QUESTION: How do you know when you have met your soulmate. Is it a instant feeling or does it build up. Do you know when Ill meet my soulmate or if I ready have and who it is ?

ANSWER: Shelby--
You meet Soul Mates daily--these are all of the people who have incarnated with you for this lifetime. They may be known to you or not. Sometimes, you encounter one or more of them at various intervals. The main signal when the soul mate is destined to interact with you and you with them, is that you feel as if you have known each other always. It is a good,surprising feeling, and you seem to have instant understanding and speak the same language--though not necessarily from the same place or culture. Many people have the mistaken understanding that soul Mates are "one and only" encounters of the Beloved and the Loved, it can be, but we haver several chances throughout our lives. They are necessary to our growth and development. So even if we break up with someone we once loved inextricably; that is as it should be for we must keep unfolding and adding to our capacity to love and to know when a cycle of wisdom and growth is ended.

There are also cases of having known someone for a long time and never have fully touched the deep connection between you, and then one day, one event or circumstance can trigger an awakening. For example, the death of someone you both love, or finding yourselves enrolled in the same college or class unknowingly. Any serendipty. So to the question can it build up? the answer is yes.
The result and the outcome is the same. You are together until the purpose of your being together is fulfilled. It may be painful to separate but it will be for the best in the end, and if the love is especially strong, you will part as friends and counselors.

I can say you are surrounded by soul mates--everyone from family members to general friends. But if you are asking if you have met "the first main one" no, not likely. You would be feeling the magnet pull of being unable to stay away and to be always hungry for the closeness and feeling of being known you experience with that person.

If you are beyond your tenth birthday, then you've passed meeting the first one who may have been inseparable. If you are now in your 20s, you are due to meet the one who will take you down the road to self-knowledge--a ways. If in your 30's, you are probably seeking, but here you will need to be careful--she is moving toward you and you do not want to try to make the connection and event happen. There are variables of time, work, age, travel and schooling that affect exact meetings, so I cannot say when by date and year. I can say you are worthy and may need to write down what you want your SoulMate to be like and light a candle for her to find you(and to show your faith that you know you are moving toward her).Keep the candle burning!Keep the faith. Shari

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QUESTION: You used she does that mean the soul mate will be a girl? I asked the soulmate question because I am in love with a girl and I am straight. I met her online but I thought she was a boy and then later she tells me she is a girl and I cant stop loving her.

Shelby--why not? Love is love. Have you seen "Cloud Atlas?" with Tom Hanks and Halley Berry?
Have you seen "Normal" with Jessica Tandy? These are stories about loving across gender and sexual orientation. You must follow your heart. I am a woman;I am married to a woman. I discovered her on line three years ago. I did not expect it. I am black. she is white. I am American. She is Danish.I moved to be with her in Europe. Do not let anything block your feelings if they are true. See where this love will take you if she feels the same. PS--did she try to trick you or is she transgeneder?  Shari


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SURVEY--Send me answers--Copy paste entire set of questions with your answers underlined. 1.Who Are You? (a) human being (b)alien/human hybrid (c)child of God (d)my profession (5)my name (6) I AM 2.What do you do? (a)work for_____(b)perform (c)homebody (d)help others (e)watch tv (f)play computer games/stuff 3.What is your passion? (a)to be famous (b) to climb mountains (c)to fly airplanes (d)to change the world through_____ 4.What is your perfect love like? (a)fair and attentive (b)commuincative (c)good looking (d)monied (e)all of these 5.What is most important to you? (a)home and family (b) lots of money (c)myself (d)hungry children (e)music/other 6.What happens after we die? (a)nothing/blackout (b)reincarnate (c)Go to God (d)become an angle (e)rebirth elsewhere


My formal work as seer and prophet began in 1990. My gifts have been with me since birth. I have the following to offer: spiritual advisement, i.e how to handle the issue before you using the tools of your own being and connection to your Source whatever you know it to be. I call it God or the Holy Spirit or the Great Good or the Universe. I can do a three card reading:past ,present ,future on any area of your life, but just one at a time. If you want to work with me beyond this site. I am available on Skype and in person in my office. Call 011 45 5056 3717. My work is global. I am a healer and can do touch and trance work in person or through space.

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I hold three degrees, B.A. in Engish and Spanish. M.A. in English Literature. Ph.D. in American Literature which informs my understanding of sign and symbol. I hold a credentials in parapsychology,pranic healing, Reiki, massage therapy, hypnosis, life coaching, and social work. For many years as I was developing as a healer, I taught secondary and colleague courses.I am a poet and writer under the psuedonym SDiane Bogus.

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My clients include teachers, social workers, real estate agents, psychiatrists, basketball players, prisoners, Unity members, teens, marrieds, patients, parents, colleagues, neighbors, associates, anonymous psychic fair inquirers, house wives, young lovers, mothers, divorcees, business people, strangers along my way, and other psychics. I have worked at Brass Unicorn, Ask Now, Intuitive Staffing, California Psychics, telephone or online services. My business companies have been variously Uncommon Hands, Lighthouse Freelance Consultations, Lighthouse Healing, and Oracle Shariananda Global Healing Therapies.

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