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About James Windell
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to normal child development, disturbed behavior and how to provide appropriate guidance and discipline.

Experience
I've been a clinical psychologist in a juvenile court, worked in school settings, been a child psychotherapist in a private psychiatric clinic and consulted with schools, courts, hospitals and daycare centers.

Organizations
American Psychological Association
Michigan Psychological Association

Publications
I have been a columnist with the Oakland Press (Oakland County, MI) for 21 years writing a weekly column called Coping With Kids, which is also published weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been a mental health columnist with the Detroit Free Press and a columnist for Working Mother Magazine. In addition, I have published articles in professional journals. I have published 12 books, among them are "8 Weeks to a Well-Behaved Child" (IDG Books), "Discipline: A Sourcebook of 50 Failsafe Techniques for Parents" (IDG Books); "Children Who Say No When You Want Them to Say Yes" (IDG Books), "What You Need to Know About Ritalin" (Bantam Books) and "6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers" (John Wiley & Sons). My latest two books, both published in 2006 are "The Fatherstyle Advantage" (Stewart, Tabori & Chang) and "Defusing High Conflict Divorce" (Impact Publishers). Articles about my work with parents has appeared in the New York Times, the Chicago Sun Times, the Detroit News and the Detroit Free Press. My website at Jameswindell.com includes more information about me, my books and includes many columns I've written.

Education/Credentials
B.A. in Psychology from Wayne State University
M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University

Awards and Honors
Best Educational Program by Juvenile and Family Court Judges Association (National award for the development of a parent training program for parents of delinquent teenagers. Beth Clark Service Award from the Michigan Psychological Association.

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  James Windell 
In Category  Parenting--Toddlers/Infants/Pre-Schoolers

