Psychics/Just Curious


Hi there,

I am 22 years and a Scorpio. I recently started talking to this guy and it seems he is into me. I am just just curious if he someone who could potentially be my next boyfriend. I do like him, but I am trying not to get too attached to him because I don't want to get hurt. I have dealt with too many men leading me on for months and then telling me they don't want a relationship. It has torn me to pieces. I really have no idea what he wants or what he is looking for. What do you see between us?

As a young woman of 22, Ilana, you are thinking too absolutely about this fellow.
This is the time in your life where you ought be trying relationships on, not trying to make them permanent. Your life is larger than finding a man who will love you.

Moreover, you seem to be wanting to be what a man wants you to be--in other words, "I don't know what he wants." Your guy wants to get to know you. He is genuine, but not seeking marriage or to get tied up or down. But he is more of a nerd than most, so you need to just take it easy and see where it goes. Love comes in many forms and you are following its path to wisdom. I am sorry you had heartbreak before. But that is because you have romantic ideas about how love should be and how long it should last.

You must know that you're learning. You have drawn back a bit (cautiously so as to keep from getting hurt), and that is wise. But if possible, date for fun and to find out what you like and how he matches up to YOUR values and ideas about how a true love acts. But try not to look for marriage or heavy committment now. Enjoy the process of growing toward mature love that does not make you doubt your worthiness or make you a victim because you allowed yourself to be vulnerable.

Again, he is sincere and wants to get to know you. Let that be enough, and you do the same.
Go well. Shariananda, oracle


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