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| Subject | Date Asked |
| toddler night waking | 1/5/2010 |
| Q: Our 3 year old daughter has had sleep problems off and on. We have always used the same approach ... A: What else is going on in her little world? Has she started a new school? Does she have new friends ... | |
| Extreme Clinginess | 6/22/2009 |
| Q: Wodzenski- Thanks in advance for taking the time to read and respond to this. I'm a stay at home ... A: Congratulations on your wonderful family. Your family is set up with you being the primary parent. ... | |
| My partner keeps saying my child has something wrong w/ her, but I don't think there is! | 6/21/2009 |
| Q: I have a big issue that is really upsetting me. My partner of 2 ½ years keeps saying that there is ... A: I'm not there. I haven't seen your child's behavior. BUT, I can share information from my heart, ... | |
| How can I make it so my 3 1/4 year old daughter cannot open her double hung window? | 6/20/2009 |
| Q: I just moved into a place that has low windows in my daughters room. Her previous room had windows ... A: I understand your concern, and it is absolutely founded. It is life threatening for your child to ... | |
| Three year old acting hitting, pushing, etc. | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: Our 3 year old son is normally a very sweet affectionate little boy, but over the past 2-3 mos he ... A: Hmmm. When he becomes frustrated, has he encountered a problem or challenge with what he is playing ... | |
| aggressive play ruining play dates | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: My son is 2 1/2 years old. He has normal tantrums for his age but does not act out and is not ... A: You can bet your last dollar on it: this exposure to a bully will ABSOLUTELY train your child to ... | |
| 2 1/2 year old aggressive and jealous of year old | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: My boys are 18 months apart. My older son (2 1/2) has begun pushing and hitting his year old ... A: It's great that you're taking immediate action to put an end to the abusive behavior. While a two ... | |
| anxiety | 6/12/2009 |
| Q: I have a nineteen month old who will not go to bed and or nap. He screams and shouts my name over ... A: Children are unique beings. One time my two year old son saw a "bear" outside his second story ... | |
| NURSERY problem | 6/11/2009 |
| Q: I have a son of almost 4 years and he goes to a nursery class. Basically he started going to day ... A: It is almost impossible to know the reasons behind such a complex behavior when I'm so far away, and ... | |
| 2 year old son | 6/7/2009 |
| Q: I have a 2 year old son who is constantly hitting and scratching both myself and my 6 year old ... A: I'm sending a big hug. I understand how challenging this situation is for you, and how much you ... | |
| Agressive 2 yr old | 6/6/2009 |
| Q: My 2 year old started pinching me whenever I changed my clothes. I always firmly and clearly stated ... A: I can tell that you're a loving and gentle parent, so I can't imagine how he picked that up ... but ... | |
| Wife at breaking point | 6/5/2009 |
| Q: My wife seams to have detached from our 6 mo old daughter. We are first time parents in our mid 30s, ... A: I'm sending YOU a great big hug. Life is going to be challenging ... and first and foremost, ... | |
| unprovoked biting from 3 yr old | 6/4/2009 |
| Q: My 3yr old is not getting past the biting ‘phase’ at daycare. This has been going on for almost a ... A: Your problem is serious, and unfortunately not uncommon. I'm afraid to say that my perspective may ... | |
| Toddler denies to pee!! | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: Two days ago my 3,5 years old son had his foreskin retracted by his paidi. We had to do it because ... A: This is a potentially serious situation, and I suggest you contact your child's medical doctor. In ... | |
| Problems with 14month old | 5/31/2009 |
| Q: My little one has always been a sunny , independent little girl and baby. Plays well on e her own or ... A: Check back with her pediatrician. If you don't get a positive response to your situation, then seek ... | |
| 4 yr old obsession with garbage. | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: I know its a weird question. I'm stumped with this new obsesson of my (almost 4yrold's). When ever ... A: Children are so awesome, aren't they? I've had a child who loved to throw out trash. At two, he ... | |
| discipline | 2/3/2009 |
