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SubjectDate Asked
Terrible Twos11/11/2011
  Q: My son Calvin is almost 3, and he recently started getting time-outs. Anyway, I first sent him to ...
  A: congratulations for using time outs effectively with the first 5 kids. Just when you think you have ...
4 Year old behaviour and sleeping problems11/9/2011
  Q: My son turned 4 last month and he is a very active little boy. Loves to run and play with his ...
  A: I would suggest the place to begin with a physical problem such as sleep issues would be with a ...
2 1/2yr old crying hysterically for mom at bedtime11/3/2011
  Q: I really hope you can help me, as I've run out of options with my son. He's 2 and a half years old ...
  A: what a darling little guy you have! It is always fun for me to put a face to helping solve a ...
Can you scold a 2-year-old child?11/3/2011
  Q: My son is 2-year old and I'm confused what a parent should do when he cries asking for wrong things. ...
  A: it can be hard to establish good habits with children's leisure time, it will come up again and ...
3 1/2 year old getting bullied11/1/2011
  Q: ok, so i have a 3 1/2 year old and 16 month old daughter. my concern is that 3 1/2 year old is ...
  A: it is always disheartening to see your child at a disadvantage. It is even harder to make decisions ...
Potty strike at home10/26/2011
  Q: Our 2-year 7-month old girl was doing really well with potty training recently, but has been ...
  A: It is clear your daughter understands the potty routine and can control the impulse to go at school. ...
starting daycare at 26 months10/25/2011
  Q: I have a very cheerful, energetic, outgoing 2 year old. He has been staying with my aunt since ...
  A: I am wondering how long you have given him to settle down at school? Most children will settle in ...
Terrible Two's!!!10/23/2011
  Q: I am a mother to two year old twin boys and also a 10 month old boy whom I am still nursing. I don't ...
  A: boy you sure have your hands full, I can imagine how hectic it can get. At 8 mos, your little one ...
14 Month baby - speech delay or something else?10/23/2011
  Q: My son is 14 months old. He is a happy, clever boy. I am concerned about his language development. ...
  A: There are many factors we look at when considering ASD. Does he look you in the eye? Does he ...
concern for my nephew10/21/2011
  Q: i keep my nephew for my brother and wife and having raised four of my own and raising other peoples ...
  A: I can't be sure what is happening with your nephew. I do know children his age sometimes think ...
8 year old boys - stubborn10/19/2011
  Q: I have been having trouble with my 8 year old son lately he has been testing limits, not turning in ...
  A: it is very difficult to remove emotion from your child's behavior, we as parents feel so responsible ...
my son wont sleep10/19/2011
  Q: hi my names is brenda my son is 18 months and he doesnt go to sleep early i have tried everything ...
  A: I don't know what keeps your son from sleeping. It appears he is also keeping you from sleeping. ...
14 Month baby - speech delay or something else?10/14/2011
  Q: My son is 14 months old. He is a happy, clever boy. I am concerned about his language development. ...
  A: I agree with your speech therapist. 14 mos is early for using words or word approximations ...
anger 3 year old and anger 10 year old9/30/2011
  Q: i am starting with my 10 year old. my 10 year old has ADHA and is on medication he get very anger ...
  A: you certainly have your hands full, remember to take care of yourself so you can be the best for ...
Bahavioral9/30/2011
  Q: My daughter is 16 months, was born a month early, but seems to have the mind of a 5 year old! She's ...
  A: your daughter is of the age of autonomy and wants to exert her own power. When she wants something ...
My son and how he is dealing with my divorce9/29/2011
  Q: my son has started acting up. He's always been a headstrong child and since I've gotten separated ...
  A: transitions are difficult for children. It is difficult for them to know who they want or should be ...
4 year old suddenly throws things9/28/2011
  Q: My son is 4 years old and is suddenly, and seemingly without reason, throwing objects. Particularly ...
  A: I am totally stumped with this one. I have never seen a child reject rewards and treats. What is ...
4 1/2 yr old granddaughter9/22/2011
  Q: ..my granddaughter is 4 1/2...beautiful, inside & out & recently became a big sister 4 months ago. ...
  A: your granddaughter sounds fairly typical. Some little girls are high spirited and just plain ...
2 Year Old that wont sleep9/22/2011
  Q: I have a 2 year old son who refuses to sleep or take a nap. Every day it is the same routine, I try ...
  A: this is a very challenging issue and my heart goes out to you. You have exhausted typical advice ...
speech delay and development delay9/20/2011
  Q: doctor, my son is 3 yrs 2mon old. elder daughter is 9 yrs with no developmental issues. my son had ...
  A: First I am not a Dr. I am a special education teacher. You have done the right thing to help you ...
One year old and developmental delays9/18/2011
  Q: My little boy just turned one and his pediatrician is concerned. My son babbled, mostly gagaga, ...
  A: you and your pediatrician have identified concerns that can be addressed with an evaluation for ...
Why does my son slap his face?9/18/2011
  Q: I was wondering if you could help me with this question. I have a two-year-old son. Even though was ...
  A: it is always disconcerting when a child appears to be injuring himself. Some children are reacting ...
anger problems.8/18/2011
  Q: single mom as of recently, i have an 18 month old little boy, and i'm starting to notice how bad his ...
  A: I could use a little more information. Can you tell me what or when he sets off? Is it just with ...
child acting out sexually8/12/2011
  Q: My son is 5, he saw his dad and his girlfriend having sex about two months ago. they "said" he didnt ...
  A: it is understandable that your son's actions would be alarming and worrisome to you. First, a five ...
My 4.5 years old son repeats questions only7/28/2011
  Q: My 4.5 years old son repeats questions only He has been able to remember some basic questions and ...
  A: I would suggest you consult with a speech therapist to address his language delay. That person will ...
strange mean behavior7/27/2011
  Q: my Daughter just turned 2. she is extremely advanced for her age, already reading at a 2nd grade ...
  A: I could not tell you if your child has emotional issues, I would suggest you have her evaluated by a ...
How to help this child?7/27/2011
  Q: I am a babysitter of a 2 year old girl. She is highly stressed, has tantrums in every 10 minutes ...
  A: I understand how difficult this situation is for you and the child. It sounds to me as you are ...
Nearly 3 year old daughter's 'disinterest' in succeeding.7/25/2011
  Q: My daughter will be 3 in a few months. She is a middle child with a brother 14 months older and a ...
  A: bless your heart you really have your hands full with three small children. You sound like a ...
