I've been told to be patent about love all my life. I've been told that I'll find someone beautiful, and sweet. I've prayed a lot lately for this to happen. I see some results but not enough. I've prayed to saints, angels, and mostly to God.

I'm 28 and never even dated. Only my best friend has been on outings with me, our relationship is rocky though.

I care about her very much.

I keep being told not to give up on a particular girl I'm interested in. I'm so tired of being alone. My other friend tells me that if I want the girl I seek I should get a job to help support us. Another said She saw me and her in a vision with her two children, I can't remember if I ever told her that my interest had kids. A week later she said she saw me and the girl, and kiss, plus a new child who was two years old. The vision involved a house, very happy family

She got a lot, or missed a lot of details, such as the girl having a tattoo. I hate being lied too, maybe the girl with a vision, is just seeing what I want her to see, or trying to be kind.

Others tell me to be patient and just wait it out, be mind and loving etc. my own mother and family are very negative. My mom says she sees ghosts but not visions. She says give up, being single for life isn't so bad, settle for less etc.

I'm tired of being single, and being told excuses by people. I have researched suicide methods yet I'm to scared to go through with it, hope still lives n my heart

If you can give me any advice it would be appreciated.

Raul, the first thing I'm seeing here is a real desperation on your part to get some kind of answer, so you are going to friends, psychics, anyone who can give you SOME kind of clue about your love life.  And I see some mistakes in your description which may be tripping you up.

"She missed a lot of details, such as the girl having a tattoo."  Raul, when an intuitive (psychic) sees a possible future, even if we get the right person we may not get all the details.  When you expect specific, tiny things as identifying traits and you don't hear them, it doesn't mean you should ignore the whole thing.  Even the best of us, my friend, are only 85% accurate -- the only one 100% accurate is God, and he's not answering questions on AllExperts these days!

I disagree with your mom saying "Settle for less."  We should never settle for ANYTHING.  But it helps to know what we want, what we'd appreciate, and get rid of the things that don't matter.  (My brother ABSOLUTELY wanted a tall thin redheaded tennis pro for a wife.  He got a medium height brunette harpist, but has been happy for 35 years and has two fabulous kids.)  

As far as this girl you are interested in:  stop asking psychics for yes or no.  Instead, become the kind of man she WOULD be interested in.  A supportive job?  Yes indeed.  In your late 20s, it is important that you show the girl you have in mind that you are ready to be a full partner --- romantically, intellectually, and financially.

Last:  friends first, lovers second.  Take your time with her.  Build up a level of trust in each other, THEN tell her how you feel.

I, too, see that there is a chance that this girl will be in partnership with you -- but not until you start appreciating yourself and who YOU are, instead of constantly worrying and praying.  If you don't love the man you are presenting her with, she won't either.

Blessings and best wishes.


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