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Misty and Damien
Misty and Damien  
QUESTION: I met a guy from France through a mutual friend. He was visiting my friends in Dallas. We instantly hit it off.  He was back to France in a week. We really miss each other and Skype and text regularly. He is coming to see me in two weeks. Do you see our long distance relationship working for the best?

ANSWER: Dear Misty,

You both were in relationships not very long ago, and neither of them ended well. The man you thought was someone who could give you the love that you wanted was not at all what he seemed. The love you invested was not returned, and you were left with the feeling that you wasted your time and efforts, gaining nothing.

Damien had to make a hard but decisive choice in ending his. The energies were not flowing smoothly and he has focused on some practical truths, even to a simplistic fault.

That being said, he has his emotions under control and, though this is an infatuation at this point, good things may grow from it. If you can leave the comfort of having the type of relationship you have grown to know, this sacrifice can open you up to emotional fulfillment that you have not yet enjoyed. Take it slow; give yourself time to leave behind the familiar past that no longer serves your happiness.

Many Blessings,


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QUESTION: Your insight was amazing, and I feel you were connected to my situation. We both just came out of difficult relationships, both just as you described. Aside from the obvious that he's in France and I'm in Texas- there is another issue: Damien is 24 years old, and I am 38. I know! Crazy. I guess this is also where I need your advice; is this an issue, or will or could it be one? I am very young spirited, teach high school, and am usually mistaken by my students as being late twenties or early thirties.  I've kept myself together physically and have a very youthful outlook on life. I tend to always gravitate toward younger men, but not usually this young! I'm laughing at myself just writing this to you. Fourteen years is a big gap, but with Damien it seems irrelevant. What are your thoughts or feelings toward this? Your last comments seemed to move in a positive direction for the two of us- does this knowledge change anything? I eagerly await your thoughts-

Dear Misty,

You both are in very favorable steads to make this relationship work. Your experience has taught you patience and the power of intention. His youth still retains the idealism that drives the valiant forward.
There will be challenges to overcome from those whom you regard as confidants. These will be smoothed over and a new mastering of your world will emerge.

Courage and Joy,



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