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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Is there anything wrong with being a cougar for life? | 1/24/2012 | Olga Sheean |
| Q: my name is Suzanne and this is my question. Is there anything wrong with being a cougar for life? In ... A: Suzanne, I'm not sure why you're asking this question. You're clear that this is the lifestyle that ... | ||
| Am i too paranoid? | 12/5/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend Frank are already 6 months in a relationship. He's 27 and I'm 19.. I know age ... A: in my opinion the very best thing you can do is release your emotional attachment to him and this ... | ||
| Unhealthy Attachment to Person | 12/4/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I started a relationship with a guy about a month ago and things were going very great, albeit ... A: I am very happy to help you here. First thing is to make sure that you understand that you can ... | ||
| Am i too paranoid? | 11/28/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend Frank are already 6 months in a relationship. He's 27 and I'm 19.. I know age ... A: I am happy to help you sort this fiasco out. First thing is that I know it hurts, so I don't take ... | ||
| Another follow up | 10/20/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Sorry for the delayed response. For some reason AllExperts wouldn't let me post any more replies to ... A: Hey SD, first just a quick clarification; Everyone perpetuates emotional patterning from childhood, ... | ||
| Anxiety | 10/13/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I am an anxious person and I struggle with making friends because I worry that people won't ... A: Ok, so let me see if I can hit it on the mark today; First thing I would like to talk about is ... | ||
| Anxiety | 10/10/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I am an anxious person and I struggle with making friends because I worry that people won't ... A: First thing is that, I had no impression, that's why I asked you lol! ;) Second, I do have an ... | ||
| Anxiety | 10/10/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I am an anxious person and I struggle with making friends because I worry that people won't ... A: I am happy to help you with this :) For anxiety in relationships I recommend two things. First, I ... | ||
| living alone | 10/9/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Perhaps you are the right person to answer this question. I have broken up with a man whom I was ... A: really good questions :) So first, what we used to refer to as 'normal' is going to go out the ... | ||
| living alone | 10/9/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Perhaps you are the right person to answer this question. I have broken up with a man whom I was ... A: I am happy to give you my reflection and feedback on your situation. The first thing that I will ... | ||
| Follow up | 9/10/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: its Lisa again. I did that exercise you said to, and I have to tell you, at first that was the most ... A: Ok Lisa, thanks for all of that (cutting/pasting of the old Q & A, and the follow up about your ... | ||
| Follow up | 9/8/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: its Lisa again. I did that exercise you said to, and I have to tell you, at first that was the most ... A: I'm really glad you followed through with the exercise. Can you tell me a little bit more about ... | ||
| I just dont know anymore | 8/29/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I don't understand myself. My best friend pointed out to me a couple of days ago that when i like ... A: I appreciate your ability to be forthcoming with this information. I asked you to expand on your ... | ||
| I just dont know anymore | 8/29/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I don't understand myself. My best friend pointed out to me a couple of days ago that when i like ... A: Ok Lisa, glad to see that you are open to working through this :) My first concern is that we could ... | ||
| I just dont know anymore | 8/26/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I don't understand myself. My best friend pointed out to me a couple of days ago that when i like ... A: happy to help here :) On the surface it looks a lot like fear of abandonment/rejection type stuff. ... | ||
| Marriage issues | 8/21/2011 | Krittika |
| Q: I've been married for four and a half year in delhi mayur vihar. But my in-laws torture me and throw ... A: Firstly sorry for the delay as I understand what you must be undergoing currently. Look after your ... | ||
| jealousy | 7/6/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I am in a new and wonderful relationship. He goes with his friends to happy hour once or twice a ... A: let's do an emotional release exercise on jealousy! :) This is a tough one and many, many people ... | ||
| want peace of mind | 7/1/2011 | Olga Sheean |
| Q: recently my husband and i got caought to an unhappy situation by trying to buy a car. we didn’t buy ... A: It's hard to let go when things like this happen, but it might help to look at it from a different ... | ||
| What should I do- Please help | 6/24/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: This is another night that I am crying myself to sleep, I have been reading so many forums that I ... A: let me see if I can help you sort out some priorities here and perhaps give you some useful feedback ... | ||
| Never been kissed. | 5/23/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I am 27 years old and have never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and never even been kissed. ... A: I'm really glad that I was able to give you some validation for your journey. It's true, the world ... | ||
| Never been kissed. | 5/22/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I am 27 years old and have never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and never even been kissed. ... A: I am happy to offer you my thoughts, feedback, and reflection here. My first answer is that you are ... | ||
| go with the heart flow... | 4/16/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: My question is how to find the right man for me...... i am from a dyfunctional family, very ... A: :) Perspectively, it may feel as if your Soul is gone, or absent, if you will. However, your Soul ... | ||