| Q: My 14 month old son has started having tantrums and I'm not sure how to handle this. He gets ... A: He must be so adorable. At 14 months of age, they are just babies. It would NEVER work to use time ... | |
| 3 yr old acting out towards her dad | 2/1/2009 |
| Q: For the past 3 to 4 months my 3yr old has been acting out towards her dad when he gets her sfter ... A: Since we are communicating over the Internet, it's impossible for me to know with certainty the ... | |
| Four year old balks at activities | 1/30/2009 |
| Q: Our son is four and half and has been involved in activities since we was 18 mos. We started with ... A: Four years old is very young. They're barely more than babies. You know little ones want to be ... | |
| Consistency vs Boundaries | 1/28/2009 |
| Q: We are young married parents in our late 20's, my husband Spence has a 6 year old son from a ... A: Congratulations on the beautiful family you have now, and the new addition who is on the way. ... | |
| My 4 year old who loves school all of a sudden does not want to go and cries | 1/27/2009 |
| Q: My 4 year old son loves school. He's always looking forward to going and his teachers love him. He ... A: It really sounds like your child was seriously challenged by the lunch situation. If the school has ... | |
| My three year old urinating on himself. | 1/27/2009 |
| Q: My son is three years old and he has been potty trained for a year now. He has always done really ... A: Hmmm. I know three year olds are such fun, but wetting themselves is a bit difficult. Have there ... | |
| 25 Month Old to Sleep in her bed? | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: My daughter just turned 25 months old, about four weeks ago she got sick, and at night I allowed her ... A: Some things nature takes care of. Sleeping issues fall into that category. Some families have ... | |
| Terrible threes help! | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: I have a boy who will be three in Feb. and a 10 month old girl. Our boy has always been difficult. ... A: The two and three years are terrific ones for toddlers. You do need some help to get things on ... | |
| 3 1/2 year old | 1/24/2009 |
| Q: My 3 1/2 year old has always been a pleasant boy, always listened and was very smart and polite.... ... A: I wanted to get back to you quickly, because this is such a volatile situation. Children have a ... | |
| 4 yr old sleep issues | 1/24/2009 |
| Q: I read one of your answers where you described your middle child as beeing very much attached to ... A: What a lovely and creative idea. I bet you have more! Can't wait to hear them ... Thank you so ... | |
| A 20 month old little boy | 1/23/2009 |
| Q: You have mentioned in several of the responses you've written about checking an aggressive toddler's ... A: Wow. You have a lot going on. Well, let's break it down and deal with one piece at a time. If ... | |
| 5 year old anxiety | 1/22/2009 |
| Q: I have a 5 year old (just turned 5 on 12/03/08) who is enrolled in full time preschool. Right after ... A: It really sounds like you've got a great handle on the situation. I just want to point out an ... | |
| 5 year old anxiety | 1/22/2009 |
| Q: I have a 5 year old (just turned 5 on 12/03/08) who is enrolled in full time preschool. Right after ... A: I wanted to get back to you quickly. You're such a loving and intuitive mother, and your inner gut ... | |
| 4 yr old sleep issues | 1/21/2009 |
| Q: I read one of your answers where you described your middle child as beeing very much attached to ... A: You are truly an inspired mother. Please send more information if you are able, because your ideas ... | |
| 4 yr old sleep issues | 1/20/2009 |
| Q: I read one of your answers where you described your middle child as beeing very much attached to ... A: Sleeping challenges are often complex, and I get a sense that there is more to the story than what ... | |
| behavior | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: i am a single parent of a 17month old boy. i have had to move back in with my mother and i am in ... A: I'm so glad to share information with you. I'll be here for you as you work this through. I ... | |
| This is a mental question. | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ... A: You can talk with an advisor in school. They are paid to discuss issues like this with you. You ... | |
| This is a mental question. | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ... A: Your question sounds just like one I received several times from a 13 year old. Of course, if you ... | |
