AboutDan Expertise I tend to think of my self as a person that can fix everything. Well, everything is such a big word that true no one can fix everything, yet we can still try.
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Question QUESTION: this is perhaps my thousandth mail to you. u see everytime i send my feelings of insecurity to exile they come back after a little while, to haunt me. i need a permanent cure this time, as i am 18 now and a responsible adult.
ok , so my friends never call me, much anyways. there is one, my best friend infact, who went abroad and though she promised she'd mail me regularly, she did'nt. she mails but quite infrequently, whereas i reply promptly to all her mails. what can i do to make friends care a little more?
please do reply to this. send me the kind of reply that will vanquish my demons once and for all.
ANSWER: Hi,
There is no magic cure to your issue, it will take time to fix it. I am not a psychologist and cannot treat such online. I recommend speaking to a psychologist ASAP. Please ask follow ups
The psychologist can help
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QUESTION: what should i say to the psychologist? its not a feeling that remains with me every second of the 365 days an year. it keeps on returning, and that is what bothers me. my grandmother had clinical depression, and my aunt has it too. am i doomed? i dont need a wizard but i dont need a psychologist either. u can help me.
Answer Hi,
Start off with the psychologist mentioning to them what you said to me above. They should know what to do to help. I cannot say that you have depression or will get depression, however if depression runs in the genes, we must look at this and find out how to prevent this from becoming a major issue. The psychologist can use his or her ideas proven in psychology to help relieve an issue before it becomes a major issue. Writing is sometimes a way to remove stress. But, writing can also cause stress, so one must be able to have a middle person to use to help use writing correctly to handle such an issue. The psychologist would be the middle person.
I can try to help you more, but I'm not a psychologist. Can I ask your hobbies?
Depression has a lot to do with nurture and some to do with nature.
