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About Evelyn Petersen
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I give parents advice that is candid, positive and practical. I give them ideas that work and that they can use immediately, not study. My advice is based on expertise and experience in the area of early childhood education that spans 40 years of work as a professional and as a parent and grandparent. See askevelyn.com

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SubjectDate Asked

Feeding11/10/2009
  Q: My son is just over one year old and is a good eater. The thing that is bothering me is that he ...
  A: First I suggest that you go online and find some sites on foods and feeding of babies one year olds ...
pinching 18 month old11/3/2009
  Q: My grandson is 18 months old and is pinching and scratching other children in his daycare, and at ...
  A: This is definitely a problem and the daycare people should be addressing it. Perhaps they are not ...
Unhappy Son11/2/2009
  Q: I have an 11 month old son who is a handful! He was born screaming, and known at the hospital as the ...
  A: I feel so sorry for you....this is unusual. I think you need to take him to another doctor for a ...
Sleeping Issues10/24/2009
  Q: 2.5 Year old wakes up screaming Hello, I have 2.5 year old daughter who has never been a good ...
  A: I feel so sorry for you...YOU ARE DOING ALL THE RIGHT THINGS...and best of all not giving in to her ...
childcare centre10/23/2009
  Q: As carers in children’ services how can I meet the emotional and social needs of infants aged ...
  A: If you are a caregiver in a centre, it seems that you should have had training in these areas and ...
Infant Temper Tantrums & Sleep Patterns9/16/2009
  Q: This concerns a very intelligent, early developing 8 mos. old. He is beginning walking, is exposed ...
  A: I think this must be your first child. The best advice I can give you is not to expect too much of ...
toddler wakes up screaming middle of night8/3/2009
  Q: both sleeping through the night, until a week and a half ago. One of my daughters now wakes up, ...
  A: You know in your heart that the right thing to do is let them cry it out even if it takes several ...
4 year old won't poop in the toilet.8/3/2009
  Q: This is going to take a while, please bear with me. My son will be 4 next month and he is getting ...
  A: Yes Janelle, most experts do say this. You are doing all the right things. But at least get Vicki ...
child masturbation8/2/2009
  Q: my 4 year old has recently discovered his penis, and he will not leave it alone. he plays with it ...
  A: ..this is common at four, so you need to not be shocked or upset. Tell your son this is not ...
potty training8/1/2009
  Q: My 3yr old girl is is still using her underwear as a toilet. Is this remotely normal? If so,What ken ...
  A: Go online to BookPeddlers.com and find the book on potty training by Vicki Lansky ...it is a classic ...
disliking grandparenting7/31/2009
  Q: I know that this is a parenting site, but I could find no other relevant site. So here I am. I ...
  A: I totally understand how you feel...as a grandparent and great grandparent, I thank the Lord that ...
high maintenance 11mo. old7/31/2009
  Q: My daughter is 11mos old and has just learned how to walk a couple of weeks ago. She has always, for ...
  A: As a parent your long term job will be to help your child/children learn to be independent and be ...
My 2-year old7/28/2009
  Q: I am a mother of two beautiful little girls ages 5 and 2 1/2. My 5 year old is the perfect child ...
  A: It is somewhat frustrating to have a "really good" child first and not be prepared for the second ...
sudden aversion to daycare7/23/2009
  Q: I have a 27 month old son who is suddenly very unhappy at daycare. I am a high school teacher, so I ...
  A: You have really thought of and examined all the possibilities I would have considered..except for ...
my daughter hits, pinches, and pulls hair7/22/2009
  Q: I have a two and a half year old daughter. She hits, pinches,bites, or pulls the hair of her mother, ...
  A: Well Steve I hardly ever advise this, but you had best think hard and fast about giving her some ...
baby sleeping7/21/2009
  Q: Hey, I have a 2wks old baby girl that likes to sleep all day but up at night. She takes bottle then ...
  A: Babies are not known for conforming you adult wishes or expectations. Helping them learn a schedule ...
negative language with toddlers7/18/2009
  Q: I was observing my 14 month old in his daycare classroom as he was attempting to bite other ...
  A: Michelle, You are totally and irrevocably correct. It is quite possible that this person has not ...
Potty training6/22/2009
  Q: Our son will be 3 in August. He's a gem, smarter than any other child his age and most of the time a ...
  A: Yes Ed but another GREAT resource for you to use is the potty training book by Vicki Lansky ..it is ...
inconsistent wake times6/19/2009
  Q: our 16 month old has been inconsistent with his wake up times. he goes to bed consistently about ...
  A: So sorry to hear that but it is common at this age when your child is learing his/her own sleep ...
Supervision for babies/infants6/18/2009
  Q: Since the beginning of child birth its always been hard for a single parent household or two parent ...
  A: No matter what part of the world you are in, you need to make the decison about what is safe and ...
3 year old behaivor6/18/2009
  Q: Our son will be 3 in August. He's a gem, smarter than any other child his age and most of the time a ...
  A: Most three's really don't do well with time out in a chair, but some are ok with it. Every child is ...
Trauma after earthquake5/27/2009
  Q: We had an earthquake here in CA about a week ago. It was a 4.7 and the epicenter was in the city ...
  A: In cities where earthquakes are common, there are usually specialists who will help you with this ...
Throat issues?5/25/2009
  Q: Question we having been dealing for three weeks now with our 7 year old son, he has been complaining ...
  A: It is not uncommon these days for seven year olds to have panic attacks. But this may even be ...
41/2 YEAR OLD ACTING OUT IN PRESCHOOL5/23/2009
  Q: My family (myself, husband and son) just moved to Korea from Texas almost 2 months ago. My son has ...
  A: Sorry I am late in answering...but we are having some serious health problems in our family right ...
Sleep5/20/2009
  Q: Please Help I have a 31/3rd old little girl very bright and independent she has always slept very ...
  A: Sherrie this seems rather unusual...have you tried security objects and nite lite, and soft music on ...
bullying5/19/2009
  Q: I am a mother of a four year old who attends daycare. She has complained of two older children ...
  A: Sammy, First make a call and say you are coming to observe in the day care. Tell your boss why you ...
m 3 yr old5/15/2009
  Q: she is very hyper , n hates to listen i don't belive in spanking but my husband does he is her step ...
  A: Melissa, I have been doing this for 40 years and am a mom or 4 and grandma of 4 and great grandma of ...
Siblings fight ALOT5/15/2009
  Q: My 2 kids 9 yr. old son & 7 yr. old daughter fight incessantly. My daughter andagonizes hime and he ...
  A: We had two children a year apart who also fought constantly as children. I wanted to believe that ...
Toddler afraid to fall asleep alone5/13/2009
  Q: Evelyn, our daughter will turn 3 in 2 months. She has always been an excellent sleeper (aside from ...
  A: I am sure your are right...she is enjoying the attention and making the most of it. Your loving and ...
attitude change4/23/2009
  Q: I have a son who just turned 1 in April, and he recently was sick for about a week. After his fever ...
  A: This actually sound very unusual and if I were you I would make an appt with the child's doctor asap ...
7 month old with recent disturbed sleep.4/22/2009
  Q: My 7 month old until about a months ago would sleep through the night from 10pm till around 8am. ...
  A: yes it is very likely the teething. Ask your doctor for something you can give her or rub on her ...
discipline4/22/2009
  Q: my son is now 13 months old. he will sometimes willingly sit in his feeding chair but most times has ...
  A: Letting your child feel that you are in charge, not he, makes him feel sucure. You should have been ...
sleep patterns4/21/2009
  Q: Evelyn- I need some help. I have a two year old that has horrendous sleep habits. She has never ...
  A: Poor Holly I feel so sad for you...you also have sleep deprivaton, even if she does too. But I ...
Repetitive Talking4/20/2009
  Q: My son has been showing signs of mumbling in between his daily activities however today he has ...
  A: ..he must have heard this somewhere and it somehow made an imporession. I would not make a big deal ...
sleeping issues4/15/2009
  Q: I have a son, he will be 3 in July, and from day one has been a terrible sleeper. In the last year ...
  A: If you have kept up a consistent bedtime routine, this is unusual. Try to keep him awake more in ...
Scared Toddler!4/13/2009
  Q: My son is afraid of walking on shiny floors, carpet with patterns and playground equipment that has ...
  A: I would suspect it is a perceptual problem, nothing mental. You can have him tested (free) for a ...
8 month old problem sleeping4/13/2009
  Q: My question (or problem) with my 8 month of boy is as follows. I have a good routine and schedule ...
  A: Ryan you are doing well with this, and are being patient. You are vrey wise to put him into a ...
Climbing 17 month old3/11/2009
  Q: Evelyn, I have a really active 17 month old daughter who is really finding a love to climb and ...
  A: Climbing is a very normal thing that this age wants and needs to do for physical development. BUT ...
rebellious 3 year old son3/10/2009
  Q: i have a 3 year old son who recently has been acting very diffrently. I recently got a new boyfriend ...
  A: Atage 3 he may not even be able to understand that you have needs and need a boyfriend. All he sees ...
Head butting3/8/2009
  Q: In the last few weeks my 15 months old son developed a fond of head butting. At first he did it when ...