SubjectDate Asked

Sleeping in her own bed6/27/2007
  Q: I have a 2 1/2 year old and for some reason she just doesn't want to sleep in her bed...she will lay ...
  A: This is a common problem for parents with toddlers. Probably the best approach, one that has ...
3 Year Old Hitting6/26/2007
  Q: I have a 3 year old that his hitting and kicking his teachers for no reason. He sometimes hits ...
  A: How many four-year-olds, fives or sixes do you know who bite? I'm guessing you probably answered ...
My gifted 13 month old is trying my patience - she's stuborn and I'm lost.6/22/2007
  Q: I have a very gifted 13 month old daughter. She is very advanced for her age, and she is becoming ...
  A: Is there a way to fix your daughter's behavior? Yes, wait two to two-and-a-half years. What? You ...
3 year old attention getting behavior6/21/2007
  Q: I am a 4 day a week nanny for a 3 yr old and a 1 year old. I have been here for 2 years exactly. I ...
  A: It's not easy being a nanny, but it sounds like you've done a fine job of raising these children. ...
toddler woes...6/20/2007
  Q: Our 3 1/2 yr old son is being hard to deal with. Lately he is not listening to what I or his Mom say ...
  A: Toddlers and preschoolers often go through phases where they are more or less likely to comply with ...
friend take son to bed?6/18/2007
  Q: I am going camping with my family and friends and we will go to a lake near the campground and will ...
  A: It all depends. It depends on how trustworthy your friend is. And how old your son is. If you trust ...
2 1/2 year old boy development6/18/2007
  Q: My son Brandon is 2.5 yrs old. For the most part, he seems to be developing normally. He knows his ...
  A: You're right. Children develop at different rates. This seems most evident in language development. ...
3 year old dauhter and separation6/18/2007
  Q: My daughter is 3 and a half. She is a very happy kid most of the time. I was with her mother for 4 ...
  A: Yes, separation is difficult to understand for little kids. Sometimes it's even very confusing for ...
Re: 20 month old not talking6/15/2007
  Q: Windell, My 20 month old son does not speak much. He can say frog and he does remove a lot of animal ...
  A: My guess is that your son doesn't have to speak. You perhaps anticipate his needs and understand his ...
unhappy twins6/14/2007
  Q: . It seems to take forever (over an hour sometimes) for them to finish a bottle and when they are ...
  A: Keep in mind they were at least three weeks early. Being premature and weighing only five pounds ...
Terrible Two's6/14/2007
  Q: Windell I have a 2 year old and she is just horrible. We just got her potty trained so she can start ...
  A: Yes, that's why they call it the terrible twos. Toddlers are exploring their environment. They are ...
unusual behavior6/14/2007
  Q: I am concerned that my 13 month old son has anger issues. He seems to like to hit, scream, and even ...
  A: All children have anger issues, particularly during the toddlers stage (12 to 36 months). They have ...
my 2 year old son and potty training6/13/2007
  Q: My son turned 2 on may 1/07 and we started potty training right away.He loves it and tells us when ...
  A: Toddlers develop various kinds of fears, anxieties and phobias. It's usually impossible to determine ...
Toddler disrobing and peeing in crib during nap6/13/2007
  Q: For the last two days, my 27 month old son has been removing his pants and diaper during his ...
  A: This is a common problem. I don't think there is anything sinister going on. Just a toddler being a ...
choking fear - she will not eat6/8/2007
  Q: My Granddaughter is 3 1/2 years old and about a month ago she got choked on an M&M I had to do the ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear that this situatiion has become complicated by the fight between her parents and ...
4yr old boy -behavior is out of control6/8/2007
  Q: my son is 4 makes the kids on SuperNanny look like Angels. He talks back, he swears he is the adult, ...
  A: Sorry to hear about your son's behavior at home. Since he is not exhibiting the same behavior at ...
5 year old urinating on floor6/5/2007
  Q: My five year old daughter was urinating on our carpet repetitively in our TV room and in her hamper ...
  A: There are only two reasons for this to be happening. One's physical; the other emotional. I would ...
my daughter.6/3/2007
  Q: please help me , i have a 17 month old daughter . she is active in all her way like the other ...
  A: Of course, that's not something I can tell by just an email description. Some children do have bowed ...
How to schedule eating habits of my newborn ???6/1/2007
  Q: I've delivered a healthy son on 8th May. And nighttime feedings have been nightmare eversince. He ...
  A: Congratulations on your healthy baby. He's gaining weight nicely. But, not every child follows the ...
2 Year old hits himself when he get angry5/30/2007
  Q: My son will punch, scratch and hit his face when he get angry and we are concerned. We have talked ...
  A: I'm not aware of any children's books about the problem of children hitting or scratching ...
6 weeks old sleep problem5/29/2007
  Q: I am desperate in need of help. My 6 weeks old girl hasn't been sleeping well at all since 2 weeks ...
  A: The goal is to help your baby learn to fall asleep on her own. This is true whether she is going ...
Repetitive talk5/27/2007
  Q: A mother recently inquired abouty her 3 year who was very repetitive. Can you tell me if tihs type ...
  A: It depends on the type of repetitiveness. Children may just like repeating what others say and it ...
My nephews -- very concerned Aunt5/25/2007
  Q: My 4 yr old nephew is way out of control. I have a 20 month old nephew also that is following in his ...
  A: I think you are right to have these concerns. The 4-year-old is out of control, and his parents ...
fear of choking5/25/2007
  Q: My daughter is almost five years old. About three weeks ago, she choked on a piece of brocolli at ...
  A: What you are describing is a child with a temperament that predisposes her to be somewhat more ...
out-of-state extended visitation5/24/2007
  Q: My almost ex is asking for 3 weeks visitation with our 2 year old daughter out of state (he no ...
  A: Some children have more difficulties with changes and transitions. And most toddlers don't deal well ...
OCD in toddlers5/24/2007
  Q: My 2 yr. old grandson is showing some signs of what I consider to be obsessive compulsive behavior ...
  A: Yes, this sounds like obsessive complusive behavior. And it can show signs of occurring in young ...
raising grandchild5/24/2007
  Q: we have had our granddaughter since birth. She is healthy and happy. Her mother is off of drugs ...
  A: It's a big commitment raising a grandchild. And it brings with it a special set of problems and ...
potty training5/24/2007
  Q: my son will be 4 on July 18. I cant get him to voluntarily use the potty. we have offered potties ...
  A: Many young children, especially boys, show little interest in using the potty. They are content to ...
3.5 year old discipline5/23/2007
  Q: I have a wonderful 3.5 year old son. He was born to my husband and me when we were almost 40 years ...
  A: It's not so much what you are doing wrong now; it's what's been done "wrong" in the past. My guess ...
Is it terrible 2's?5/22/2007
  Q: My son after being bitten several times has now learned in daycare to bite other children to express ...
  A: You're right. what does a child of two understand about time-out? Probably very little. By putting ...
7 month old refusing to eat solids5/21/2007
  Q: I started my son on solid foods when he was 5 months old. He was previously exclusively breastfed. ...
  A: Children do go through stages. Since he was doing fine with solids for several weeks, it appears ...
Re: Milk Rejection5/21/2007
  Q: My son is turning 14 months and I'm having difficulty in feeding him milk (formula). I weaned him ...
  A: Have you talked to your pediatrician about this? Is your child losing weight? Is he really rejecting ...
3.5 year old discipline5/21/2007
  Q: I have a wonderful 3.5 year old son. He was born to my husband and me when we were almost 40 years ...
  A: Are you're sure your ready for this? I hope your answer was yes. It won't be easy, but if you hang ...
Disturbing behavior5/21/2007
  Q: I am a much older half-sister to a 5yr old brother. My sister (older) told me that our dad had ...
  A: When young children are exposed to inappropriate ways to express their anger, they are likely to ...
Should I be concerned?5/19/2007
  Q: I'm a 16 year old girl and I babysit for the 18 month old daughter of my cousin. I have been ...
  A: Yes, I think you're right to have some concerns. Many children, though by no means all, are speaking ...
3.5 year old discipline5/18/2007
  Q: I have a wonderful 3.5 year old son. He was born to my husband and me when we were almost 40 years ...
  A: This is not uncommon in the youngest child or in the "baby" of the family. As somewhat older ...
Hailee5/18/2007
  Q: My 3 year old is very busy. She seems busier than other children her age. She is also much smarter ...
  A: The hallmark characteristics of ADHD are impulsivity, hyperactivity and inattentiveness. Many ...
50/50 custody5/18/2007
  Q: My daughters father and I live 14 hours apart. However we have managed to split the custody of our ...
  A: This kind of "readjustment" behavior is common for children who live in two different houses. It ...
4yr. girl kissing another girl in school5/18/2007
  Q: It was brought to my attention that my 4 yr. old daughter and another girl in class kissed. I saw ...
  A: Should you be concerned because your daughter acts in a loving way towards other children? I hope ...
son sleep at carpet store5/15/2007
  Q: I am opening a carpet store and i have a 4 year old son. i will have to bring him to my store a lot. ...
  A: I don't see a problem with your son sleeping in the back of the store on a small bed. If you do a ...


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