Is my 20 month old daughter stressed or depressed?5/9/2011
  Q: I am a single mum, my daughter is 20 months old and started 2 see her father when she turned 9 ...
  A: Your situation is disheartening and I can tell you are very worried. Do you feel she may be in ...
Plz help me how to control the anger and crying of my 3 years old boy and make him cool n calm5/7/2011
  Q: Plz help me how to control the anger and crying of my 3 years old boy and make him cool n calm I am ...
  A: it sounds as if your son has had many changes in his life. Often when children can not predict what ...
Big Girls Bed5/6/2011
  Q: Help! My daughter will be 3 in June which is when i was going to take down the crib and let her ...
  A: I am sorry to hear you are loosing sleep. Unfortunatly I do not have an easy fix for you. First I ...
my 5 year old daughter wont stop peeing in her pants5/4/2011
  Q: I have a 5 year old daughter that will not stop peeing her pants. I've tried taking toys away,TV ...
  A: Please begin by taking her to the pediatrician to rule out a UTI or other issue. Always with ...
child vomits every morning at daycare drop off5/3/2011
  Q: I have a 4 year old daughter. She has been in daycare since she was 10 weeks old and then I took her ...
  A: sorry to hear you daughter is having difficulty transitioning to school. If you are sure the ...
the safty of my babie5/2/2011
  Q: ok i have a 13 yr old daughter along with her 11 yr old sister and her 3 yr old brother, well my ...
  A: you can call children's services to see what the laws in your state suggest as age of responsibility ...
is 2 weeks too long for a 2 yr old to be away from the main caretaker4/29/2011
  Q: me and my husband split up 4 months ago and since then my son has been on a schedual thats with me ...
  A: I simply can not make value judgements about one parent or home being better than the other. I ...
Screaming 3yo in my home daycare4/27/2011
  Q: I run an in home daycare. I have a 3 year old who is part time and comes 2-4 times a week for ...
  A: sometimes there are personality clashes and I think that is what is happening here. Unless you can ...
Child crying in the middle of the 2 hour school program4/27/2011
  Q: My son is about 2.5 year old. He has been going to a 2 hour school program twice a week since last ...
  A: Greetings, I am sure it is upsetting to find your little one not adapting to his school environment. ...
Potty training five yr old refuses to poop on big toilet4/25/2011
  Q: My son turned five last month. He has been potty trained for about two years but refuses to poop on ...
  A: I had to think about your problem for a bit to hopefully give you helpful advise. First I would ...
Stepson is aggressive!!!!!4/23/2011
  Q: I am desperate for your advice on how to handle my stepson. My husband & I have been together for ...
  A: I hear your frustration and concern for your family. Clearly this little boy has issues that upset ...
uncooperative 3 years old girl at nurseries.4/17/2011
  Q: my problem is with my 3 years old girl, she seems very uncoopertive at her nursery, she refused to ...
  A: Children have to be taught how to share, wait their turn etc. The school/group experience is new ...
Concerned about 3 yr old son4/15/2011
  Q: I have a son who has just turned three. He is the only young child in both sides of families. He ...
  A: though your son exhibits some characteristics on this list, it does not sound as though he fits the ...
2 yrs old acting up4/14/2011
  Q: I read your response to Christina about her 2 yrs old girl. I have a 2.5 yrs old boy, and he was ...
  A: Children usually misbehave to either get something or to get out of doing something. It is hard to ...
Help with no room for toddler!!4/13/2011
  Q: I am having problems with not having a room for my two year old son. He is sleeping in my room with ...
  A: It must be challenging to deal with his insisting to sleep on you. I think putting the bed in the ...
hello,4/13/2011
  Q: my 2 year old son seems to have all his teeth, but doesn't have the ability to eat cucumbers, ...
  A: I would think it is just a matter of experience with different textures. Begin giving him finger ...
Concerned about 3 yr old son4/11/2011
  Q: I have a son who has just turned three. He is the only young child in both sides of families. He ...
  A: As I understand your concerns your son has difficulty interacting with peers or has unusual social ...
2 yrs old acting up4/9/2011
  Q: I read your response to Christina about her 2 yrs old girl. I have a 2.5 yrs old boy, and he was ...
  A: your son is at the age of autonomy, in other words, he wants to do things for himself. He is ...
4 year old is out of control4/9/2011
  Q: With in the last 6 months my sweet little boy has become a monster. It takes a million tries to get ...
  A: your issue is a very common one. All parents get into this type of power struggle pattern and it ...
screaming child4/5/2011
  Q: I am a mother of a almost five yr old boy and twin boy and girl that will be three at the end of ...
  A: You certainly have your hands full and sound very engaged with your children. It is not unusual for ...
Manipulation3/16/2011
  Q: I have a little 5 year old girl. She has been in day care and pre-school since she was 3 months old. ...
  A: How frustrating to have mornings begin this way, I am sure it pulls at your heartstrings. I would ...
Have tried everything!!!3/15/2011
  Q: i have a 17month year old daughter who doesn't eat and is still on the bottle day and night. She ...
  A: issues with eating are a common but disheartening problem for many parents and I hear your ...
Toddler's Development3/11/2011
  Q: I have a 29 month old son who is adorable, curious and smart. He makes great eye contact, has good ...
  A: so sorry I missed your question and wasn't more timely. Head banging is always concerning but not ...
daughter in law3/9/2011
  Q: my 20 year old son is still living at home he has a 18 year old girlfriend who lives with us also ...
  A: you are caught in a catch 22 here that many grandparents get stuck in when they are supporting teen ...
my child is getting slow3/8/2011
  Q: i have a 4 year old son. he is a very well behaved child. he was very active child, but recently he ...
  A: I am sorry to hear your son is showing new challenging behaviors. You say he is well behaved and ...
not chewing food3/6/2011
  Q: I have a 38 months old daughter.I have to struggle with her feeding.She does not chew her food but ...
  A: meal time battles are frustrating and often the child has the advantage. You can not make her chew ...
dealing with bullying3/4/2011
  Q: My son is four, almost fiver, and considered developmentally delayed. He has problems with reading ...
  A: I feel your heart break. If it weren't enough for a child to be challenged with delays but to also ...
issue3/2/2011
  Q: Is there any psychological damage that comes from a one year old spending a week at a time with the ...
  A: I do no have any experience with this subject. I would suggest you research psychological data ...
potty time2/28/2011
  Q: My 4 year old daughter has been potty trained for about 1 1/2 years. In the past few days she has ...
  A: this sounds like something you should consult with a doctor about. UTI's in kids can be different ...