  A: I am sorry Lilac but I have never heard of this problem in my 40 years of working with parents. ...
How do I handle my preschooler's behavior at school?3/5/2009
  Q: For the last several weeks, my 35 month old daughter has been acting up in her preschool class. She ...
  A: You are obviously a good mom and a very observant one. Perhaps you can visit and observe her in the ...
Toilet Training Regression DESPARATE Should i put her back in nappies??3/5/2009
  Q: HELP!! My 2.5 year old dauther was pretty much toliet trained in 4 days this was 4 month ago she ...
  A: This behavior is typical for children this age who have been "trained" too soon when they were not ...
potty trained toddler peeing on floor.3/3/2009
  Q: My daughter is 2 and a half and has been potty trained, both pee and poop, for 4 months now. ...
  A: Unfortunately this sometimes happens when children are "trained" too early. I'ts sort of a ...
Concerned3/2/2009
  Q: My son just turned 5yrs old now, he is a very obedient and happy child at home, he makes his own ...
  A: This sounds very unusual and is not normal for a five year old. If he has been in preschool for a ...
bedtime2/28/2009
  Q: My 6 month old has been sleeping in her crib for the past couple months. I bath her, breastfeed her, ...
  A: Dont worry abou this. She can easily get down on her but anytime she wants to. She will just let ...
Clingy 15 month old toddler2/27/2009
  Q: My 15 month old daughter is very clingy. She has been clingy from about 4 months old. She will only ...
  A: At 15 months this is really getting old...yes. I am so sorry and have to say that this separation ...
ex and his family ruining my hard work?2/25/2009
  Q: My children's father and I are arguing with what would make children sneaky and what wouldn't. We ...
  A: Unfotunately, unless you get a lawyer and get it changed, you have to go with and live with whatever ...
re: bedtime2/24/2009
  Q: My daughter is 2yrs old and wont fall asleep without getting rocked before bedtime, do i put her in ...
  A: This is normal. Your daughter is using the rocking as part of her bedtime ritual ...children need ...
Low water intake2/22/2009
  Q: My 1.3 yrs old daughter does not drink much water.She hardly ever takes soups or juices.Even water ...
  A: This is not my area of expertise...It is your child's doctor who should help with this question. ...
Problems falling asleep2/21/2009
  Q: We have a 3 year old daughter who is having trouble falling asleep at night. She went through a ...
  A: You have been doing everything right. You might try reading Vicki Lansky's book "Getting Your Child ...
emerging strange language pattern2/20/2009
  Q: My 4-year-old granddaughter talked early and well. In the last week she has developed a vexing ...
  A: Sorry but I have never, in my own 40 years in the field, heard of this particular speech/behavior ...
My 2 yr old seems to prefer an adults company2/19/2009
  Q: So my son is 2 and he prefers the comfort of an adult, he always wants to be held, or the center of ...
  A: What your son probably loves is the attention of adults, and that is normal for twos...they are not ...
toddler dislikes preschool2/18/2009
  Q: My 2.5 year old cries when I take him to preschool. He was ok the 1st few weeks though he still ...
  A: I assume you mean you are taking him to "preschool" and not to a child care center which you might ...
Just weird.. don't know what to think2/18/2009
  Q: The other day my three year old daughter and I were getting ready to go to bed; I had turned all ...
  A: Don't worry about this, and don't over react. You see, many threes, especially bright children with ...
sleep issues1/23/2009
  Q: Our son is almost 6 months old and is used to going to bed with a bottle. I know it is healthier ...
  A: Don't worry he will get over it if you let him cry and will still trust you if you treat him with ...
passing of urine1/22/2009
  Q: My 4 year old granddaughter is perfectly healthy but I am worried about how often she goes to the ...
  A: I do not think that this is normal. You could just call your own docotor or the nurse on call ...
unusual potty fear1/21/2009
  Q: this may sound foolish but my 3 1/2 year old daughter has recently become terrefied of the ...
  A: Jody this does happen....It will pass. You need to keep reassuring her that it does not happen very ...
4 yr old sleep issues1/20/2009
  Q: I am having sleep issues with my almost 5 year old daughter Natalie. She is my middle child and ...
  A: I guess if being the comforter is not helping and may be reinforcing the behavior because it is ...
Hitting1/17/2009
  Q: My child three year old is an only child. I stay at home with her so she has never been to day ...
  A: That method is great if she is just playing incorretly or unsafely with a toy or material. But if ...
Mommy obsessed toddler1/15/2009
  Q: Our 21 month old girl is going through a stage in which she won't let her mother out of her site. ...
  A: I am so sorry you are having such a problem. Ususally the separation asnxiety happens at about 8 ...
My daugher fears getting dirty1/13/2009
  Q: The first melt down my daughter had was when she was under a year old and she realized that her ...
  A: Our middle child was EXACTLY like that...did not want to go barefoot etc and also would not try any ...
my 2yr & 10month old boy doesn't want to go to school1/12/2009
  Q: My son is 2yr & 10 month old. when he was born, I quit work for a while and was home until he was ...
  A: Many children at the age of 2 and young 3 do not feel secure when they are away from home. Home and ...
Tantrum in my 14 month old1/11/2009
  Q: I have twins (b/g) 14 month old (they were preemie, 11 months corrected. Lately my daughter has ...
  A: The tanturm age is closer to two, so I would bet there is something physical going on with her. ...
3 1/2 yr. son12/13/2008
  Q: I can completely relate to Jackie who wrote about her moody 3 1/2 year old. I, too, have a son that ...
  A: Beth, our child who was like this at age 3 did the same. Our psychologist said that she should be ...
3 1/2 yr. son12/12/2008
  Q: I can completely relate to Jackie who wrote about her moody 3 1/2 year old. I, too, have a son that ...
  A: Threes are often moody and usually it is because they are so in need of predictable routines and ...
Four year old afraid to start new school12/12/2008
  Q: We recently relocated to a new state and I am trying to start my son mid year in a PreK program. ...
  A: You need to talk with the teachers about what their policy is in this sort of situation. Maybe, as ...
My son will only nap if I lay with him.12/11/2008
  Q: I'm having a problem putting my son down for a nap in his crib, he will only nap if I lay with him ...
  A: You certainly don't want to mess up the great bedtime routine...so you still need to try to break ...
$year old daughter12/10/2008
  Q: My daughter is 4 she now talks back to her mom and I has become very disruptive in her class. What ...
  A: I am so sorry you are in that situation. What advice I gave you still holds, regardless. BUT I ...
$year old daughter12/9/2008
  Q: My daughter is 4 she now talks back to her mom and I has become very disruptive in her class. What ...
  A: At four this is certainly unacceptable behavior. She needs to have clear simple rules and ...
7 YEAR OLD12/9/2008
  Q: WHAT CARTOONS SHOULD MY SON WATCH AT AGE 7?
  A: You are the parent. It is totally up to you what you thing he sould watch or not watch. Personlly ...
9 year old with cronic anxiety and sleep problems11/24/2008
  Q: My 9 year old daughter has always been on the anxious side, she sleeps with a lamp on with her ...
  A: just for a start try the ideas in Monsters Under the Bed which is a book you should be able to get ...
Rude at 511/22/2008
  Q: My son's father and I separated over a year ago and it really affected my son. He is constantly ...
  A: No doing cruelty back to him won't really work...he is only just beginning to understand and do ...
Stupid mommy, please help!11/21/2008
  Q: I have a beautiful 20 month-old boy, and I simply cannot express how much I love him. His father ...
  A: No, your child is too young to understand and therefore get the full benefit of 1 2 3 Magic. That ...
behavior problems with a developmentally delayed 4-year old11/20/2008
  Q: My 4-year old son is in a special education preschool class at our county school. He has been ...
  A: I hope you are able to visit the school and observe quietly and take notes. Maybe you can gain some ...
11 month now cries and fusses at night11/19/2008
  Q: My 11 month, soon to be a year in two weeks, has been sleeping with us since about 5 months old. ...
  A: I and many many other early childhood experts and doctors agree that haing a child sleep with you ...
Bad Habit11/18/2008
  Q: I have an 18 month old daughter who (about 2 months ago) started waking up crying at night around ...
  A: Please take her in for a doctor's check up first...maybe there is some physical problem...it could ...
Three year old11/14/2008
  Q: I am a single mother with two children. My three year old daughter has recently begun hitting her ...
  A: I am 72 and have been doing parenting columns and books for 25 years. I have seen this problem ...
sudden indecisevenss in my 5 yr old daughter11/14/2008
  Q: My 5 year old girl has been having a very hectic and life changing year so far, she has a new 3 ...
  A: Yes you are right about the changes; all of a sudden they caught up with her and were way too much. ...
Three year old11/12/2008
  Q: I am a single mother with two children. My three year old daughter has recently begun hitting her ...
  A: Velerie, this is indeed a concern. Get together with the day care person privately (maybe on a ...
Toddler crying11/11/2008
  Q: A 2 year old boy, seems to whind alot. It seems to only happens after his dad has put him to sleep. ...
  A: Bobbie, I have no idea unless it is that your husband is playing and roughhousing with him before ...
15 month old who will not sleep11/6/2008
  Q: My 15month old was a great sleeper until about 10months when he hit a developmental milestone. Since ...