| I have a baby with social issues | 1/16/2009 |
| Q: My 13 month old has been very attached to me since birth. I am a stay at home mom but am involved ... A: Yes, I have seen this behavior before. And it is quite difficult. Of course, I'm reading just a ... | |
| Grandparents vs. Parents | 1/15/2009 |
| Q: I am a young mother(21 yrs.) and I have a 2 1/2 year old son. I have recently ended a horrible ... A: I'm so sorry you and your child have gone through such a horrible ordeal. I really want to be here ... | |
| Out of control tantrums | 1/14/2009 |
| Q: My daughter is 5 and at times (rarely) has intense tantrums. Last night she escalated to a point ... A: If this is a medical condition, she obviously needs medical evaluation and management. It would be ... | |
| Toddler aggression with older sister | 1/14/2009 |
| Q: I have a two year old boy and a seven year old girl and my boy often hits and scratches his sister. ... A: It really sounds like you're figuring it all out. Regarding your daughter: she knows the things ... | |
| 1 year old getting up at nite | 1/13/2009 |
| Q: I am a working mom of a 1 year 1 mth old girl.She used to sleep throughout d night till 11 mts of ... A: Because this is your child, I would DEFINITELY check in on your maid sporadically throughout the ... | |
| acting out | 1/13/2009 |
| Q: My two, almost three, year old is pretty well behaved when she is around everyday people that she ... A: Perhaps she needs some closer attention when other family members are around. She may be feeling a ... | |
| 1 year old getting up at nite | 1/12/2009 |
| Q: I am a working mom of a 1 year 1 mth old girl.She used to sleep throughout d night till 11 mts of ... A: I understand how troubling it must be, because you need to get up in the morning and care for ... | |
| Toddler aggression with older sister | 1/11/2009 |
| Q: I have a two year old boy and a seven year old girl and my boy often hits and scratches his sister. ... A: FOLLOW UP: Dear Paul, Thank you for getting back to me. I had my account limited to two questions ... | |
| From right to left | 1/10/2009 |
| Q: My daughter is 20 months old. She can recognize almost all of the capital letters in alphabet for a ... A: Your daughter sounds delightful. I know you're enjoying her enthusiasm about learning and ... | |
| Sleep disorder?? | 1/9/2009 |
| Q: My name is Felicia. My daughter is 3yrs. and 9 mons. old. Ever since she was born, she never slept ... A: Wow, that must be so difficult for you. I hope you have some help to watch your daughter so you can ... | |
| My Daughter is eating very very less | 1/8/2009 |
| Q: My Daughter is very very picky eater, now she is 20 months old. we are trying different kinds of ... A: How did you come to give your child Pediasure? Did her pediatrician recommend it? The Pediasure ... | |
| tempormental 3 year old | 1/7/2009 |
| Q: I have a beautiful three year old daughter, but at times she can act really ugly. Recenlty she has ... A: Very lovingly, I would like to suggest that the behavior you demonstrate to your child, is the ... | |
| refusing | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: My 4 year old son is capable of using a fork and spoon, getting dressed and picking up his toys. He ... A: Great question! You are absolutely correct in taking a firm stand with these behaviors. Loving, ... | |
| Sudden Change in Napping and Sleeping | 1/4/2009 |
| Q: and thanks in advance for answering my question. I have a 19 month old who was a very good sleeper ... A: This is a typical problem with toddlers. What are the reasons? - Could be a tummy ache or ear ... | |
| 3 year old Indecisiveness | 1/3/2009 |
| Q: I am new to your forums and I thought maybe you could help me! My 3 year old son is going through ... A: Wow. Now I understand. It's so funny ... when I get these questions, I never know what I'm dealing ... | |
| 3 year old Indecisiveness | 1/2/2009 |
| Q: I am new to your forums and I thought maybe you could help me! My 3 year old son is going through ... A: Because of your background, you are in a high risk group for raising demanding and controlling ... | |
| 3 year old Indecisiveness | 1/1/2009 |
| Q: I am new to your forums and I thought maybe you could help me! My 3 year old son is going through ... A: I would love to chat with you to learn more about your son's patterns and abilities. Each child is ... | |
| Eating Problem | 12/27/2008 |
| Q: I have a very active and intelligent 20-month old son and major issue with him is that he refuses ... A: Congratulations! I see that you have a wonderful child .... and that you are a very loving and ... | |