5-year-old with problems2/4/2011
  Q: we have a 5.5-year-old son, 3.5-year-old daughter and an 8-month-old son. My oldest has been a ...
  A: you truly have your hands full and it sounds like you have worked hard to understand how to ...
Alarming, dangerous behavior between 2 2.5 year olds.2/4/2011
  Q: I have yin and yang twins, one calm, sensitive, timid, the other a living life at full speed kind. ...
  A: I understand your frustration and fears. Siblings often will adopt opposite demeanors to compete ...
18 month old protesting bedtime2/3/2011
  Q: My 18 month old son had great sleeping habits until recently. Went to bed at 7:30 up at 6 AM with a ...
  A: I am sorry to hear your son has managed to put his schedule on tilt, this happens from time to time ...
parenting time2/3/2011
  Q: I will give you a quick synopsis of what has been the "norm" and then I will get to the question. So ...
  A: you are to be commended for maintaining a special father relationship with your son. The situation ...
Frustrated Dad2/3/2011
  Q: Good Morning, My child is 20 months old and I notice that he is extremely attached to his mother. He ...
  A: your problem is one many couples experience and can be very challenging. Differing parenting ...
mean acts by an 8 year old boy2/1/2011
  Q: We recently moved to a new town with a cold climate 2 months ago. My husband and I are at a loss as ...
  A: I know how difficult it can be when children are not getting along especially when you feel one is ...
child twenty one months female2/1/2011
  Q: the twenty one month old female like to play with her poop and urine. she will squat and poop and ...
  A: a mother's instincts are usually accurate. For this reason, it is best you have her evaluated for ...
toddler 2years old1/29/2011
  Q: my daughter has toddler 2years old boy and a girl 1 years old. the boy constantly hits pushes and ...
  A: Toddlers often are more physical because it is effective at getting their wants communicated. With ...
2.5 year old acting out1/28/2011
  Q: Our 2.5 year old has generally been very kind, cooperative, helpful, and consistently with listening ...
  A: I hear what a hard time you are currently having. You are under great stress and I am more ...
14 month old speech1/26/2011
  Q: My daughter is 14 months old. She hasn't spoken real words yet but she babbles especially when she ...
  A: your description of your daughter's skills sound very typical. I do not think you have anything to ...
my daughter's behaviour1/24/2011
  Q: I am a mother of a daughter who is 2 years and 3 months old . I work and my dad/mom-in-law and a ...
  A: you have a challenging problem here. I am not sure what is causing her to be so clingy and ...
Help! my baby is attached to my hip!1/23/2011
  Q: I am a single mom of 3 boys ages 10, 6 and 17 months.. They are very good kids which i got lucky. ...
  A: sorry I missed seeing your question right away. You sure have your hands full and it is ...
3 year old with recent behavioral problems1/21/2011
  Q: My 3 year old son has recently started to have behavioral problems at school. It started about a ...
  A: it appears you have two concerns here. You are concerned about your son's change in behavior and ...
Kicked out of Kindergarten and in need of a fresh start1/21/2011
  Q: My 5-year old (kindergarten) daughter has been at a private school full time since she was 2. The ...
  A: I can see you have the best interest in mind for your daughter and are an active involved parent. ...
My 3 year olds sudden change in behaviour1/19/2011
  Q: I have a three year old son. Up until recently, he was a typical little boy. He attends Pre-School ...
  A: I understand how upsetting a negative change in behavior can be for a parent. Since this is not ...
Tantrums/illness1/10/2011
  Q: Ok here is a big question my son is two years and three months he has been very sick since the day ...
  A: in order to give you ideas to help resolve your issue I need more information. Can you please let ...
Toddler adjusting to new baby1/5/2011
  Q: My 2 year old grandson (2 in Nov) has a baby sister born Dec 24th. The last two nights he's been ...
  A: I think you are on to a great solution! I am sure this little guy's world has turned upside down ...
Toddler discipline1/4/2011
  Q: we are struggling with our 3 year old son. He's so naughty! He very rarely plays with toys and is ...
  A: it appears you have an extremely inquisitive child with no fear! I am sure he keeps you on your ...
What types of CD/DVD should you buy for your son?1/4/2011
  Q: I have a son who will be 2 years old next month. In my country's bookstores, they sell many types ...
  A: Liam, I am sorry to say I have little familiarity with current audio visual products, it has been so ...
Two year old who still has not slept through the night.1/4/2011
  Q: I have a son who is almost two and a half years old. He still has not slept through the night. For ...
  A: I know how frustrating loosing sleep can be, hopefully this will resolve quickly for you. I have ...
my child12/21/2010
  Q: !!!
  A: this is not unusual behavior for 3yr olds. Tell her what she can do, offer her two options to ...
my 16th month old12/20/2010
  Q: my name is laura and we moved to a new state about a month and a half ago. my son has been having ...
  A: tantrums can be a challenge. At his age, it's best you tell him what or what not to do and if he ...
does my daughter have OCD12/20/2010
  Q: We have a 3 year old daughter who has been identified as "slow to adapt" and "Out of the Box." She ...
  A: My hand goes out to you, I can tell you have incredible patience and sense your level of concern as ...
potty training my 28 month old12/11/2010
  Q: I have a 28 month old son and he won't let me know when he has to go to the potty.i sat him on it ...
  A: Your son sounds as if he is beginning to get the idea since he makes the connection to sit on the ...
toilet training12/2/2010
  Q: i'm a mother for a tow years old boy. i have started toilet training with my son for 40 days and ...
  A: I am glad your son does not have a health issue around elimination. It is natural to feel the need ...
toilet training11/30/2010
  Q: i'm a mother for a tow years old boy. i have started toilet training with my son for 40 days and ...
  A: Toilet training can be difficult. It is important to know if his wetting is intentional or ...
choking11/30/2010
  Q: my 4year old daughter has a terrible fear of choking, for the past week and a half shes ate 4 smooth ...
  A: this is not a behavior I am familiar with and would urge to to speak to a physician. What you ...
question11/27/2010
  Q: I am the father of a 3 year old toddler girl. My daugther likes to play rough and hit, she play ...
  A: It sounds like you and your daughter have a playful relationship, that is really wonderful! ...
What kind of music should a 2-year boy listen to?11/24/2010
  Q: Could you pls tell me what kind of music should a 2-year boy listen to? For example, does it hurt ...
  A: Exposing young children to music is a wonderful thing in my view. I believe any type of music is ...
Anxious about the way my son in law treats my 3 year old grandson11/23/2010
  Q: I suffer from anxiety as it is and now my anxiety has worsened even more and I can't stop crying ...