  A: Yes Steph, you have definitely created this monster and now you have to pay the piper. I advise you ...
Pre-schooler sleep and eating problems11/6/2008
  Q: My son is 2 years 8 months old. He's never been a great eater. As an infant was consistantly in th ...
  A: Part of what is going on is the power struggle that two year olds love to have with their parents. ...
a prblem with my 4 year old11/1/2008
  Q: .. I am having a little problem with my 4 year old who is in Pre-K. He goes to a public school which ...
  A: If you trust that the teacher is being honest about this, then you need to have your child tested ...
a prblem with my 4 year old10/31/2008
  Q: .. I am having a little problem with my 4 year old who is in Pre-K. He goes to a public school which ...
  A: Go to the school and talk to the principal (first alone unless he wants the teacher there too) and ...
HELP NO SLEEP FOR ANYONE!!!10/22/2008
  Q: I have a 22month old named Malachi . Well Mr. Malachi will not go to bed at night. About 2 weeks ...
  A: WOW Candace you are surely trying all you can think of and more. This is so unusual. It seems that ...
fussy 8 month old..10/20/2008
  Q: Evelyn. I have 2 concerns about my 8 month old daughter. She had colic for the first 4 months of ...
  A: Let us look at the easy question first. For diet and nutrition call your pediatrician for guidance. ...
my almost 2 year old wont sleep at night10/19/2008
  Q: I have a question for you. My son who will be 2 in November does not take naps during the day, also ...
  A: Try not to worry so much about this; it's pretty normal and is part of a task you child is learning. ...
getting a 3 year old child to eat10/17/2008
  Q: I am about to start babysitting for a 3 year old little boy. The problem is that he doesn't eat. ...
  A: You are a very wise parent and unless you are DESPERATE for money, if I were you I would simply take ...
Concern over strict parenting on child.9/17/2008
  Q: I am fairly concerned about a friend of mine, female/late 1st, & the way she is way too strict with ...
  A: I am sure your concerns are valid and well founded. A child's self esteem suffers just as much from ...
Toddler bedtime9/16/2008
  Q: My 23 month old son has always loved his bed and has been an angel at bedtime. At the beginning of ...
  A: It's really odd that his behavior changed so much after the 3 yr old was there...Do check with your ...
4 week old sleep9/16/2008
  Q: My 4 week old daughter, is generally very content. I breastfeed her every 3 hours, and try to get ...
  A: You are a new mom and are over reacting to everything she does instead of just relaxing and enjoying ...
Bad Sleeping Patterns9/15/2008
  Q: I have a sixteen month old little boy who has a very bad sleeping pattern, I realise it is probably ...
  A: You absolutely have to get over this thinking that you or he will be damaged by letting him cry it ...
Change in Sleeping Patterns9/14/2008
  Q: I have a 19 month old son who has always slept great. And has always required a lot of sleep. ...
  A: You can also talk to your child's doctor about this change to get her/his insignt. Sleeping ...
My 4-year-old grandson9/12/2008
  Q: My 4-year-old grandson is now in public pre-Mk and is having a hard time adjusting. His private ...
  A: If your child has been tested and is recieving services for special needs, it is a legal requirement ...
whining, NOOOOO, and pacifiers9/11/2008
  Q: I have a few questions. First of all, our daughter who will turn 2 on Monday is getting very good ...
  A: Your daughter may not be having the full tantrums (these may still come) of a two year old, but may ...
my two year old8/31/2008
  Q: My two year old son has refered to himself in third person form the time he could talk. We are ...
  A: Doing this at age two is rather common. But if he continues to do this at age 3-4, he may be trying ...
5 year old temper and anger problems8/31/2008
  Q: My wife and I have a daughter, 9, a son, 7, and a son, 5. The 5 year old is very angry, has a bad ...
  A: This is very unusual behavior for a 5 year old; fives are usually cooperative, interested in the ...
9 months old separation anxiety8/30/2008
  Q: I have a beautiful, wonderful 9 months old baby boy. I think we are entering a separation anxiety ...
  A: Yes this is just a stage of separation anxiety and you can go online or to the library to read more ...
what to do8/27/2008
  Q: My 3 year old girl won't stop doing pee-pee and caca on the floor at night after i put her to bed. I ...
  A: This may be just a common regression. If there is nothing fearful or bad going on with her, she may ...
need advice for 4 year old8/26/2008
  Q: i have a problem with my boy who will be four in October,i want to know whether he has adhd or ...
  A: Go to your library and get the books by Fances Ilg and Louise Ames that tell you what to expecdt ...
running in a circle8/26/2008
  Q: my toddler just turned 2 year last july. I'm so concerned about him always running in a circle. He ...
  A: No I do not believe that this is normal. It is possible that it's a physical problem or related to ...
sharing8/24/2008
  Q: i have an 18 mo. old and a 5 mo. old my 18 mo. old is really getting into sharing which i am really ...
  A: Just try to explain...since she is really to young to understand about germs, etc...that some things ...
9 month old son8/18/2008
  Q: I have a question and I am hoping you can help me out! I am a stay at home mom of a 9 month old, and ...
  A: Melinda, you must remember that if you are tired and anxious that he is picking up on this and will ...
my 2 year old startle8/18/2008
  Q: Just today i notice that my 2 and half year-old daughter just star to talk in startle (like let's or ...
  A: You mean that you are worried that she is stuttering or have a speec problem, but do not worry ...
Shy/Scared 3 year old8/14/2008
  Q: We put our 3 1/2 year old daughter in a twirling group in our small town. The group consists of ...
  A: Lacy, if you really do understand how she feels you should be able to make the right decision. Just ...
Potty Training8/14/2008
  Q: I have a son that turned 3 on 7/4, he has been potty trained #1 for about 2 months the problem is BM ...
  A: Ask the preschool center for their plan of action and ask how you can help at home by being ...
3 year old8/11/2008
  Q: Iam a mother of two beautiful children and a wonderful husband, they are my world. I have a three ...
  A: I agree that it is best not to test her until she has another month in the preschool to see if she ...
13 month old daughter7/26/2008
  Q: My 13 month old daughter seems to bond quickly if with someone for a while. She's very shy and ...
  A: I have thought about this at length and also asked the advice of a colleage that is a infant toddler ...
5 year old - does not listen7/26/2008
  Q: I am writing on behalf of my daughter who has 2 boys. Her older boy will be 5 soon and is a ...
  A: It's my guess that you are probably right. An active child is not necessarily a child with behavior ...
When to move out of the crib?7/25/2008
  Q: I have a 16 month old little girl. I am expecting at the end of December. I am not really sure ...
  A: I have thought about this and also asked advice from an infant toddler expert who has a PHD in ...
My 4 year old with anger issues7/25/2008
  Q: I am a frustrated mom with a 4 year old who has major anger issues. For about the last year he has ...
  A: This does not sound normal for a four year old and I can understand your worry. But you need to get ...
Aggressive Behavior tied to Early Potty Training7/23/2008
  Q: my 2yr 3 mo son is in daycare and has been informally (meaning he initiatiates it, WE don't- no ...
  A: That is really a huge assumption to make and does not sound logical to me. Perhaps you need to ask ...
my 3.5 years old has refused any solid food for a week after choking.7/21/2008
  Q: I am a very concerned mom. My 3.5 years daughter had a choking when she had dinner last week and she ...
  A: Your daughter is very sensitive and it will take more time to get over this trauma. Don't give up ...
my 3 year old biting@school7/20/2008
  Q: Also the last few trips he has had to the store with my wife have ended with tantrums that involve ...
  A: I do not think this is autism or ADHD, or he would be acting this way with YOU, not just mom. He is ...
18 month grandson7/18/2008
  Q: My 18 month old grandson has an issue that I am concerned about. I babysit for him while his mother ...
  A: Just hang in there and keep trying. This is a normal stage at about 18 months called separation ...
1 and ˝ years in school but still crying while going to school.7/17/2008
  Q: I have a 3 year old son who has been going to Montessori school for a year and a half. He has ...
  A: I really think you need to ask the teachers to put him back in the other room where he was happy, at ...
developmental activities7/9/2008
  Q: Could you offer suggestions as to activities for 14 month old toddler that help their development? ...
  A: You need to remember that the child is growing in many developmental areas and you need to nurture ...
23 month old tearing up books7/8/2008
  Q: My 23 month old has been tearing up books every morning. She sleeps in a toddler bed in her own ...
  A: She probably knew you were going to have the baby didn't she? Certainly her life was already ...
2 1/2 year old not affectionate with daddy7/7/2008
  Q: I am a mother of a 2 1/2 year old little girl. Her father was out of my life while I was pregnant ...
  A: I think you are both expecting something from a two year old that she does not really understand. ...
what to do?7/7/2008
  Q: I am a SHM.I have a nine year old son and 2 1/2 year old daughter. My Briannes is full of drama ...
  A: Dwear Denise You are experiencing the normal tantrums of a 2 year old. some kids are far more ...
10 month-old still crying a lot6/21/2008
  Q: I have a 10 month old daughter, I started staying home with her since she was 6 months. So we are ...
  A: I am surprised about this behavior and have not heard of this at about 10 months old...Maybe you ...
