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Subject	Date Asked

am I overreacting?	11/15/2009
Q: My best friend (a 15 yr old guy) and I (a 15 yr old girl) are going to a band audition next Saturday ... A: Some people in relationships would find it rude if he did not ask his girl friend. Out of respect I ...
manipulative friend	11/14/2009
Q: Hey Dan I'm fourteen and I have this good friend that I can get along with and have a good time with ... A: I can't label people online and doing so is very risky. But, I have a few theories. Either she is ...
racist/violent friends	9/29/2009
Q: Hey. My names Sarah and I'm 16. I have a pretty large and chill group of friends. I love everything ... A: Oh wow. First I am Jewish and while not religious, by birth I am Jewish and to the Jewish world I am ...
feeling insecure	9/1/2009
Q: this is perhaps my thousandth mail to you. u see everytime i send my feelings of insecurity to exile ... A: Start off with the psychologist mentioning to them what you said to me above. They should know what ...
How can I tell him this?	9/1/2009
Q: I don't know if you will consider this a problem, but for me it really is. Well, the thing is that a ... A: Sometimes the "good memories" of a friendship can repair a friendship. I must say always follow the ...
Fake friends	8/21/2009
Q: For the last year now, I have been really starting to question myself about my "friends." Last year ... A: Not sure exactly what you are asking. I can't judge your friends from here, but I can tell you a ...
Am I seriously screwed up?	8/15/2009
Q: Ok, I am 15(going on 16)years old, and i have gone through a lot in only the past 3 years. They have ... A: It wasn't your fault with your friends suicide. I had such happened to me too. It's hard. I ...
No Calls.	8/9/2009
Q: Hey Dan, So I'm a little lost right now. I'm going to be a sophomore in high school, and it's ... A: When I was 15 I had friend problems too. They said I was nice and funny, but a lot of the time most ...
No Calls.	8/9/2009
Q: Hey Dan, So I'm a little lost right now. I'm going to be a sophomore in high school, and it's ... A: 15 is the hard year with friends. It really is. Based on the information above, I don't think they ...
No Calls.	8/9/2009
Q: Hey Dan, So I'm a little lost right now. I'm going to be a sophomore in high school, and it's ... A: How old are you? Do any of them have jobs? Have they went on vacation? Can you tell me normally what ...
BFFs?	8/2/2009
Q: My best friend since the 2rd grade, Abby, and I are going into high school this year. She has gotten ... A: The question is it worth the cost to try to repair this friendship? And also the question is is it ...
best friend problems...	7/26/2009
Q: I'm 18 years old and my best friend is 19. We've been close friends for about 3 years now and i can ... A: First let me say I am not a psychologist, however I have seen some questions like this in the ...
best friend problems...	7/15/2009
Q: I'm 18 years old and my best friend is 19. We've been close friends for about 3 years now and i can ... A: Expert Dan from the question pool area. I have a theory on what is going on, but I really need more ...
Cummed On	2/19/2009
Q: I'm a girl and I'm 16 years old and I was recently molested. It was pretty minor but it's still ... A: It's something that is serious. Not minor, SERIOUS. If talking to both of your parents at the same ...
Being A Good Girl	1/10/2009
Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm Punjabi (a type of Indian). I moved to Canada last July and that was ... A: You are too good of a person to fall to those jerks levels. Those people are not your friend. You ...
My Best Friend	8/26/2008
Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and my best friend's 13 years old, too. After summer, we're gonna be in grade ... A: Talk to your parents and a doctor about sex risks. She needs to be tested ASAP. If you care about ...
losing friends to drugs	7/1/2008
Q: I'm 14. I mostly hang out with people a little older than me, like 15, and I'm usually really really ... A: I am glad you quit smoking weed. Weed is a serious drug that causes a load of problems. My former ...
Best friend issues	4/11/2008
Q: I'm having a little trouble with my best friend (I'm 13 she's 14). Ok, so first of all, she's VERY ... A: I don't know which school you are speaking about, yet I do know about education as I studied to be a ...
Worries	4/4/2008
Q: I'm not positive if this is the right place - really i should write in "expressing yourself to ... A: This is what we call a bump in a relationship. If you can get over this bump with him you'll become ...
i just got into a fistfight with one of my best friends	4/3/2008
Q: hey im 14. my name is sam and i just got into a serious fistfight with my friend who is 13. this ... A: It's very common for 14 years olds not to date. In fact in some areas it's illegal. You can look at ...
Loving and Losing	4/2/2008
Q: I am 14 (to be 15 in a few days) my friend that this is concerning is also 14 (turning 15 in the ... A: What is a friend to you? What made him your friend? How would he act towards you if the table were ...
i just got into a fistfight with one of my best friends	3/27/2008
Q: hey im 14. my name is sam and i just got into a serious fistfight with my friend who is 13. this ... A: Can I ask why you fought? I recommend speaking to your doctor about this fighting issue. Anger ...
Best Friend of 3 years... Blindsighted me	2/22/2008
Q: Hey.. I'm 18.. and i just got halfway or so thru my first year of college. So heres the background ... A: I sometimes like to recommend a "letter based idea". The idea is simple. If you could say anything ...