  A: I am sorry to hear your son in law's parenting style upsets you. Certainly, if you see something ...
What to do when your child doesn't bahave well?11/20/2010
  Q: I have this particular question. Mine is a 18-month-old boy. Today, he, my wife and I lie together ...
  A: with children this age, it works well to distract them with a new activity when stopping another. ...
Picky eater11/18/2010
  Q: Elizabeth, I am married with two little boys (7 1/2 and 4 1/2). My oldest is a great eater, but my ...
  A: I do not think Thanksgiving dinner is a good place to start a new rule or expectation. I also do ...
Picky eater11/18/2010
  Q: Elizabeth, I am married with two little boys (7 1/2 and 4 1/2). My oldest is a great eater, but my ...
  A: it sounds to me like you have pretty good sense about what you give the boys to eat and are willing ...
me again11/11/2010
  Q: Sorry about this but I forgot to mention that my OCD is very mild, and mainly its about having the ...
  A: Please refer to the original response posted for your question. I answered to the best of my ...
Not coping very well11/11/2010
  Q: I am struggling at the moment with raising my young children. I have twins (boy and girl) who are ...
  A: your letter touched me, I think because I was in in a very similar place when my girls were that ...
my 1 yr old10/24/2010
  Q: I am going to be flying in Nov. with my 1 year old son what are some ideas so I can make him more ...
  A: It sounds like everyone is loosing some sleep. It is not unusual for children to wake up at night, ...
A question about the "Your baby can read" series10/23/2010
  Q: I would like to ask if you have an opinion on the Your baby can read series by Dr. Robert Titzer. I ...
  A: I have little knowledge of this program, just what I have seen on TV. I do not know what the ...
5 y.o. girl competitiveness/jealousy10/23/2010
  Q: My soon to be 5 y.o. has been getting very jealous when I compliment any other child. It could be ...
  A: This is a tricky situation and I understand how you must feel pulled. As you and I know you love ...
Bottle problems10/20/2010
  Q: Ok, I admit it, I was not a parent who forced my child away from the bottle at night if she needed ...
  A: it sounds like you are having a hard time coming to terms with what you believe about eating and ...
communications with other problem10/20/2010
  Q: i have a three years old son ,the problem that he is very shy (he don't want to speak or respond to ...
  A: it is difficult to say what may be creating your son's reluctance to speak in public. He may be ...
My son James10/19/2010
  Q: I have been struggling with my four year old son for the last 2 and a half years. He has gotten ...
  A: I am so sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time with James, I can tell you are feeling ...
My 1 year old10/17/2010
  Q: we recently moved to a new state and my 1 year old has got a biting habit we have tried everything ...
  A: biting hurts and it also gets a lot of attention. If it looks like he is going to bite move him ...
My son's behavior10/15/2010
  Q: My son overall is a good child. The problem that I am having is that fact that he is the first ...
  A: try moving him to a soft place, the couch or bed then leave him to finish his tantrum. If he moves ...
My son's behavior10/15/2010
  Q: My son overall is a good child. The problem that I am having is that fact that he is the first ...
  A: It is difficult to filter through all the techniques and suggestions of others regarding discipline. ...
21/2yr old boy, hyperactive, dosen't speak much10/11/2010
  Q: my boy is 2 yr 3 months old. he is going to playgroup for 1.45min for 5 days a week since july. all ...
  A: You have your hands full with this little guy and it is difficult to know what to try to elicit new ...
my four year old9/28/2010
  Q: my four year old eats like a bird, she is very picky and she will ask for something to eat then only ...
  A: Sometimes questions do not make it to me or I open them in haste and forget to get back to them. I ...
14 month old who makes himself sick at bedtime9/26/2010
  Q: My 14 month old son has been waking up during the night for upto 2 hours and will not go back to ...
  A: It is a challenge to establish good sleep patterns and as you know, you all will feel better when ...
tantrums and fussiness9/15/2010
  Q: I am a working mother of 2 years 8 month boy, he throws lot of tantrums, whatever he needs ask for ...
  A: I hear your frustration and it sounds like everyone is tired and not getting enough sleep. Sleep ...
a different kid?9/14/2010
  Q: This question stems from the fact that recently I was looking into programs at the early years ...
  A: from what I read you have a wonderful relationship. 16 months is early for sitting for more than a ...
Discipline9/13/2010
  Q: i am a working mom of a 2.9 ys old girl.She is a sweet kid who listens to us mostly.But sometimes ...
  A: Your daughter is acting like children her age often do. If she has good behavior most of the time ...
2 yr old that hits and scratches a little girl9/11/2010
  Q: my 2 yr old grandson plays fine when his parents arent around but when one of them comes in the ...
  A: What are your guesses the reason he is doing this? My guess would be to gain the attention of his ...
6 y.o. touching herselfing and asking other kids to touch her9/6/2010
  Q: Elizabeth, I read your response to this similar question that was involving a 4yo boy but still have ...
  A: It sounds like you have done many good things to move through this problem. You have done the ...
2 questions9/5/2010
  Q: I have discovered that, in my old age, I have developed an intolerance for toddlers who cry ...
  A: I have had to think about how to respond to your question. Your frustrations are valid however no ...
misbehaving two year old8/31/2010
  Q: I have a two year old daughter who dont listen to anything I say. Her father and I seperated a year ...
  A: I am sure it is difficult to reunite with your daughter only to have her misbehave and challenge ...
3 YEAR OLD GIRL BEHAVIOR8/30/2010
  Q: I HAVE JUST HAD TO MOVE ME AND MY TWO KIDS TO ANOTHER CITY AND MY 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER IS EXTREMELY ...
  A: There have been a lot of changes for you and the kids and that can be stressful. Your child acting ...
Behaviour at nursery8/23/2010
  Q: I have a three year old son who's been going to nursery for the past one year and a half. He's been ...
  A: Some how this question did not arrive to me until this evening, yet I understand you posted prior to ...
Baby strains and turns red in high chair but is not constipated8/19/2010
  Q: So about a week ago my 9 month old daughter started doing this strange thing EVERY time I put her in ...
  A: I am not familiar with the syndrome you describe. I have also not observed a child as young as ...
Strong-willed three year old8/10/2010
  Q: Our friends usually refer to our 3yr old as 'a force to be reckoned with'. She is intelligent, ...
  A: First, stop putting yourself down about what type of parent you are. It is clear to me you are very ...
potty training8/7/2010
  Q: I have a daughter who is three and a half. She is highly intelligent, stubborn, and temperamental. ...
