I'm in a complicated long distance relationship. I have minor mental dissorders and my boyfriend has a major one. We connect when we are physically together but I fear that with distance it may not last. I have known him for a long time and always had a thing for him. My question will this relationship stay strong through the difficulties that may come our way?

Hi Amber:

Long distance relationships are tough.  If both of the people are committed, however, and there is a good reason to live apart and their becomes a future for you to come together, it can work.  However, it seems that both of you have other obstacles to overcome.  It's very difficult to explain to my sonsometimes why his recovery should come first and not his girlfriend.  In your case and that of your boyfriend, it's better you are apart right now to not get too distracted with your recovery and therapy.  It's like two lovers who have the flu--they want to be together but ultimately sitting on the couch, taking meds, and drinking liquids trumps love.  You have to put 1st things first.  I wouldn't worry about it too much at this point.  It's enough that you support each other emotionally but not too obsessively.  You don't want to be a co-dependent and you really don't want his well-being totally dependent on you either when you have to get through life day to day as well.  For the first one and a half -two years this will be the case until you see where life takes you.


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I cannot answer questions regarding long distance relationships. I can answer and provide guidance in matters of specific questions regarding love, career, business, pets, and to a lesser extent, sometimes I can channel messages or see images of loved ones on the other side. I do not answer specific questions regarding pregnancies, illnesses or missing items or persons. PLEASE ALSO NOTE: I DO NOT ANSWER QUESTIONS SUCH AS--"WHAT DAY, MONTH, YEAR WILL I GET MARRIED OR WHAT DAY MONTH YEAR WILL I FIND A JOB!! OR WHEN AM I GOING TO HAVE A BABY? I AM NOT AN ASTROLOGER! I am simply a very intuitive person with lots of life experience guided by the Holy Spirit. This is what 'psychic' means to me.


Since i was a small, i have always known I had very strong intuition. I had a rather difficult childhood and my only life line was God and the Holy Spirit--this was encouraged by my grandmother. As I became older, I began to study life after death, metaphysics, and the paranormal to develop my gifts. One must be careful in opening the portals of the spirit world. Unknowingly, you can allow influences and spirits and demons in your world without your permission if you play with this. Therefore, it is my philosophy and profound belief that i now stand by is to study the Holy Bible and scripture, meditate on the Word of God, pray and meditate daily. This has brought me much peace that the metaphysical world and the New Age movement could not give me. There was always a very short period of satisfaction followed by emptiness. The difference I think is put love and truth in leaning 100% on God. AND GOD IS LOVE and HE LOVES YOU!! You will not find this in the New Age movement. I am a professional by day, with 20 years of experience working in a Fortune 500 company. If you do not get your response right away, please understand because I have a full-time job and kids and a family at home. Thank you for your trust and confidence in me. It's ok if you are not Christian--i am not a bigot so i will still answer your question gladly and welcome other cultures and faiths to do so. I do not push my beliefs on others but rather sometimes I may share the Good News or what I feel you need to hear. Sometimes people get mad when they dont hear what they want to hear but that's ok! These are free mini-readings--set your expectations accordingly. I try to provide a short, yet thoughtful and insightful response to each and every person.

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