| self esteem?? | 4/14/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: i am 26 and my gf is 32. we've been together for 5 months now.(i know im still at the early stages ... A: Ok, great Alejandro! (It's not just anyone who is willing to do the work on themselves, so I'm ... | ||
| self esteem?? | 4/12/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: i am 26 and my gf is 32. we've been together for 5 months now.(i know im still at the early stages ... A: Ok Alejandro, so thank you for sharing these details with me, I get a good feel for what is ... | ||
| self esteem?? | 4/9/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: i am 26 and my gf is 32. we've been together for 5 months now.(i know im still at the early stages ... A: so let me ask you a couple of questions about your situation... First, let's acknowledge and give ... | ||
| trouble with myself | 4/3/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: how can i fix feeling like I'm not good enough for my girlfriend? A: Hey Ben, I may need a little more to go on than that. Can you tell me more about yourself? How ... | ||
| go with the heart flow... | 3/27/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: My question is how to find the right man for me...... i am from a dyfunctional family, very ... A: Ok Jane, thank you for the additional information :) To me it sounds like there are at least a ... | ||
| question | 3/13/2011 | Olga Sheean |
| Q: so I have some problems with communication and not sure if u can help me. I am 22 and I have ... A: I can't possibly tell if you have a disorder or not, since I don't know you, but I'd say it's far ... | ||
| question | 3/13/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: so I have some communication problems. I am 22 and I have trouble expressing or talking to people ... A: I would love to help you with this :) I don't think that you have a 'disorder', probably just need ... | ||
| Relationships | 2/11/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: My question is related to dating but I hope it is connected to the area of personal empowerment and ... A: Pretty good David. I'll offer some minor feedback here.... On #1, exactly and add in that it will ... | ||
| Relationships | 2/9/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: My question is related to dating but I hope it is connected to the area of personal empowerment and ... A: Hey David, glad to see you are following up here. 1) Looks like you've got that right. Two places ... | ||
| Relationships | 2/8/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: My question is related to dating but I hope it is connected to the area of personal empowerment and ... A: Hey there David, happy to offer my reflections and feedback on this :) First, let's acknowledge ... | ||
| Alone forever? | 1/16/2011 | Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT |
| Q: I have a problem with my appearance. I’m not very good looking at all. I have acne and I’m kind of ... A: Jason, There's a LOT you can do. First you must raise your self-esteem. If you write me, or go to my ... | ||
| Alone forever? | 1/16/2011 | Olga Sheean |
| Q: I have a problem with my appearance. I’m not very good looking at all. I have acne and I’m kind of ... A: I understand how stuck you must feel, and where you're coming from. I'll share some thoughts with ... | ||
| want to heal my wound | 1/3/2011 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I lost my serious bf 2 months ago. he leave me and we lost all contact. before i met him, i'm a very ... A: that's really great news about the changes that are happening in your life :) I'm very glad that ... | ||
| want to heal my wound | 12/16/2010 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I lost my serious bf 2 months ago. he leave me and we lost all contact. before i met him, i'm a very ... A: Ok Kristen, so let's do some work here. First thing is a reminder to you; you don't need to tell me ... | ||
| why am i ugly? | 12/14/2010 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Hey, im 21, male, and have never been acused of being anything but unattractive. likewise, ive ... A: let's see if we can begin to dig in here a bit and uncover some things that may be holding you back. ... | ||
| want to heal my wound | 12/13/2010 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I lost my serious bf 2 months ago. he leave me and we lost all contact. before i met him, i'm a very ... A: I am happy to help you with this :) The first thing is that love does not define itself by a list ... | ||
| giving up | 11/11/2010 | Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT |
| Q: sometimes i feel like just giving up on things an it makes me upset, what can i do? A: You haven't given me much description of what happens to make you give up or the situation. Right ... | ||
| ...just give up on people... | 11/9/2010 | Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I'm 26. No one from All Experts want to answer my questions, I'm still trying though.... I'd like ... A: I am happy to help you :) I'm not sure who you asked on allexperts that did not want to help you, ... | ||
Personal Empowerment
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Christopher A. Pinckley, cpt
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Experience
Christopher A. Pinckley is the author of the spiritual self-help book Reality Creation 101 rated ‘5 Stars’ by Amazon Top 10 Reviewers. He is also the founder of the blog HolisticFitness4U (www.holisticfitness4u.wordpress.com) as well as the founder of the breakthrough coaching program Reality Creation Coaching (RCC). Christopher’s view is that we are here to have fun, be creative, and fulfill our destiny. To find out more about his breakthrough coaching program and schedule your first free 20 minute session please email RC101Coaching@gmail.com.
Organizations
www.holisticfitness4u.com
www.selfgrowth.com
www.fitnowradio.com
www.allexperts.com
www.yourspiritualrevolution.org
www.sourceofgoodstuff.com
www.bodybeyondbelief.com
Publications
www.amazon.com
www.realitycreation101.com
www.sedonajournal.com
www.4realmagazine.com
www.selfempowermagazine.com
www.realitycreation101.com
www.heartboard.com
www.yourspiritualrevolution.org
Education/Credentials
I am entirely self taught and learned everything from living on the streets, reading books, and then applying it in my own life. This is the power of 'me' in that if you do not have a college degree, a professional resume, a list of contacts, a safety net, or family support then do not worry, neither did I!
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