  A: I have had some trouble getting questions on time and was notified you had this question waiting for ...
4 yr old touching other kids private parts8/6/2010
  Q: I have a 4yr old son & a 2 year old daughter who spend a lot of time with my Sister in Law & her 3 ...
  A: It is not unusual for children your son's age to be curious about body parts, especially those we ...
Behavior8/3/2010
  Q: I read your paragraph and it seems like you would be best suited to help me with my three children. ...
  A: Angela, you are so welcome and remember your doing anything wrong, you just have smart kids!! I ...
How do I teach my son to throw balls?7/27/2010
  Q: My son has turned one year and there is this issue that makes me a bit worry. According to my aunt, ...
  A: Marie, not to worry, kids pick up throwing skills at different times. Frankly, some kids throw ...
Why does my child like the remote control?7/27/2010
  Q: Mine is a 13 month old boy. We have bought a few toys for him. For example, baby dolls, a ...
  A: this is a great example of how children learn by watching our model. He wants to be like daddy and ...
My two yr olds anger problem !4/21/2010
  Q: My two and half year old son has screaming,crying fits everyday from the time he wakes up till he ...
  A: I apologize for this not getting to you sooner, there must have been some glitch in sending as I was ...
Behavior Question4/19/2010
  Q: My three year old has real problems stopping an activity. For example, I will take her to the park. ...
  A: I remember having the same problem with my children, it got so I almost didn't want to start a game ...
My 2 1/2 Year Old Son Is Scaring Me.4/17/2010
  Q: I have a son who will be three years old come August 2010. He is in a early intervention program and ...
  A: You have a difficult situation that must be both exhausting and draining! Having a special needs ...
Please help!4/12/2010
  Q: I have a 4 year old niece who is going through a tough time at this moment. She is experiencing ...
  A: I can tell this is very concerning to you and I suspect your niece is responding to that. ...
My 3 yr old actively dislikes my mother! Ideas? Resources?4/12/2010
  Q: My normally very sweet and kind 3+4 month old daughter sees my parents 1-2 times a year and we're in ...
  A: It sounds like you have tried a number of strategies to work through this issue. I am not sure any ...
Please help!4/11/2010
  Q: I have a 4 year old niece who is going through a tough time at this moment. She is experiencing ...
  A: I understand your concern for your niece's reaction to noises, it sounds as if it interfere's with ...
4 year old3/14/2010
  Q: I have a four year old (just turned march 1st) and he seems to be going through some terrible fours. ...
  A: it can be very frustrating when children test the boundaries. It sounds to me that you are ...
My 4 year-old son3/10/2010
  Q: I have a four year-old son who has a strong personality and is very fond of being in the spotlight. ...
  A: Oh my golly you have your hands full with this fellow. Great idea to steer him to a more ...
Sipper3/9/2010
  Q: there is good as well as not so good news.Good is that my daughter has started taking abt 250 ml of ...
  A: I believe your little one is testing you, she knows her dawdling or refusing to eat, demanding TV ...
Dealing with 5 year old demanding girl3/9/2010
  Q: I have a 5 year old daughter, Dyna, and she's the youngest. She has a sister and a brother aged 11 ...
  A: Intelligent children like your daughter need the opportunity to express themselves constructively. ...
14 month old head shaking3/8/2010
  Q: My 14 month old daughter has started to exhibit some odd behavior. She has been exceptionally grumpy ...
  A: Your daughter should be seen by a doctor right away! Please list the behaviors you have seen so you ...
3 1/2 Boy afraid to pee3/6/2010
  Q: I have 3 1/2 year old twin boys who have been reluctant to potty train for the last 6 months. We ...
  A: this is certainly unusual behavior and not one I have heard of before. Please have him examined by ...
My 3 year old has lost his mind3/5/2010
  Q: I am 48 yrs old and I am raising my 3 yr old grandson, I feel like I have a lot of patience, but ...
  A: This is a common age for children to express their independence and want a sense of control. The ...
Why is my 3yr old hurting the dog3/3/2010
  Q: I have a 3 yr old girl. Recently we got a dog at an animal shelter who is a female 7yr old Husky. ...
  A: It appears that your daughter has figured out the dog will be submissive to her. Children take ...
Extremely difficult three year old3/2/2010
  Q: My question in a nutshell is how do I continue to parent an extremely difficult three year old ...
  A: I hear your concern for your daughter and your frustration about what the source of difficult ...
Unprofessional behavior from teachers toward toddlers.3/1/2010
  Q: How do I approach a situation with the classroom teacher and her colleague pertaining to the ...
  A: I hear and understand your concerns. It is true the teacher's behavior you describe is deplorable ...
Extreme Phobia of Toys that Light Up and Make Sound2/28/2010
  Q: My daughter is currently 4 years old and seems to exhibit an extreme fear of toys that light up and ...
  A: I think they make a talking game called Don't wake Daddy. I am just joking, don't really use it to ...
3-year-old daughter is a "bully"??2/24/2010
  Q: We were recently alerted that our 3.5-year-old has a problem with hitting and pushing other kids at ...
  A: It can be very troubling to think your child is acting unkindly. Young children will try the ...
3 Year Old Sudden Behavior Change at Preschool2/24/2010
  Q: my son is in the midst of potty training. He is in underwear at home and does great - no accidents. ...
  A: when it comes to sudden changes in body functions I would strongly suggest you visit your child's ...
Toddler not napping2/23/2010
  Q: I read and followed Dr. Weissbluth's book on Health Sleep Habits, Happy Child, and until recently I ...
  A: I am not familiar with Dr. Weissbluth's book but it's clear you have done a good job helping your ...
my 3 1/2 yr old suddenly stopped liking my live in boyfriend2/22/2010
  Q: I have a 3 and a 1/2 year old daughter and until recently she adored my boyfriend she used to tell ...
  A: This is not an unusual problem but it is difficult for you to be caught in the middle of two people ...
Feeding update2/22/2010
  Q: I am back!! She has started drinking with the sippy cup---ofcourse with lot of effort but she is not ...
  A: Congratulations on transitioning your daughter to a cup. Research shows children your daughter's ...
alarming change in behavior for 4 1/2 yr old boy2/20/2010
  Q: My grandson has always had a sweet nature and generally obedient as far as I have observed. He and ...
  A: Upon reading your letter this morning my heart has gone out to you. Your family has been on my mind ...