Best Friend of 3 years... Blindsighted me	2/18/2008
Q: Hey.. I'm 18.. and i just got halfway or so thru my first year of college. So heres the background ... A: Mike I really would like to help you, yet I'm not sure if I am the expert for you. Did you try our ...
i miss my old friend	2/5/2008
Q: i have a guy friend who i really liked as a friend during freshman year. but now, things are ... A: The letter idea is sometimes recommended, yet it's not always perfect. The letter idea can get you ...
losing my friend....	12/10/2007
Q: I’m 18 years old, in college, and I have been having a great time so far. This is my first year in ... A: I think of a friend as someone you can be honest with. Be peaceful and talk to him. If you can't be ...
Problem with son's friends	12/2/2007
Q: Our son is 18 but functions at a 10-12 year old level. He only has 2 friends and one of them is a ... A: Great question. How do I answer this? Ok first I am going to recommend our award winning expert ...
Ignoring friend	11/30/2007
Q: i am 16 years old boy, and i have a group of friends of around 9 people, i have a problem with one ... A: The rule in friendship is if one doesn't respect the other when they tell them it annoys them, that ...
trouble meeting and talking to people. sometimes friends	11/30/2007
Q: my name's eddie and I am 15 years old and am a sophomore in high school. I've been going through a ... A: Believe it or not it may be illegal for you to date at this age. Also believe it or not most people ...
Friend or not?	11/28/2007
Q: I have an older friend who is about 5 (she's 16) years older than me. She says I am one of her best ... A: I hate to read body language online because it's super hard. You can try our "body language area". ...
making friends	11/27/2007
Q: Hey Bella, My name is Lauren, I'm 18 years old, and I just started college this fall. I've been ... A: I recommend checking with the student union for clubs you may like to join. It's hard finding true ...
My friend...	10/26/2007
Q: , My name is Pete and i have a question about one of my friends (of course). Anyway he is really ... A: Many teenagers rebel at around age 12-16 age group(no exact number). It's due to the puberty actions ...
My friend...	10/25/2007
Q: , My name is Pete and i have a question about one of my friends (of course). Anyway he is really ... A: Please understand my advice is not medical advice and does not replace any doctor. I only post a ...
sorta jelous	10/18/2007
Q: ok im so much pretier and mature than my frend but she is the one getting the bf...! i dont get ... A: MOST people do not date at age 15. In fact in many locations it's illegal. I don't think people like ...
my friend steph	10/16/2007
Q: I'm Kevin and im 17 years old. This girl stephanie has been my best friend for four or five ... A: If she is not making you happy as a friend is she really your friend? You said your self a friend ...
bitchy so-called friend	10/13/2007
Q: Well, I'm 12 years old and I'm really depressed about this problem between me and my former best ... A: Those questions above are here to make you think and find the truth. Without truth, we won't know ...
bitchy so-called friend	10/10/2007
Q: Well, I'm 12 years old and I'm really depressed about this problem between me and my former best ... A: I understand how you feel. First I want to say what you are feeling is normal. Second I don't ...
my friend steph	10/9/2007
Q: I'm Kevin and im 17 years old. This girl stephanie has been my best friend for four or five ... A: You like her more than a friend and because you can't control those feelings you don't want her as a ...
Is he just jealous??	9/14/2007
Q: Ok,I'm 14. There's this guy who I really like (age 15). He's cute and everything. His little brother ... A: I can't promote things against your religion and I believe there is a policy no dating below age 16, ...
teen daughter	9/9/2007
Q: i have a 15 yr old daughter and until now i thought she had a good head on her shoulders but she is ... A: The teen age years are normal for rebelling. I am worried about what you said above. Did you talk to ...
Uncomfortable with their relationship	8/26/2007
Q: My best friend (17) and my boyfriend(18) are really good friends. (I am 17.) She is the one who ... A: Our expressing your self to others experts can tell you how to talk to people about such. I believe ...
MY BEST FRIEND HAS AN ADDITUDE PROBLEM	8/24/2007
Q: SHE IS... I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN IT WITH OUT ME BEING RUDE MYSELF.I GUESS YOU CAN SAY SHES ... A: We need more information. We need at least ages, yet I'm requesting more like when this started and ...
friends	8/22/2007
Q: i don't have good friends..though i look good.I am the most stylish girl in my college.i have good ... A: Eliza this is not an uncommon problem. I want to be your friend online. Can you tell me a drop about ...
romours	8/13/2007
Q: This lad has told one of my friends that i hate him and his whole family now hes not speaking to me ... A: I really need to know more information. Can you tell me about your relationship with Sean? ...
Myspace	8/10/2007
Q: Hey, I'm 13 and my best friend named Jamie really, really wants me to make a myspace page. I may ... A: I wish I can give you more advice than what I already stated. It's important you listen to your ...
Myspace	8/10/2007
Q: Hey, I'm 13 and my best friend named Jamie really, really wants me to make a myspace page. I may ... A: Myspace I very much dislike. I have seen predator cases there before and I call this a "safety risk ...
teen	8/9/2007
Q: my son is very nerves in school he is fourteen. he dosn,t have any friend and nobody talk to him I ... A: It could be a number of things and only your doctor and psychologist can help give you a true ...
confused and stuck	7/29/2007
Q: I live with my mom and my brother in Canada, and my dad lives with my 2 sisters and my step mom in ... A: Just checking to see how you are doing. I haven't heard from you recently. Please feel free to ask ...
My 17 yr old son	7/28/2007
Q: I have a 17 yr old son who will be a senior this fall. He has always had a lot of friends some ... A: Just checking to see if you received a reply from anyone about a signed photo or fan pack. I hope ...
