to touch him. Today he ...
  A: I understand that your son's behavior is upsetting to both you and your husband. However, it is ...
Attachment Issues2/15/2007
  Q: I have a 22 month old daughter who we put into daycare at 8 weeks because I needed to go back to ...
  A: Let me see if I understand this: You placed your daughter in a daycare with her aunt when she was 2 ...
Agressive Behavior Toddler Boys2/14/2007
  Q: I know the old saying, "Boy's will be boy's" but I do not want that to be an excuse for aggressive ...
  A: Yes, boys will be boys. This means that boys are far more likely than girls to respond to provocaion ...
4 year old temper tantrums2/11/2007
  Q: my 4 1/2 year old son goes to pre-k four days a week. about twice a week i get a complaint from his ...
  A: It is not unusual for four-year-olds (and even five-year-olds) to have temper tantrums or crying ...
young siblings and fighting2/2/2007
  Q: I have two boys, ages 1 and 3. I'm becoming very concerned about how my 3-yr-old treats his ...
  A: Even mild-masnnered toddlers get annoyed with younger siblings. This leads them to act out of ...
explaining death2/2/2007
  Q: My 3 year old niece is asking what happened to her great-grandmother, who passed away last year. ...
  A: Three-year-olds typically have little capability of understanding death. That is, they are not ...
my 5 year old son will not listen2/1/2007
  Q: I have a 5 year old son that is constantly disrupting his classmates. I discipline him at home by ...
  A: You didn't give me quite enough information. For instance, if your son is five, I assume he is in a ...


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