Toddler2/18/2010
  Q: My daughter is 2 1/2 years old now. When she was 1 year old her father/my husband just left. He ...
  A: Children your daughter's age will experiment with untruths. I would suggest you refrain from ...
Difficult 8 year old boy2/18/2010
  Q: I have an 8 year old son who loves throwing things in the air and then hitting them with something ...
  A: I am not sure why he is throwing things up and hitting them, possibly if it aggravates you there ...
my 4yr old2/18/2010
  Q: my wife and I have a two boys. One is 7 and the other just turned 4 in December. We are kind of at ...
  A: The best way to respond to the problems you describe is to anticipate them and plan how to respond ...
My 1 year old is misbehaving2/17/2010
  Q: Help! I have a little girl who just turned 1. She is starting to hit and pull hair. She yells back ...
  A: I would suggest you give most of your attention to what she does well. Pour on the positive praise ...
15 month old hitting2/16/2010
  Q: I am a new mom of a 15 month old boy. In January he started preschool and within a couple of weeks ...
  A: It is not uncommon for children to mimic behaviors they see peers do. If you do not make a big ...
Difficult 8 year old boy2/15/2010
  Q: I have an 8 year old son who loves throwing things in the air and then hitting them with something ...
  A: It sounds like your son demonstrates some distractibility and most likely gets a fair amount of ...
not using the potty2/15/2010
  Q: My 3 yr old decided he wasnt going to use the potty today. I found him pooping in a toy truck in his ...
  A: I am so glad you are seeking solutions when the behavior is new, this gives you the upper hand in ...
Food2/14/2010
  Q: I am a working mom of a 26 mths old daughter.She goes to pre-school 3 times a week.She is adjusted ...
  A: It sounds like you are on the right track. The fruit shake sounds like a great solution for ...
2 year old hitting2/11/2010
  Q: My daughter turned 2 last month, and I also have a 3 year old son. Starting about 4 months ago, she ...
  A: Hitting is a behavior no one likes. It sounds to me like you have been patient and willing to try ...
my 3 yr old granson obsesses2/11/2010
  Q: Why do you think my 3 year old grandson is always whining and crying about his shoes being too ...
  A: Sometimes a child's behavior makes no sense and can elicit great frustration for both the child and ...
Querries for Kid of 18 months2/9/2010
  Q: Sir, My child is exactly 18 months old, weighing 10 kg with a perfectly growing stages.We are ...
  A: You describe a typical 18mo old. This is the age children begin to use words to communicate though ...
why my daughter cries with dad1/25/2010
  Q: I have just recently had legalized court order for my 17 month old daughters father's visitation and ...
  A: I apologize for not getting right back to you, I had some computer problems. Your's is a tricky ...
3.5 year old suddenly starts crying when dropped off at school/daycare1/20/2010
  Q: I am the father of my 3.5 year old son who has been attending daycare since he was 6 months old. He ...
  A: It must be very difficult to leave for work with a knot in your stomach, I will try to help you ...
Potty training a child with Crohn's1/19/2010
  Q: I have a two and a half-year-old who has been diagnosed with an aggressive case of Crohn's disease. ...
  A: what a difficult experience for all of you! Unfortunately, I feel this is a medical issue that I ...
3and 1/2 year old not speaking enough or toilet training1/19/2010
  Q: When she talks on the phone all she will say is hi and bye and just make humming noises she also ...
  A: bless your heart, from your letter I can tell you are a attentive concerned parent and I am so ...
Pacifier1/12/2010
  Q: My son is 3 years & 3 months old & uses a pacifier ONLY at bedtime. We have been having some sleep ...
  A: It is not easy for any parent to remove a security item from a young child. Unfortunately, he will ...
Three kids under three wont sleep1/11/2010
  Q: I am pregnant with my fourth and dont hardly sleep with my three children (girl 4, boy 2 and boy ...
  A: you certainly have your hands full and I hear you are exhausted. Unfortunately, there is not easy ...
aggressive toddlers12/10/2009
  Q: I have a two year old, almost three now. He is aggressive towards his younger sibling (15m). He ...
  A: I am sure this is a difficult situation. Since the consequences you have tried have not been ...
control between mom and 2-1/2 year old12/9/2009
  Q: My 25 year old daughter and her 2-1/2 year old daughter live with me. My daughter has horrible ...
  A: Happy Birthday Rachel! May I suggest when you find a moment when both you and your daughter are in ...
control between mom and 2-1/2 year old12/8/2009
  Q: My 25 year old daughter and her 2-1/2 year old daughter live with me. My daughter has horrible ...
  A: Beverly, I am impressed! You demonstrate great patience and self control as well as good intuition! ...
challenges with my 7year old12/8/2009
  Q: There are two primary challenges we are dealing with in regards to our 7 year old daughter. The main ...
  A: after reading your inquiry, it's clear you have an intellectual understanding of logic based ...
angel at nursery, beast at home12/8/2009
  Q: my son is 2 years and 2 months old, i've been sending him to a real nice nursery since he was 1 ...
  A: I hear your frustration! I think your son is using toileting to get everyone to engage with him, ...
control between mom and 2-1/2 year old12/7/2009
  Q: My 25 year old daughter and her 2-1/2 year old daughter live with me. My daughter has horrible ...
  A: it must be so hard to watch this interaction when you know it is not effective. Good for you not to ...
3 1/2 Boy Doing Odd Things At Preschool12/4/2009
  Q: Our 3 1/2 year old boy has been doing some odd things at preschool. He has been there for almost 6 ...
  A: I am glad you are looking for ideas, I know it can feel disheartening and upsetting to think your ...
potty fear11/30/2009
  Q: My daughter is almost 4 years oldand using the potty very well. Sleeps all the way through the night ...
  A: it's possible that she experienced what we call in our home a 'splash down' which scared her. I ...
Restless Toddler11/29/2009
  Q: He often takes over an hour to fall asleep. He doesn't want to sleep in his bed but instead sleeps ...
  A: It appears to me that you have a good understanding of your son's difficulty in self regulation. ...
Restless Toddler11/27/2009
  Q: He often takes over an hour to fall asleep. He doesn't want to sleep in his bed but instead sleeps ...
  A: Working through sleep issues with children can be quite challenging. When sleep is compromised, ...
Super attached Eight Year Old11/23/2009
  Q: ..I am dating a recently divorced man, he has three kids. The oldest is eight, a little girl that is ...
  A: without observing the child or his interactions with others I can not form an opinion regarding his ...
3 yr old behavior11/17/2009
  Q: Our 3 yr old grandson is from a divorced family. He lives out of town half of time with father and ...