My 17 yr old son	7/28/2007
Q: I have a 17 yr old son who will be a senior this fall. He has always had a lot of friends some ... A: If you know of his favorite sports player you can try to get him a letter or photo signed from them, ...
respect	6/20/2007
Q: i don't remember whether or not i've asked u this question before but i dont think so so here it is ... A: It's OK being stressed out. Lets talk about this. Your age only helps me by telling me who I am ...
respect	6/19/2007
Q: i don't remember whether or not i've asked u this question before but i dont think so so here it is ... A: I just read the feedback you left for me. Please understand this posting was not an answer to your ...
suffering 4 past 3 years!!!	6/16/2007
Q: i really need ur help.. you are my last chance. will u help me? i have been suffering for the past 3 ... A: "i really need ur help.. you are my last chance. will u help me?"<--- I will try my best. I cannot ...
plese help	6/4/2007
Q: I used to have this friend called Sophie. I am 15 years old. In year 7, when we were all new she was ... A: Can't they like both of you? The way to fix a friendship in some cases is by hanging out with them ...
Friends and stuff	6/2/2007
Q: Hey Dan, I’m 15 and a freshman at a small school. If I could describe myself in five words it would ... A: Include your email address in a follow up. I want to become your friend. You sound like a good ...
Being Punished For Nothing...	5/28/2007
Q: Jane is a very close friend of mine,she is a friend and a guide,like my mother.this happened a year ... A: How old are all of you? Is the hacking problem the only problem? How did you become friends? Why are ...
losing a friend	5/27/2007
Q: cari and i have been best friends for a long time and this year we didnt have any classes 2gether ... A: I do not recommend not volunteering for this is an important thing for humans to do. But, if you ...
Help!!!	5/7/2007
Q: Okay right now I have no friends in school! Why? Lets see one of my friend (Kaylie) is friends with ... A: What is a friend? What makes a friend? How old are you? What made you that Kaylie person's friend? ...
best friend preoccupied w/popularity	5/1/2007
Q: I'm an almost 13 yr old homeschooled girl with strong morals. My best friend,since we were babies, ... A: Please understand I am trying to help you. Because I want to help you the best possible, it requires ...
Friend	4/23/2007
Q: I am 14 years old and a freshman in highschool. I have had a friend since around Christmas of 2005. ... A: How did you meet? How did you become friends? Age of him? How come others do not like him?"He is ...
Want to fix it	4/18/2007
Q: Ok im having issues with my best friend and I want things to get close or back to the way It used to ... A: First off, some of my coworkers would refuse to answer due to the size of this question. There are ...
best friend too much	4/11/2007
Q: "Hey! (before you read this, just take note that me and my friend are both guys wich makes this ... A: How old are you all? Can I ask your state? Close to his family? Can you tell me how you met? Does he ...
Confused	4/10/2007
Q: My best friend and I were friends for about three years. We were pretty close, but recently we ... A: One of my favorite teachers now teaches in your state. Can I ask what part of Ca you live in? She ...
jessica	4/3/2007
Q: my friend Jessica doesn't want her other friends do something in private so a problem occur and her ... A: I need ages. Also what is this something in private? Can you state your state? I am questioning if I ...
need help big time	3/27/2007
Q: ok i have this friend that i am currently in a fight with. we have been close friends we call each ... A: Ok I am glad you talked to your parents. Keep them up to date on this case. I am also glad you have ...
need help big time	3/27/2007
Q: ok i have this friend that i am currently in a fight with. we have been close friends we call each ... A: Ok I am going to recommend a third party website I am not related to. So use at your own risk ...
Confused	3/19/2007
Q: My best friend and I were friends for about three years. We were pretty close, but recently we ... A: Has she ever seen a psychologist? Depression? Lonely? How many friends does she have? Ages? What ...
Celebrity Friends	3/6/2007
Q: I am 20, and my friend just got a deal with a record company to make an album of her music. I don't ... A: You should be happy for her. Just because she is recording music now does not mean she won't be your ...
Celebrity Friends	3/5/2007
Q: I know that this is probably out of your expertise, but how would a normal person hang out for a day ... A: Good question. Just so happens I happen to be friends with a world class psychologist. Whenever we ...
Hello there,	3/1/2007
Q: its Johan. Just wondering how you are. I myself am fine, in fact I actually got asked a question a ... A: Hey my friend, I am good. Thanks or asking. Wow good job about the nomination. I rarely get them. ...
Tears, tears, tears.	2/24/2007
Q: I'm sorry. I woke up on the wrong side of the bed yesterday. I am ten years old and in fifth grade. ... A: It's OK. I understand. Just I don't want people to give me bad feedback when I didn't get a chance ...
This girl	2/23/2007
Q: Well she might have a metal dissorder!LOL But i definetly know she likes attention!Big time!Well ... A: Psychologists can put a name to a disorder for attention. However, I dislike labeling people. ...
help	2/20/2007
Q: i wanted to discuss some things abt this net friend that i have.i'm 15 and he's 16. he's frm my ... A: Hey I guess another expert refused to answer your question.It happens. This is Dan again. I know you ...
They try and steal him!	2/10/2007
Q: I have a problem with my friends and it is causing me to get stressed and angry. Well, you see, I ... A: My name is Expert Dan. I saw your question on the question pool. I am wondering if you still need ...
Well...	1/15/2007
Q: I am ten and live in Arizona. Can you please answer my original question? How do you make friends?Hi ... A: I highly recommend talking to your parents about online safety. Using public boards like this is not ...
