Psychiatry & Psychology--General/Child behavioral issues


My soon to be 5 yr. old daughter has severe reactions to typical everyday needs.  She has screaming fits and tantrums with throwing and hitting herself if she is required to wear socks and underwear, which are both daily requirements in our household.  We have a family history of mental illness including OCD, Tourette's syndrome, trichotillomania and dementia.  I have a second cousin that has also been hospitalized most of her life for schizophrenia.  My daughter also has an uncontrollable habit of chewing on the inside of her mouth and went through a 9 month span where every time she put shoes on she screamed hysterically because she could not put her toe up.  We had to distract her to get shoes on her.  The urges and impulses seemed to come and go at times.  The sock issue now is hat she cannot seem to handle the seams on socks touching her toes.  The same issue with underwear and pull-ups at bedtime...she does not like anything touching her "pee pee".  To us and other family members she seems to be very hyperactive.  She is unable to sit still even to make it through a single meal, usually either knocking something over on the table or falling out of her chair.  She is also very resistant to making direct eye contact when someone is speaking to her.  If I am trying to explain something and tell her to look at me she is constantly turning her head and looking away.  She is very defiant and resistant.  I have been told by several people that I should have her see a psychologist.  Is this typical behavior for her age or should I seek professional help?


I believe your daughter's behavior is extreme enough to warrant some professional psychological evaluation.

This behavior is not typical for children of her age and is liable to make things more difficult for her in school as she gets older.


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30 years in private practice as a psychologist in Manhattan. Dealing with people from almost every conceivable ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds, and as many character types as exist in this country. Dealing with patients from 8 years old to 90 years old. Pioneer in biofeedback and the treatment of stress-related disorders. Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Mount Sinai School of Medicine since 1982. Treatment of stress-related, anxiety and depressive disorders with biofeedback and cognitive behavioral therapy. Developed personal problem solving, an extremely precise form of psychotherapy. Relationship therapy for couples, families, parent/child issues, business partners, coworkers, employers, and dealing with psychopathic individuals in your life.

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Ph.D. SUNY at Stony Brook, 1979. B.A., magna cum laude with Honors in Psychology, Illinois Wesleyan University, 1974.

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