Hello :)

My name is Nancy, I am currently in a long distance relationship and my partber is wanting to mee my parents some time soon.

I have already let them know that I have a boyfriend but due to cultural barriers, it did not go so well.

Just wanting to ask, do you know how this may work out? Or do you see a positive or negative outcome of wheb he meets my parents?

Thank you,

Dear Nela--

You already know how your parents feel about your love.
The question is do you feel strong enough about him to alienate them should they be cool toward him upon personal introductions?

It may be too soon to be introducing or even raising the level, of the relationship. Meeting parents usually means you are very serious and want to marry.

But yours has been a long distance relationship ,and you two have not had enough face time to know each other's ways and shadow. The romance is good. The intention is good, but before you commit to introducing him to your folks, you guys need more than a year to feel out the actual strength of your bond.

The cards I drew for you show him as a decent fellow, very deliberate, and sure of himself. He overwhelms you. So that is not a good sign. You must not be pushed into making a decision or letting him direct you. You already have enough barriers around culture and background, language and beliefs. You do not want to add male vs female power struggle. Has he been married before? Has he had a long term relationship that failed? It seems to me he is trying to insure that this time he is really directing things and will make sure he has done his homework.
He is emotionally available to you, but he is not listening to you. So, invite him home at your own risk.
Perhaps you two ought plan to live together for a month in each other's locale.
Otherwise, he will make a decent impression on your folks, but they will not like him for you. He has to have the goods to make you happy and to please their expectations of a man from your own culture.

It's your life and your decision. What is best for you?


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