Celeb. Crush!	1/12/2007
Q: I will and I am happy that I have some one to ansower my Q's. thank you!thank you! this girl and I ... A: I am just wondering how you are my friend. What's new? E-mail me anytime you want. I had a friend ...
Celeb. Crush!	1/12/2007
Q: this girl and I are friends again we worked things out! its hard because I am so sensutive, I cant ... A: I never been on a cheerleading team, so you might want to ask our cheerleading experts also for ...
Urgent need of help	1/11/2007
Q: Dan, If you can give me some names of psychologists in the upper western part of New York who would ... A: I found this list online. http://www.nationalregister.org/reliefservices_list.html I don't know ...
Urgent need of help	1/11/2007
Q: Dan, First off, I live in the US, in the western part of New York state. The college that I go to ... A: I thought people would take pictures of me too and post it around campus, yet they didn't. Why? ...
Urgent need of help	1/11/2007
Q: I write to you tonight in more desperate need of help and guidance than ever before. I have had an ... A: One last thing for right now--- I am told this hotline is free and is good for the US. If ever you ...
Tears, tears, tears.	1/10/2007
Q: I am new to my school, and trying to make friends. I know its January, but still. I have been ... A: Please understand you have no answer for you didn't tell me enough. I asked for more information ...
Losing my best friend of 9 years...	1/9/2007
Q: I'm in grade 12. At the beginning of the year, a new boy in grade 11 came up and introduced himself ... A: My name is Expert Dan. I saw your question on the question pool. I am wondering if you still need ...
Celeb. Crush!	1/7/2007
Q: about that Girl that is well was my friend Shelby, we got in a fight with words at school she was ... A: I promote the address that is on the offical site over the Yahoo answer site. However, remember I am ...
Celeb. Crush!	1/5/2007
Q: Shelby is this friend that I am talking about that is her name, she is my friend becuase some times ... A: Please read: This is their website according to the internet and it tells you on it their address: ...
Celeb. Crush!	1/4/2007
Q: WOW that would be so cool if I could get a photo of them thank you so much! And about that whole ... A: "WOW that would be so cool if I could get a photo of them thank you so much"<--- If I can get you ...
Celeb. Crush!	1/4/2007
Q: I will talk to my mom and see what she can do but if thier is anything you can help me with that ... A: "thank you for everything,"<--- No problem. I love working here. I don't do this for feedback on ...
Celeb. Crush!	12/30/2006
Q: ook thank you but I think I can talk to my friends first, I think that I like him a lot and whant to ... A: "ook thank you but I think I can talk to my friends first"<--- Ok I understand. The option is still ...
Celeb. Crush!	12/30/2006
Q: iam going to look at the site. I really like Dylan Sprouse but how do I know that I am not obbsessed ... A: "Thank you so much, iam going to look at the site. "<--- It's the least I could do. But, you ...
Teenage issues	12/28/2006
Q: I know this issue may not seem much to you, but its a problem I feel that I need to face. It all ... A: " I know this issue may not seem much to you, but its a problem I feel that I need to face."<---- I ...
wot can i do about it?	12/28/2006
Q: i am online right nowheyy ill talk to you online because it is easyest i cant really simplyfy ... A: If you cannot see me online I am listing some other options. Here are some links to teen hotlines ...
Celeb. Crush!	12/28/2006
Q: I am 15 and Dylan sprouse is 14 but I just turnd 15. I have a crush on this hot teen Celeb. I whant ... A: Ah. I remember you. Sorry April about that. I don't know where my mind was. I don't know "Dylan ...
I need help with a boy!	12/26/2006
Q: do you have a diffrint e-mail add or is this all? oh and I also have a q. with this friend of mine, ... A: If the question is private I can post my rapid responce email address. Sometimes I respond faster in ...
I need help with a boy!	12/26/2006
Q: ok if I talk to him some of his freinds will talk about it but I think I really like him so can I ... A: "ok if I talk to him some of his freinds will talk about it but I think I really like him so can I ...
I need help with a boy!	12/26/2006
Q: ok if this boy does like me how will he react around me?? will this feeling that I have go away?hi, ... A: How will he act around you varies with cultures? Also it's hard for me to explain online certain ...
I need help with a boy!	12/23/2006
Q: I am a girl and I have this crush on a boy, I was told by a guy friend that this boy does like me ... A: You are 15 and those feelings are normal, yet I do not promote dating until at least 16. Now, if you ...
Friendships	12/19/2006
Q: The guy is 23 and the girl is 22. Another, same girl and the guy is 28.How may a girl get acquainted ... A: I would recommend saying hi to them every time you see them. Stopping every once in a while asking ...
How do i end a friendship?	12/17/2006
Q: Hey I have been friends with a girl I met in primary school for ten years now, but it hasn’t been ... A: Please keep me updated on this problem. Thank you for your feedback. It's OK. Age and location ...
Don't want to know me?	12/17/2006
Q: I was suprised myself at how fast the replied. Thanks, but no thanks. Not that bothered about the ... A: I think my request helped you get the job faster. But, hey maybe it was just luck they accepted you ...
Don't want to know me?	12/16/2006
Q: Considered your proposal and dedcided to apply as an expert in the soccer and video games ... A: Remember we as experts shouldn't do this for feedback, yet you should review the feedback you ...
Don't want to know me?	12/15/2006
Q: Yep, I used to be part of an ameteur football team myself but didn't last long and ended up leaving ... A: Hey, I sent you a question I believe in your work area(right?). My friend I rarely hear from you. ...
