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Question QUESTION: Hello,
I don't know if you will consider this a problem, but for me it really is.
Well, the thing is that a guy who was my best friend, and almost like a brother for me suddenly told me that he didn't wanted to be my best friend that he didn't needed one.
He thought of me like some kind of compromise to him that if was going to have someone to worry as he did with me, that it would be better for him having that "compromise" with his girlfriend, wich I totally get, but ending the friendship we had with that excuse?, that's really something I still can't get.
He told me that I was kind of obssesed with our friendship, but that in the other hand he said: the truth is that I love you so much,you're my very special friend your never going to mean the same as the other girls and you are almost a part of my family but I don't see you as a best friend anymore and maybe I have a new one but I haven't really noticed.
If it was for me I would keep going but I would be saying the same thing over and over.
Now I'm considering to talk to him and tell him the truth, that I've realized all my mistakes and all of my reasons, and I'm trying to think for a way to ask him or tell him that I've changed,and to give me a chance to prove him that I can really be the best friend we once were.
I really miss him, and I am giving him tipe, so by now I hope he realized something.
please help me.
Regards,
Marina
ANSWER: Hi,
Still a problem? Ages? How did you become his friend?
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QUESTION: Hi,
Yes it's still a problem, and it's getting worst, I havent talked to him in like almost a month, and I'm feeling him more and more far from me.
We are both 17, but he is about to turn 18, I became his friend in school.
Thanks
ANSWER: Hi,
Not when did you become his friend, how and why did you? And also your question is how to repair the friendship, right? Please ask follow ups. Try our psychology area too
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QUESTION: Hey,
Well, I became his friend at school when he was the new guy, so I was the first one who talked to him so he and I started hanging out, and we were together almost of the time when he wasn't playing football.
And that was it, for 1 year, when he moved to another country, but when he came to visit I could see him like only 4 times, but that was ok for me.
And suddenly he changed, and told me that.
Yes thats my question, how to repair my friendship.
And I dont know anything about him, so that makes me worried.
Thank you
Answer Hi,
Sometimes the "good memories" of a friendship can repair a friendship. I must say always follow the law. The good memories can be turned into a song, poem, book, or a video for him to see. There are some problems with this idea, so talk to our psychology experts about such. Please ask follow ups