  A: your letter shows frustration and anger and I can tell you feel immersed in a winless situation. I ...
Highly emotional five-year-old girl11/12/2009
  Q: My five-year-old daughter is very bright, advanced in reading and math, and loves school, but she's ...
  A: I can't be sure what drives a sensitive temperament but I will offer my personal sense about it, ...
3 year old behaviour problems11/10/2009
  Q: I have a gorgeous son who was 3 in September. He is high spirited, energetic, and an early riser in ...
  A: I apologize for not getting right back to you. I think you are very perceptive in saying he knows ...
toddler defiance11/5/2009
  Q: I have a daughter who will turn 3 in December. For most of the last year, she has been in a phase of ...
  A: Megan, I am happy to be of help to you. First, your physician insists you stop bottles and pacifies ...
toddler defiance11/4/2009
  Q: I have a daughter who will turn 3 in December. For most of the last year, she has been in a phase of ...
  A: Oh glory, you have a intelligent little one! Like her mother, she is a problem solver. It sounds ...
toddler having a hard time with other children in the home11/3/2009
  Q: I have a 22 month old son who is having some behavioral problems lately. I have run a small in home ...
  A: you really have your hands full and I sense your concern for your son and the upcoming transition ...
bathroom behavior11/2/2009
  Q: we have 3 and 4 year old sons which both recently started preschool. we have just noticed the 3 year ...
  A: this is a head scratcher for sure. The short of it is, get eye to eye with him, tell him you know ...
Very active 4-year old trouble w/Pre-K10/6/2009
  Q: My son was in daycare last year, and we had the occasional note sent him about him being too rough ...
  A: I am glad you appreciate your son's active and playful side. It is of my opinion that we are asking ...
personality change10/3/2009
  Q: My son is 3 years and 8 months old. He is my only child and is a well-adjusted happy child. He ...
  A: I apologize for my delayed response, I had unexpected commitments last weekend. You seem to have a ...
Worried about my 4 year old stepson9/30/2009
  Q: I am a newlywed with a fantastic husband and two step children ages 7 and 4. They were both adopted ...
  A: It is difficult to be a step parent and you appear to have a tender heart for these children and a ...
co sleeping with parents9/27/2009
  Q: Hey its me again. Our 29 month old daughter refuses to sleep in her bed. We tried lately to drive ...
  A: You are not alone with this issue just as you arn't alone in your bed. There are some big ...
3 yr old son says he is sad9/26/2009
  Q: My three-year-old son is very dramatic and expressive. Whenever you do something he doesn't like, he ...
  A: I would like you to know, I am not trained in the medical or psychology field. I believe there are ...
potty-training9/25/2009
  Q: I am really working hard with my three year old son to get him to use the bathroom like a big boy, ...
  A: The science of potty training is two fold. First kids know they can control their bodily functions ...
2 1/2 yr old hits/grabs9/24/2009
  Q: I am so frustrated with my 2 1/2 yr old son. He hits and pushes or grabs other kids, mostly his ...
  A: it sounds to me like you have a pretty good understanding of why your child is doing this. You are ...
Our 1 year old doesn't want mom!9/24/2009
  Q: My wife and I have a 1 year old son and lately (last few months) he doesn't seem to want mom. We ...
  A: I can sense you are a big hearted guy who is concerned for both of your babes. It kind of takes ...
21 month old acting out9/18/2009
  Q: My 21 month year old daughter is hitting her 'terrible twos' a little bit early, I think. The ...
  A: The questions I asked were to rule out an intrinsic issue such as autism, and they did. You ...
21 month old acting out9/17/2009
  Q: My 21 month year old daughter is hitting her 'terrible twos' a little bit early, I think. The ...
  A: I hope I can be of help to you. It is hard for me to know what is setting her off. I hear you say ...
i want you to be expert for my study9/17/2009
  Q: i m student from india doing study on mother toddler program , i request you to be expert for my ...
  A: I am not aware of a specific mother toddler program. Is this scripted program and are there ...
why my child crys for her dad9/16/2009
  Q: my child is two and seven months old. i try my beat to be a good for her. i work and am single. ...
  A: I am sure it hurts your feelings to see your child show distress separating from her father. I will ...
Does my 3 1/2 year old daughter have a problem?9/16/2009
  Q: A few people that are around my daughter a lot seem to think she has a problem. Her attention span ...
  A: I am so glad you asked this question and detailed your situation well. Your story strikes a nerve ...
3 yr old constantly cryong and irritated9/14/2009
  Q: My son who will be 3 yr old in 3 months cries a lot and is becoming extremely irritated for the last ...
  A: It is clear to me that you are a very thoughtful parent who takes the time to be sensitive to your ...
i want you to be expert for my study9/14/2009
  Q: i m student from india doing study on mother toddler program , i request you to be expert for my ...
  A: please tell me more about your goal or intent with this study. How are you implementing the study ...
3 yr old constantly cryong and irritated9/13/2009
  Q: My son who will be 3 yr old in 3 months cries a lot and is becoming extremely irritated for the last ...
  A: Greetings Mrs. Abbas, It sounds to me like you have quite a cleaver young man. First it is always ...
hand in a fist......toddler9/8/2009
  Q: My son is 2 years 9 months. He has a bad habit of taking is left hand and holding it in a fist. Now ...
  A: I am glad you asked about your concern. What you describe indicates a need for either physical ...
3 year says he touched me.9/1/2009
  Q: My daughter is 3-1/2 and has for the past 2 weeks wanted my boyfriend of 5 months to leave (we've ...
  A: I am sure this is a scary place to be, like being blindfolded in a thicket of sticker bushes not ...
3 yr old daughter8/27/2009
  Q: We have got a problem that has got us stumped to no tomorrow. Our 3 yr old daughter is the oldest of ...
  A: It sounds to me like she is a sweet little girl and may just have bad days, they happen. If ...
Scared of slight noises.8/27/2009
  Q: I hope you can help me. My daughter is 3 years old and i am having a big problem with her at the ...
  A: I can hear your concern for your daughter's heightened reaction to sounds. She may be demonstrating ...
3 yr old daughter8/26/2009
  Q: We have got a problem that has got us stumped to no tomorrow. Our 3 yr old daughter is the oldest of ...
  A: Three year old triplets, what a challenge and you are to be admired! If your darling has just begun ...
3 year old tells me she doesn't like me8/26/2009
  Q: I'm a single mother of a 3 year old. Recently she has been telling me "I don't like you!" and also ...