Don't want to know me?	12/15/2006
Q: tbh can't really say I've noticed any clubs the college hosts, only seems to be sports clubs..which ... A: Oh you're in England? Wow. I'll call it Football, even though here we call it soccer. I was a fan of ...
Don't want to know me?	12/14/2006
Q: Basically this last year or so I have struggled to make new friends. All through my life I have ... A: I just want to check to see how you enjoy working here. Made any new friends? Keep in touch. I hope ...
friend problems	12/10/2006
Q: i appreciate the advice and i will keep trying until she talks to me again thank you for taking the ... A: Ok your fight wasn't a major fight. You should be able to handle with the advice above. However, if ...
friend problems	12/10/2006
Q: when ever she's does this i just stop thinking except about if she is gonna call or message me but ... A: Happy Late Birthday. Ok true friendships can last through many fights. I recommend you to be the ...
friends	12/9/2006
Q: So me and my friend Lexis got in a fight about 2 days ago about something that my brother said to ... A: How old are you? Is the problem still at hand? I recommend talking to your parents? I need more ...
First Love and Best Friend...Dating...	11/3/2006
Q: Hey, I'm gonna give you some background info about my problem first, which may take a while, but ... A: My name is Expert Dan. I saw your question on the question pool. I am wondering if you still need ...
i don't get it...	10/20/2006
Q: There's a girl who I trust completely, and I've had some big problems, so it's a huge deal for me ... A: Multiple personality disorder? Or dissociative identity disorder? Is that what you meant by DID or ...
i don't get it...	10/20/2006
Q: There's a girl who I trust completely, and I've had some big problems, so it's a huge deal for me ... A: I recommend to be careful with Myspace. I do not promote Myspace. This is Dan again. I noticed an ...
she won't go away	10/17/2006
Q: ok my friend is such a liar she lies about everything. Even stupid stuff like where she went for the ... A: You're saying you hear from others the lies she sends out about you? Are you sure 100 percent she is ...
CLose friends	10/7/2006
Q: Recently i have had my friends upset with me for many reasons. I went out with one of my friends in ... A: Ok you dated a guy who is friends with your friends. This guy you ended up breaking up with and now ...
Why	10/4/2006
Q: I have a lot of friends that call me names because of my race, I also think i'm the only one getting ... A: What race are you? And what names do they call you? How many friends? How long were you their ...
Being used by a friend who denies all	9/30/2006
Q: This is a long complicated story, so I shall start from the beggining and attempt to be concise as ... A: Why do you feel like calling people names? I want to help you out. If you don't want my help, don't ...
frendship groups	8/26/2006
Q: I stayed away from school on friday because i was a tiny bit sik, but mainly because I didn’t have a ... A: Your question is why did your group of friends kick you out of a group? I am not sure with those ...
please help, im so confused	8/24/2006
Q: Okay, so I have this best friend. She's not one of those fake ones, because if she was, we'd have ... A: It depends on the jokes that your speaking of, yet in my mind, most of the time, this is a bad idea. ...
Best friend dating ex	8/23/2006
Q: my name is Holli and I’m 14 years old. In advance, I’m sorry that this story is really long and ... A: 14 is too young to be dating. Why is he dating this person? Why does your friend want to date him? ...
Used by close friend	8/11/2006
Q: i started university 1 year ago and got close to a girl. we were normal friends initially then we ... A: The only advice I have is sometimes you need to be the bigger person. She made a mistake. Maybe she ...
Why?	8/7/2006
Q: i feel so sad cuz of my friend. he's my best friend. also the one i thought a brother upon me. at ... A: Sometimes friends have problems at certain ages. I am not sure if this is an age problem, or another ...
Being Used???	8/3/2006
Q: I have 3 friends who I am really close with. I'll call them Ann, Sue, and Lee. During the school ... A: Are they really your best friends? You want them as your friends, yet do they really care if you are ...
ok 2 friend questions	8/2/2006
Q: ok first im going into 8th grade (im 13) and theres a lot of drama and stuff going on and my friends ... A: The middle school/high school years are hard on teens. Those are the years that sometimes friends ...
Friend acting like a complete dickhead	8/1/2006
Q: I'm 14, and he's 14 as well. We're both in Yr.8 ( Second Year High school) and we have been friends ... A: Should you end this friendship? That's your choice. Would I? It depends. Sometimes friendships just ...
Friend acting like a complete dickhead	8/1/2006
Q: Hey Dan, I have a friend that I have been friends with for a long time. I'd like to think that we ... A: You ask a good tough question. How old are all of you? How did you meet as friends? When? Let me ...
HART BROKEN	7/21/2006
Q: Could you please explain to me when you have a friend and you see that friend for a long time and ... A: There is a term in psychology called "need to belong". You feel that because your friend is falling ...
teen son having problems with friends	7/2/2006
Q: His dad and I both have talked with him. We're all puzzled about this situation. We did ask him to ... A: I asked about other friends with the other people because it could cause a problem. Girl friends are ...
teen son having problems with friends	7/2/2006
Q: My sons firends are his same age. His main group consists of about 10 boys, and there are probably ... A: Well I understand your problem. James Windell is an online friend of mine that I sometimes recommend ...
teen son having problems with friends	7/2/2006
Q: Hoping you can help me. My son is 14 and entering high school. He has always had a large circle of ... A: Hmm. I have another expert who may be able to help you. He is a parent trainer. His name is "James ...