| potty training! | 12/26/2008 |
| Q: i have son who is 30 months and who refuses to pass stool in the toilet.he finds it the most ... A: Wow! Two and a half years old ... what a great age! So many opportunities to learn and grow and ... | |
| toddler hates grandma | 12/23/2008 |
| Q: My mother-in-law recently came to visit us from Turkey. She will be here til March, and hasn't seen ... A: I'm so glad you're taking this situation seriously. You're a great Mommy for caring enough about ... | |
| Normal behavior for a 4 year old girl? | 12/22/2008 |
| Q: Recently, I was at a birthday party for a 4 year old cousin of mine. I brought my 18 month old son ... A: Your niece is a perfectly normal little girl. Nothing to worry about psychologically based upon ... | |
| please help | 12/18/2008 |
| Q: Wodzenski I asked for advice about whether or not my 3 year old should be pulled out of daycare on ... A: Of course I remember you, and the story of your precious little girl. Firstly, may I congratulate ... | |
| peeing pants every day. | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: i have 2 children my oldest is 6 and my youngest is 3. i am having a problem with my 6 year old, she ... A: I'm so glad to hear from you. Parenting is a delicate art, and there are many times that a child's ... | |
| my two yr old sleeps loads | 12/15/2008 |
| Q: my two yr old boy goes bed at 7-8pm and dont get up till about 11am he is very active in the day but ... A: Little ones sleep as much as they sleep. It's the wonder of nature ... and takes a lot of pressure ... | |
| disciplining a 1 year old | 12/14/2008 |
| Q: I am a working mother of a 1 year old girl.My daughter understands no but does not want to obey ... A: It is rather simple to get a one year old to stop pulling hair. Just put her down whenever she ... | |
| pregnancy | 12/12/2008 |
| Q: I had unprotected sex on Wednesday and he pull out put his semen went everywhere . my peroid comes ... A: I'm not that kind of doctor. Here is what you need to do: 1) Call the local pharmacy. There is ... | |
| 4.5 year old not able to make friends at school | 12/4/2008 |
| Q: I need some advice on how to handle this situation with my 4.5 year old little boy. He is in a ... A: Do you like Sesame Street? How about Care Bears? There are some wonderful books about friendship ... | |
| Behavior at PreSchool | 12/2/2008 |
| Q: While at home, our 3 1/2yo son, Derek, is wonderful and loving. He does want to do everything that ... A: I have several reactions to your post. I so want to help you get through this. I hear the ... | |
| Help my baby get to sleep at a normal time!! | 12/1/2008 |
| Q: I am writing you because I have a VERY hard time getting my 20 month old baby boy in the bed before ... A: There's no way around it. You have your work cut out for you! You'll have to change his sleeping ... | |
| My Son | 11/30/2008 |
| Q: i have two questions for you...The first one is my son walks on his tip toes but i mean he stands on ... A: Aren't they just so cute at that age? 14 months is so young ... they're just learning to walk ... | |
| food refusal | 11/29/2008 |
| Q: I still have to spoon feed baby food to my four year old son. He is normal in every way except for ... A: I'm glad to share some information with you. This is a serious situation ... here is how I would ... | |
| sleep and anxiety issues | 11/28/2008 |
| Q: I have two children who sleep in rooms beside each other and between the two of them, we are not ... A: You have quite a challenging situation on your hands. Regarding your 7 1/2 month old ... when ... | |
| My child does not listen to me what should I do? | 11/26/2008 |
| Q: I am a young mother of a 19 month old son. He is not the child who wants to play with toys or watch ... A: I'd be glad to share some information, to see if it is of assistance. I know you love your precious ... | |
| This is a marriage question. | 11/26/2008 |
| Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ... A: Yes, this looks just like the email you sent the last time. Do you want to have your mother contact ... | |
| Food throwing | 11/24/2008 |
| Q: I have a 19 month old son who eats well and uses a spoon and fork well. Recently he has started to ... A: FABULOUS question. You are absolutely right to stop this behavior right away. It's really rather ... | |
| toddler behavior | 11/24/2008 |
| Q: I have an 18 month old and I would like to know what is the best way to correct her when her ... A: This is a FABULOUS question. Kudos to you for knowing at this point in your child's life that is ... | |