  A: I am sure it is very disheartening to hear your daughter tell you she doesn't like you. Deep down ...
4 year old Boy potty problems8/25/2009
  Q: My son was 100% day and night potty trained 1/18/08. We maybe had 1 pee accident at night every ...
  A: Kaylene, I see just where your son got his smarts. You are a quick study. What a joy it was to ...
4 year old Boy potty problems8/25/2009
  Q: My son was 100% day and night potty trained 1/18/08. We maybe had 1 pee accident at night every ...
  A: Congratulations you have an intelligent child. Unfortunately he has discovered a behavior that you ...
seperation anxiety at age 48/23/2009
  Q: I appreciate your taking the time to read my question. My youngest daughter turned 4 1/2 8/4/09. ...
  A: I can see where this is a difficult situation for your family. It is not easy to watch a child ...
toilet8/15/2009
  Q: i have 2 girls ages 2 and 3 my 3yr old is always soiling and wetting her pants and goin on the ...
  A: It sounds like you are thinking things through. If you try something different and it works, then ...
toilet8/14/2009
  Q: i have 2 girls ages 2 and 3 my 3yr old is always soiling and wetting her pants and goin on the ...
  A: How frustrating, just when you think you are over a big hurdle you find yourself revisiting the ...
Fighting sleep8/14/2009
  Q: I have a three month old that fights sleep horribly. She will be so obviously tired but when we ...
  A: Even though it has been some time, I remember the early days of parenthood and finding solutions to ...
attachments in toddlers8/12/2009
  Q: We are about to take custody of our 15 month old grandson and hopefully adopt him. I know ...
  A: Bless you for an amazing spirit to go at parenting again. I am sure there are a lot of concerns ...
angel at nursery, beast at home8/11/2009
  Q: my son is 2 years and 2 months old, i've been sending him to a real nice nursery since he was 1 ...
  A: Sally, you have made some very empowered and amazing changes. You are sounding confident and clear ...
Preschooler fears8/11/2009
  Q: My normally very mild mannered, well behaved 4 year old son recently developed a minor skin virus. ...
  A: Yikes! This is a darned if you do, darned if you don't situation. Hmm, off the top of my head here ...
speech8/11/2009
  Q: i have a 22 month old and she is saying new words, and is interested in books and mimicking our ...
  A: You are a great mom! I am happy to answer your questions, as the old saying goes, a smart person is ...
Attitude in a toddler8/11/2009
  Q: Elizabeth, My boyfriends son it a little over a year old. Lately he has been having a really big ...
  A: I hope I can be of help to you. Separation anxiety is very common for a baby this age. They are ...
humping tables8/10/2009
  Q: I have a five year old daughter and I constantly catch her humping a table we have in the family ...
  A: I can imagine this behavior could cause some concern. First, I would suggest you find out that she ...
speech8/10/2009
  Q: i have a 22 month old and she is saying new words, and is interested in books and mimicking our ...
  A: Gia, in my opinion, you are doing exactly what she needs. I am so impressed that she isn't watching ...
tempers8/9/2009
  Q: I want to know, as a dr, do you feel people/children are born with tempers, or it is a learned ...
  A: Ok Great Melody, thanks for sharing some specifics. I have some ideas for you. First here is a ...
tempers8/8/2009
  Q: I want to know, as a dr, do you feel people/children are born with tempers, or it is a learned ...
  A: You have asked an intriguing question that has been asked by many before. It is a question of nature ...
angel at nursery, beast at home7/22/2009
  Q: my son is 2 years and 2 months old, i've been sending him to a real nice nursery since he was 1 ...
  A: I can hear how frustrated you are but I can begin by offering you some good news! Your son knows ...
16months old and still not walking unassited7/20/2009
  Q: one thing i have found even with all the common sense and knowledge that a child is an individual ...
  A: It's no fun when friends and family ask the question "is she walking yet?" and you find yourself ...
speech7/13/2009
  Q: i have a 22 month old and she is saying new words, and is interested in books and mimicking our ...
  A: can you agree it is cute to hear her baby talk? Yes it is typical for new talkers to substitute ...

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I would like to help you raise children who are respectful and responsible and who seek positive outcomes for themselves and their interactions with others. Each child has their own learning style and each family has their own individual culture. I look for creative ways to address problems or concerns that arise when guiding young children. I am an Early Childhood Special Education teacher and work providing support and ideas to families of young children in the home. I have an understanding of typical and delayed development and can identify red flags in children who can benefit from specialized services. I also teach positive parenting courses to help parents understand why children misbehave and to develop strategies to effectively respond to those behaviors while honoring individual family values. I have a specific interest in children labeled as difficult, attention deficit or oppositional defiant. I am committed to finding ways children can positively participate in family or community activities. I empathize with children who don’t feel they are fitting in and for parents who worry and feel criticized. I have a sense of humor and look for ways to reduce frustration and to foster playful interactions.

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As a young child I experienced learning disabilities and had trouble fitting in. I was later diagnosed as dyslexic. My own daughter experienced similar issues and we were simultaneously diagnosed with attention deficit disorder. I have enjoyed working with children, especially those with special needs, for over 30 years. I have provided respite care, emergency foster care coached special Olympics and taught adaptive aquatics. I Worked full time as a classroom aide in a high school special education classroom prior to earning my teaching certificate. I have taught 5th grade, kindergarten and both integrated and self contained special education preschool classes. I have consulted to private preschools and Head Start classrooms regarding mainstreaming children with special needs. I currently work as an Early Childhood Special Education Teacher and provide home visits to families of developmentally delayed children ages birth to three. I am familiar with programs available to support families who have special education needs. I am particularly interested in supporting children labeled as difficult and fostering supportive environments for learning. I teach positive parenting courses in rural communities.

Organizations
Parenting with Love and Logic INC. Special Olympics

Publications
Good Day Bad Day an inspirational story published in the book Why I Teach.

Education/Credentials
BS Elementary Education University of Oregon 1989 45 hours of graduate coursework in Special Education Oregon Educational Association certified in Early Childhood Special Education. Various teaching strategies and programs for language, cognitive, motor and social development. Strategies to assist families with children who demonstrate challenging behaviors. Parenting with Love and Logic facilitator.

Awards and Honors
Graduated University of Oregon with honors 1989

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Public regular education classrooms. Children and families with developmental disabilities. Children and families with behavior challenges. Parents who want to learn new parenting strategies. Parents who are court ordered to attend behavior management courses. Consultation to private and public preschool programs. Professional development to teachers.

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