Dear Nancy

Im strongly and emotionally attached to someone.i told him that i have crush on him and im trying get over it .Actually i don't want to to get rid of it.cause i feel in love him.Do you see good friendship between us   

Thank you

Hi, Anisha,

It feels like you both are ambivalent about what you really want. You told him you want to get rid of your feelings, but I think he senses you don't want to get rid of them. That's confusing for him, and he's feeling somewhat unworthy as well (for reasons that have nothing to do with you).

I think good friendship (or more) between you is certainly possible if you can be honest with yourself and him about how you feel and what you want. That can be scary, but it provides opportunities for growth that won't happen if you continue to be ambivalent. If you can do that, I think some similar doors will begin to open for him.

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