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Hi Corbie!
My name is Hope I was born (5/24/93)and I am currently seeking some advice on my overall relationships. I am currently trying to get involved with a man, his name is Andrew (Aj for short) and he has basically shown me the great things this life has to offer, but the problem is he hasnt made the best choices with my folks. Though he tells me he is dating me not my parents he does mention that he would like for my parents to like him. Now, he is a little on the slow side on what he should do to prove to them what he has been proving to me, but my family absolutely DOES NOT want me involved with this person. They say he is bad for me, but only provides examples like him not calling me when we "broke up" or him not formally introducing himself to my parents or not writing my mom back on facebook. Though I agree somewhat with them that this is wrong in a way, for me it doesn't scream RUN if you know what I mean. These for me are just some simple stumbles. Now Aj was born (08/01/89). He tells me all the good things I want to hear like how much he likes me and he wants to be together and he will wait and do anything he has to do to make this work and that he would be lost without me; wants to take care of me. Is this just something that has gotten to my head? do you get any kind of negative aura on him? is he straight up a player not the right one? I just need some guidance and a little advice because these "small" issues that I consider; are "major" ones in my families eyes and it's basically putting some tension in the house and ruining my relationships with my family members, but i dont want to close the door on something that was meant to be. If you can please give me some input on what you see in the future or what is coming to you in my situation that would be great! Thank you again for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon.

Hi Hope --  I pulled a Tarot relationship spread for you and AJ, and here's what I got:

YOU:  JUDGEMENT:  Just because your family is judging him doesn't mean you should -- at least not for their reasons.  Now is the time for you to look very carefully at this relationship and decide if you are "all in" or not.

AJ:  PRINCE OF CUPS: This is usually someone who is warmhearted and communicative, who loves old-fashioned love.  If he hasn't hit it off with your folks, give him a chance; he could wear them down with charm, but it may take a while.

THE RELATIONSHIP AS IT STANDS NOW:  5 of Swords.  That is the card that says your parents' manipulation could blow this out of the water unless you stand strong as a unit.

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW:  King of Pentacles.  You and AJ need to prove to your parents in strong, practical ways that you know what it is to have a full relationship.  My philosophy:  the best relationships are 60/60 -- each partner goes a little more than half way so that the ten percent "overlap" cements it during the tough times.

BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME:  The Empress.  It's a fertile time for affairs of the heart!  Nurture the relationship; it's worth working on.

As far as your family is concerned, be polite but firm.  You are not jumping to marry him (it IS too soon).  But you are going to put time into the relationship to see if it really has staying power.  The less you rise to the emotional bait and show your calm maturity, the more likely it is that they will come around.

Blessings to you and AJ!


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