| toddler | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: I have two questions. One my 31/2 year old absolutely loves his bottle still. He only has it when ... A: You have some wonderful opportunities to make a few shifts in the household routines that will help ... | |
| child in class | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: Have a three year old and she is in school. During this week her teacher said top me as soon as i ... A: I'm so glad you are taking this seriously, and looking for immediate solutions. You are on the ... | |
| 2 1/2 year old + 8 year old, I'm going crazy. | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: I have a boy who will be 3 in 8 weeks. My daughter is 8. I am a stay at home mom and my husband ... A: You need a hug, a nap, and Yes, you are going nuts. No question about it. Parenting is hard work. ... | |
| Tantrums | 11/17/2008 |
| Q: My son turns 20 months tommorrow. He has been throwing tantrums since a very early age. Recently, ... A: My child had her procedure last night, and I'm relieved. I'm at the activity room on the floor, and ... | |
| Violent 2 year old | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: My daughter is two years old and is currently attending day care. Over the course of the last month ... A: Day care is often not a good environment for little ones. They are beat up by other children. ... | |
| Grandson scratches himself | 11/13/2008 |
| Q: I have a grandson- 21 months old (has a twin sister). He scratches himself- face and neck, sometimes ... A: I'll throw out a few ideas for you to consider. When does he scratch himself? Especially if it is ... | |
| My 2 Year old Son | 11/12/2008 |
| Q: Well my son who was born prematurely was shaken a couple weeks after he was born .. His biological ... A: What a blessing children are ... and your son is truly a gift. I know how much you love and cherish ... | |
| 3 yr old behaviour | 11/12/2008 |
| Q: I have an almost 3 yr old and I care for a 3.5 yr old. The older boy seems to constantly harrass ( ... A: I trust you to make the right decision. If you evaluate that your son can't take any more abuse, ... | |
| Nearly 3 yr old acting out sexually?.. or something more? | 11/11/2008 |
| Q: my child will be 3 years old in 2 months. She has always like to test the boundaries, but this seems ... A: She sounds adorable! Children pick up on their parent's anxiety. If my child did that, I ... | |
| copying | 11/9/2008 |
| Q: My friend's 3 1/2 year old has been copying my son (same age) for over a year now when they are ... A: The cause of this type of behavior can be many things. Your son may be cool, well socialized and ... | |
| 2 year old with SEVERE anger issues | 11/6/2008 |
| Q: I have a daughter who is 27 months old, and is the only child. In the past few weeks, she has ... A: I didn't hear back from you, but have been worried about your daughter. I wanted a bit more ... | |
| advice | 11/6/2008 |
| Q: My daughter will be 3 years old by the end of January. She sleeps and eats well and has great sense ... A: It is just fine for your daughter to be with your loving, grandmotherly friend. It is just what she ... | |
| advice | 11/5/2008 |
| Q: My daughter will be 3 years old by the end of January. She sleeps and eats well and has great sense ... A: Let's take a look at your situation and see if we can figure a few things out. ABOUT THE CHANGES IN ... | |
| 3 year old sleeps with parents | 11/5/2008 |
| Q: My son who just turned 3 on 10/23 still sleeps with both me and his dad. He has been sleeping with ... A: Your child is clearly loved and cherished by both his parents. He is blessed to have you. It is ... | |
| toddler fears | 11/3/2008 |
| Q: My son has custody of his daughter; we live together. The child has visitation with the mother(were ... A: While I have great compassion for your situation, I have no legal background to advise you about ... | |
| What is there to do in this situation? | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ... A: I'm so glad you are reaching out for more information about your world. I invite you to call me ... | |
| preschooler and pets | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: My preschooler (3.5yrs old) is a highly active girl, with a very strong will. We have used ... A: When children act out in that way, we know several conditions are taking place: 1) parents are ... | |
