AboutCathy Johnson Expertise I run a non-profit animal rescue group that specializes in dogs but also works with cats and small animals (hamsters, guinea pigs and an occasional bird). I can help you with most behavioral problems you might encounter when adopting a rescue dog as well as help you working through issues. I can help you with any questions you might have as to the pros/cons of adopting a rescue if you are considering it. I can also help you decide what breed might work best for you if you tell me exactly what you are looking for in a dog.
Experience I run a rescue group and have been doing rescue work for over 20 years.
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Question My question is a bit complicated so here is the background info on it... I recently met a young woman who can no longer keep her dog (which is less than 10lbs). I told her I would pay the fee ($150) to adopt him and provide him w/ a safe and good home. It seemed to be all set until the young woman told her father (who bought her the dog) that she can't keep it anymore. Apparently, he was angry and said that he might take the dog; however the woman is concerned b/c the father has 2 German Shepherds who once 'tore up & ate' her classroom guinea pig. The father hasn't decided yet if he will take the dog but it's obviously not a good idea. The woman appears to be worried about the dog's safety but she won't stand up to the father. If she hadn't told me about the guinea pig, I would have let it go but now I feel compelled/ responsible to do something. I can't just let this little dog go into such a dangerous home knowing that something bad is bound to happen- I can't comprehend why the father would do this. To make matters more complicated, he lives far away not sure where) but it requires a plane to get there. What should or can I do if he decides to take the dog? I am afraid the answer is nothing and that it's beyond my control. I feel so helpless. Please help...
Thanks in advance for your response.
Answer Hello Caroline -- I agree with everything that you have said above. Unfortunately, legally, there really isn't anything that you can do if she decides to give the dog to him. I am assuming that he purchased the dog from a breeder. IF they adopted the dog thru a rescue group, they would probably intervene to get the dog back but that doesn't sound like it is the case here. It makes no sense to me why he would want the little dog and it sounds like he is being (excuse me) an idiot.
I've found in dealing with people like that who seem to have a power/control issue --- is to let them think they are right and not confront them in a way that they would feel as you are trying to take over. Perhaps if you could talk to the father, and let him know how much you love the dog and are willing to pay for him/her he might give in. Don't let him think it is because you feel he can't provide a safe environment. THat would just make him angry.
I know this doesn't help much, but it is the best I can offer. Perhaps even offer a little more money if you are able to. It would be worth it for the little dog.