3 year old daughter fell and still refuses to stand or walk 1 week later6/15/2008
  Q: My almost 3 year old daughter fell down a week ago while running down the hallway in our home. She ...
  A: WOW this is very unusual Nancy....I would ordinarily agree with the pediatrician, but maybe you need ...
2 Yr Old - language development6/12/2008
  Q: My almost 2 yr old grandson is an interesting character. His comprehension vocabulary is clearly ...
  A: I agree with the speech therapist. All of the things he is doing are absolutely normal. Children ...
bad behavior with mother5/31/2008
  Q: I am having a problem with my nearly 4 year old daughter. Since her grandmother visited several ...
  A: You have done well to talk and be specific about how hurtful it was and how this makes you feel. ...
never ending fighting5/30/2008
  Q: i have two girls, one just turned 4 and the other is 10 months younger. they are constantly ...
  A: What you are doing won't usually work when the girls are that close in age and are totally different ...
getting my son to sleep w/o breastfeeding5/30/2008
  Q: I am a single mom. My fiance' died unexpectedly 2 weeks before our son was born. This has all been a ...
  A: I am so very sorry that this has happened to you....it is really hard to be alone with a baby and a ...
other children influencing my toddler5/28/2008
  Q: I have an extremely good tempered, social and friendly 2 and a half year old. She rarely throws ...
  A: Tanturms as those you describe are very common to two year olds, and if they don't go through this ...
8 month old baby sleeping nightmare!5/22/2008
  Q: basically he has a bath at 645 his nightfeed in his room at around 7. we them put him down (awake) ...
  A: You are not alone...many new parents fall into the same habit of letting their children manage their ...
9 month old granddaughter5/18/2008
  Q: I have a 9 month old granddaughter, She is about 22lbs now. When my son has her on weekends we have ...
  A: This does not seem normal, especially if you are giving her lots of water and juice and ...
4yr old making up bad stories5/15/2008
  Q: I am a divorced mom of a son who recently turned 4years old. Both his father and I are in serious ...
  A: I think this is trouble with fantasy versus reality. Fours still have problems with this, some of ...
toddler naps5/14/2008
  Q: My 25 month old usually falls asleep quickly around 2pm and sleeps for 2 hours.Bedtime is between ...
  A: As long as she's happy in the crib before she falls asleep, just leave it that way....why change it ...
2 yr old crying non-stop at school5/13/2008
  Q: Our 27 months old daughter is normally sweet but very strong-willed. She can be funny at times but ...
  A: Personally I feel that twos are too young for formal child care programs, even though the adult ...
4 year old and potty training5/3/2008
  Q: I am at a loss, my almost 4 year old daughter is still not potty trained, I have tryed everything I ...
  A: ..I did not like my name as a child since no one else was named Evelyn that I knew. But later on I ...
2 year old is hitting, pinching family4/26/2008
  Q: My 2 1/2 year old son has become very rough with our family, his 4 year old sister especially. He ...
  A: It seems that you are doing all you can to say you do NOT approve and that he must stop doing this. ...
Potty Training 3yr old boy4/25/2008
  Q: My son has been going through potty training. He was in pull-ups until a couple of days ago. He ...
  A: Maybe he's afraid to go or is just having a relapse in the learning of this task. Be patient!!! ...
21 month old son4/11/2008
  Q: I have a 21 month old son and he pushes younger kids without any reason, if i look at his eyes and ...
  A: Keep up what you are doing...it is on track Be sure you say No and remove him from the other child, ...
8 month old crys when not with mom...4/7/2008
  Q: My stunning daughter, cries uncontrollably when she is not with her mother. When i pick her up she ...
  A: This is a coomon phase called separation anxiety...all babies have this for a while...it will pass. ...
phobias4/7/2008
  Q: MY daughter is two years old. SHe recently became afraid of water. When she gets in she screams ...
  A: Right now she is too young to really tell you what her fears are or what bee flies means. You need ...
4 yr.old defiance4/6/2008
  Q: When I ask my 4 yr.old daughter to do something,such as time for bath, or time to get dressed, she ...
  A: Your four year old is testing you to see what your actual limits and rules are. Even though she ...
18 MONTH OLDS BEHAVIOR1/29/2008
  Q: I have a son who is 5 years old and a daughter who is 18 months old and I have to say I am ...
  A: Is she in day care and is her behavior there the same or different? If it is the same or similar, ...
Worried about my childs social development1/28/2008
  Q: am a divorced father raising a 3 /12 year old fifty percent of the time with my Ex. Our child ...
  A: You may be right, and helping him find a friend would be a good thing, even if it is a bit of extra ...
my baby does not want to eat vegetables1/27/2008
  Q: My little Brandon who is now 7 months does not want to eat vegetables.From 5 months he was eating ...
  A: This is your first child...you are totally overreacting. If your baby is eating all the good things ...
how to deal with 4 year olds meaness1/23/2008
  Q: My grandson Connor was located in Cali away from his father & me "Nana" and in a situation where his ...
  A: Renee, this is way way too complicated for an answer from me on the Net. You really MUST get help ...
my three year old1/18/2008
  Q: I am the mother of 3 year old son. My son is always pretending he is a girl or a mom. We have talked ...
  A: i don't think you should worry about this at this point...it is actually very normal for a three ...
1st time separation1/17/2008
  Q: My niece and I are going over to Europe for wk.,she has 2yr. old who has never been separated from ...
  A: Definitely leave the 2 year old at home with the supportive family he/she knows and loves. The ...
Decrease in appetite.1/15/2008
  Q: My son is 3 months old - tomorrow. He weighs about 16.4 lbs. His growth rate was fairly fast. He ...
  A: No Jen don't worry about this at all....this is normal They gain very fast the 1st 3 months. But ...
My 2 yr old doesn't chew his food1/11/2008
  Q: 5yr old will not chew his food. He is capable of doing it because it only happens in situations ...
  A: In my 40 years in this field i have never heard of a situation like this one. It is especially ...
fear1/10/2008
  Q: My 3 years olddaughter was attending daycare last month and the teacher sanga song Who's affraid of ...
  A: It seems to me you need to go observe there and see what else happens at that daycare ...
Terrible Two's1/8/2008
  Q: I'm sure you've received many questions and requests for help like this one, but I'm at a loss as to ...
  A: Chelsey, if you give your child clear expectations and a few simple rules, and say "No" firmly and ...
4 year old not wanting to go to school12/12/2007
  Q: I have a 4.5yr old daughter that does not want to go to school. When I turn the corner into the ...
  A: I hope you and your wife visited and observed for an entire session before enrolloing her and hpoe ...
bedtime12/11/2007
  Q: for my child to sleep at night both my partner and i have to lay with her for 2 hours, and even then ...
  A: Tyr the Vicki Lansky book, "Getting Your Child to Sleep and Back to Sleep" It should be on ...
Night fears12/5/2007
  Q: My three and a half year old boy Oliver has just developed a fear of shadows. He refuses to sleep ...
  A: You should go to your local library to get a book or two from them on this topic. They will be able ...
18month old cannot eat solid food12/4/2007
  Q: My 18 month old daughter is still on semi solid food.She gags and usually vomits if i try giving her ...
  A: This question should be given to your child's doctor. He or she will know what to recommend. Many ...
almost 3 yr old who is shy12/4/2007
  Q: My daughter who is almost 3 started preschool in Aug. of this year. She was doing great up until the ...
  A: Angie, I would suggest that you go observe at school and see if you get more insight on the problem ...
my 2 year old11/28/2007
  Q: i'm so tense i really need sum advice. plz help. i'm a mother of two. my daughter Amal is 2 years ...
  A: Your child is being rebellious for two reasons, and they are normal reasons...One is jealousy of the ...
attachment11/25/2007
  Q: it seems like my 2 year old son is more attached to his dad and grandmother that he is to me... im ...
  A: It's normal for children to seem to be attached to one parent or the other for various phases and ...
Aggressive Toddler11/20/2007
  Q: I have a son who will be 3 in a few months. We have been struggling with his aggressive behaviour. ...
  A: Hold his hands immediately and tightly and look him right in the eyes up close and in his face..and ...
4 year old son's behavior11/19/2007
  Q: I have a son who just turned 4 years old. I dont know where to begin to explain him! Since birth he ...
  A: Either your son is very smart...so smart that he is totally manipulating you, OR there are some ...
6 Year Old urinating in odd places11/15/2007
  Q: Over the last two weeks my son has urinated in the school playground, I then found him has he was ...
  A: I hope the teacher scolded him and said that that the behavior sas not aprropriate and not allowed. ...
what a 1 year old should know11/14/2007
  Q: My name is Mandy and I have a one year old little girl and I am curious to know what she should know ...
  A: Yes she does seem very bright. You really cannot test a child's IQ until they are about 5, since ...
six moth old11/10/2007
  Q: My six month old daughter has recently started hitting and pinching me. I have tried redirecting ...
  A: Liz Hold her hand tightly as soon as she starts to try this and say NO! Look her right in the eye ...
Potty Training11/10/2007
  Q: I have a daughter that is 2 years and 5 months old with a past history of functional constipation. ...
  A: If it were me, I would go back to diapers and not push it...she is still very young to do the potty ...