| What is there to do in this situation? | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ... A: You are dealing with big things. They can take you by surprise and throw you off balance and then ... | |
| What is there to do in this situation? | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ... A: I want you to please print this out and follow the instructions. You are a precious and wonderful ... | |
| clingy 3 year old | 11/1/2008 |
| Q: I have a 3 year old girl who is extremely clingy. She is just fine when she is in Preschool, but ... A: Three is a very young and tender age. In centuries gone by, it would be unthinkable to remove a ... | |
| toddler sleeping problems! | 11/1/2008 |
| Q: Our 21 month old has been a fabulous sleeper since day 1. Until 2 weeks ago, he would nap a few ... A: Let's consider a few practical issues that might provide some support. After that, it is truly a ... | |
| Hitting baby dolls. | 10/30/2008 |
| Q: My daughter just turned two in the last month. During the past couple of months she has started to ... A: You're in a tough spot. But, you are your daughter's hero. I'm sorry that you have to shoulder the ... | |
| 3 years old behavior | 10/30/2008 |
| Q: I have noticed that my 3 years old daughter likes to give out things, such as lolly pops, candy to ... A: I'm going to guess that you are a loving and generous woman. You sound that way in your post. If ... | |
| Hitting baby dolls. | 10/29/2008 |
| Q: My daughter just turned two in the last month. During the past couple of months she has started to ... A: I congratulate you for noticing her mood swing, and can tell how much you love and cherish her. ... | |
| 4 year old no interest | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: My daughter will be 4 in December she has no interest in learning her ABC's.I have tried buying ... A: Bless your heart ... I know how hard it is having a relative put pressure on you about your children ... | |
| Confused parents - agressive toddler | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: My daughter is only 22 months old - she has been going to daycare since she 15 months. For the first ... A: I can see how much you love your little girl, and how upset you are about her latest behaviors. ... | |
| 4 year old no interest | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: My daughter will be 4 in December she has no interest in learning her ABC's.I have tried buying ... A: Children learn at their own pace. Is she curious? Does she explore new things? What does she love ... | |
| Growth spurts and eating | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: My 6 yr. old daughter seems to be eating non stop. We don't allow much junk food in our house so ... A: Children can go through phases where they eat huge amounts of food. Especially if you do not allow ... | |
| Attachment | 10/22/2008 |
| Q: I am a Mother of one. My daughter (who will be 3 in February) is SO attached to me. She goes to ... A: I understand how unsettling this can be. You are very wise to choose to find a resolution to the ... | |
| "Effects of not having your biological father present through preschool years." | 10/22/2008 |
| Q: Something my mother finally confirmed at age 21, my father was not my biological father. I was ... A: Good to hear from you. I answer questions because it helps me keep in touch with the issues parents ... | |
| My 22 month will not go to bed!! HELP!!! | 10/22/2008 |
| Q: I have a 22month old named Malachi . Well Mr. Malachi will not go to bed at night. About 2 weeks ... A: I understand your challenge, and would love to provide some ideas that may be of support. With your ... | |
| my 2 1/2 yrs old | 10/20/2008 |
| Q: I feel so confused about what to do with my daughter. She is with me almost 24/7. I breast fed her ... A: Having been through similar situations, I am completely with you. Let's take a look at some options ... | |
| Paying Attention | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: My 3 year old daughter has a hard time listening and paying attention. You have to repeat things ... A: If you have not already, please have her pediatrician evaluate her hearing. Provided they do not ... | |
| my Gf needs time after the baby | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: My gf of almost 4 years tells me she needs time herself. We have a 6 month old together and around ... A: I hope you can tell by now that I'm in your corner. If I could, I'd make you a big cup of hot ... | |
