my names joana 5-11 84 . im i wasting my time on being friends with ashley 3-1-88 and matthew 3-1-89 . are they really friends who people who talk behind my back ?

My dear Joana,

First, know that those whom you call friends are indeed your friends.
Ashley is bright and sometimes a bit clingy, but she loves to glow and talk and shine. She likes you. She has no reason to be false. You have known her for long enough to know if she has betrayed you--ever.

Matthew is a lost soul. He likes you because you are sharp, fun, and witty and know what you want. He is still searching and relies on your good fun and Ashley--when you are together.

But you are your own worst enemy. You are suspicious and you manage to bring bad things to yourself by failing to trust or by reading into situations that have no mal intent.

You must ask yourself why you are so distrustful. It is easy to progect onto others what you yourself may be feeling or doing. I do not know if you have ever talked behind your friends' back, but I know if you are asking me, you have not been honest with them. This is a kind of betrayal. If you worry or wonder about what they may be saying--ask them if they do in fact speak badly of you. Ask them if they told things you told them. Dare them to say to your face.

Next ask yourself to whom they would be talking? Who can hurt you? Why would they want to hurt you or put you down? Who would be listening to anything they had to say? What happens if anyone says anything bad (or good) about you?

Have you started rumors or told things about yourself that you do not want anyone to know? If so, play your cards a little closer to your chest. That's a poker metaphor meant to tell you to keep your own secrets and counsel. For others come to you for answers.

Last, do you doubt your own goodness? What could you possibly do to make people discuss you behind your back? And why do you care?

Anyone who would do such a thing and call themselves your friend, is a two-faced enemy. Think about who you are calling friends and who you think is really there for you.

You are thirty years old next month. This question sounds a little sophomoric, immature. Choose your companions and what you say to them. That will assure you of loyalty. Thanks for asking me. I hope this helps. Shariananda


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