Peeing Pants- don't know what to do11/9/2007
  Q: I'm a 27 year old divorced mom that has a 7 yr old daughter that has been peeing her pants and ...
  A: Apparently this is not a night time bedwetting thing...but a daytime thing. If the doctor says ...
my 4 year old's obsessive behavior10/19/2007
  Q: I have a 4 year old daughter and a 6 month old son. My 4 yr. old obsesses over our dog. She controls ...
  A: I hope you have talked to the child's doctor about this behavior...If not make a call or an ...
Any advice about getting pregnant?10/13/2007
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years. We got married pretty young, we were both ...
  A: Sorry Loren, but as a great grandmom with lots of family and neices/nephews etc, and many marriages ...
2 year old son arrgression10/10/2007
  Q: Im at a loss with my two year old son. This past month his yelling and screaming at me has reached ...
  A: Please go to the library and get the book "Your Two Year Old" by Frances Ilg and Louise Ames. There ...
Excessively possesive child10/10/2007
  Q: Evelyn, My child has always been excessively possessive of me. She always wants me to play with ...
  A: Yes at age "nearly five" this is unusual....especially if she is in preschool every am. You need to ...
Tantrums :Toddler vs Preschooler10/10/2007
  Q: I'm a mother of 4 kids 16yrs-2yrs old. I've had a terrible time with my 2yr old daughter and my 3yr ...
  A: Probably the three year old is jealous of the two year old who is now easily able to get into his ...
Irrational Fear of Movie10/7/2007
  Q: My 4 1/2 year old has attended the same daycare/preschool most of his childhood with no real ...
  A: After over 40 years as an early childhood specialist, I have worked with teachers in hundreds of ...
My 3 year old and my 2 year old...9/25/2007
  Q: I have a 3 year old son, and a 2 year old daughter (and a baby girl that will be 2 weeks old ...
  A: I do wish parents would stop trying to use time out with children under age four. It's not your ...
emotional pre-schooler9/21/2007
  Q: My daughter, who will turn 5 in just a couple of months is very emotional. I never imagined that a ...
  A: Fours do have all these emotions, and it's better for her to let them show than bottle them up. Let ...
potty train9/20/2007
  Q: My 4 years old stubborn boy has a so difficult time to get potty train. We have tried this for more ...
  A: I don't know of any books that are good except ONE...and that is the book about potty trining by ...
baby sleeping problems9/17/2007
  Q: I have a 6 month old baby girl and she has been having a lot of sleeping problems. I live with my ...
  A: You can go to my web site www.askevelyn.com and read other advice I have given on this topic in the ...
Crying, moaning, whining spells9/14/2007
  Q: .I have a 2.5 year old son who all of a sudden has acquired a behavior we haven;t seen before. He is ...
  A: If the simple things I suggested are not working, perhaps its' more than a stage. Maybe he actually ...
CURIOUS 4 year old!9/12/2007
  Q: My oldest son is 4 years old, he is super sweet and bright, but over the last 6 months is very ...
  A: You really have a good handle on the situation and how to deal with it...keep it up. What you are ...
potty training9/12/2007
  Q: my daughter is 21months old and showing signs of potty training she sits on the potty but when she ...
  A: Go to the library or book store or to amazon.com to get the Vicki Lansky book about potty ...
Crying, moaning, whining spells9/12/2007
  Q: .I have a 2.5 year old son who all of a sudden has acquired a behavior we haven;t seen before. He is ...
  A: This is probably a different form of testing you...as opposed to the tantrums that are common at ...
battles9/10/2007
  Q: My 5 year old son - just started kindergarten 4 wks ago- has never been much of an eater. In the ...
  A: i wonder if you could get some good advice from a nutritionist. His doctor can provide you with a ...
Daycare causing dificult naps8/24/2007
  Q: Please help. My 7 1/2 month old daughter started daycare two weeks ago and is having a hard time ...
  A: If she was a great sleeper before, she will adjust and be one again. Be patient, as she is still ...
Breastfeeding8/24/2007
  Q: I have a friend that is only breastfeeding her child...she will be doing this up until the child is ...
  A: There are two major schools of thought about breastfeeding, and the LaMaze group is very very ...
How can I help her adjust?8/20/2007
  Q: My 15 month old baby is going through a hard time right now. My husband cannot live in the home due ...
  A: Get some help from a family therapist now, becuase you will surely need it soon for your child if ...
whining 14 month old8/20/2007
  Q: I had to post as we have a 14 month old who is going through a terribly whiney phase. It started ...
  A: This is a phase but it can also become a long term habit if you don't address it right now. And I ...
Compulsive behavior of 3 1/2 year old8/16/2007
  Q: I have 5 children, one of which is 3 1/2 years old. Here's the logistics of her childhood thus ...
  A: So sorry Tina, but this is a really unusual problem and certainly one that you need a family ...
4 Year old8/6/2007
  Q: OK, I am an outsider to this situation because I am involved (bf and gf) with a women who has a 4 ...
  A: I think you have a good handle on this, and am frankly surprised that she does not understand her ...
5 yr old not listening to parents7/31/2007
  Q: My husband and I have to tell our 5 yr old son things 3 & 4 times before he will listen or do what ...
  A: It is unusual for a five year old to be uncooperative and defiant. Please have him checked ...
2 1/2 year old daughter7/31/2007
  Q: My daughter will not play at daycare. She refuses to interact with the other kids. She sits on the ...
  A: You need to find a different day care center with children her age. Do not keep her there if she is ...
Bedtime vomiting7/30/2007
  Q: We have had a bedtime routine since my son was an infant. He is now 12 mo old and will not got to ...
  A: Yes, unfortunately I think it is really a matter of testing you and seeing who is more stubborn. ...
bedtime7/30/2007
  Q: Our 2 1/2 year old son has recently started to become very defiant at bedtime.As soon as the bedtime ...
  A: Your son is still in the 2 yr old "testing you" stage and tantrums are also likely. YOU are in ...
my child suddenly wont go to bed at night6/26/2007
  Q: my 15 month old son used to be the envy of parents because at bedtime he'd grab his doggy and off ...
  A: You might try shortening the naps or making sure he has lots of exercise and fresh air each day. ...
son sleep at wedding6/25/2007
  Q: i am going across state to a wedding and the wedding reception will be at a house and i am going to ...
  A: I thihnk it's a great idea...in my day we always did that sort of thing, and if he is not a ...
3 y.ol. daughter rude to Mom6/23/2007
  Q: My daughter is about to turn 3. She always preferred Daddy from day one. I am a stay at home Mom and ...
  A: You have learned the hard way that children copy what adults do and say. You need to stop being ...
bad behavior not listing at all help6/21/2007
  Q: every day my son yells has fits does not listen and breaks things on purpose, other than that he is ...
  A: You MUST address this problem now or it will just get worse. Your child needs rules, limits and ...
friend take son to bed?6/18/2007
  Q: I am going camping with my family and friends and we will go to a lake near the campground and will ...
  A: This depends on the age of your child and if he/she will cooperate with this plan and also knows ...
3 yr old boy.6/18/2007
  Q: ...First of all I'm a stay at home Dad of a 3 yr old boy and a 14 mos. old boy. Giovanni (3 y/o) is ...
  A: If you are going to be a stay at home dad, you would be wise to learn more about what kinds of ...
7 month old will not play alone6/15/2007
  Q: Please Please Please help me. I am a working mother of three. I'm a speech-Language Pathologist and ...
  A: I am not an expert in these problems, and it seems to me that your child's therapist should be able ...
how to nap longer?6/15/2007
  Q: I want my 8 weeks old to nap longer but she will only nap for 30 mins and wake up. Please advise how ...
  A: I know this will be hard for you for a week or so, but it is the only way. Keep the child up and ...
worried about my son6/14/2007
  Q: My son is 31/2 years old.He is very to himself.When any people try to talk to him,he starts ...
  A: This is unusual enough that I would take him in to the doctor and discuss it and ask for a referral ...
2yo greeting family members6/14/2007
  Q: I would like to get some advice on is it right for my 2 y/o girl to greet male family members by ...
  A: Yes you should be doing the same thing...But please ask your husband to cooperate on this. At this ...
4 year old behavior problems6/13/2007
  Q: My son is 4 1/2 and in pre school. I am 6 months pregnant with number 2. What can I do to prepare ...
  A: Many hospitals now have classes for siblings who are going to become big brothers or sisters. Look ...
toddler hitting and screaming6/13/2007
  Q: I have a 17 month old girl. When she gets angry or frustrated, she hits me. I've started time out, ...
  A: Deaar Jenny, You are very much in need of some information about what children are like at this age ...
fair discipline6/13/2007
  Q: i have a two partwhen my 8 year old son gets in trouble at school and is discilplined with a ...
  A: If the school has already punished him, you do not need to do it again! NO ONE needs to do it ...
2yo greeting family members6/8/2007
  Q: I would like to get some advice on is it right for my 2 y/o girl to greet male family members by ...
  A: I have thought about this question for a while. The problem is, depending on the culture you are ...
a whinning 2 yr.old!6/7/2007
  Q: My daughter is babysitting in her home. She just started sitting in March 2007. So behavior is new ...
  A: The child is nearly two...it is perfectly normal for him to fuss and sit down and refuse to ...