| Terrible 2's? | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: My daughter just started daycare and is working with finger paints. She turned 2 the 9th of this ... A: Bless your heart .. I know your child is precious and you just adore her. But, boy they can sure do ... | |
| my Gf needs time after the baby | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: My gf of almost 4 years tells me she needs time herself. We have a 6 month old together and around ... A: I hear your pain. This situation is not going to be fixed overnight. Even if, in a fairy tale ... | |
| Wet during the day. | 10/12/2008 |
| Q: My daughter is 6 years old and while she does have the odd accident at night she is dry more often ... A: Actually, everything you're saying makes PERFECT SENSE! When a child acts out like your daughter ... | |
| potty training | 10/11/2008 |
| Q: My son turned two in June and approximately 6 weeks ago starting potty training on his own. One ... A: No matter how you handle this, I can promise you that by the time he is 4, he will not have any more ... | |
| Wet during the day. | 10/11/2008 |
| Q: My daughter is 6 years old and while she does have the odd accident at night she is dry more often ... A: Children are delightful, aren't they? And they find so many interesting ways to work out their ... | |
| my Gf needs time after the baby | 10/10/2008 |
| Q: My gf of almost 4 years tells me she needs time herself. We have a 6 month old together and around ... A: I hear your pain, my friend. Let's just talk a bit and see if we can address a few things that may ... | |
| My 3 year old son's teacher | 10/8/2008 |
| Q: i have noticed that my 3 year old son's teacher is always very critical of my son's behaviour, ... A: I see the challenge you're having. Let's take a look at some of the issues ... and you can think ... | |
| 2 year old stopped sleeping in bed | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: I have a daughter who just turned 2. She has been sleeping in her own bed for months with no ... A: Two year olds are busy little creatures. So many new and exciting things are happening in their ... | |
| all of sudden bedtime crying with 3 yr old | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: Our 3 year old son is crying hysterically at bedtime all of a sudden, this does not happen every ... A: I read your question last night and decided to think it over very carefully before I answered. We ... | |
| Troubled at school | 10/6/2008 |
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| eating refusal | 10/4/2008 |
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| 25 mos old not sleeping | 10/3/2008 |
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| 32 month old - separation anxiety | 10/3/2008 |
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| Eating Problem | 10/2/2008 |
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| How often should a 3y/o urinate daily? | 10/1/2008 |
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| 15 month old hitting mom after correction | 9/30/2008 |
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| three year old child in 3 yr. kindergarten | 9/29/2008 |
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| Peeing on bed during the day | 9/29/2008 |
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| Peeing on bed during the day | 9/28/2008 |
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| Are we too strict | 9/28/2008 |
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| 2 year old son | 9/22/2008 |
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| I knew the twos would be terrible but ... | 9/21/2008 |
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| preschool | 9/16/2008 |
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| 4 week old sleep | 9/16/2008 |
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Parenting--Toddlers/Infants/Pre-Schoolers
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Dr. Darleen Claire Wodzenski
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Parenting toddlers to preschoolers? Our cutting edge approach will turn "terrible two's" into "terrific two's & three's". We teach how to develop tools and skills that make parenting the little ones joyful and fun. Don't waste your little one's early childhood struggling with their behavior and "no" attitude. Learn how to move them beyond the "no" and into the "Go!". Simple, effective, spiritual (non-denominational) and powerful. These skills easily support growth into elementary and middle school years and teenage years.
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