Psychics/Is he the one?

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Hello my name is Cana. I'm 15 and my boyfriend, Ray, is 16. I know we are awfully young to be talking about these types of things. But in the past couple of months, we have been through so much together. I told him a lie, a pretty serious one. In short, his parents found out and so did mine. They pretty much forbade us to date but we're still making it work. Even though i lied to him, he still forgave me and still wants to be with me. If it was anyone else, they would've left. His compassion and ability to forgive is beyond me. I really do think he is the one, but not just because he did that. But because i feel there is something very special about him. We've both have helped each other with problems we've struggled with. I may not know what love is, but with what i feel for him is beyond a chemical compound in my brain and body or a simple infactuation. How do you feel about this?

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Hi Cana:

I think you are being a little deceptive because you didn't say what the lie was about.  Second, it must have been very serious for both sets of parents to forbit you to date.  If they forbid you to date, they know what's best for you and you should respect their authority--don't date Ray.  I think instead you need to do some work within yourself to determine what made you tell such a serious lie.  15 and 16 is a really young age to get so serious--i'm not questing your emotions--i was a teenager myself and can attest to such powerful emotions and attractions.  If you and Ray are destined to be together in the future, respect your parents, God and yourself enough to wait when the time is appropriate.

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I cannot answer questions regarding long distance relationships. I can answer and provide guidance in matters of specific questions regarding love, career, business, pets, and to a lesser extent, sometimes I can channel messages or see images of loved ones on the other side. I do not answer specific questions regarding pregnancies, illnesses or missing items or persons. PLEASE ALSO NOTE: I DO NOT ANSWER QUESTIONS SUCH AS--"WHAT DAY, MONTH, YEAR WILL I GET MARRIED OR WHAT DAY MONTH YEAR WILL I FIND A JOB!! OR WHEN AM I GOING TO HAVE A BABY? I AM NOT AN ASTROLOGER! I am simply a very intuitive person with lots of life experience guided by the Holy Spirit. This is what 'psychic' means to me.

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Since i was a small, i have always known I had very strong intuition. I had a rather difficult childhood and my only life line was God and the Holy Spirit--this was encouraged by my grandmother. As I became older, I began to study life after death, metaphysics, and the paranormal to develop my gifts. One must be careful in opening the portals of the spirit world. Unknowingly, you can allow influences and spirits and demons in your world without your permission if you play with this. Therefore, it is my philosophy and profound belief that i now stand by is to study the Holy Bible and scripture, meditate on the Word of God, pray and meditate daily. This has brought me much peace that the metaphysical world and the New Age movement could not give me. There was always a very short period of satisfaction followed by emptiness. The difference I think is put love and truth in leaning 100% on God. AND GOD IS LOVE and HE LOVES YOU!! You will not find this in the New Age movement. I am a professional by day, with 20 years of experience working in a Fortune 500 company. If you do not get your response right away, please understand because I have a full-time job and kids and a family at home. Thank you for your trust and confidence in me. It's ok if you are not Christian--i am not a bigot so i will still answer your question gladly and welcome other cultures and faiths to do so. I do not push my beliefs on others but rather sometimes I may share the Good News or what I feel you need to hear. Sometimes people get mad when they dont hear what they want to hear but that's ok! These are free mini-readings--set your expectations accordingly. I try to provide a short, yet thoughtful and insightful response to each and every person.

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Bachelor in Business, Master in Business Administration

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My clients receive email readings only due to my job and also I am more skilled at written rather than verbal communications and readings anyway.

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