Is there any help?6/5/2007
  Q: Our daughter is going through a divorce and has a just-turned 3-yr old toddler. Visitation has been ...
  A: Every state and community has different resources...you must ask your lawyer for help, or ask DHR ...
How to schedule eating habits of my newborn ???6/1/2007
  Q: I've delivered a healthy son on 8th May. And nighttime feedings have been nightmare eversince. He ...
  A: I have no idea how to hep you. I have never heard of this, but I would call you doctor right away ...
3 1/2 year old immature?5/19/2007
  Q: I recently went to my daughters parent teacher conference at her school, the teacher went on about ...
  A: Much depends on the quality of the preschool center you are using. You should visit and observe one ...
Hailee5/18/2007
  Q: My 3 year old is very busy. She seems busier than other children her age. She is also much smarter ...
  A: If she is busy and active, I do not see why you also think she is "sleepy". The amount of sleep ...
sleeping5/17/2007
  Q: i have 10week old son and he will not sleep in his bed he wants to sleep with me if i lay him in his ...
  A: I am a mom of 4, grandma of 4 and great grandma of 3 and have worked with hundreds of parents for ...
son sleep at carpet store5/15/2007
  Q: I am opening a carpet store and i have a 4 year old son. i will have to bring him to my store a lot. ...
  A: This seems like a simple and good plan. Why not? Make sure any other employees understand what you ...
Teaching my toddler ...5/14/2007
  Q: Can you please give me some ideas as to how I can teach my 3yr. old which shoe belongs on which ...
  A: Many shoes these days are made so that it's hard to tell the difference between left and right. If ...
21 month old sleeping late4/28/2007
  Q: my son is 21 months old & wont go to sleep until about 10pm. We bath him at 7.15pm. then we read him ...
  A: You are doing the right things. Be as patient as you can and keep it up. Gradually your child will ...
15 month old not urinating very much4/22/2007
  Q: I am a mother of 3. My youngest son,Zach acts perfectly fine but i have noticed in the past week or ...
  A: I am an child development and parenting expert, but not a medical expert. You are right in seeing ...
Questions4/17/2007
  Q: I have a few questions. I am 23, my wife is 21 and we have a 3 years old (almost) daughter. She is ...
  A: While it is great that you enjoy your child and her spontaneity, you do have to demonstrate the ...
kids sleep at party?4/16/2007
  Q: I am throwing a party at my house that will go from 8:00 PM to about 3:00 am. i know a few people ...
  A: I cannot imagine whey you need to have a party until 3am,, and if this involves drinking maybe the ...
Regarding tooth decay2/16/2007
  Q: My baby is 10 months old. He weighs 21lb. He has got his two lower teeth in his ninth month. Couple ...
  A: Although my university degree in child development included a home economics major, I am not a ...
Attachment Issues2/15/2007
  Q: I have a 22 month old daughter who we put into daycare at 8 weeks because I needed to go back to ...
  A: I feel very sorry for you because I know how you feel. It's too bad that so many parents have to be ...
3 yr. old boy yells at parents2/11/2007
  Q: My son is 3 yrs. 4 months, and will be our only child. Most of the time he is a good natured boy. ...
  A: Actually this is unusual for a three year old, as during that year they are usually more cooperative ...
Noise2/8/2007
  Q: This may be an odd question but I am wondering what I can do to decrease the volume in my home. I ...
  A: Your friends are correct. You, as an adult, MUST have the self discipline not to yell...When you ...
Toddler boy2/1/2007
  Q: My husband and I have a 2yr old boy (he turned 2 in Dec 06)My little man likes to scream. Sometimes ...
  A: Your "little man" is a two year old, He is far too young a child with whom you can have rational ...
SLEEP ISSUES in Toddler1/19/2007
  Q: ! I am a 34 yr old mother of 2 girls (3 yr old and 14 yr old). My 3 yr old has beena HORRIFIC ...
  A: Im' so so sorry this has been happening in your family. It wears on all of you, I'm sure. It's ...
Sleepless Toddler1/17/2007
  Q: I have a 2 1/2 year old son that has been waking up every night for nearly 6 months. We have a ...
  A: I agree, the problem is that you really do need your rest, especially with a 2 1/2 yr old...it's a ...
4yr old that cries/gets upset too frequently1/17/2007
  Q: My son seems to express his anger & frustration through crying, whining & tantrums. Now that he has ...
  A: This is unusual, but fours do like to test you to see what their limits are and if they have changed ...
Help! My 24 month old is being mean to my mom!1/16/2007
  Q: My 2 year old son, Ryan, has started a phase where he doesn't want to be around my mom. She and I ...
  A: So sorry this is happening. But I do think it's just a phase, related somewhat to being two when ...
sleepy 3month old1/15/2007
  Q: my son just turned 3months yesterday, I think he may be getting a tooth. He has been cranky today, ...
  A: There is nothing to worry about if the erupting tooth is making him cranky...Since there is no ...
aggressive vs passive child in play situations12/7/2006
  Q: I agree that at three years old it is time to stop ignoring her behaviour. These girls are in ...
  A: Bonnie, you can take it BUT it will help her cooperate and save face if you stress that you will ...
3 yr old toddler boy won't listen, mostly at bedtime...12/7/2006
  Q: I must say I am disappointed you would say hitting my son with a rolled up newspaper is an ...
  A: Mike, don't worry so much; I am sure your son loves you both and DOES appreciate your setting limits ...
3 yr old toddler boy won't listen, mostly at bedtime...12/4/2006
  Q: My wife and I are at our wits end with our son. He will not listen sometimes, mostly at times of nap ...
  A: I can see how frustrating this is! I guess I would be tempted to tell him that if he will not be ...
Phobia in a 3 year old12/2/2006
  Q: My 3 year old son is very scared of dogs, and won't walk or ride his bike in public parks when ...
  A: Clare, the way the experts say to handle this is called gradual desensitization. You start by ...
Preschool and Gender Identity11/29/2006
  Q: I have a three-year-old son who loves to dress in princess costumes, read and play with princesses, ...
  A: I applaud you for your rational and logical responses to this common type of dramatic role play ...
4yr old's potty issue11/29/2006
  Q: My daughter just turned 4. She's been potty trained for almost one year. We had lots of power ...
  A: No I have not had an experience like this with my kids or other four year olds I've worked with. I ...
nap problems11/28/2006
  Q: My 15 month old son has always been a pretty good sleeper. Up until about a week ago, he was ...
  A: This is a mystery to me too...you have been doing everything right and your plan is a good one in ...
potty training11/21/2006
  Q: My daughter is almost 20 months old and seems interested in the potty. She watches me, wipes ...
  A: Go to the library or a book store and get the Vicki Lansky book about potty training...It has been ...
immature 4 year old11/21/2006
  Q: I have a 4 year old who is so immature that I am at my wits end with him. He acts like he is 2. I ...
  A: I disagree with your child's doctor. MANY children have problems that can be diagnosed early in ...
Putting my toddler to bed11/13/2006
  Q: I have three children 11,7, and 2. My 7 and 2 year old sons share a bedroom. This has been working ...
  A: GOOD for YOU Michelle, You are doing the right thing and your son who is seven is an angel. Keep ...
speech development in 4y/o11/2/2006
  Q: I need help!! My 4 year old still babbles sometimes when he speaks and no one (not even myself or my ...
  A: My niece had ear problems and became hard of hearing at age two... now she is 26, has a job and her ...
5 month old sleeping....10/31/2006
  Q: My daughter (second child) is currently almost 5 months old. I just recently went from ...
  A: Every single child is different, and every child also needs to learn to go to sleep and BACK to ...
toilet training10/29/2006
  Q: As a mother, I find it frustrating that whenever I ask for advice, I'm often told that I'm worrying ...
  A: I did not mean to criticize, and was just stating the facts per statistics...most 20 month olds are ...
toilet training10/27/2006
  Q: My daughter is 20 months old. about 1 month ago she asked to go poo poo on the potty, and I took ...
  A: You are over reacting and worrying too much. And sadly, children pick up on your anxiety and ...
kid conflict10/18/2006
  Q: We live next to a family that has a 4y.o girl and a 1y.o. boy. My kids are 5(girl) and 3y.o.(boy). ...
  A: You are better off without those kinds of friends and you need to explain that to your kids. Also, ...
peeing in pants on purpose9/17/2006
  Q: my daughter is 5 yrs old and started kindergarden this yr. i am a divorced 27 yr old mom that is ...
  A: If she is not doing this at school (and I think you would hear about it if she did) then it is a ...
Teaching toddler a foriegn language9/12/2006
  Q: I would like to teach my 18mo daughter a foreign lanuage. Her father and I have decided German. ...
  A: Teaching children another language besides their own at ages 18 mo and up is certainly possible and ...
3-month old facinated by TV!9/9/2006
  Q: If I have it on during the day or am watching a movie at night with my husband, she will look at it ...
  A: At three months, having her watch while sitting with you, (maybe on your lap) and with you ...
social and speech probelms8/28/2006
  Q: i have a 4 year daughter who is very nervous and timid around others kids she is not use to. when ...
