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Question For the last year now, I have been really starting to question myself about my "friends." Last year in august I was dumped by my boyfriend of two years, whom i also considered my best friend. Hes 22 now and I'm 21. I was dumped in a very harsh way. I was ignored for days, and then simply mailed over myspace confirming i no longer had a relationship, with the biggest lies of all time. So i went to turn to my group of close friends that i have considered my close friends for probably the last 7 years, and yes i introduced my ex to my group of friends within our second year of dating, and probably got together with them once a week if that. Age ranges of this group of people are between 20-25. But i couldnt turn to my friends because my ex already went running to them. I feel like he has stolen all my friends away. No one really talks to me anymore, and they stopped inviting me to do things with them after he dumped me. I have them on my facebook and myspace, and they are constantly posting pictures of him with his new girlfriend, and hes commenting all over everything! and they all added his new girlfriend and are now friends with her aswell and she does the samething. he was my first love, and i cried my eyes out for months about him. but they didnt even care, they constantly had him in conversations with me, inviting him to places we were going to be at, knowing i wasnt comfortable with being around him anymore because of the pain he caused me. and everyone thinks i need to stop dwelling in the past, get over the way he dumped me and just live with him being "OUR" friend now. They have a leader of this group, who makes all the decisions, and tells everyone what to do, and they do it. they go on shoplifting sprees, stealing things from various stores, they talk crap about pretty much everyone in the group and from what i can tell even hate the people they hang out with, they just pretend to like each other. Ive been having a really hard time letting these people go because, it wasnt like this before. when one of our friends passed away i lost alot of respect for these people when they went into her apartment and STOLE all of her clothes. so should i just delete these people out of my life? i just want a unbiased opinion on this. this is a long story cut short by the way.
Answer Hi,
Not sure exactly what you are asking. I can't judge your friends from here, but I can tell you a story if you want about friendship that may be able to help. Please ask follow ups if you want the story.
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