My initials are fsn his is wab. My birth 11/14/1967 and his 02/27/1961. We are in a new relationship and have been dating just about 4 months.  We have established our love for one another and have committed.  This man knows what he wants and how I will fit into his life.  The issue is he is a workaholic and travels for work alot.  Please help me to understand how to get him to see the importance of spending "quality" time together when he isn't traveling and at home. I have voiced my concerns and tried everything I know how.  What steps will he and I take to allow our relationship to grow?
Thank you.


You are already way ahead of anything I can say to you.
You are mature and thoughtful and communicative.
If he is not responding to your requests, then you must take that seriously.
Committment is more than not being with somebody else.
It is more than checking in and saying the timely I Love You.
It is more than making love with each other and knowing it to be deep and fulfilling.
It is more than sharing money and being easy about it.

Are you getting my drift?  You need to put it in terms that he can undersatand. These are some ways to get at it.

If you become less available, more busy, he will complain. If you start being engaged elsewhere, he'll question. So give the treatment that he gives you. Afterall, you knew he would be travelling, so he thinks you are bring unfair and contradictory. But he cannot see that you do need to be together when he returns. After all, no one wants to feel he is held second to other considerations by their true love.

I do not know if he is your true love, I just know you're begging. Don't. You are worthy of his respect and attention. Find a way to show him himself.

You are the architeque of that relationship. He is the fuel for your projects. You need a common project to make things grow. Some couples do gardening. some adopt kids, some fight for causes. some go into business....find the unifier--and I hope it involves travel as he likes to move around.


All Answers

Answers by Expert:

Ask Experts


Shariananda,Oracle (OSGHT)


SURVEY--Send me answers--Copy paste entire set of questions with your answers underlined. 1.Who Are You? (a) human being (b)alien/human hybrid (c)child of God (d)my profession (5)my name (6) I AM 2.What do you do? (a)work for_____(b)perform (c)homebody (d)help others (e)watch tv (f)play computer games/stuff 3.What is your passion? (a)to be famous (b) to climb mountains (c)to fly airplanes (d)to change the world through_____ 4.What is your perfect love like? (a)fair and attentive (b)commuincative (c)good looking (d)monied (e)all of these 5.What is most important to you? (a)home and family (b) lots of money (c)myself (d)hungry children (e)music/other 6.What happens after we die? (a)nothing/blackout (b)reincarnate (c)Go to God (d)become an angle (e)rebirth elsewhere


My formal work as seer and prophet began in 1990. My gifts have been with me since birth. I have the following to offer: spiritual advisement, i.e how to handle the issue before you using the tools of your own being and connection to your Source whatever you know it to be. I call it God or the Holy Spirit or the Great Good or the Universe. I can do a three card reading:past ,present ,future on any area of your life, but just one at a time. If you want to work with me beyond this site. I am available on Skype and in person in my office. Call 011 45 5056 3717. My work is global. I am a healer and can do touch and trance work in person or through space.

The International Federation of Hypnotists,Rancho Cordova, CA Global Association of Psychoterapeutic Healing, Milwaukee,WI California Coaches Federation,CA International Psychic Society,Brookyn,NY Silent Unity Kansas,Prayer Chaplin Ahern Massage and Reiki School, Mariposa, CA

The Spirit Magazine, San Jose, CA, Motherroot Magazine, Sinister Wisdom, YouTube(Oracle Shariananda channel) Facebook--(Shariananda Borregaard Adamz, aka Sdiane Bogus) "Daily Word Preamble" "Winning the Game of Money"/NeuroGym

I hold three degrees, B.A. in Engish and Spanish. M.A. in English Literature. Ph.D. in American Literature which informs my understanding of sign and symbol. I hold a credentials in parapsychology,pranic healing, Reiki, massage therapy, hypnosis, life coaching, and social work. For many years as I was developing as a healer, I taught secondary and colleague courses.I am a poet and writer under the psuedonym SDiane Bogus.

Awards and Honors
Who's who Among African-Americans Who's Who Among Small Business Women Presidential Small Business Commendation (Bill Clinton) San Jose Mercury News and Women's Fund Small Business Award Cover story, "The Real Oracle of Silicon Valley" Metro Newspaper Radio and Television Report

Past/Present Clients
My clients include teachers, social workers, real estate agents, psychiatrists, basketball players, prisoners, Unity members, teens, marrieds, patients, parents, colleagues, neighbors, associates, anonymous psychic fair inquirers, house wives, young lovers, mothers, divorcees, business people, strangers along my way, and other psychics. I have worked at Brass Unicorn, Ask Now, Intuitive Staffing, California Psychics, telephone or online services. My business companies have been variously Uncommon Hands, Lighthouse Freelance Consultations, Lighthouse Healing, and Oracle Shariananda Global Healing Therapies.

©2017 All rights reserved.