Why is he like this and what can i do?	6/6/2006
Q: My friend his name is Terry and we have been having problems that just dont work out properly, we ... A: I think he has a self esteem issue. I'm not an expert on self esteeem and we have experts here who ...
My best bud	6/6/2006
Q: Dan, I'm sure that he's not on drugs. In fact I went to him after I sent this to you this is only ... A: It could be new friends, or depression. I'm not sure what else to say. It could be lots of reasons ...
evil enemy or friend?	6/3/2006
Q: This girl is my cousin, for years we've been friends on and off. she got the internet on and we both ... A: What she did with the website was illegal. And what you did was illegal to. Two wrongs don't make a ...
strengthening a friendship	5/30/2006
Q: how do you suggest i go about talking to him i dont want to sound to needy, or that im pissed at him ... A: It probably won't go back to the way it was before. It's very hard to do this. Is there a middle ...
Friends Growing Apart?	5/11/2006
Q: I started college in the fall this year, and have met lots of new friends. We would always hang out ... A: Friends shouldn't all be about fun. They should be people you can trust and get advice from. Your ...
social situations	4/7/2006
Q: I'm 15, I want to know these people because I'm not that close to anyone. I talk to some of them on ... A: I know when I was 15 I made some friends who in the end I didn't want to be their friends. So be ...
social situations	4/6/2006
Q: I'm having a problem with conecting with people. I always have awkward silences because I am more of ... A: How old are you? What type of friends do you want? How many? How come you want those people as your ...
Is she competing with me?	4/1/2006
Q: Everytime I like a guy my best friend starts hanging out with him more and more. I don't get it is ... A: I question if she is your friend. I also question if her self esteem is high or low. What sometimes ...
Ignores me in public	2/22/2006
Q: I am 19 and he is 21. anything else you might need? oh, btw, he is a friendly person so getting him ... A: I am going to recommend you to ask in the following area of this site. However, talking is very ...
A CRUSH	2/10/2006
Q: last year i had this guy friend and we really showed interest in each other, well to make a long ... A: There's usually hope. Now, if you like him, the trick is to show him you want to be his friend ...
My Friend	1/27/2006
Q: I used to be best buddies with this guy and I really like him and to spend time with him, yet he ... A: It appears he doesn't want to be your friend. If this is true, what I would do in your case is let ...
my best friend	1/25/2006
Q: me and my best friend have been best friends for 6 years since last year. and now that its new year ... A: It could be a number of things: New friends School problems Family problems Without more ...
wat should i do	1/23/2006
Q: I'm sorry, but the question is too long and involved to give it the considered answer it deserves. ... A: Like I said last time, I lost you somewhere in your story. Your right, I see your story is bigger ...
hi	1/17/2006
Q: I have got a really nice friend and she stays with another group of girls who are really stuck up. ... A: How is your friends grades in school? How does she dress? How old are all of you? If I had to guess, ...
What do I do?	1/11/2006
Q: I am in 8th grade. There is this guy at my school who I've known since I was in kindergarten. He's ... A: Sometimes young guys who like girls will insult them, because it was taught for some time that guys ...
im a girl....and have a problem	1/11/2006
Q: well dan, if u think u can solve any problem, then solve this. i hang around with my girlfrends.and ... A: What I learned a long time ago is if you want something, sometimes you need to go and get it. If you ...
What the hell is wrong with me?	12/27/2005
Q: I'm 14. Being a lesbian isn't a choice. And it's not that easy for me to talk to new people... how ... A: I know it's in your genes, yet I said the other thing for another reason. I have studied a drop into ...
Im a bore person	12/23/2005
Q: I am Usman, age 18, just started college. My problem is this that I am very bore person, dry. I ... A: While I have to say "just be you", I will also say there are a lot of good books about how to ...
What the hell is wrong with me?	12/22/2005
Q: Y'know I see all these people this year who make new friends every day. I just don't understand how ... A: How old are you? I was young once and I was not popular. Not everyone is popular. It takes hard ...
Old Friends..	11/28/2005
Q: For the past 5 years I have been homeschooled. Ever since then I haven't really seen or talked to my ... A: Good question. In some years one of my reunions will come around. This is when I meet my former ...
Ugh..Just Another Problem	11/22/2005
Q: Followup To Question - A while ago I sent a problem of mine to Ashley and she helped me out..But I ... A: I remember an old saying that I want to say to you. "Friends are for support". Your job is to help ...
friend not talking to me	11/19/2005
Q: My name is Andres Feijoo and I am currently a sophmore at the University of Connecticut. Over the ... A: Happy Thanksgiving first of all also. I would wait with telling her your other feelings besides ...
Made a mistake	10/20/2005
Q: I made a mistake yesterday but choosing my grades over friendship. This caused a huge uproar in my ... A: You remind me of my pizza story. The question was do I eat pizza in a class party when I went to ...
My best friend	10/19/2005
Q: My name is Kelly. I had some trouble with a friend of mine and I need some advice. Actually the ... A: You ask a very good question. Her self esteem issues are a major part of this question. While I ...
What to do?	10/2/2005
Q: I hope you can help me out, so here is my story. We started as team meets and became friends. And I ... A: First, I question why you are still friends with this person who according to you is abusing your ...
Betrayal of Trust.	9/30/2005
Q: Okay... this is going to be pretty long. Just thought I'd tell you that first. Last school year, I ... A: You shouldn't date someone who cheats on you. Your boyfriend is a loser. That's all I can say. He ...
how to broach a topic	8/28/2005
Q: I hope I'm finding you in the best of health. I'm hoping that if I tell you my situation, you could ... A: It's great you are reviewing a course before taking it, however understand teachers will use ...
why	8/28/2005
Q: So here I amand in these 31 years staying with a friend of 31 years we worked together for 23 ... A: If you have proof he does drugs and if this drug is illegal in your area, you may want to call the ...
