AboutAlan Auerbach Expertise Taught psychology for 30 years, authored four textbooks. Specialize in introductory and industrial/organizational psychology, but will tackle wider range of areas.
Expert: Alan Auerbach Date: 12/19/2006 Subject: need to ask
Question hello
there is a person is my friend i feeling he is my soul mate (like to listen to his voice , to see his eyes , i can reading his ideas , like to be beside me every time )
but unfortuntly he consider me as a respected nice person not any more he didnt feel the same feeling towards me
thats horrible caz to feel toward someone a special emotions & he is not
i confess thats to him with indirectly way with my deeds but he ignore or didnt understand
thats horrible to myself
how can i overcome that ?
how can i configure my emotions towards him with correctly way ?
why that happening to me
notice: this is not a date thats my male friend & i male too
wish to hear from you soon
thanks
Answer Hello ja
It is hard to understand your own feelings, so you cannot expect someone else to understand them too. When you are young and inexperienced it is also hard to interpret your own emotions, but you just feel them as strong. They should become more comfortable in a little time. If not, you could ask someone in your community, someone older and wiser, for help with understanding this.