  A: Your answer is actually partly inside your question to me. Daycare helped her; it will again. ...
conflicting opinions8/26/2006
  Q: I am a first time mom and have a 5 month old baby boy. It was just him and I for his first three ...
  A: This is a very tough situation, and I am so sorry that you have to live there until you save up more ...
trantums7/30/2006
  Q: I am terrified that he will seriously hurt his head doing thsi as he will do it anywhere concrete, ...
  A: Giving him attention and looking panicked etc or smacking him will not help at all. To help him ...
aggressive behaviourq7/28/2006
  Q: How do i control my 2yr old son's aggressive behaviour? is it just the terrible 2's or is this ...
  A: Yes it IS the Terrible Twos and is normal. However, you must not allow hitting or pushing. Say NO ...
getting to sleep7/27/2006
  Q: I have a 2 1/2 year old boy that must have a sippy cup of juice/water whenever he goes to sleep (nap ...
  A: It is likely he is thirsty much more often than just at nap and bedtime, but it has become a habit ...
help baby sleep7/27/2006
  Q: My son is 7 weeks old and has trouble sleeping by himself. The only way he seems to fall asleep is ...
  A: Achieve your goal for him to sleep in his bed in 2 or more steps. First, after he is done nursing, ...
3 yr old and bedtime7/26/2006
  Q: It has been taking 2 hours (from 8 PM to 10 PM)to get our 3 1/2 yr old daughter to stay in bed and ...
  A: Some of the latest research says that some children need to go to bed earlier than others and that ...
potty training and speech development7/25/2006
  Q: I have a 3 year old granddaughter that knows how to use the potty but refuses to most of the time. ...
  A: Dea Grandmom, Yes you have hit the nail on the head. She is simply asserting her independence ...
My daughter is going through the terible 2s.7/23/2006
  Q: I have a 2 year old daughter and a 3 month old son. Since the birth of her brother we have been ...
  A: This is NORMAL behavior for a two year old and all of them ..yes all of them...have to go through ...
S;eeping through the night7/23/2006
  Q: My daughter is 9 mths old and has never slept through the night. I have found the only way to get ...
  A: There is absolutely nothing wrong with giving her a bottle of water during the night (good for you; ...
childs strange behaviour7/18/2006
  Q: My two and a half year old daughter used to be very happy go lucky - She was never that adventurous ...
  A: It is unusual for a child to change into this type of behavior without a reason. Have there been ...
toilet training6/25/2006
  Q: ) Can you please advise me on the best most effective way of going about this transition. I have ...
  A: Don't push him. Most boys do not become completely trained until age 3 1/2 or so. If you push he ...
biting6/23/2006
  Q: My 21-month-old son has taken to biting family members feet (and sometimes ankles and calves) the ...
  A: You have been doing all the things I would do, except for the time out. Children that young do not ...
transitions for 2-3's in grooup setting6/3/2006
  Q: Need some ideas about smooth transitions with 4/5 in a group of 24 to 36 month olds. Whatever I ...
  A: You may be expecting the toddlers and threes to react to some transitions that are too structured ...
"mommy, mommy"5/31/2006
  Q: I have a 16 month old boy who has in the last few days entered his "mommy,mommy" phase. I am sure ...
  A: This is a stage of "separation anxiety" that usually occurs about now or by 18 months and does not ...
Toilet issues5/22/2006
  Q: my 4 yr old boy has great difficulty in remembering to use the toilet for bowel movements. Toilet ...
  A: It seems to me you are doing all that you can, and you are using excellent techniques. It is ...
teaching abc1235/19/2006
  Q: My daughter is 18 months old. I would like to teach her alphabets and numbers. What is the best way ...
  A: The first thing you really need to do is understand more about your child's development at age 18 ...
Naptime Problems5/17/2006
  Q: My almost 12 month old daugther has ALWAYS had sleep issues. As a 1 day old, she cried all the time ...
  A: This is not the answer you want, but my feeling is that she IS getting enough sleep for child her ...
Feeding the baby5/16/2006
  Q: I have a 10 months boy. He is an active baby. He is under weight, but his height is good. The ...
  A: Your doctor should be able to give you suggestions for foods or at least a reference to someone that ...
daycare worry5/7/2006
  Q: My daughter who will be 4 next month suddenly says she doesn't want to go to day care. This has been ...
  A: I don't think you should change your day care. They know her and she has always liked it there ...
"big boy room and bed"5/4/2006
  Q: I have a 2 1/2 yr. old son with another baby on the way in August. We are in the process of getting ...
  A: You are doing everything right...But just remember that this is a two and a half year old. He does ...
Baby that wants to be held all of the time3/5/2006
  Q: My 8 week old son wants to be held ALL of the time. Even when sleeping. He has been this way since ...
  A: What you are doing is not only physically impossible for you and getting even harder, it's not good ...
My 3 1/2 yrs old is so aggressive3/3/2006
  Q: What can I do to help my son control his nasty temper and aggresion? It seems like he fears ...
  A: This is unusual for a four year old, but I am sure it is being caused by jealousy over the new baby. ...
sleeping3/2/2006
  Q: Obviously I have a situation that I wanted to get advice on. I didn't ask you, just so you can ...
  A: Michelle, If you look at your first question to me you will see that I answered that question based ...
Potty Training2/28/2006
  Q: A close friend of mine has a 2 year old daughter. She is trying to potty train her and she refuses ...
  A: First they should contact the child's doctor to see if perhaps he would recommend anything. Perhaps ...
2 yr old2/23/2006
  Q: I have a two year old son who lives with his mom. We spend time together and he always cries when im ...
  A: You should visit your son as often as possible...whenever possible if it is alright with the mother. ...
potty training2/12/2006
  Q: My daughter in law got huffy with me when she realized I was letting the just turned 3 boy poop in a ...
  A: I am a great grandma...have been thru a lot of this. But there is not much you can do except do the ...
sleeping2/9/2006
  Q: My grandaughter (4 months old) will not sleep in the crib too well. My daughter has gone to the ...
  A: Yes it is well known that some infants sleep best surronded by the white noise of a motor of some ...
eating candies n insisting on nonsense things2/7/2006
  Q: Sir i have a nephew and niece.They are very fond of eating candies and don't eat other healthy ...
  A: These issues are about control. The children are trying to set up a pattern of being the "bosses" ...
Sleeping Problems12/21/2005
  Q: we have a healthy 18 month old girl who is happy and content. However we have a sleep problem. She ...
  A: Sorry it is Christmas Day and I have been on vacation from all experts since this past Friday. They ...
Colic in 4 week old baby12/17/2005
  Q: My Daughter (4 weeks old) didn't have a good start in life spending 2 weeks in Hospital, when we ...
  A: I think it is possible that it is your water...try bottled water to make it. BUT also immediately ...
sleeping through the night12/6/2005
  Q: Hope you can help. We have a 4 year old and a 6 month old daughter. With our 4 year old, we used ...
  A: Don't give up...your method should work if there is not some other problem like colic...or possibly ...
twins and bed/naptime11/27/2005
  Q: We are parents of 3 girls: a 3 1/2 year old and 2 1/2 year olds. We have always done our homework ...
  A: I think they are ready to give up the naps. I have found that more and more people are having this ...
Potty training10/16/2005
  Q: I appreciate your time Evelyn thank you. It seems my son Evan (3 on the 25th)is very comfortable in ...
  A: What you need is the best potty training book out there..and has been the best for 15 years or more. ...
dicipline9/26/2005
  Q: Let me start by giving you some information about my situation. I am a mother of a 3 year old son ...
  A: It appears that your question was answered by another expert. My computer died and I was without ...
feeding baby9/13/2005
  Q: My husband and I currently have temporary custody of my two nephews ages 26 months and 8 months. ...
  A: I am not sure you stated the question you really wanted to ask...eg bottle propping does NOT promote ...
3 1/2 year old daughter tantrums9/9/2005
  Q: My 3 1/2 old daughter acts fine with me(her father), but does not listen to her mother at all. Even ...
  A: I know of no expert that would recommend discussing the problem with a three and a half year old! ...
antisocial toddler9/7/2005
  Q: I am not sure if I am having a problem with my soon to be 3 year old. He lives at home with me ...
  A: I think you are doing a great job and have a wonderful and normal 3 year old. You may want to get ...
parenting8/17/2005
  Q: I have just started working and I have 19 month old girl who is quite upset with the change. I am ...
  A: Don't worry...this is a normal reaction and she will soon get over it. Just reassure her that you ...
TODDLER HABIT7/14/2005
  Q: Evelyn: My son is 4 years old. Ever since he was a newborn instead of a pacifier he would suck on ...
  A: If he were a little older I think you could go to a dentist or an orthopedic dentist and have that ...
Discipline6/21/2005
  Q: I have a two year old son from a broken relationship. He lives with his mom but i visit about once a ...
  A: I agree that you must start to give clear guidance and positive discipline to children starting VERY ...
bottle dilema6/18/2005
  Q: i have a question regarding when to take my child off the bottle. my daughter, kaia, is almost 21 ...
  A: TALK with your Doctor or pediatritian, please, about this. I hope you have over the past 21 months ...
How to deal with Toddlers fears???6/10/2005
  Q: My boy age 28 months old has recently begun turning the TV off whenever almost any type of show is ...