Best Friend Problem	8/24/2005
Q: Wow, where do I start? I just know I desperately need help with a situation with a ‘best friend'. I ... A: To be honest, I don't know where to start with an answer. Some people would say "move on", and you ...
dealing with a new person	8/19/2005
Q: how to deal with a person when none of his interest is known or familar to me? A: There is an old saying that says if you want to make friends, show the person you want to be their ...
friends	7/30/2005
Q: My name is Katy and I am 19 years old. Whenever I return home for breaks from college, I sometimes ... A: You are probably popular in college and you want to be this way at home. Understand however, there ...
Whiny friend	7/22/2005
Q: I have a whiny friend that complains almost about everything. When she complained about the quality ... A: Good question. Whenever she says something negative, try to make her think of something positive ...
Why don't they ring me?	7/13/2005
Q: I want to thank you for not only answered my question but also confirmed my judgement on that ... A: Your welcome. He should call you back, yet some people just don't have the term we call "respect". ...
should i tell jealous old friend im now a single mum	7/12/2005
Q: ive recently started speaking to a 'friend' who i stopped speaking to five yrs ago as she was ... A: Just to talk to someone doesn't mean you're their friend. What if she didn't tell those stories ...
mates	7/11/2005
Q: recently my 2 best mates fell out badly! They were amazingly close but one when got a very strong ... A: I am going to ask you to ask in the psychology area. There is an old trick that may work that I call ...
friends problem	7/10/2005
Q: I have a problem. I came all the way from the country where I live now to visit my frinds I used to ... A: People change and this is important to know. I would have traveled the world to see some old friends ...
Why don't they ring me?	7/9/2005
Q: I will try and make this question short and understandable. I can not understand the fact that why ... A: I once called a friend of mine 100 times in 1 year just to talk to them. They however were not home ...
I don't want to cause problems...	7/4/2005
Q: Last summer, my mom's friend, her son, her dog, and two cats came to stay with us. Her son, Erik, ... A: Just from your side of the story, which isn't the whole story, it looks as through the mother has an ...
Distant Friend	6/28/2005
Q: I have a friend named Meaghan, and have been her friend loosely since 4th grade, until we became ... A: Sometimes one says leave and if they like you, they will get back to you. In this case, you need to ...
new best friend	6/20/2005
Q: I have two best friends, one is a guy, and one is a girl. I became really good friends with the guy ... A: I think you should talk to them about this. Chances are they will invite you along and it could make ...
No Friends	6/15/2005
Q: I have absolutley NO friends. I mean not a single one. Im homeschooled.Going on 4 years now. Ive ... A: Good question. I was homeschooled/public schooled. Hated public school. I used distance education ...
moving	6/10/2005
Q: im so upset. i moved to new jersey about 8 months ago from california. i just started high skool ... A: Are you part of any clubs? You mentioned what you told me to your parents? I am sure they would want ...
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!	6/5/2005
Q: i go to 8th grade and until a few weeks ago, I had a best friend for 5 years!!! I mean we were ... A: First thing first. Your problem is not too uncommon. What I tell people to do is go to a trusted ...
Boyfriend and friend	5/17/2005
Q: I really liked this guy who is my friends neighbor and my friend HATES him. Ever since I have ... A: Why does she hate him? Sometimes in life you have to choose between people. She needs to grow up. ...
How to make friends	5/11/2005
Q: What is the best way to make friends, and meet people? I have always had problems with this. ... A: All great questions. No simple answer. I can recommend some books I am sure, yet this is not what ...
Best friend problems	5/8/2005
Q: 3 of my best friends are in a fight and wont talk to each other I am trying to fix the problem but i ... A: First you need to find out what caused the problem. Next, get each one to sit down and talk to you ...
socializing	4/21/2005
Q: First of all, I would like to tell you that if you are busy or are not interested in the discussion, ... A: I just got very busy. I had to go to a meeting and than I have a lot of other people to deal with on ...
Best friend gone bad	4/7/2005
Q: I've had a best friend for about a year now. Suddenly she's a totally different person than when I ... A: Right as I read the first two sentences, I said drugs. Your job as a friend is to protect her and if ...
i feel silly -- this is long	4/1/2005
Q: This might sound like a question that you may not feel qualified for, but I feel the reality is that ... A: I don't see a question as you even admit there is none. You just want advice. While you probably ...
A friend named Kari	3/28/2005
Q: 9th grade.I have a friend named Kari. I've known her for about 3 years, and one of my best friends ... A: Ok, what is going on is she is having a self esteem problem. You may have taken a psychology course ...
trying to find a mising person	3/9/2005
Q: Followup To Question -dear Dan, hello there, I'm trying to find a missig friend and I would like to ... A: We can try an internet email search. But they are not the best. If you have a theory of what state ...
trying to find a mising person	3/8/2005
Q: Followup To Question - dear Dan, hello there, I'm trying to find a missig friend and I would like ... A: Does this site help? http://www.immobilier-17.com/contact.htm If not which I assume not, you ...
trying to find a mising person	3/7/2005
Q: hello there, I'm trying to find a missig friend and I would like to know where do I link in all ... A: To be honest I am not an expert at researching in France, yet there were 20 names with this person's ...
