Hi!  My name is Tanya, my birthday is 03/08/1982, my husband is Nick, and his birthday is 11/14/1980. Not having a child of our own is putting a great stress on our marriage. I already have 2 from a previous marriage, but will our void ever be filled?  Or, will we be forced to be happy with the way things are now?  Thank you so much for your time.

Hi Tanya:

It's hard to 'be forced' to be happy.  Happiness is what you two make of it.  I feel your husband loves you very much, but you could both benefit from the guidance of a spiritural pastor or counselor.  Infertility can produced unwanted strain on a marriage, but there are aways to deal with it. I think it is also to keep an open mind in regard to adoption as well as this would complete your family.  Given that you are both so young, however, I feel like a biological child is possible, it just may take a few more years.  In the meantime, you and your husband need to learn to be happy together.  You married each other and committed to each other, and your happiness is not predicated on what future child you may have or what could happen in the future.  Careful to give your current children plenty of attention together as well. Love, Jude


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I cannot answer questions regarding long distance relationships. I can answer and provide guidance in matters of specific questions regarding love, career, business, pets, and to a lesser extent, sometimes I can channel messages or see images of loved ones on the other side. I do not answer specific questions regarding pregnancies, illnesses or missing items or persons. PLEASE ALSO NOTE: I DO NOT ANSWER QUESTIONS SUCH AS--"WHAT DAY, MONTH, YEAR WILL I GET MARRIED OR WHAT DAY MONTH YEAR WILL I FIND A JOB!! OR WHEN AM I GOING TO HAVE A BABY? I AM NOT AN ASTROLOGER! I am simply a very intuitive person with lots of life experience guided by the Holy Spirit. This is what 'psychic' means to me.


Since i was a small, i have always known I had very strong intuition. I had a rather difficult childhood and my only life line was God and the Holy Spirit--this was encouraged by my grandmother. As I became older, I began to study life after death, metaphysics, and the paranormal to develop my gifts. One must be careful in opening the portals of the spirit world. Unknowingly, you can allow influences and spirits and demons in your world without your permission if you play with this. Therefore, it is my philosophy and profound belief that i now stand by is to study the Holy Bible and scripture, meditate on the Word of God, pray and meditate daily. This has brought me much peace that the metaphysical world and the New Age movement could not give me. There was always a very short period of satisfaction followed by emptiness. The difference I think is put love and truth in leaning 100% on God. AND GOD IS LOVE and HE LOVES YOU!! You will not find this in the New Age movement. I am a professional by day, with 20 years of experience working in a Fortune 500 company. If you do not get your response right away, please understand because I have a full-time job and kids and a family at home. Thank you for your trust and confidence in me. It's ok if you are not Christian--i am not a bigot so i will still answer your question gladly and welcome other cultures and faiths to do so. I do not push my beliefs on others but rather sometimes I may share the Good News or what I feel you need to hear. Sometimes people get mad when they dont hear what they want to hear but that's ok! These are free mini-readings--set your expectations accordingly. I try to provide a short, yet thoughtful and insightful response to each and every person.

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