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My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now. I want  to make sure that were going to make it. We visit each other every few weeks and we enjoy those weekends very much. The problem is that we both have trust issues from past relationships and it is affecting ours. What are your thoughts on us making it?

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At least you two see each other otherwise the relationship would have fizzled out a long time ago.  I think in order for you two to move forward you have to get over your trust issues and your fears.  Is that all there is? Everybody has baggage from past relationships. Is it because one or more person doesn't want to give up something or move? Be honest with yourselves.  I would recommend couples counseling by someone who is competent who can navigate through the waters so you will both be in a better place.  Sometimes this takes asking around.  You might even find a life coach online.  You can start by having honest, non-judgmental conversations with each other about your issues.  If you are able to hold it together for 9 months I think there can be a future. But to be a couple means you have to be together.  Therefore you both have to grow together to a more permanent solution.


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Jude the Christian Psychic


I cannot answer questions regarding long distance relationships. I can answer and provide guidance in matters of specific questions regarding love, career, business, pets, and to a lesser extent, sometimes I can channel messages or see images of loved ones on the other side. I do not answer specific questions regarding pregnancies, illnesses or missing items or persons. PLEASE ALSO NOTE: I DO NOT ANSWER QUESTIONS SUCH AS--"WHAT DAY, MONTH, YEAR WILL I GET MARRIED OR WHAT DAY MONTH YEAR WILL I FIND A JOB!! OR WHEN AM I GOING TO HAVE A BABY? I AM NOT AN ASTROLOGER! I am simply a very intuitive person with lots of life experience guided by the Holy Spirit. This is what 'psychic' means to me.


Since i was a small, i have always known I had very strong intuition. I had a rather difficult childhood and my only life line was God and the Holy Spirit--this was encouraged by my grandmother. As I became older, I began to study life after death, metaphysics, and the paranormal to develop my gifts. One must be careful in opening the portals of the spirit world. Unknowingly, you can allow influences and spirits and demons in your world without your permission if you play with this. Therefore, it is my philosophy and profound belief that i now stand by is to study the Holy Bible and scripture, meditate on the Word of God, pray and meditate daily. This has brought me much peace that the metaphysical world and the New Age movement could not give me. There was always a very short period of satisfaction followed by emptiness. The difference I think is put love and truth in leaning 100% on God. AND GOD IS LOVE and HE LOVES YOU!! You will not find this in the New Age movement. I am a professional by day, with 20 years of experience working in a Fortune 500 company. If you do not get your response right away, please understand because I have a full-time job and kids and a family at home. Thank you for your trust and confidence in me. It's ok if you are not Christian--i am not a bigot so i will still answer your question gladly and welcome other cultures and faiths to do so. I do not push my beliefs on others but rather sometimes I may share the Good News or what I feel you need to hear. Sometimes people get mad when they dont hear what they want to hear but that's ok! These are free mini-readings--set your expectations accordingly. I try to provide a short, yet thoughtful and insightful response to each and every person.

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