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I can answer questions about symptoms, what you should do if you think you have Postpartum depression, and I can give you, references to websites to help you better understand it. I cannot diagnose you, I am not a doctor.

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I am a survivor of Postpartum depression, I was diagnosed with Postpartum depression, when my son was only two weeks old. I was told that the Postpartum depression I had was one of the worst cases. I was on Antidepressants, that saved me.

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Topic: Postpartum Depression



Expert: Melissa
Date: 5/21/2008
Subject: cesarian birth

Question
i had a lil boy 5 months ago i had pre-eclampsia and had to have a rushed cesarian 3 weeks early. i now although am so happy my lil one is here and thankful hes ok cant get over the issue that i didnt have him naturally. everything happened so quick and i feel if it was taken out of my control. its my first baby and went in with a birth plan and expectations which went out the window. i wanted to enjoy my experience and didnt. i feel guilty towards my husband that he didnt see his son born i wish i could go back obviously i cant i just feel so sad like ive missed out and something has been taken away from me i cry most days im jelous when i see pregnant women because i want another baby to heel how i feel about the birth which is wrong. i need some help what is wrong with me? why cant i just be happy hes here

Answer
Well, I do not know what is wrong, but I know how you feel. After I had my son, I felt like this as well, I had a c-section, rushed for one, because he was in distressed. I did get to experince the labor part for 12 hours, then had it taken away, and my worst night mare of having a csection came true. I can tell you that it doesn't sound like PPD, PPD is when you want to love your child, but just can't, and don't know how. Maybe try talking to your doctor about this, and you might want to talk to your husband about it. Hang in there, I don't really have any real advice for this.

Thank you,
Melly

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