trying to find a mising person	3/1/2005
Q: hello there, I'm trying to find a missig friend and I would like to know where do I link in all ... A: We do have an area on allexperts that have PI's, yet I can try to help you find this person if you ...
my best friend	2/20/2005
Q: im 18 and my best friend Samuel tends to ignore me sometimes he says he's my best friend but maybe ... A: If you stay to close to him for to long, he may push you away and not stay your friend. Give him ...
i'm not sure if you can help...	2/15/2005
Q: i'm not sure if you can help really i think you going to send me the outside my experince thing. ... A: Shyness is not uncommon. Yet, what your going through is a type of fear it looks like due to your ...
confused	2/14/2005
Q: would it be wise to contact a person u havent seen 4 a year and a half like i use to like him and ... A: I don't fully understand your question, yet in simple in most cases at least people who you haven't ...
friend	2/9/2005
Q: My one friend, since i've known since 5th grade (i'm now in 9th) just met a new girl last year. ... A: Do you think the new person does drugs? It looks like she is growing up and it looks like she wants ...
Friend raped what do I do?	2/7/2005
Q: My friend " Ellen " was raped once when she was 8, then agine at 12, then two weeks ago. She is 14 ... A: You are her friend. The job of a friend is to protect her. While she said to keep it a secret, you ...
dancing	2/3/2005
Q: my names is kevin. i have a girlfriend named jessica. on february 14, it's valentines day. there's ... A: Maybe instead of the school dance, you can offer to go somewhere else with her. Like the movies or ...
friends interfeering in my relashionship!	2/2/2005
Q: My friends keep telling me that my girlfriend is ugly and i should dump her. Hey, i know shes not a ... A: David there are a number of ways to look at this. I look at this in the way if someone insults my ...
Dyed friend	1/26/2005
Q: We have been friends since 4th grade, and we are now in 9th. She did mention before she cut it that ... A: During the 9th grade level, expect a lot of changes with friends. Understand she may do drugs. If ...
Dyed friend	1/21/2005
Q: My best friend recently cut her long blonde hair up to her ears, and dyed it brown. I don't ... A: How old are you? How long were you friends? It is a known fact girls go to the bathroom with girls. ...
My friendship	1/19/2005
Q: sir i am very intrested in colltion of friend.now i am 20th. when i am upto 18 i had lots of ... A: If your in college, take courses that work in groups and if you make one friend from that, this new ...
my friend	1/17/2005
Q: My best friend has always been there for me through everything, she is so considerate of me. But ... A: She looks up to you. What can I say? However, sometimes people go to far. You can talk to her , but ...
friend question	1/14/2005
Q: but she always asks me to come over to her house. I live very far from her place and it is very ... A: I think she is pushing your friendship. I had a friend who wanted me to repair a car. I repaired the ...
whoops	1/5/2005
Q: OK so a couple of my friends and i are going on a college visit pretty soon. It was soppossed to be ... A: First let me say thanks for wanting to go to college. I like when people want to keep learning and I ...
How to make friends?	1/3/2005
Q: I'm 18 years old, I go to college and I am trying to find friends. I find it hard to find friends ... A: Great question. I like how you didn't give me any story and just came straight out with a question. ...
friends	12/14/2004
Q: Well i don't really know how to start but i'll just start. I've had a difficult past couple of ... A: Take a deep breath. Depression is not rare and what happened to you that hurt your running and ...
Confidence?	12/11/2004
Q: -Dan- hope your haveing a good day, cuz right now i'm not! ya see, i'm kinda shy and don't really ... A: Tell me more about your self. Understand looks is not everything. Also understand don't be a ...
friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	11/27/2004
Q: Listen, i have a big problem, I was friendly with a girl and then we got into a big fight and now we ... A: Hmm your question got me in theory. The good news is your one of the first I can use my proverbs ...
problem	11/25/2004
Q: since the start of my sphmore year in high school which is the yr im in right now ive been having ... A: Tell me more about your self. My next question is do you want to be like other people? What I ...
What should I do?	10/3/2004
Q: Hey Dan. I'm a sophomore in high school. My best friend is Amanda, who is a junior. We've been best ... A: My question is why don't you ask him out? My other question is how do you know she knows you liked ...
making frields	9/5/2004
Q: I recently came to college and i'm having trouble making friends. It's always been like that ... A: I like to test out this trick with you it comes from a famous quote. If you want to make friends ...
girl / friend troubles	9/4/2004
Q: I wanted to ask this question for months but I have procrastination issues. :) Anyway, for the ... A: I am sorry. I do want to know more about you to become your friend. But understand I will only be ...
she found him and left me	5/5/2004
Q: whew i really wanted a guys input on this one think u can help? usually im the one people come to ... A: I think and I am not sure. This is really a dating question and we have our own field here. The ...
Friend	3/9/2004
Q: ------------------------- Subject Friend Question Hello! I am 18 years old & have a friend who ... A: What is going on here is that her drugs have caused her to be a type of person you shouldn't go ...
Friend	3/8/2004
Q: She is 19 and she has done drugs - no addictions or anything, but she has tried a few...including a ... A: I am sorry, yet I deal with so many people online that while I do remember you, I also do not want ...
HI Naomi! I have a Problem!...	10/31/2003
Q: I have a Problem! On Halloween I decided to celebrate this feast on a cementary! My best friend's ... A: Two ideas. First, don't go to that party. Instead understand your only as cool as you want your self ...

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