  A: This is unusal for a two year old...most of these fears erupt in a year or so at age 3-4 when ...
Immature(?) 4 Year Old5/26/2005
  Q: I work from home, and I have two sons. They both stay home with me. Their ages are 5 and 4. The ...
  A: This kind of thing often happens when two children of the same gender are close in age. The older ...
raising a biligual child5/26/2005
  Q: I was raised in the uk,and my husbabnd was raised in Egypt,so my native language is english and his ...
  A: Research has proven that young children can easily learn two languages at one time if their parents ...
Nightime5/24/2005
  Q: .. My 23 month old has grown used to sleeping with her blanket on her, which of course is completely ...
  A: Perhaps you could try a lighter blanket, but if she sleeps restlessly, she may still kick ot off. ...
potty training5/16/2005
  Q: i have tried every thing to try to potty traid my almost 3 yr old little boy but he will not use the ...
  A: Most early childhood development experts will tell you that three year olds, especially boys, are ...
Toddler Biting5/10/2005
  Q: My toddler is 2years & 4months and he has started biting recently. He bit his older brother this ...
  A: I agree that you need to deal with this and address it before it becomes a pattern or habit of ...
baby constantly cries5/9/2005
  Q: My grandson is a healthy 6-month-old. His mother & dad are good, if somewhat doting, parents. He has ...
  A: YES! That is exactly what I think has happened and you have confirmed it with these details. And it ...
baby constantly cries5/8/2005
  Q: My grandson is a healthy 6-month-old. His mother & dad are good, if somewhat doting, parents. He has ...
  A: This is very unusual, I agree. I have never heard of a 6 month old with this problem in my 40 years ...
My 1 year old3/21/2005
  Q: I don't think i'm doing good at raising my girl. She is already one year and one month old and she ...
  A: You are a good mom, because you are trying to find out how to do parenting in the best ways. ...
My One Year old3/11/2005
  Q: My daughter just turn one. She knows what i mean when i say NO, at least that's what i think, but ...
  A: Try to keep the NO's simple and clear and do some things that will prevent you from having to say ...
toddler sleeping problems3/7/2005
  Q: That sounds like a good idea. He actually has a music box attached to his crib that will play music ...
  A: Yes try it...you could even put a chair by the door so you don't have to stand. It may take some ...
toddler sleeping problems3/7/2005
  Q: I am a mother of a 16 mon. old boy who is having sleeping issues. For the past several months he's ...
  A: I think you are doing the right things. At his age, this may be a type of separation anxiety, and ...
Feeding my 5 month old2/27/2005
  Q: I have a 5 week old son, Aaron. Unfortunately, I work a very busy schedule. At first, I was ONLY ...
  A: Colleen, I am confused. The title says feeding my 5 month old and in your letter you refer to a 5 ...
potty training2/23/2005
  Q: I have been working on potty training my son and for a couple of weeks now he has been dry all day ...
  A: Potty trining is very developmental in nature and is also individual in the way it plays out. You ...
Sleep Patterns1/19/2005
  Q: I have a two year-old son. When he turned two or some after, he started waking up crying in the ...
  A: You are doing the right things and it's not working...this could be a chronic or physical related ...
Going against our mothering instinct12/8/2004
  Q: My two-year old daughter is EXTREMELY independent and despite my strong protestations, my ...
  A: (I put my credits at the end of this letter.) I agree with you completely; children should be ...
Getting my 3 yr old into her own bed...11/29/2004
  Q: I have a 3 yr old daughter that refuses to sleep in her own bed. I will put her down in her own bed ...
  A: Jamie in over 20 years of doing a weekly parenting column for major newspapers, I've been asked this ...
3-year-old granddaughter10/19/2004
  Q: I am very concerned about how my granddaughter whines about everything and then...gets it. If she ...
  A: I am so sorry that you are in this frustrating situation! These kids of yours may actually have a ...
Bedtime Problems10/4/2004
  Q: My husband and I are having issues with putting our almost 3-year old to bed at night. Since our ...
  A: Your husband is right. You made your mistake when you started allowing this habit to continue and ...
15 Month Temper Tantrums10/4/2004
  Q: Our baby girl is 15 and a half months old and throwing her first real temper tantrums as of the last ...
  A: Yes this is the early signs of the tantrum stage that most of us know as the "terrible two's". The ...
A 14 month old boy10/1/2004
  Q: I too am an "expert" here in parenting, but for the older kids, this baby stuff is HARD!!! Well here ...
  A: I am 68 and have 4 kids and 4 grandkids and one great grandchild...and I have learned more from my ...
1st Birthday9/30/2004
  Q: Im hoping you can help me....in a couple of weeks my little girl turns 1 and I was wondering if you ...
  A: I would not do a thing...in fact I would not even have a party for a one year old. Be ...
infant sleep9/27/2004
  Q: My daughter is 10 weeks old. She doesn't sleep good at all. I am lucky if she gets one good hour to ...
  A: You seem to have tried everything...even thin rice cereal gruel (which I did too for my kids at ...
transition from bottle to cup9/20/2004
  Q: My son Andrew is 13 months old.I want him to start drinking out of a cup.I have tried almost every ...
  A: If you are still using the bottle, make it less attractive to him by putting only water into it, ...
3 Year Old Runner9/14/2004
  Q: My 3 year old boy runs off outdoors and in public! We put him into time out or immediately withdraw ...
  A: It seems you have a 3 year old who acts more like a four year old! So far, what you have tried is ...
Dealing with Conflict Among Young Children9/8/2004
  Q: Not quite sure which of the players has the issue that needs to be addressed, but would appreciate ...
  A: I think you have thought this out very very well, and have looked at all sides of the issue; you've ...
Behavior9/6/2004
  Q: I have a one year old son and he is generally quite active. Recently, in the past month, he had ...
  A: I think you need to ask your family doctor or your child's doctor this question. It is unusual as a ...
potty training8/12/2004
  Q: Hopefully, you can help me. My son turned 3 in June and is still not potty trained. He has ...
  A: There are no fool proof techniques except knowing how not to push kids before they are ready. It is ...
Couples conflicts8/9/2004
  Q: My spouse and I agree that (not only is it not ideal to be arguing in front of our child, but also ...
  A: NO they are both equally detrimental to your child...it depends on the unique way your individual ...
daughter manipulated by another child8/5/2004
  Q: I have a 3.5 year old daughter who is very loving, kind and outgoing. She will talk to adults and ...
  A: Your child is at the " cooperative three's" age and she also has a case of hero worship like most ...
Preschool difficulties8/4/2004
  Q: My son will be 4 next month. My husband & I both work f-t so my son & daughter (18 mo)are lucky ...
  A: I believe you are doing a follow up...I answered this already. I still think you need to go visit ...
3 yr old with behavior problem7/18/2004
  Q: I am in need of some parenting advice. My daughter is 3 yrs old(turned 3 in April) and she is potty ...
  A: It is normal for 3's to be very jealous of the time you take to talk on the phone. What you need to ...
change in bedtime routine7/14/2004
  Q: I hadn't considered the idea that something 'disturbing' happened at the carnival because he came ...
  A: Each child is so different and unique that it's hard to say whether a totally positive time would ...
change in bedtime routine7/14/2004
  Q: Up until about 6 weeks ago, our two year old was a decent sleeper. We'd read some books to wind him ...
  A: You are doing everything right. He needs the security of your bedtime routine, which is excellent. ...
introducing new foods and sleep time7/9/2004
  Q: I have two questions for you the first one is about feeding solids to my 8 month old daughter...she ...
  A: Most of the time, you should take your doctor's advice about the sequence of when to feed infants ...
possible signs of autism6/9/2004
  Q: I babysit a young boy who is two. I have noticed over time that he is showing many signs connected ...
  A: You and I and the child's mom are not experts who can diagnose autism. While autism in our country ...
sensitive pre-schooler5/5/2004
  Q: I have a three year-old daughter who seems to be very sensitive physically, as compared with my two ...
  A: I think that you do understand the problem and congratulate you for thinking it through and trying ...
3year old & 1 year old4/30/2004
  Q: My first question is regarding my 3 year old son who trips a lot. He has always done so, but I ...
  A: I would say that yes, there may be a physical problem with your three year old. If he goes to ...
right and wrong3/30/2004
  Q: i am a mother of a 9 month old girl, she's very active and right now exploring her environment, she ...
  A: This is NOT a matter of her knowing right or wrong or "wanting" to disobey you. Children do not ...
bottle feeding...3/29/2004
  Q: Our 4 1/2 month old still hasn't slept more than 4 hours at a time, except a time or two. And at ...
  A: Talk to your pediatric doctor about what looks like hunger causing wakefullness. Perhaps it's ...
Nightmare afternoons3/27/2004
  Q: Our 6 week son Liam has a lot of trouble sleeping in teh afternoons. From approx noon to 7 or 8 in ...
  A: You may want to ask your doctor if he might have colic, but that usually comes a little later than 6 ...
Nightmare afternoons3/27/2004
  Q: Our 6 week son Liam has a lot of trouble sleeping in teh afternoons. From approx noon to 7 or 8 in ...
  A: I really do not see a problem here at all. Why are you worried!? Your baby is only 6 weeks old and ...

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